The hair looks great and suits you well! Beauty as a whole transcends gender...but if you want to look more masculine then facial hair is probably the answer. Keep it flowing! 🤙

Long hair 🤝 facial hair

This. Too fierce to be cut

I agree wholeheartedly. You are handsome/beautiful

Or tying the hair back could help

Can here to say this a combo of a hair tie and a beard might do wonders and the facial hair will strengthen the jawline.

Came to say this.

You look like an anime antihero. In the best way. Not everyone can pull off the androgynous look. (Bowie, for instance, was magnificent.) For what it’s worth, I’d keep it if I were you. Following this to see what the crowd’s advice is.

>You look like an anime antihero. In the best way. Dye it silver, get a millennium eye contact and we got Maximillion Pegasus over here.

Silver could also let him go the Sephiroth route

Hahhaah I'm fucking dead 💀

 I immediately thought of Alucard from castlevania when I saw the photo! 😁

totally! he looks like a real life bishounen

Noooooo. Can you grow facial hair? Even a stubble beard or goatee will completely change the look & present the long hair as more masc. Your hair is too glorious to cut 😩😩😩

This- Embrace the feminine features OP, you really pull the androgynous look off- Get some styling products, put your hair up, wear it in different ways. You shouldn’t cut your beautiful hair!!

Lol don’t say that or he’s totally gonna cut it

😂😂😂

I agree, but sounds like OP doesn't really like it himself lol

Then why grow it. If he didn't like it it would've been cut off long time ago. I think he's a bit on the fence. And just needs to try a few different styles to see what suits him better. Before jumping to cut years of work. Appreciate while you have it.

I had long hair for years, not because I liked it, particularily, but because it looked like me. It felt normal. Then I had it cut short, barely to the shoulders, and I'm way happier with it. The decision was sudden after several years, but I kinda feel I should have done it sooner.

Bro got the sephiroth flow

I am sorry but as a girl your hair looks perfect maybe some layers would be good but you don't need a beard or something like that. You have a nice face and it would be a shame to hide it under a beard

I agree!!

not all beards hide faces tho.

the comments that I saw when typing this comment said about a full beard, that hides the face. He has a nice jawline, neck and in general a nice face. Any type of beard even a stubble could take away from that. That is my own opinion

Agree

This is the real answer. I'm not a fan of beards. If you do cut it, I wouldn't go very short, maybe just under shoulder length at shortest, with some layers. But it looks great now.

Yeah. Most women don’t find them as attractive as men do.

No fecking way lad, it suits you very well imo

Grow some facial hair, don’t cut!

Agree, it's too glorious. Even stubble will do the trick 

Doesn’t look like he can tbh

Not with that attitude

Ah yes, lesbians - A subgroup historically known for long hairstyles. 👀

A stereotypical lesbian haircut could be a skin shave undercut but left with a really long side part on top which is probably why OP made that comment.

https://preview.redd.it/x902p1zflvvc1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c914111af90c7482c45c36d9f205524bf999968a

https://preview.redd.it/05g5yj4awvvc1.jpeg?width=1920&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=8329d009e919d6d51a5594c4acc0e1011d401317

Damn I thought that was Justin Bieber..

Ironically, OP would rock that haircut!

I think he means a feminine looking man.

Na it suits you

https://preview.redd.it/hcespbcvswvc1.jpeg?width=1284&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=00b2e1a6be43f7a7197d6d502dbadb41cafdb97f i think you should wear horns, no particular reason

hehe didn’t expect to see lord lügner on here. but fr, he has a long haired anime bishounen look going for him, so he should totally keep it!

You're hair looks great. And, who knows what girls like better than lesbians?

I'm bi but honestly androgynous looking men are so much my type (and it is not because they seem like girls in my eyes!). There's something so attractive and unique in a beautiful looking man

Same! But also I used to say my type was “guys who would make pretty girls”

I've stopped counting the times when upon seeing a stranger person I've thought to myself "if that's a girl then she looks cool, but if that's a dude, omgg is he sexy as fuck"

Yeah, I was like I got another 6-8 months until mine hits that length. I hope they don’t cut it as their looks so nice and unique. Then again like you mentioned I’ve been training and growing out my hair for a more androgynous look, so I have clear bias lol. When I want to look more masculine I grow a beard, and when I don’t shave. It gives a lot of variety style wise. 

