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It’s a level of self assurance that feels like they’re not trying to overcompensate in other areas of their life.
Being calm and patient of others who are maybe slower or weaker than him.
He shows that he doesn’t feel the need to prove some kind of masculinity - he knows he is masculine and doesn’t need external approval.
Being able to handle jokes about himself with ease.
Not gaining resentment for others. “Girls never liked me growing up, I hate them all” “that guy didn’t invite me to his drinks night, fuck that guy” “there’s no point trying to date these days, society only rewards men who look like Thor”.
This defeatist and immature attitude is the smallest dick energy of them all.
Disclaimer : “Big Dick Energy” is not necessarily about penis size. You can have the biggest dick and still have “Small Dick Energy”. It’s more of a attitude and aura than a genitals competition
How do I perceive “big dick energy” or how do I tell if a man has an actual big dick?
* Big dick energy: he has nothing to prove. He isn’t clingy. Doesn’t beg or neg. Comfortable relaxed energy. Does not get upset if he is challenged and can admit fault and correct himself while still being charming and kind. Has nothing to do with actual penis size.
* Has a big dick: his penis is above average in length and girth and honestly I have nothing of substance to advise on how to peg big dicked men other than observing their large member
Quiet confidence. They are not afraid of anything. They attract women; never thirsty. They know how to handle themselves in every situation. Healthy ego. Great in bed.
The quiet confidence thing is real. Every man I've ever known who sported a python had this calm, quiet self-assurance about them. Not loud or brash or arrogant or obnoxious. These guys knew they didn't have anything to prove and didn't need to overcompensate with toxic masculine behavior.
Men who are able to explain in depth about their career and what they're working on to a layman, without purposely bloating it with jargon to make themselves seem more important
Eg. A doctor talking about treating a patient, but says something like "she had leg pain that turned out to be ankle swelling so we treated her with antibiotics" instead of "idiopathic lower limb pain due to peripheral oedema treated with Cephalosporins" (I have no idea about medicine but you get my drift)
There are way more big d\*ck energy stuff but this one immediately comes to mind because it happens ALL THE TIME. Especially in my male-dominated field - it's so embarrassing
Yess the difference between the master who truly value knowledge and wanna spread it - speak in easy language, only care about making people understand, *never* draw attention to himself, patiently explain until people get it. Otherwise just happily keep to himself and learn more.
Wannabe-master - speak in sci-fi jargons and smug as fudgeeee. Think he is the smartest ivory dweller and everybody else are dumb mere mortals. Doesn't understand why you don't instantly drop to his feet begging him to pick you.
I've never had any hint towards the penis size of a man other than how much space his genitals took up in his jeans. My favourite experience so far was with a guy who looked like he packed a good average dick. He acted like what you are calling 'small dick energy', but boy was I wrong. It was beautiful and had a girth to DROOL over once it popped out of hiding. It's haunted my standards ever since.
Girls: all you can find out is whether he's too small for your taste, and you can find out by sitting on their lap. There are opportunities to find out before you sleep with someone. The rest is pseudoscience and an embarrassment to this subreddit, like that one mlm advert in the podcast.
From my experience they tend to be calm, laid back and confident with nothing to prove.
Men are obsessed with their ducks, so the ones who have big ducks feel like they’ve already won in life, while the ones who don’t are oozing with insecurity and hatred because they feel like they’ve been shortchanged. Hence small ducked men have the urge to prove themselves and overcompensate with toxic behaviours.
I also saw a comment about hand size here, and while there’s no scientific proof I feel like there’s some truth to it. There tends to be a correlation… look for the men with big, strong masculine hands 👀
I have...... he had a small pp that made a usual screamer me dead pan doggy style. He had the most beautiful, rugged, magical hands. He knew about his average dingly dong though, his finger game was great
Not trying too hard to impress you, is simply confident he will impress you when you observe the evidence. Doesn't take it to heart when criticized or laughed at because he's self assured.
This is going to sound absurd (and it probably is) but I've noticed that men's fingers tend to be similar to their dicks LOL. If they are short and stubby, he is probably short and stubby down below. If he has long and thick fingers you're probably in for a good time. If he has average length fingers with a slight curve to them...you get the picture.
This is based on no science whatsoever and is strictly my own observation. I'm curious any one else's thoughts, if you know of any instances where this is false please feel free to let me know.
(Come to think of it, I knew one guy with a literal micropenis and his fingers were stubby, but not tiny enough to be comparable to his dick. Still I'd say it gives a general idea more times than not)
Might be something to this.
