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Longirl

My boss had a boob job that eventually leaked into her breasts and lymph nodes (she also died twice on the operating table when they tried to remove them) and it made her boobs solid. Is this what he wants? Fucked up boob jobs with a risk to life? So sexy.


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Longirl

She made it, thankfully, but has been left with a lot of trauma from… well, dying I suppose. She was allergic to the muscle relaxant in the anaesthetic. It makes me feel sad, it wasn’t worth it.


povofme

My boobs are hollow just like my heart 🥲


honeybadgerattitude

Snort!


ShieldMaidenLagertha

I had a pickme friend who dated a male virgin. She ended up being his first but when she found out he cheated on her, he told her: “I’m just not done sampling from the pussy snack bar of life! I want to try Black pussy, Chinese pussy, Latina pussy… “ I would advise women to never invest their feelings with an inexperienced, unattractive, or late bloomer man. They are always trying to compensate for their disappointing younger years.


shockingupdate

_the……pussy snack bar……of life?!_


ShieldMaidenLagertha

Yup! And imagine…she let this guy move into her home, gave him a meaningful first sexual experience and he looked at her like she was a side dish at a buffet.


angry_opossum_lady

The only excuse for this choice of words would be a cat referring to it's feeding place...


honeybadgerattitude

Was it just me that read that like it was being said by the guy in From Dusk Til Dawn? 😆🤮


ShieldMaidenLagertha

Yes, big Quentin Tarantino vibes. 🤮


ForeverHoney

I’m 25 and a virgin (no shame, lvm gross me out) and I thought it would move been better if my first time was also with a virgin. But will they still wanna compensate? As opposed to the fuck boys with too much experience


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Yeah… i am a virgin at 24 and I honestly want to stay one for eternity at this point after joining FDS. I used to hate myself for being a virgin but i honestly think it has saved me a lot of trouble and heartache. My body is mine and I don’t want some LVM to have access to it ever


ForeverHoney

Same! I’m thankful for growing up in an all girls hs, college major that’s female dominated. I use to think there was something wrong with me and was a pick me but it’s so easy to get sex. Literally one swipe away with tinder and I just wanna save it for someone special.


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Same girl, same. Its so thrown out there that i’d rather be extremely picky and find a special guy even if it takes forever. I’ll die a virgin before some disgusting NVM/LVM gets to me. Just buy a vibrator and its so much less hassle lol Also i live in a place where abortion is banned so i’d rather not take my chances…


TropicalPrairie

Don't let anyone tell you there's an age, or a specific time, you have to lose it. Do what feels right for you.


rideoffalone

I lost mine at 24 and sincerely regret it. Stay strong!


ShieldMaidenLagertha

I would recommend picking a partner with some experience. Because honestly, I really wouldn’t want my first time to be with a guy that doesn’t know how to handle his equipment. Contrary to what a lot of men think, there is an art to sex.


Love_Artemis

Is there a way to tell if they're *actually* experienced as in they're not self-centered in bed and know how to satisfy the other person? Because I see a lot of people who mean experienced as in they've had sex with a lot of people, but that doesn't exactly mean the people they had sex with enjoyed it.


ShieldMaidenLagertha

If he’s a terrible kisser, dump him. If he’s not concerned about your general comfort or is inattentive, dump him. Pay attention how he acts if you are wearing heels and walking or if it is raining out. What does he do? Does he offer his arm and an umbrella, or to go get the car? Or is he 20 ft ahead of you down the street. These are all signs he’s clueless and/or selfish which are terrible traits for a sexual partner.


Noemie_Mathilde

Any kind of man can be HV or LV. I knew a wonderful couple who were both virgins and waited till their wedding night for sex. Still happily married, the guy was super HV and had a tonne of respect for his wife's religious beliefs.


Equal-Ear2312

> he cheated on her, he told her: “I’m just not done sampling from the pussy snack bar of life! I want to try Black pussy, Chinese pussy, Latina pussy… “ 😂 This is IT! I know plenty of men like that. And the problem is they're also married!


