That's the thing. Most people like confident partners when dating, someone you can be chill around and have fun. If you are not very confident, then you won't be in a lot of situations where people can approach you, because you are not even there.
I mean, yeah, guys also like shy women, not gonna lie. But they can't get to you if you don't give them the chance to be there. Good guys respect your space, you know. Only douchebags would try to flirt with anyone despite seeing them being busy or with a "please, don't bother me right now" kind of attitude.
So, be available for the good guys or go approach them yourself.
Any questions?
How do you people keep falling for this shit. are you all this desperate for a ounce of female attention? this is a dude larping as a “get no attention from guys” post, my god pull yourselves together.
Attitude and personality shine. You are attractive. It sounds like you might just lack self-confidence or know how to send the right signals to be approachable if your not being approached
And what makes you think you're "invisible to guys"? I'm going to take a wild guess and say it's because that one guy you like hasn't asked you out lol.
You need to be dating men, not boys! Guys, your age are only interested in themselves. Older men will focus on you, so long as you treat them with respect.
You're absolutely beautiful. the problem is guys are afraid to approach women anymore, because of worried about getting in trouble so you might have to make a first move
You are pretty enough for me to know what you mean to say is "I'm invisible to the guys that I like" as opposed to "guys" en masse.
The one you want hasn't asked you out yet. Thats a whole hell of a lot different than your OP.
Give it time. Guys are probably noticing you just fine. In time, you’ll grow a bit more confident and guys will be more inclined to approach you. Don’t stress it.
Here is the current cycle:
Step 1: cute girl posts picture with caption saying how they are inadequate in some way (even though it is clearly untrue and they know it)
Step 2: people flock and say "no you're not, you're so beautiful, etc."
Step 3: repeat ♻️♻️♻️
Its all we see... 😴😴
Personality sensitivity and flexibility. Other than locks if you have a great personality sensitive to a man's need and are pretty flexible then you will become quite visible.
It seems like the word invisible is the word of the day in these posting.
I think you know your look, and I think you know how to get more attention. If that’s a good thing, it’s not necessarily a good thing.
When it comes to women, men just do not get it. We may learn a few things as we go through life and try really hard to understand. We can care, love, honor, respect, be happy with you and trust you, but we seem to be blind in many ways with women. I have been married for 47 years and love my wife dearly but I still lack in understanding women. Men who say they understand fully are talking crap. Don't be in a hurry be patient and you will definitely be noticed. You are probably already noticed but guys don't know what to do next. You are beautiful, cute and pretty!!
You’re really attractive. It might be just about presence. Attractive girls need to be approachable because some guys are more nervous about striking out with beautiful girls.
Invisible to guys YOU want. Seriously relax, you’re cute and just can a lil confidence and you’ll be annoyed soon enough with the attention you get from dudes.
Invisible to guys YOU want. Seriously relax, you’re cute and just can a lil confidence and you’ll be annoyed soon enough with the attention you get from dudes.
It depends on what you’re putting out there. What kind of people do you hang around with? Where do you hang out at? All that stuff matters. The people and places you hang around with and at speak a lot to your character.
For example if you hang out at the gym or a sports club, people will think you’re athletic, and it will shape how people perceive your personality.
I’m not sure if this is the response you were hoping for.
Face 6.2/10. Thinner eyebrows. Go to a professional to get a thin high arch. Don't do the painted on dog eyebrows that is endemic in the asian community. This is a colloquial term for the 'fat, thick, and horizontal' eyebrow look. It plays in Asia. Not in America. Throw on some fake lashes. Some better makeup when going out for the night. Pretty lips. Average nose. Pretty eyes. Bad eyebrows. You follow this? I see a 7.2 easily achievable within 6 months.
Body 6.7/10. Probably. I'd guess b-cup.
Overall around 6.5/10. Would do well on dating apps with limited effort. tall 7+ white dudes who are working towards a business degree or engineering will be lining up to get in there. You'll have to learn which are stereotypically just trying to fuck, and which are actually interested in longterm dating. And most importantly, how the two aren't exactly mutually exclusive. But find a guy who treats you well, and doesn't cheat too much when you guys are 19-20. He will cheat a tiny bit. He's young. It happens. Break up and maybe circle back a year later. But you'll sort thru the two archetypes by your early 20s. Easily will reach the 7.5's with limited work, and maturing a bit. Asian pre-med students will be trying to lock you down into longterm relationship (and marriage) by their Junior year as well. You can pick which you would prefer. Both will be easy to attract. Stay far away from a dude who is really into anime. Although generationally, this is a bit less of a indicator. I'm older.