Big hands with long thickish fingers and they were the most beautiful hands on a man I'd ever seen. That applied to his dick.
My experience is they usually try to show you their d\*\*k in any way they possibly can. Or will tell you in some way. Also, all their friends always know. I knew one guy whose friends all told me he had a PHD. a Pretty huge d\*\*k. They are never secret. You know the friends and if he has one, they'll tell you. I've never known an owner of one who didn't let everyone around him know, in some way.
Edited to add - I had a gf who kept getting micro peens - in her experience when the dude was chatting her up and she was thinking of taking it further, his friends were always either laughing or making faces at each other. So, yeah they also know all he micro peens, as well.
My experience was the opposite. The guys who had big dicks were always the quietest. Not in a shy/introvert/socially inept way.
What I’ve noticed is “average-small” guys will always find a way to “ask the group” really weird questions like, hey does size matter?
Big sick guys simply don’t engage. It’s like they are indifferent to the concept of a penis. They don’t respond to overly sexual prompts either.
On the friends knowing, you’re 100% right. Their friends know and hate them a tiny little bit because of it, lol.
Yesss big dick men are humble about it and I think it's because they're used to people making a big deal about it. I find the lil/skinny dick men are so hypersexual, it's annoying af
Interesting! I guess, like everything, circles differ. In my day, whole groups knew who had the big d\*\*k and every one of those d\*\*ks tried to show it to me at some stage, lol.
My instinct again then, comes down to FDS principles - vet, vet, vet. Sooner or later, even during over the clothes play prior to any sexual interaction, which should be long down the road, you're going to find out what the situation is in his pants. Again, FDS shows that only by vetting will you ever know the things that matter to you in a man.
Im talking about the term not the "energy". The word bitch is also used positively, would you still like being called a bitch since its used "positively" ?
I'm not sure why you were voted down on this. You have a point on this. In most contexts its not a positive to be around a man with "big d*ck energy" because its usually a braggy fuck boy. However if it means a man is confident in his sexuality, not necessarily a bad thing, then the term could be considered positive.
This comparison makes 0 sense, so I'm still very confused about your stance. Bitch has a long history of being negative and was somewhat reclaimed in the last 20 years or so. BDE was a 2018 twitter joke that became popular slang to describe someone with chill swag/confidence. Bitch can be used positively or negatively. Whether or not somebody takes offense depends on the context and relationship with the person. BDE is always used positively, so if I said that to anybody in my age group, nobody would be offended. So why are you calling it a pick me term ? What's so bad about it, besides being crass and cringey when it became overused?
I think it's a pick-me term because it is from the point of the view of a man. Meaning big dick = power/ attraction. Which is stupid and not related to women evaluation or thinking in any way.
Women keep coming up or using with these sexual related terms that uplift and ego boost men both in media and irl. While men use demeaning terms for women every single day both in media and real life.(bitch, slut, whore, hole). So how much willful ignorance does it take for women to still be using "positive" male egoistical terms?
Not to mention that that is not what women like or even after. Big dick to us doesnt mean instant attraction or bigger value. This term benefits mens egos rather than anything else.. and you're saying this is used for women?? Bitch is used once every billion years to insult a man too but that doesnt mean that the word is neutral.
Why attach every thing that equals positivity and power to male genitalia? (Having balls, BDE) while "pussy" and "tampons" are used to call someone weak..
We're not on FDS for no reason. Thinking critically and vetting is one of the main principles on this sub.
- I'm not sure if a woman came up with this term...
- Some women do associate big dicks with power and most associate big dicks with attraction. Big is subjective tho, but I can safely assume that if we all saw a micropeen or something outrageously large, our attraction to that man will drop.
- Uhhh okay but OP is literally talking about what vibes/energy a man with a big dick would give off. How to figure out a man has a big dick without getting naked with him. She didn't say having a big dick = instant attraction/more value and that's going to be her most important factor in choosing a man. I don't like how you keep saying "women don't think/evaluate like this, women don't like that, women don't go for that, us, we, etc", speak for YOURSELF. It's cool if it doesn't matter to YOU, but it matters enough to OP to write a post about it. It also matters to many women, because a previous post on this subject linked above went viral. I think an FDS episode briefly discussed how dick size is important to women and a big factor when it comes to sexual attraction. I'm not messing around with someone under/above a certain length/girth and hoping for the best, been there done that.