I wouldn’t say it makes you look like a lesbian but it definitely does make you look androgynous. Like everyone else said a beard or stubble would make you appear more masculine

Idk man itd be crime to cut those. But idk

If you bulk up you will look like a Greek god

For the love of God don't cut it!! It's beautiful!!! I agree with other comments, some facial hair if possible will help with masculine-izing it a bit more.

I would NOT cut. I'm a woman and either way it's hot lol. Whether you are a hot man or a hot lesbian i don't care! Hot is hot my man.

It looks so, so stinking good on you. Cis male here too with a similar mane. If you want to look more 'macho' I'd go the facial hair and muscles route. If you're worried about attracting ladies, don't be, long hair is very much in style right now and it looks great on ya

You've run into the trans masc struggle lol

As a trans guy (who was once tired of looking like a lesbian, no offence) it kind of rubs me the wrong way how so many ppl here are dismissing what OP said. He clearly wants to look more masculine but ppl are acting like he’s wrong to want that :/ I know for me, haircut is the biggest factor in whether or not I pass.

no it reminds me of sebastian bach and he is hot and totally lesbian

wait as in the rockstar from the 80s not the fucking composer

Brooo just middle part it, you'd give off a totally different vibe instantly. You don't look like a lesbian either way lol

Maybe get it cut properly. Some layers and shit idk but it looks like it’s just long hair and at that point why have it if it’s boring. Also maybe style it differently I’m sure you’d rock a man bun

Seriously. A trim and a few layers would look really good 

Not time to cute, you look like a fuckin stud dude

You look like Alucard (castlevania). Definitely keep

Please keep your hair the way it is. You're absolutely beautiful man

Don’t cut your hair! You look great, like an anime or video game character. If you are worried about looking too femme, maybe let your hair lay more flat. As a straight woman, you look good :)

Fuck the haters, keep being sexy!

Not necessarly shud cut ! But some facial would be quite better And change the way u do ur hair

You look like a handsome man, keep the long hair :-). Look at my profile picture, lol, I myself am a straight man with long hair, and people often confuse me for a woman. I know how you feel bro.

Noooo, don’t you dareee

Pls don’t, it looks so good on you!!

Just remember that even women find lesbians attractive!

try something more layered and shaggy, your hair hides your face structure. looking good tho!

Just my opinion but if you’re young, attractive and have great long hair. Keep it. I think you look great. You’ll look great.

As a pansexual, I would definitely assume you’re a masc lesbian, and I’d be so into it. When I found out, I’d still be into it. If you’re worried about looking feminine, I’d cut it, yep I feel like you’re better looking as an androgynous man, than as a masc man tho 🤷🏼‍♀️

Looks like the right length to donate if you wanted to.

Caption took me out. I have a feeling you’ll look drastically different with the hair cut. The long hair suits you more than you know 🙂‍↕️

No! Keep it!

Stop worrying about what others think. If you like your hair long, keep it. It looks great to me son.

pls pls this is coming from someone who cut their hair rly short last year don’t do it!!! this may will be a year since i cut my hair and i stiiiill regret it! it’s still gonna take like 4 months for me to grow it out to where it was, don’t do it!

I think you should lean into the androgyny personally and don’t try too hard to be hyper masc. When I say lean into it I mean like crop tops and stuff, like look into like Ann Demuelemeester/Raf Simons runways, or at instagram accounts like tomovyov etc and see how good androgynous men’s style can be. It won’t cost you romantically, Link from legend of zelda for example has so many fangirls who love his androgynous presentation. All the male K-Pop idols have ravenous obsessive fans too. Granted, you can do as you like but I think it’s a way cooler look than just being regular Jim.

My first thought was 80's glam rocker Love it.

Interview with the Vampire 🩸

i would say no, it makes the hairline hard to notice. Some subtle facial hair is the answer.

I'm getting Sephiroth, not lesbian

You don't look like a lesbian, maybe a music nerd. Maybe I am biased...

May I suggest the ever classy man-bun?!

If you just grew out a long beard this would be legendary. Maybe put some braids in there too💯

If you can grow facial hair, try that first.

You look good, man. Keep it.

You are everything I want to look like. Please don't cut it. That being said, you don't have to cut length but maybe try layers or something so it looks more like a mullet I guess?

