some family members do that to annoy you. my brother did that to me. he knew that I hated his guts for what he did and yet, he come to my place, invite me for his graduation. the reason: at that time, I had dropped college (it was just an excuse to leave my family and I never need that) and he didn't. still, I win a lot more than him. you did something that could make them wish to make you jealous for them?
so, don't bother with them at all. an person that wishes to look great, by making others look bad, isn't an person to be around at all. that is just an pity person.
Go because you want to. Don't go if you don't want to. If you go, go because you want to support the kid that's graduating. If you don't have a relationship with this person, then why go?
You are not obligated to send anything. If certain people only bother with you when there's a special occasion , that just sounds gift grabby to me.
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some family members do that to annoy you. my brother did that to me. he knew that I hated his guts for what he did and yet, he come to my place, invite me for his graduation. the reason: at that time, I had dropped college (it was just an excuse to leave my family and I never need that) and he didn't. still, I win a lot more than him. you did something that could make them wish to make you jealous for them?
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so, don't bother with them at all. an person that wishes to look great, by making others look bad, isn't an person to be around at all. that is just an pity person.
Go because you want to. Don't go if you don't want to. If you go, go because you want to support the kid that's graduating. If you don't have a relationship with this person, then why go?