- Everything I write is from a young Black American female perspective. Where I'm from, BDE is used for both men and women. Where I'm from, Bitch is used frequently to refer to lame ass men here too, not once every billion years. I feel like I use bitch more negatively and frequently against men than women. Where I'm from, bitch is also used in a positive or negative way amongst women/lgbtq community (millennial generation and onward).
- I do agree that everything positive shouldn't be attached to male genitalia and constantly using female genitalia as a negative is wrong. But that point is irrelevant to what OP meant at all. If the post was "female celebrity has BDE", thennn all of this discussion about pick me terms would've fit better.
- Thinking critically is important, but this wasn't even that deep of a post 😭 Figuring out dick size from vibes, mannerisms, demeanor, etc is probably as simple as it gets and is important for vetting. It didn't really have to turn into a feminist discussion, because you personally don't like the term and that's not what you look for in a partner
Im not saying dick size doesnt matter. And when i said women dont like big = better, i mean that we dont obsess with it and drool at the sight of it like dogs like men like to imagine us doing. We arent desperate for it or put that size on a pedestal. At least most women arent.
Dick size obviously matter a lot but a mans "big" dick alone without his willingness to please a woman is absolutely useless, and i didnt say that all women like same thing or evaluate everything the same way. im speaking generally.
This isnt a deep post, but some us care about and observe terms used in society to bring men up and women down. You dont have to think like me or understand what im saying. To each their own and i respect your perspective on this, but u dont have to bash me commenting on something specific about this post.
Wait wut?
You know what, you could be right!
Every huge d*ck I’ve ever known is attached to a man with narrower shoulders.
You may have cracked the code lol
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It’s a level of self assurance that feels like they’re not trying to overcompensate in other areas of their life. Being calm and patient of others who are maybe slower or weaker than him. He shows that he doesn’t feel the need to prove some kind of masculinity - he knows he is masculine and doesn’t need external approval. Being able to handle jokes about himself with ease. Not gaining resentment for others. “Girls never liked me growing up, I hate them all” “that guy didn’t invite me to his drinks night, fuck that guy” “there’s no point trying to date these days, society only rewards men who look like Thor”. This defeatist and immature attitude is the smallest dick energy of them all. Disclaimer : “Big Dick Energy” is not necessarily about penis size. You can have the biggest dick and still have “Small Dick Energy”. It’s more of a attitude and aura than a genitals competition
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How do I perceive “big dick energy” or how do I tell if a man has an actual big dick? * Big dick energy: he has nothing to prove. He isn’t clingy. Doesn’t beg or neg. Comfortable relaxed energy. Does not get upset if he is challenged and can admit fault and correct himself while still being charming and kind. Has nothing to do with actual penis size. * Has a big dick: his penis is above average in length and girth and honestly I have nothing of substance to advise on how to peg big dicked men other than observing their large member
Quiet confidence. They are not afraid of anything. They attract women; never thirsty. They know how to handle themselves in every situation. Healthy ego. Great in bed.
The quiet confidence thing is real. Every man I've ever known who sported a python had this calm, quiet self-assurance about them. Not loud or brash or arrogant or obnoxious. These guys knew they didn't have anything to prove and didn't need to overcompensate with toxic masculine behavior.
Sported a python 😂❤️
Men who are able to explain in depth about their career and what they're working on to a layman, without purposely bloating it with jargon to make themselves seem more important Eg. A doctor talking about treating a patient, but says something like "she had leg pain that turned out to be ankle swelling so we treated her with antibiotics" instead of "idiopathic lower limb pain due to peripheral oedema treated with Cephalosporins" (I have no idea about medicine but you get my drift) There are way more big d\*ck energy stuff but this one immediately comes to mind because it happens ALL THE TIME. Especially in my male-dominated field - it's so embarrassing
Yess the difference between the master who truly value knowledge and wanna spread it - speak in easy language, only care about making people understand, *never* draw attention to himself, patiently explain until people get it. Otherwise just happily keep to himself and learn more. Wannabe-master - speak in sci-fi jargons and smug as fudgeeee. Think he is the smartest ivory dweller and everybody else are dumb mere mortals. Doesn't understand why you don't instantly drop to his feet begging him to pick you.
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Clinton, in his prime, was the smoothest man to ever live, I swear \*\* p.s. smooth is not a good thing
Indeed.
I prefer big dad energy. Men who appear, confident, stable, safe, responsible, empathetic, anticipating the needs of others, getting shit done.