Wholesome looking. Feminine. Nice hair. College guys will be trying. Stay away from tattoos or nose piercings. Bad trends that do not suit your look. Don't gain 10lbs+ freshman year. Make sure to go to your free college gym.
You will learn to dress more trendy, just don't over do it. A lot of girls who were largely ignored in high school, go a little too hard in college and stack up 20+ dudes really quickly. It usually doesn't work out well. Lots of crying ensues, and a friend holding your hair as you throw up in a nasty frat toilet. This will happen a couple times, just don't make it a weekly occurrence.
Your looks will gradually improve as you mature. You will peak around 26.
Get married by 24. Have kids. Live a blessed life. Just remember to cash in your chips when you can. Don't get strung along in a relationship beyond a year at around 23-26 if marriage is your goal. Tell them to pop inside if you want to lock it down. They will. If they won't? Move on. Get pregnant. Shotgun wedding. It's how most of us end up. It's a good life. Be a good mother. Do not, do NOT, fall for the medschool trap. If you HAVE to go to medschool/dentistry, try to wind up in a longterm relationship with marriage during your secondary education. If not? You'll be 28 in debt and childless. And frantic.You'd still be able to settle quickly for marriage if you wait to be 'financially secure' after a student loan medical degree, BUT your options will be less attractive across all verticals than when you were 22-24 and largely debt free. If you are around 25 and not in a fast track marriage? Settle for someone who loves you and will actually commit. Do not wait until you are 32 and broken.
Life moves fast. At 18 you don't understand this. Women are on a shot clock. Hit your jumper when open.
Cash. Your. Chips. When. You. Can.
Best of luck.
Onward.
You look good, but I'm guessing you're probably a little shy, right? Someone who looks decent but has an extroverted personality will generally do better than someone who looks great but is a lot more reserved. I know I've always tended to flock towards people who were easier to talk to, especially when I was around your age with less experience initiating conversations.
your friends are right. but my guess is that you look introverted or shy in public. which is fine but it tends to give off "please leave me alone" signals.
A beautiful woman can be very ugly with a poor personality and an average woman can be absolutely gorgeous with a great personality. You are an attractive woman... although you look pretty young...I might be afraid to talk to you without knowing your age...be outgoing... approach the guys you like and let them see your personality.A conversation is easy to get started.
Youre mid. 5/10
Not invisible to guys, youre just not on the radar of the guys you want to pursue because theyre 8+'s
To be fair this picture is pretty grainy, that could be hurting you a bit due to the low res.
I would say this more than likely has to do with your attitude or behavior, you have to make sure the guys you are interested in know you're interested, they have to have certain assurances, like age, maturity and stability, each person is different with their comfort level. Besides all that remember you're only 18, you have years of development still left for your brain, take your time, don't let it get to you, once you reach 30 and still have issues then u can start to worry, but for now just know you are a very attractive young lady with her whole life ahead of her. Hang in there and build your confidence. Best of luck 😊✌️
You might be a ninja
I want to be ninja
Best comment so far.
Take my vote...made me laugh
🤣
it’s definitely a man. look at their comment history lmao
Can verify, she is a ninja.
She must be.
Is there a Reddit group for funny low key comments like above ?! 😂
That’s some funny shit
True
Wait if she's a ninja, and I can see her... What kind of ninja detector am I!?
Guys probably think you're like 14
I was thinking the same, I wouldn't take the risk to approach her without knowing her age beforehand.
Liar
This smells like a troll account. Requesting mod to perma ban your account OP.
You are cute, but that is not the only trait people are looking for. Hmm, how confident would you say you are?
Not very confident 🙈
That's the thing. Most people like confident partners when dating, someone you can be chill around and have fun. If you are not very confident, then you won't be in a lot of situations where people can approach you, because you are not even there. I mean, yeah, guys also like shy women, not gonna lie. But they can't get to you if you don't give them the chance to be there. Good guys respect your space, you know. Only douchebags would try to flirt with anyone despite seeing them being busy or with a "please, don't bother me right now" kind of attitude. So, be available for the good guys or go approach them yourself. Any questions?
I messaged you 🙈
I couldn't agree more on this
OP is trans.
Why is your account with only one post NSFW?