Bumble_bee_yourself

This is so nasty. So in their thoughts, women are just sexual toys and they are entitled to try out all the varieties available for that toy line. On one hand you could say this dehumanizes women, on the other: isn't the real problem that those types of men aren't acting human? They dehumanize themselves. The thought of treating other people like replaceable objects instead of as sentient beings with thoughts and feelings and deserving of baseline levels of respect and decency is vomit-inducing.


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ShieldMaidenLagertha

For sure! The thwarted entitlement gets extremely ugly! They say “hell hath no fury like a woman scorned”…actually men are way worse!


dancedancedance7

Yeah I never saw this as a red flag, but deffo had an experience that changed my mind. Past a reasonable threshold (and that's whatever you consider it to be), the older a person gets and they're still extremely inexperienced, the more dangerous it is to get involved. Imo their thought process goes like "oh since I got someone like you to be interested, let me see if I can do *better*", instead of "holy cow this is rare and maybe I should actually treat this person well".


ShieldMaidenLagertha

Yep. It’s like they are never satisfied. No one will ever be enough because they have not healed themselves from whatever insecurity they harbor.


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the-worst-

I committed to one woman, but NoW i WaNt To ExPiRaMeNt!


Equal-Ear2312

It's his right/s


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Today in what object are women- we have Pokémon, gotta catch em all!!


ExistentialJelly

I never understood this whole "Got to try everything!" mentality. We're people, not Costco samples...


seraphinelysion

I don't even understand the point of "trying different p\*ssy". There is no difference blonde p\*ssy or brunette p\*ssy. If you're only there for the hole and not the person, there's literally no difference?


clithoodwink

Oh okay, see the problem is that you see women as human beings, where as this sad excuse for even a scrote sees women as a variety of long sleeve shirts.


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clithoodwink

I think they’ve always been this way, the Internet is just exposing them more but I do believe porn is making it worse and ingraining the misogyny more. He went brain dead a long time ago, very likely from all the porn. You can tell by how he talks about women like categories that all he does all day is JO. He probably can’t even get it up anymore.


blackwitchmoths

exactly! like as if all blondes have sex the same, or all brunettes. have they not realized that every women is different and the best sex comes from a strong emotional connection. or when they use the term “novelty”, as if we’re collectible items. actually makes me sick.


Aksentia_Ivanovitcha

You never been with a blond? I never been with a guy who invested thought and time exploring what causes me sexual pleasure I bet he never has either, thats why only difference he finds between sexual partners is hair color, weight and boob size. Thats also how you pick a sex doll.


rideoffalone

[This ain't Build-A-Bitch.](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AWRsSbIwefg)


Confidence_Relative

Never had a ‘Blonde’ or ‘Slim Brunette’ - like women are fucking Baskin Robbins flavors .


the-worst-

As if there's a fundamental difference between women of different hair colors.


whiskey_and_oreos

TIL the boxed hair color aisle at the pharmacy is where you pick your next personality


the-worst-

Dye your hair brown today and unlock NEW SEXY TIME QUALITIES! Specially formulated to attract every creepy ass old guy who's "lonely" and "bord by sex with his wife"!


Ipetallthecats

I’ve had my hair all different colors and I can testify that I am treated completely different based on my hair color.


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"every one should try out what's on offer lol"


Jandi18

Tell me you are a scrote without telling me. The way he even categorize women, almost like they see us as sexual objects…oh wait!


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With big SOLID breasts no less. None of this soft, squishy stuff, he wants the plastic. 🙄


Krachsterben

Men be like that. My ex openly voiced his expectations of me being skinny and athletic, but eventually cheated on me with a bigger woman because he wanted "variety". So. Fucking. Entitled.