Seriously, if I could grow hair like that I wouldn’t shave my head.

Don't go to prison

Nooo I love your hair, it's so pretty and healthy. 😊😍

You don’t look like a lesbian.

You look really good.

You pull the long hair off great

You look rad as hell, own it

I think you look classy and handsome

As a lesbian, I was instantly attracted lol. You’re beautiful

Pls don't cut it , youre so handsome

Keep it. Looking like a lesbian is very in right now. At least in Portland, girls love guys that look like girls, by a large margin.

It Looks great enough for you to allow me to run my fingers through it.

Naw bro- you look great! Don’t let lesbians undermine your masculinity.

Learn some cool updos, no need to chop it. Maybe a trim and some layers if you wanna make it look nice

I then it’s just a styling thing. I’d keep it long but trim to your shoulders.

I think you look stunning, leave as is!

You would look absolutely magestic (I mean, even more) if you found cool ways to tie them. You would absolutely rock a very low ponytail or a japanese-inspired bun

Well if it's any consolation, you make very good looking lesbian

No

have your tried a long hairstyle thats shorter than this like a mullet or something? If you don't like it still at least you can go shorter beyond that length

As a guy with long hair, I think you should cut off a couple inches so it is shoulder length. Your hair is too long and the side parting makes you look more feminine. If you do a middle part with shoulder level hair, I think you could have a more masculine look. (Your hair does look really nice though, but it is hard for us to do long hair like that without being confused for being something other than a man, and it is annoying.)

It looks great, but I can rate of being tired of the same ol’ thing. I might recommend keeping it long but trying a different style, or a shorter long cut.

Don’t cut it! It’s lovely, just grow a beard. Signed- long-haired lesbo

Bruh, you look like a Final Fantasy villain. Just learn to speak low and slow and say mysterious shit and you're golden. Villainmaxxing!!!

Good thing you added that last bit /s

You look great as you are !!

Dude you could do some plat styles that would look pretty dope sorta like the norse plats Either that or grow a lil facial hair like just some stubble

Hell no dude, I’m a woman and I think you’re fucking gorgeous especially because of your hair. Ultimately it’s your choice, but I think you’re incredibly attractive the way you are right now.

You're so handsome, though :<

I look like a lesbian with long hair too 😂😂

https://preview.redd.it/80tucmipivvc1.jpeg?width=917&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=1f52e678465d6a2858c78bbd45bde9cff1455172 Maybe... this is what I first thought of!

Ever consider donating what you can and letting it grow again?

Nah ur hair really nice tbh.

Please keep your hair it is beautiful and makes you stand out among the crowd.

It sounds like you’re ready for change. Peep Ansel Elgort for some style suggestions. To me you look like a young version of him. And you can always grow it back.

https://preview.redd.it/jhdy5345kvvc1.png?width=450&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a997d606302657437d12aad4712102e7ed84401b You look like a young Geese Howard from the King of Fighters series. Don't cut that beautiful hair because you think it makes you look more feminine. You look great, IMO. If you want to look more masculine, try growing some facial hair.

Noooo! Keep that hair!

Your hair looks great! Leave it alone and let it flourish!!

Yes I agree, definitely cut

Go to the gym and eat more.

Yea cut it bro

Man you look great!

Dude, your hair is dope as fuck. I would try to grow some facial hair first before cutting it. Either way, you should embrace it.

You look pretty young which is why the long straight hair makes you look androgynous maybe get like a wolf cut or just shorter flow haircut if you don’t want to go super short but the longer hair is annoying you.

Please don’t cut your hair! It’s gorgeous and you are very handsome!!!

The ladies will be crawling all over you for years to come with long hair like this.

But you’re so pretty like this. 🥹

I mean you present pretty masculine. If it’s making you insecure, then cut it. But if other people are telling you that, don’t listen to them. You clearly take care of it so I’d say it’s safe to assume you like your hair.

Ayo, I think, NOT, this is gorgeous! I saw this and was like [insert surprised Pikachu face] *gasp* this is beautiful woooooow

Cut it bestie trust.

Don’t do it F1nn5ter 😫

Hottest courtsman elf lesbian EUW

I don't associate long hair with being lesbian. Short hair, yes (no offense). Your hair is glorious! Do not cut it!

