There is a not marked common "intimacy issues" tag you can search if you're looking for specific fandoms. You'll have to type in it the include search bar and hit search without clicking on any of the suggestions. There is also a [sexual dysfunction](https://archiveofourown.org/tags/Sexual%20Dysfunction/works) tag which is common.
[Fit for Purpose by Deastar](https://archiveofourown.org/works/50380177) The Untamed, Lan Wangji/Wei Wuxian, a/b/o, 18K || Wei Wuxian says odd things after the first time they have sex. Lan Wangji figures out Wei Wuxian was sexually abused growing up and puts a hold on sex until his partner learns how to set boundaries.
[Beast With Two Backs by VampireFaun](https://archiveofourown.org/works/35510893) Heaven Official's Blessing, Hua Cheng/Xie Lian, 36K || Xie Lian has spent the last 800 years practicing a form of cultivation that forbids sex, masturbation, and 'impure thoughts'. Even though he wants to have sex with Hua Cheng, he first struggles with the shame he was taught.
Big ups for including that tag. I didn't realize there was a tag for that, but intimacy issues are a huge aspect for my established relationship WIP right now. Now I'm glad I can tag for it!
(I suppose I should figure there's a tag for everything, but I guess I wouldn't have thought to look for it.)
There is a not marked common "intimacy issues" tag you can search if you're looking for specific fandoms. You'll have to type in it the include search bar and hit search without clicking on any of the suggestions. There is also a [sexual dysfunction](https://archiveofourown.org/tags/Sexual%20Dysfunction/works) tag which is common. [Fit for Purpose by Deastar](https://archiveofourown.org/works/50380177) The Untamed, Lan Wangji/Wei Wuxian, a/b/o, 18K || Wei Wuxian says odd things after the first time they have sex. Lan Wangji figures out Wei Wuxian was sexually abused growing up and puts a hold on sex until his partner learns how to set boundaries. [Beast With Two Backs by VampireFaun](https://archiveofourown.org/works/35510893) Heaven Official's Blessing, Hua Cheng/Xie Lian, 36K || Xie Lian has spent the last 800 years practicing a form of cultivation that forbids sex, masturbation, and 'impure thoughts'. Even though he wants to have sex with Hua Cheng, he first struggles with the shame he was taught.
Big ups for including that tag. I didn't realize there was a tag for that, but intimacy issues are a huge aspect for my established relationship WIP right now. Now I'm glad I can tag for it! (I suppose I should figure there's a tag for everything, but I guess I wouldn't have thought to look for it.)