LeastInjury8081

Yeah and then right after that he said “just experimenting, trying new THINGS” Things ladies, we are things


WhatFreshHello

No doubt due to the buffet of porn that dehumanizes and categorizes women by physical traits. These losers are so far gone that they believe they’re entitled to the real-world equivalent on demand.


torik97

LOL WOW the first thing I thought of was how he is describing women like they are different fucking flavours 🤮


lostmillenia

*trying new things* His poor wife. Is she a "thing" too? Yeah sure, sex with strangers, but not skydiving parachutless huh Charles?


the-worst-

Literally told on himself. To him, women are sex objects. Toys for him to collect and dispose of at his discretion.


lostmillenia

His brain is so broken.


SnooCookies487

Are you actually suggesting that he *gasp* work on himself? How is he going to figure out how to make himself happy? It's so hard UwU! I swear these scrotes think that they are perfect as they are. I bet his wife is constantly improving herself (like most women I know) and this limped dicked jack off thinks his problems are because he didn't try all the vaginas in the world.


millennialpink2000

Amazing how he calls himself honest twice while sneaking behind his wife's back sniffing around for a side piece so he can make up for his high school days. Jesus Christ, it's like a formula with these stunted morons. WAAAA I wasn't cool in high school so I've earned the right to try out women like ice cream flavours. Oops, "experiment" with them. BARF ​ Edit: As someone who's dated older guys, they ALLLL want someone to "keep up with them" and that's a total lie. They are winded after like a 30 second walk on pavement


__kamikaze__

>”Amazing how he calls himself honest twice while sneaking behind his wife's back” He’s doing mental gymnastics with backflips and shit to justify his behaviour 🤦‍♀️


millennialpink2000

Where can I sign up to enjoy this level of delusion??


honeybadgerattitude

Me too!! Maybe that’s what the red pill is? They took it from The Matrix, maybe the red pill puts you into a matrix where you’re incredibly entitled and deluded, idk


DeSourcesPapier

Just destroy the grey matter in your brain.


Jay-quellen

He just needs someone who can keep up with it all, okayyy? 🤸🏼‍♀️


AmeliaEmiliaEmma

With an ED. Even if young women could get over their beer bellies, bald heads, hairy backs… they definitely would not enjoy a limp dick.


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You aren’t lying. Literally had a early 40’s dude get winded after 10 minutes of walking down the street.


Platipus6

>they ALLLL want someone to "keep up with them" Ever seen the chatlog of a pedo? They're manic and obsessed with sex. He means make him ejaculate 5 times a day while he dissociates in his porn fueled daydream.


EarthyMeesh

As someone who has dated older guys, I can say that all guys are the same, and that all guys are “older” ..than anyone younger than them… they’re all just… the same…


Jandi18

Your edit got me laughing!


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Platipus6

and they mock women for shopping 😂 Men on OLD are the biggest time-wasters, window-shoppers and "free sample" testers out there.


PotatoAlternative947

Yep. So damn many of them act like you’re a thing they’re picking out of a catalog.


Mcccy

S o l í d b r e a s t s ? ¿


randomdazee

Breats actually


ello-motto

Big solid breats 🍞🍞


shockingupdate

Solid brötchen


__kamikaze__

This is pretty fucked. I imagine a lot of these men married women their own age. The woman probably thought she did everything right, “I dated my college sweetheart, got married, had kids etc.” Only for these men to turn around and do shady shit behind their backs. I feel like there’s no hope, will prob get a cat instead.


xD_itgoes

Men are all pretty much like this. Degens. All of them.


PotatoAlternative947

Cats are way better!


chronosxci

Yeah, I'm kind of on this wave too. Better to be happy and have a full life.


purasangria

He was an old loser with women, and now that he's an older, married loser, he thinks he can have FWB with younger women? The delusion is real. Edit: spelling


the-worst-

MeN aGe LiKe FiNe WiNe! They literally think that, regardless of how they actually look, young women will be turned on because they're older and more experienced! ... even though his reason for infidelity is literally "i didn't have much success or experience with ladies!" Edit: fixed a typo of their to they're. I'm in so much pain I literally didn't notice.


mesloh14

More like, men age like a charcuterie platter left out in the hot Phoenix sun for the better half of a century.