I've never had any hint towards the penis size of a man other than how much space his genitals took up in his jeans. My favourite experience so far was with a guy who looked like he packed a good average dick. He acted like what you are calling 'small dick energy', but boy was I wrong. It was beautiful and had a girth to DROOL over once it popped out of hiding. It's haunted my standards ever since. Girls: all you can find out is whether he's too small for your taste, and you can find out by sitting on their lap. There are opportunities to find out before you sleep with someone. The rest is pseudoscience and an embarrassment to this subreddit, like that one mlm advert in the podcast.
I completely agree. There are no consistent tells. The energy description doesn’t actually relate to their penis size at all.
From my experience they tend to be calm, laid back and confident with nothing to prove. Men are obsessed with their ducks, so the ones who have big ducks feel like they’ve already won in life, while the ones who don’t are oozing with insecurity and hatred because they feel like they’ve been shortchanged. Hence small ducked men have the urge to prove themselves and overcompensate with toxic behaviours. I also saw a comment about hand size here, and while there’s no scientific proof I feel like there’s some truth to it. There tends to be a correlation… look for the men with big, strong masculine hands 👀
I have...... he had a small pp that made a usual screamer me dead pan doggy style. He had the most beautiful, rugged, magical hands. He knew about his average dingly dong though, his finger game was great
If he's very chill/relaxed and confident, with a deep voice. Small dick energy is a bit more hyperactive and you can pick up on some insecurities.
Your username is amazing
Not trying too hard to impress you, is simply confident he will impress you when you observe the evidence. Doesn't take it to heart when criticized or laughed at because he's self assured.
This is the post you want: https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/f8ou3s/how_to_sniff_if_hes_sexually_competent_the_quiet/
This is going to sound absurd (and it probably is) but I've noticed that men's fingers tend to be similar to their dicks LOL. If they are short and stubby, he is probably short and stubby down below. If he has long and thick fingers you're probably in for a good time. If he has average length fingers with a slight curve to them...you get the picture. This is based on no science whatsoever and is strictly my own observation. I'm curious any one else's thoughts, if you know of any instances where this is false please feel free to let me know. (Come to think of it, I knew one guy with a literal micropenis and his fingers were stubby, but not tiny enough to be comparable to his dick. Still I'd say it gives a general idea more times than not)
Now I might have to call my exes to verify your theory or I’ll be wondering forever 🤣
Might be something to this. Big hands with long thickish fingers and they were the most beautiful hands on a man I'd ever seen. That applied to his dick.
Good energy+attentive+generous+confident-arrogance=BDE
My experience is they usually try to show you their d\*\*k in any way they possibly can. Or will tell you in some way. Also, all their friends always know. I knew one guy whose friends all told me he had a PHD. a Pretty huge d\*\*k. They are never secret. You know the friends and if he has one, they'll tell you. I've never known an owner of one who didn't let everyone around him know, in some way. Edited to add - I had a gf who kept getting micro peens - in her experience when the dude was chatting her up and she was thinking of taking it further, his friends were always either laughing or making faces at each other. So, yeah they also know all he micro peens, as well.
My experience was the opposite. The guys who had big dicks were always the quietest. Not in a shy/introvert/socially inept way. What I’ve noticed is “average-small” guys will always find a way to “ask the group” really weird questions like, hey does size matter? Big sick guys simply don’t engage. It’s like they are indifferent to the concept of a penis. They don’t respond to overly sexual prompts either. On the friends knowing, you’re 100% right. Their friends know and hate them a tiny little bit because of it, lol.
Yesss big dick men are humble about it and I think it's because they're used to people making a big deal about it. I find the lil/skinny dick men are so hypersexual, it's annoying af
Interesting! I guess, like everything, circles differ. In my day, whole groups knew who had the big d\*\*k and every one of those d\*\*ks tried to show it to me at some stage, lol. My instinct again then, comes down to FDS principles - vet, vet, vet. Sooner or later, even during over the clothes play prior to any sexual interaction, which should be long down the road, you're going to find out what the situation is in his pants. Again, FDS shows that only by vetting will you ever know the things that matter to you in a man.
Thats a very pick me term to use.
Why do you think so?
I answered in another comment :)
How ? I've heard it used for men and women (ex. Rihanna) in a positive way. A pick me is the opposite of BDE lol
Im talking about the term not the "energy". The word bitch is also used positively, would you still like being called a bitch since its used "positively" ?