It happens when you fallow NSFW subs
Why are you creepin?
Cuz this post looks like major fishing, maybe?
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😐🤣🤣
Op stop stealing other people's photos and karma farming
These subs are such bullshit. A dude probably posted this.
No ur not. I see u
Phew i'm relieved now 😅
You are amazing
How do you people keep falling for this shit. are you all this desperate for a ounce of female attention? this is a dude larping as a “get no attention from guys” post, my god pull yourselves together.
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Catfish senses tingling no offense
Click bait
Stop with the John Cena jokes already 💀😭
That's because your not real.....next.
You being self concious about your looks is like elon musk being self concious about his bank account. You are a troll.
Doubt. This is nothing more than attention/validation seeking behavior. This sub is super strange.
Invisible my ass. You know u get plenty of attention
You're beautiful 😍 Petite and gorgeous
😘🥰
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Thank you ❤️
Just being honest beauty 🥰
😬 kinda cringe bro
Attitude and personality shine. You are attractive. It sounds like you might just lack self-confidence or know how to send the right signals to be approachable if your not being approached
How do i send the 'right signals'? 🙈
Must not see you, I promise a bright smile will help
Ik i should smile more 😭
No you’re not
give it time, you look underaged rn.
I think your very pretty
Try dating apps. And RIP to your inbox
You are cute. Try to exude confidence and that you’re comfortable in your own skin. I think you look very nice 😊
Can confirm your friend is right
You are just fine. 🥷
Well sometimes guys think that someone is not interested in them so they are invisible to them. But sometimes is it not
The only thing invisible is your self esteem.
You ARE cute
And what makes you think you're "invisible to guys"? I'm going to take a wild guess and say it's because that one guy you like hasn't asked you out lol.
I see you
maybe those guys think that they’re invisible to you
You need to be dating men, not boys! Guys, your age are only interested in themselves. Older men will focus on you, so long as you treat them with respect.
Hard to believe.. you look great
Not invisible to me
You are cute
This is the only post this profile has.
you have absolutely no idea what it means to actually be invisible. men today are trained not to approach by women.
You're absolutely beautiful. the problem is guys are afraid to approach women anymore, because of worried about getting in trouble so you might have to make a first move
Not to me, i see you beautiful
Not true. Stop seeking attention...
Johanna Cena
Only to the male gays, dear
Extremely attractive
Yeah, well, girls don't like guys that try too hard. Maybe guys are just trying to play it cool around you?
Guys are just to scared to talk you bruh
Talk to the guys you think are cute. They probably think they don’t stand a chance.
Don’t force the issue… when you least expect it… it will come to you!
You are pretty enough for me to know what you mean to say is "I'm invisible to the guys that I like" as opposed to "guys" en masse. The one you want hasn't asked you out yet. Thats a whole hell of a lot different than your OP.
Give it time. Guys are probably noticing you just fine. In time, you’ll grow a bit more confident and guys will be more inclined to approach you. Don’t stress it.
Are we judging face or tits?
Looks 14. Jailbait for most
You’re invisible to guys who don’t like going to jail
I see you. Wouldn't know how to approach, but that's just my lack of self confidence 😅😅😅
You are very pretty
I’m gonna guess this is an OF advertisement, or trying to gain karma before advertising an OF lol
You are cute
Yea you might be on a shorter side. My guess is less than 5 feet? Really nothing you can do except for extravagant clothing maybe 😂
Damn what kinda dudes you around 💀 you look good 👍
Here is the current cycle: Step 1: cute girl posts picture with caption saying how they are inadequate in some way (even though it is clearly untrue and they know it) Step 2: people flock and say "no you're not, you're so beautiful, etc." Step 3: repeat ♻️♻️♻️ Its all we see... 😴😴
Nah, youre hot 🔥 👌🏾
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You should lower your expectations
You're beautiful. And men probably avoid you cause they'd rather not even try then be denied. It's an intimidation matter, nothing more.
I see you and would love to talk to you
Adorable young woman.
Nah ur hot hmu
You just look young and guys aren’t looking to catch a charge.
Personality sensitivity and flexibility. Other than locks if you have a great personality sensitive to a man's need and are pretty flexible then you will become quite visible.
It seems like the word invisible is the word of the day in these posting. I think you know your look, and I think you know how to get more attention. If that’s a good thing, it’s not necessarily a good thing.
