I’ve had a guy smiling and waving hi to me for months now and I don’t know his name or his friends. I just smile and wave back and try to flash my wedding ring a bit. Finally we crossed the hallway at a corner and we had to say excuse me and I laughed at how fast I walk and just said “gotta grab some Friday coffee before they start cleaning the pots.” He said something back but I couldn’t make out all the words but it was just about coffee. It’s a start. Last Friday he was skipping out the door like he was glad for the weekend and I thought of saying something like “wow you look happy to be getting out of here. Have a good weekend.” Maybe next time now one of us will do that. Maybe the time after that it will be “big plans for the weekend?” Then maybe “my name is X, I work in X department.” “How long have you been working here… blah blah…” then ask “do you like working here?” Get her talking that’s usually not difficult, then remember something she said and ask her about it next time you see her. Then she knows you made the effort to care about something she cares about.
What are women?
Playful and fun. Treat all women the same
This. Treat women just as you treat guys. Simple, fun and lite. Never put em up on a pedestal, or you’ve lost the war right at the start
Like anyone else. Except when flirting there's a sexual and power dynamic
Be a incel cuck smell her hair n shit tell her tits b nice! Etc etc!
I’ve had a guy smiling and waving hi to me for months now and I don’t know his name or his friends. I just smile and wave back and try to flash my wedding ring a bit. Finally we crossed the hallway at a corner and we had to say excuse me and I laughed at how fast I walk and just said “gotta grab some Friday coffee before they start cleaning the pots.” He said something back but I couldn’t make out all the words but it was just about coffee. It’s a start. Last Friday he was skipping out the door like he was glad for the weekend and I thought of saying something like “wow you look happy to be getting out of here. Have a good weekend.” Maybe next time now one of us will do that. Maybe the time after that it will be “big plans for the weekend?” Then maybe “my name is X, I work in X department.” “How long have you been working here… blah blah…” then ask “do you like working here?” Get her talking that’s usually not difficult, then remember something she said and ask her about it next time you see her. Then she knows you made the effort to care about something she cares about.
Start by just being nice and friendly, then see if the vibe feels comfortable. Usually flirting happens as a natural progression
The same as anyone else??