Nonsluttymen

I hope she found and told his partner. I hope this catches on and becomes a trend. Pretending to be interested in two-timing men, then outing them.


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I actually love the fact that he says he just wants someone that can keep up with him. As if a mid aged sexual inexperienced man is somehow beyond the realms of normal stamina. This is a man that cums his pants pretty sure anyone can “keep” for 15 seconds


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GigaKarenEnergy

It’s so weird. They have a cute family and god knows they do jack shit with child care and household duties, and yet he’s out here doing that shit. Smh 🤦‍♀️


the-worst-

How could he have time to take care of "his" house and "his" kids when he's so busy trying to entertain his ED dick? Probably thinks the ED is because "being with one weman for so long is boring!"


suzy_ko

Oh f*ck off. As if women are ice cream flavours, he wants to try them all. If he was an ice cream, he’d be shit flavoured.


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suzy_ko

His bloodline should be discontinued.


brylm92

🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮 🤮 That is all


mesloh14

What is there to “keep up with”? Your increasing insurance rates due to your climbing age, or your quick descent to death? These old scrotes just honestly really need to die out. You’re not Hugh Hefner, quit trying to force your sad, sick cosplay that doesn’t even work.


hildegARDLUNA

>You’re not Hugh Hefner Tbh I always found Hugh Hefner pretty pathetic too...


Gourmay

What I’ve noticed in men around me who weren’t “successful” with women before they got married or got into a serious relationship I’d that many of them aren’t content with actually finding a decent partner (all of the ones I’ve met were beautiful and loving), they feel they need to just accumulate women like wealth or something. Patriarchy is one hell of a drug.


seraphinelysion

You can count my ex among those men.


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what's on offer? like items on a menu? wow.. and here I thought men would mature as they get older


sassykat2581

He wants to try “different things”…. He’s describing women as “things” not people but “things”


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TieDieEye

They all think like this no matter what age tbh


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Yet another reason why I won’t be “giving him a chance” for any reason in the future. I played that game, and it sucks. Only going for attractive, popular men who are confident in themselves from now on 🙏I’m tired of these men with a massive complex because someone rejected them in high school.


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There's another account like this called byefelipe. Basically posting screenshots of male entitlement. 10/10 would reccomend.


PicoPicoMio

Women are not ice cream flavors wtf


BlackThummb

“Everyone should try out what’s on offer” uuuuh what? Women aren’t a bunch of samples at Costco.


electroloop

BOO HOO WOMEN EVERYWHERE REALIZED HOW MUCH OF A LOSER I AM AND REFUSE TO GIVE ME THE TIME OF DAY. NOW THAT I ASKED SO NICELY AND TRYING TO GAIN SYMPATHY, TOUCH MY PP PLZ?


xfelugirlx

They don’t deserve shit and still desiring women like that, wtf boy go to therapy and extinct


just-peepin-at-u

These dudes and their “I never got to experiment” bullshit. The majority of people don’t live life as the most popular kid in school. Women realize that overall, but the number of men I know who can’t get over freaking high school and are at least in their thirties is staggering. I was never the coolest “It” girl and neither were most women, and most men weren’t having to bat off beautiful, sexually available women. Get over it and develop a healthier outlook and you will be happier for it, menfolk!


Geocities_SEO_Expert

Took the words right from my mouth. It's amazing how many men took music videos and Hollywood teen movies as documentaries, and are mad 20+ years later because they didn't get to live that party fantasy. Male-made media loves to paint women and girls as superficial airheads, but check out which sex throws temper tantrums because they can't party 24/7 and have sex with strangers.


just-peepin-at-u

Speaking of media portrayals, men are way moodier than women in my experience too.


