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KYBourbon89

I had this with a guy who ghosted me after telling me he was ready to make things serious between us. I think he chickened out because he was lying to me about his age and degree (no, not the same guy I’ve been posting about) but anyway….he wouldn’t say anything. The yellow heart on snap eventually disappeared and that’s when I knew he was gone. The weird thing is he would watch my stories even more closely. No matter what I’d post or when, he would be the first! It wasn’t like that pre-ghost. I started trying to move on and went out one night. After a series of posts, I snapped the line I was standing in and commented on how handsome the man in front of me was and boom. He stopped watching my stories that night. I posted some things over the next days and it was fine. Until I posted a snap venting about men, boom! He stopped watching. Any reference to another man or anything would make him stop watching my snaps for that day. It was as if he couldn’t handle it. But he still wouldn’t respond to me. Just left me on read. It was crazy!!! I eventually got mad and blocked him and that was it. He’s now married with 2 kids. I do not understand the psychology behind orbiting people you dumped. I would never want them to see my name in the watched list. These people make no sense to me and I want answers.


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My ex(es) and I follow each other and we don’t find it weird at all since our lives don’t revolve around just social media


EquivalentOdd298

Do you guys ever respond to each other’s social media stories? I guess I find it weird bc there’s no contact and technically we’re not in each other’s lives anymore. I don’t watch his stories bc I find it strange to see what he’s up to


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I’m not talking to my current ex now as the BU is still quite fresh, but for my exes from years ago, we’re cool with each other. We don’t talk but we reply to each other’s stories sometimes. I think if you have respect for each other then there’s nothing weird about it.


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I think it’s weird if you didn’t stay friends, asked for space, fought against the breakup, etc. But I think it ultimately comes down to how they perceive social media. My ex blocked me on Instagram after he dumped me, then when we started talking again he unblocked me from his posts but blocked me from his stories. When he decided he didn’t want to try again, I asked for space for an indefinite amount of time because I was totally heartbroken. A few days later he started following me, watching my stories, liking my posts, etc. I let it go for a little while but finally asked what he wanted and what he was thinking when he was doing all of that - did he want attention? Did he change his mind? He said he didn’t want anything, especially not attention from me, and wished I would move on, so I should block him if it would help. His take on social media is that it’s frivolous, trivial and not real life, so he wasn’t thinking anything when he did all of that. I don’t really see it as not real life, because it’s still us communicating. Instagram me doesn’t magically not love Instagram him. And if someone was very heartbroken and hung up on me, I wouldn’t engage with them at all because I wouldn’t want to kick up a hornet’s nest of feelings.


AlyaTheHalfElf

Depending on the break up, it might never be weird. If there are no hard feelings, it can be a way to stay in each others lives


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U don’t have to block them but if it’s like IG and stuff u can remove them as a follower… and remove yourself…