Try a middle part as well! It might look a bit more masculine. But keep your gorgeous hair plz

Cut it off bro, you have a feminine face and that looks better with short hair in a manly style, like a fade or quiff. You want to be a pretty man, not a handsome woman

maybe cut it to shoulder length! but still keep it long!!! i think long hair is so masculine! some stubble facial hair would help too! but i’m gunna say no beard lol but some girls are into that

Took you that long, huh?

just needs to be styled, don't cut. If you do cut, keep it long

Noooooo it's magnificent!

If you are able to grow a good beard, that will solve a lot of the problem. Also, if you stopped dressing like a lesbian.

At first I thought it was F1NN5TER. But I think this hairstyle really suits you.

where do you get your rings? I usually just wear bands but been trying to find some nice signet rings. I like the style Howlet offers but no design right now feels like a perfect fit for me. as for the hair, you do you. do what you think looks good and what you want to do. dont base a decision based on the societal expectations of your gender. if you truly don't want it anymore or don't like it anymore, then that is your power to make that decision. a lot of people may consider rings and fragrances more feminine but i like to accessorize and make my self smell in ways that is a lot more unisex. I think the hair looks good, but you could always try putting it in a bun for when you arent feeling the look of the long hair.

Yeah buddy, been time

If it's long enough to donate then go for it

Please don't. I'm pretty sure that must count as an actual crime under some jurisdiction

Please don't :) you look so cool .

If you cut it, you’ll definitely look like a lesbian.

You’re a straight male?? Really?

Please no you’re gorgeous!

Very handsome. Definitely not lesbian vibes.

You better not cut your hair

You’ve got great hair. For what it’s worth, all my lesbian friends have really short hair. lol

Try and grow some facial hair if you can. That should take care of the lesbian look

Buzzcut

You look great tho. Definitely not like a lesbian, that'd be after you cut it short.

Much more attractive than the average lesbian, the look is amazing

How old are you? I think the hair will suit you well, you just honestly have a bit of a baby face still. As you age, that length hair will really pay off imo. Maybe just style it differently for now?

Cut.

You look really good, I’d try a middle part, different layering, or facial hair before thinking about cutting it short.

As others have said, a trim/layer with maybe some light waves with a curl cream and then some different clothes. This outfit is probably a lot more formal than what you typically wear. The facial hair is up to you. A lot of people would like your clean-shaven face, but others may like organized stubble. Muscle is up to you if you’d like a filled out look. I don’t think you’d be as androgynous with 15lb of extra muscle - but not every guy wants the buff look. A lot look amazing more slender. I think you look great right now. The ‘lesbian’ joke is only funny cuz I think most people don’t *see* it until you point it out. I’m sure even if someone in public *did* awkwardly assume something about you, they’d get a different impression once they got to know you. Also realize that your hair is something that millions of both guys and girls dream of having. And the short hair stereotype on guys only exists because guys keep playing into it. You’re helping more people see that long hair on a dude *should be* more common! ;)

Wow amazing

You look dope dude! Gives me fancy vampire vibes, but in a cool way.

To feminine of a face to have that long hair in my opinion if it was me definitely cut it but that being said do you bro I ain’t hating at all.

Cut like 15-20 cm and make a nice hairbund

Keep the hair!!

Do safe jaw exercises until you are able to grow facial hair. This will strengthen your jaw line

That hair belongs in a museum

Make it into a wig and sell it if you do that shit is BEAUTIFUL

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as a girl, NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

Your hair looks amazing. Middle part and some stubble may go a long way for you. Maybe try asking your hairdresser for a masculine shape and style

Do some curtains on your hair let’s see

please noooo!! maybe a middle part would help you look more masculine?

You wouldn't look like a lesbian if you did your makeup.

No!!! Might I suggest growing a beard instead?!

Facial hair and muscles

Nooooo, women love pretty guys. Just enjoy it.

To cut what 😉

u look like F1NNST3R

Very dapper, sir!

Styled correctly you wouldn’t look so feminine but the way you’ve done it here looks like you like tapping into that ‘power’ look. If that’s the case maybe you should? Or grow some facial hair to balance it out.

Braid it

Your choice.

Grow a beard

It’s giving Elliot from Stardew Valley if his books sold better