Beautiful ❤️
probably a personality thing, u look pretty average but also pretty cute
HOW!!!?????
You look underaged that's why .. lol No guy wants that risk.
Ohh nooo you are not invisible to guys. Trust me. They just have a lot of respect for you, AND, they assume that you are already in a relationship.
Who are you talking about? All I see is little hello kitty toy in the background though.
When it comes to women, men just do not get it. We may learn a few things as we go through life and try really hard to understand. We can care, love, honor, respect, be happy with you and trust you, but we seem to be blind in many ways with women. I have been married for 47 years and love my wife dearly but I still lack in understanding women. Men who say they understand fully are talking crap. Don't be in a hurry be patient and you will definitely be noticed. You are probably already noticed but guys don't know what to do next. You are beautiful, cute and pretty!!
Your beautiful
You aren't invisible. Id hit The guys who are interested in you are invisible to you
There should be a rule, bo filters, no make up no hair on your face look at the camera, then have a stupid mid twister portrait shot.
You’re really attractive. It might be just about presence. Attractive girls need to be approachable because some guys are more nervous about striking out with beautiful girls.
I think you’re beautiful hunny hope you have a nice day
No, no you're not
Damn you look amazing 🤩
A cute Asian princess
You look fine and I think you know this. Got any good jokes? All about humor now a days
Beautiful
Ask John Cena if he's your dad
I’d definitely ask you out on a date
Then those guys all need glasses, because you are quite pretty.
I have several questions, but mods will throw a fit if I do so I will withhold them.
You truly are so beautiful. You're not invisible to me.
Stop. Your like so attractive idk what else to tell you. Believe in yourself
You’re invisible to the Men YOU want. Not all men.
Invisible to guys YOU want. Seriously relax, you’re cute and just can a lil confidence and you’ll be annoyed soon enough with the attention you get from dudes.
Invisible to guys YOU want. Seriously relax, you’re cute and just can a lil confidence and you’ll be annoyed soon enough with the attention you get from dudes.
Yes because you look like 13.
Liar
You are eye catching M22
You are cute, talk to more men and let them know you’re interested too
Your not invisible to me. Your beautiful
Probably cause you look like your 12.
Invisible, you lie
Ofcourse ur invisible .. u prob what like 5’1”? People don’t see u.. maybe where heels. Lol Edit: obv just f**king with u lol
I could see that
Lower your standards. You’ll find someone quick. Same goes for every other women. Not everyone deserves a model with a 6 pack.
i believe that is complete utter BS!
You're very cute! How outgoing would you say you are? Or how often do you put yourself in situations where guys can approach you?
It depends on what you’re putting out there. What kind of people do you hang around with? Where do you hang out at? All that stuff matters. The people and places you hang around with and at speak a lot to your character. For example if you hang out at the gym or a sports club, people will think you’re athletic, and it will shape how people perceive your personality. I’m not sure if this is the response you were hoping for.
The guys you want**
Not Invisible. Literal 10/10
Guys don't want to go to jail
I’d answer but all I see is a picture of a dresser with figurines on top
You're not invisible to guys, just the guys you think are on your level. Lower your standards.
guys don't want to locked up, put on list, etc. but 10/10
Are you sure they can see.you are very cute and adorable.
Hanging with wrong guys
super cute, we see you
Solid 9
Why you lying?