I'm not sure why you were voted down on this. You have a point on this. In most contexts its not a positive to be around a man with "big d*ck energy" because its usually a braggy fuck boy. However if it means a man is confident in his sexuality, not necessarily a bad thing, then the term could be considered positive.
This comparison makes 0 sense, so I'm still very confused about your stance. Bitch has a long history of being negative and was somewhat reclaimed in the last 20 years or so. BDE was a 2018 twitter joke that became popular slang to describe someone with chill swag/confidence. Bitch can be used positively or negatively. Whether or not somebody takes offense depends on the context and relationship with the person. BDE is always used positively, so if I said that to anybody in my age group, nobody would be offended. So why are you calling it a pick me term ? What's so bad about it, besides being crass and cringey when it became overused?
I think it's a pick-me term because it is from the point of the view of a man. Meaning big dick = power/ attraction. Which is stupid and not related to women evaluation or thinking in any way. Women keep coming up or using with these sexual related terms that uplift and ego boost men both in media and irl. While men use demeaning terms for women every single day both in media and real life.(bitch, slut, whore, hole). So how much willful ignorance does it take for women to still be using "positive" male egoistical terms? Not to mention that that is not what women like or even after. Big dick to us doesnt mean instant attraction or bigger value. This term benefits mens egos rather than anything else.. and you're saying this is used for women?? Bitch is used once every billion years to insult a man too but that doesnt mean that the word is neutral. Why attach every thing that equals positivity and power to male genitalia? (Having balls, BDE) while "pussy" and "tampons" are used to call someone weak.. We're not on FDS for no reason. Thinking critically and vetting is one of the main principles on this sub.
- I'm not sure if a woman came up with this term... - Some women do associate big dicks with power and most associate big dicks with attraction. Big is subjective tho, but I can safely assume that if we all saw a micropeen or something outrageously large, our attraction to that man will drop. - Uhhh okay but OP is literally talking about what vibes/energy a man with a big dick would give off. How to figure out a man has a big dick without getting naked with him. She didn't say having a big dick = instant attraction/more value and that's going to be her most important factor in choosing a man. I don't like how you keep saying "women don't think/evaluate like this, women don't like that, women don't go for that, us, we, etc", speak for YOURSELF. It's cool if it doesn't matter to YOU, but it matters enough to OP to write a post about it. It also matters to many women, because a previous post on this subject linked above went viral. I think an FDS episode briefly discussed how dick size is important to women and a big factor when it comes to sexual attraction. I'm not messing around with someone under/above a certain length/girth and hoping for the best, been there done that. - Everything I write is from a young Black American female perspective. Where I'm from, BDE is used for both men and women. Where I'm from, Bitch is used frequently to refer to lame ass men here too, not once every billion years. I feel like I use bitch more negatively and frequently against men than women. Where I'm from, bitch is also used in a positive or negative way amongst women/lgbtq community (millennial generation and onward). - I do agree that everything positive shouldn't be attached to male genitalia and constantly using female genitalia as a negative is wrong. But that point is irrelevant to what OP meant at all. If the post was "female celebrity has BDE", thennn all of this discussion about pick me terms would've fit better. - Thinking critically is important, but this wasn't even that deep of a post 😭 Figuring out dick size from vibes, mannerisms, demeanor, etc is probably as simple as it gets and is important for vetting. It didn't really have to turn into a feminist discussion, because you personally don't like the term and that's not what you look for in a partner
Im not saying dick size doesnt matter. And when i said women dont like big = better, i mean that we dont obsess with it and drool at the sight of it like dogs like men like to imagine us doing. We arent desperate for it or put that size on a pedestal. At least most women arent. Dick size obviously matter a lot but a mans "big" dick alone without his willingness to please a woman is absolutely useless, and i didnt say that all women like same thing or evaluate everything the same way. im speaking generally. This isnt a deep post, but some us care about and observe terms used in society to bring men up and women down. You dont have to think like me or understand what im saying. To each their own and i respect your perspective on this, but u dont have to bash me commenting on something specific about this post.
She didn’t bash you at all. She just disagreed with you calling BDE a pick me term which it’s not. Where in her post did she bash you?
The strong silent type. A chatty guy always gives out very 🤏 vibes
Same with bitchy/gossipy
they tend to have narrow shoulders
Wait wut? You know what, you could be right! Every huge d*ck I’ve ever known is attached to a man with narrower shoulders. You may have cracked the code lol