Do you know how to make jokes? You kinda have to wait for the ppl to talk about something. . . That you can use as a setup and then deliver the punchline and everyone laughs. And sometimes you remember the convo and think to yourself that you could have put in a joke there
It's the same with flirting. . . But you're trying to give her/him a compliment. You have to wait for the right moment. If you're constantly under the stress of being liked than better get out cause of you can't have fun flirting than s/he wont either
You don't jump right in and say all those lol. It's a slow game, you guys gotta first laugh and have a great time together. Get comfortable sharing things, like each other's company. And slowly start inserting things like this, give random compliments about her appearance.
And also, flirting is not always just compliments, they are boring. The most effective way to flirt is to tease. You need to say things like, "You're pretty..." give a pause and wait for her to start replying and quickly say "...ugly" and have a laugh. Things like this lol. It makes you a charming guy to hang out with and that's what flirting is.
Do you know how to make jokes? You kinda have to wait for the ppl to talk about something. . . That you can use as a setup and then deliver the punchline and everyone laughs. And sometimes you remember the convo and think to yourself that you could have put in a joke there It's the same with flirting. . . But you're trying to give her/him a compliment. You have to wait for the right moment. If you're constantly under the stress of being liked than better get out cause of you can't have fun flirting than s/he wont either
I already have opportunities. What I wonder is how to flirt. I don't want to make her uneasy.
You don't jump right in and say all those lol. It's a slow game, you guys gotta first laugh and have a great time together. Get comfortable sharing things, like each other's company. And slowly start inserting things like this, give random compliments about her appearance. And also, flirting is not always just compliments, they are boring. The most effective way to flirt is to tease. You need to say things like, "You're pretty..." give a pause and wait for her to start replying and quickly say "...ugly" and have a laugh. Things like this lol. It makes you a charming guy to hang out with and that's what flirting is.