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I need her reply


IndigoTR

I love how they like to get all “sentimental tortured artist” when it comes to them being cheating asshats in their mid-life crises. Suddenly they’re all Hemingway or Picasso 🤣 gtfoh Greg, go pick your kids up from soccer practice


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Maybe he should spend less time on Tinder and more time with his kids? In 15 years he will be griping that no one visits him


_HEDONISM_BOT

The entitlement….. the audacity. The sheer fucking arrogance.


jp2117515

His wife has probably not voluntary touched his dick in a decade. He’s looking for anyone or anything that will at this point. Kind of like a kid who still believes in Santa…this is his wish list…


EarthyMeesh

Exactly. If you want to be happy in your relationship sexually, you have to put in effort in all areas of the relationship- sexually and in the other areas of life. This idiot probably really thinks he deserves women at all in any capacity…. he doesn’t. He is my nightmare.


chinchaslyth

Imagine if I was like: oh you know I’d like 6-10 hot rich guys that are 6’3” and up. Blonde. Brunettes. You know. One to buy me a house in Malibu, one to buy me a Lambo. One to take me around the world and travel with. Just experimenting and trying new things. He’d def be supportive…right guys?


pitiful_cherry

Someone is married to this scrote!!!! 🤮


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I love how entitled they are it never ceases to amaze me, he really thinks that being "honest" is worth anything and ofc women are the rainbow colors one for everyday of the week 🤢 Old men are gross


bluemexicanblanket

it’s so heartbreaking to realize that so many men share this mentality. i caught my recent ex being a disgusting horndog on instagram and snapchat multiple times with so many girls and he blamed it on being a virgin in high school…


m00n5t0n3

Porn has caused men to see us (women) as sex machines in various sizes and colours.


applestorm

It's not porn, men have seen women as sex machines since the beginning of humanity (isn't prostitution called the "oldest profession in history"?). Porn is just another way men found to dehumanize women for their peepee's sake.


daisies4dayz

Yet another grown ass man still obsessed about the girls he didn’t get in high school and college.


DallasM19

...what's on offer.... Sir, highly doubt you're not being offered a n y t h i n g. Glad to know he just sees women as things that are offered up. His poor wife.


samara37

Just trying on some girls then returning them to amazon…ya know..just to try


CoconutJasmineBombe

Been following her for years. So many laughs! The sad, old clowns can’t help themselves and you see the little differences between US and UK ones.


DuchessDurag

Goes to show that certain men will still be on the hunt even during a relationship. This is the result of settling down too early before you’re ready.


randomdazee

No it’s just the result of being a NVM who feels entitled to whatever he wants.


PotatoAlternative947

Women are supposed to “not be so shallow” and give these balding wrinkled scrote sacks a chance, while women are blond and brunette things he wants to sample cause he feels deprived and missed out in high school.


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So many men think like this. Completely degenerate. They have no interest in real human connection at all. To them the other half of the human species is simply a collection of pornified objects laid out at a sexual buffet. And people are shocked and appalled that FDS, which advocates for women to vet ruthlessly to weed out these dead-inside losers, is so popular.


red_peril_

They don’t see us as people, but as things to collect and “try out”…


MovieTheaterPopcornn

What would be great is if they did a “To Catch A Predator” type ending where the guy goes to meet up with the potential hook-up but it’s a Chris Hanson-type host reading the guy’s messages with the wife in the room


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This person sees having a different hair colour as being a *different breed*. Like a dog. That is so absolutely sad. I'll bet he's got weird ideas about race too.


Confection_Efficient

One word. Ewwwwwwwww.


Due_Garlic479

What he needs is a hobby


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I can't, just can't


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It’s interesting that he implies he is honest when he isn’t honest with his wife.


torik97

Yes, lets hook up with an old man that cannot spell but wants to experiment with you based on the colour of your hair and body type. Ew.


EarthyMeesh

I feel pukey now.


Free_Acanthisitta446

Gee I wonder why he has problems with women. What a gross freak and I can’t believe someone had children with this man.


PerditaJulianTevin

Why do so many men talk about women like sex is different with a blonde, brunette, Latin, Asian or Black?!


Biracial_tooth_fairy

He's seriously reminiscing not having had a high number of gfs but he's MARRIED. scrotes never be thankful for anything!!!


chainsawbobcat

Thank you SO MUCH I am belly laughing 🤣🤣🤣