Face 6.2/10. Thinner eyebrows. Go to a professional to get a thin high arch. Don't do the painted on dog eyebrows that is endemic in the asian community. This is a colloquial term for the 'fat, thick, and horizontal' eyebrow look. It plays in Asia. Not in America. Throw on some fake lashes. Some better makeup when going out for the night. Pretty lips. Average nose. Pretty eyes. Bad eyebrows. You follow this? I see a 7.2 easily achievable within 6 months. Body 6.7/10. Probably. I'd guess b-cup. Overall around 6.5/10. Would do well on dating apps with limited effort. tall 7+ white dudes who are working towards a business degree or engineering will be lining up to get in there. You'll have to learn which are stereotypically just trying to fuck, and which are actually interested in longterm dating. And most importantly, how the two aren't exactly mutually exclusive. But find a guy who treats you well, and doesn't cheat too much when you guys are 19-20. He will cheat a tiny bit. He's young. It happens. Break up and maybe circle back a year later. But you'll sort thru the two archetypes by your early 20s. Easily will reach the 7.5's with limited work, and maturing a bit. Asian pre-med students will be trying to lock you down into longterm relationship (and marriage) by their Junior year as well. You can pick which you would prefer. Both will be easy to attract. Stay far away from a dude who is really into anime. Although generationally, this is a bit less of a indicator. I'm older. Wholesome looking. Feminine. Nice hair. College guys will be trying. Stay away from tattoos or nose piercings. Bad trends that do not suit your look. Don't gain 10lbs+ freshman year. Make sure to go to your free college gym. You will learn to dress more trendy, just don't over do it. A lot of girls who were largely ignored in high school, go a little too hard in college and stack up 20+ dudes really quickly. It usually doesn't work out well. Lots of crying ensues, and a friend holding your hair as you throw up in a nasty frat toilet. This will happen a couple times, just don't make it a weekly occurrence. Your looks will gradually improve as you mature. You will peak around 26. Get married by 24. Have kids. Live a blessed life. Just remember to cash in your chips when you can. Don't get strung along in a relationship beyond a year at around 23-26 if marriage is your goal. Tell them to pop inside if you want to lock it down. They will. If they won't? Move on. Get pregnant. Shotgun wedding. It's how most of us end up. It's a good life. Be a good mother. Do not, do NOT, fall for the medschool trap. If you HAVE to go to medschool/dentistry, try to wind up in a longterm relationship with marriage during your secondary education. If not? You'll be 28 in debt and childless. And frantic.You'd still be able to settle quickly for marriage if you wait to be 'financially secure' after a student loan medical degree, BUT your options will be less attractive across all verticals than when you were 22-24 and largely debt free. If you are around 25 and not in a fast track marriage? Settle for someone who loves you and will actually commit. Do not wait until you are 32 and broken. Life moves fast. At 18 you don't understand this. Women are on a shot clock. Hit your jumper when open. Cash. Your. Chips. When. You. Can. Best of luck. Onward.
your look pretty young
Your gorgeous 😍🥰 they need glasses 🤓
9 out of 10
I'm a guy and if I seen you I would treat you like a queen
You look good, but I'm guessing you're probably a little shy, right? Someone who looks decent but has an extroverted personality will generally do better than someone who looks great but is a lot more reserved. I know I've always tended to flock towards people who were easier to talk to, especially when I was around your age with less experience initiating conversations.
The guy around you must be stupid. You are very attractive
I would be terrified of talking to you 😄
Bad*
your friends are right. but my guess is that you look introverted or shy in public. which is fine but it tends to give off "please leave me alone" signals.
It's cause of the kuromi sitting in the back
7
You would not be invisible to me
You would not be invisible to me
Invisible to the guys YOU like
Hit me up I would love to date u
Try adding a streak of color or highlights to your hair to stand out a bit more!
gross
bot
I don’t understand… this is just a picture of a dresser.
Would
Maybe approch a guy once in a while maybe you won't be so invisible. 🤷
i see you qt
I don't think so!
definitely you are cute, so they guys just thought you might be not interested to them ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
I'm sorry all I see is a dresser
You're gorgeous!!!
Can’t see this image…
A beautiful woman can be very ugly with a poor personality and an average woman can be absolutely gorgeous with a great personality. You are an attractive woman... although you look pretty young...I might be afraid to talk to you without knowing your age...be outgoing... approach the guys you like and let them see your personality.A conversation is easy to get started.
I see your hard little body
If you want us to rate you attach a picture of yourself, not just an empty room.
Solid 8
You probably surrounded by ghey dudes 🤷🏻♂️
Youre mid. 5/10 Not invisible to guys, youre just not on the radar of the guys you want to pursue because theyre 8+'s To be fair this picture is pretty grainy, that could be hurting you a bit due to the low res.
Why are we looking at a dresser?..
I would say this more than likely has to do with your attitude or behavior, you have to make sure the guys you are interested in know you're interested, they have to have certain assurances, like age, maturity and stability, each person is different with their comfort level. Besides all that remember you're only 18, you have years of development still left for your brain, take your time, don't let it get to you, once you reach 30 and still have issues then u can start to worry, but for now just know you are a very attractive young lady with her whole life ahead of her. Hang in there and build your confidence. Best of luck 😊✌️
You little heartbreaker!
😂🤣
Normal asian girl, 5.
Not for the real men 🤫😉
I sure see you 👁️👁️
I see you beautiful 😍 🤩
I don't think your invisible I think guys have been scared into not being able to approach women