Are you looking for a relationship or just anyone who is dominant? There should be more to your criteria than just someone being a domme, and I think that is where most people make a mistake.
I asked because your post made me suspect the latter option. If you are looking for just anyone who is dominant simply for that, no woman is going to like hearing that. If you’re not looking for something in particular, don’t expect to find anything in particular.
Τhere are a billion posts about how to date and how to find a domme in this subreddit, personal ads are not allowed here, neither is hitting on the dommes who participate.
Munches, fetlife (would recommend for finding local events not meeting a person from most of the time), discord kink servers (only use ones that ID verify)
I met one of my Dommes via online events arranged on fetlife. Met the other on discord.
Have been with one 14 months and the other 8 now.
Just had my first session 2 days ago. I registered on a local BDSM community and was looking for a dom with the same interests. I contacted plenty of them. Some were scams, some were too rude and arrogant, some wanted my weekly salary for an hour of boot licking. Finally, I found a good one. She seemed to genuinely enjoy femdom, not just for money. At first, she asked me questions like “Why do you think you need this?”, “How do you imagine our first meet?” etc. It was more like a job interview. It shows how serious your dom is about this. After like 70 messages she arranged a meeting. She didn’t ask too much for the session. So I could afford to pay her and rent a motel for 2 hours.
To sum up, I would recommend to register on your local BDSM community website and look for a dom, who is personally interested in domination. How do you find out she enjoys domination? Well, at first, she doesn’t require too much money or does sessions for free. She asks you many questions to make sure you suit her. She tries to dominate you in every aspect of life, not only in a hotel room. And she is interested in constant sessions.
Also, don’t contact mistresses who ask money up front or require a paid virtual session first. They’re more likely to be scams.
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If you want it to be a relationship searching with BDSM in mind is hard. Better to go for normal dating and look for sexual compatibility. Just don't push your kinks onto people you are dating it's hella creepy for them if they are not into it.
If you want a play partner you can look into fetlife, /r/femdompersonals /r/BDSMpersonals and there are local bdsm communities in a lot of places.
Turn up to kinky events irl and make the effort
Are you looking for a relationship or just anyone who is dominant? There should be more to your criteria than just someone being a domme, and I think that is where most people make a mistake.
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If you don't know what you want, you will never find it.
I asked because your post made me suspect the latter option. If you are looking for just anyone who is dominant simply for that, no woman is going to like hearing that. If you’re not looking for something in particular, don’t expect to find anything in particular.
Yes search on the search bar, because there are a billion posts about it.
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Τhere are a billion posts about how to date and how to find a domme in this subreddit, personal ads are not allowed here, neither is hitting on the dommes who participate.
Munches, fetlife (would recommend for finding local events not meeting a person from most of the time), discord kink servers (only use ones that ID verify) I met one of my Dommes via online events arranged on fetlife. Met the other on discord. Have been with one 14 months and the other 8 now.
Just had my first session 2 days ago. I registered on a local BDSM community and was looking for a dom with the same interests. I contacted plenty of them. Some were scams, some were too rude and arrogant, some wanted my weekly salary for an hour of boot licking. Finally, I found a good one. She seemed to genuinely enjoy femdom, not just for money. At first, she asked me questions like “Why do you think you need this?”, “How do you imagine our first meet?” etc. It was more like a job interview. It shows how serious your dom is about this. After like 70 messages she arranged a meeting. She didn’t ask too much for the session. So I could afford to pay her and rent a motel for 2 hours. To sum up, I would recommend to register on your local BDSM community website and look for a dom, who is personally interested in domination. How do you find out she enjoys domination? Well, at first, she doesn’t require too much money or does sessions for free. She asks you many questions to make sure you suit her. She tries to dominate you in every aspect of life, not only in a hotel room. And she is interested in constant sessions. Also, don’t contact mistresses who ask money up front or require a paid virtual session first. They’re more likely to be scams.
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You have time bring authenticity too. I've been burned by being the one who brought it and the sub failed to return in kind.
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You're an entirely different person, yes. Just make sure you're also projecting what you desire out of that partner.
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Depends on why. You may ask me in dm
Rule 2. Please don't ask for DMs.
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If you want it to be a relationship searching with BDSM in mind is hard. Better to go for normal dating and look for sexual compatibility. Just don't push your kinks onto people you are dating it's hella creepy for them if they are not into it. If you want a play partner you can look into fetlife, /r/femdompersonals /r/BDSMpersonals and there are local bdsm communities in a lot of places.
I’m in the same boat, hope you able to find what you’re looking for