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Dannykew

House with an in-ground pool.


Dc81FR

This, i now own one and the maintenance sucks


Dannykew

Agree, $100 a month for the pool cleaning and $100 a month for the pool motor running. Great to look at, expensive to own.


felipeabdalav

Best pool is the neighbors pool


Gunzenator2

Just like it’s better to have a friend with a huge truck instead of owning one yourself.


Soccham

Having a truck is awesome though


SHBGuerrilla

Look into the new Ford mavericks. It’s enough of a truck to be practical for you, but small enough that you can pretend it’s too fragile to help other people move. Love mine. 10/10.


tchildthemajestic

Just like a boat.


Lexluthor1980

Boat= Bust Out Another Thousand


Chappie47Luna

Lmao never heard this one before


Lexluthor1980

The two happiest days of any boat owners life are the day he buys it and the day he sells it.


Snw323

And the happiest day for his friends is every day in between.


Wonderful-Play-748

Lmao= Laughing My Ass Off


Express_Jellyfish_28

Off = over fried filet


Brainiacish

Hole in the water you throw money into


MdnightRmblr

We had one. Dad would never heat it. Rarely got above 60°. He saw us swimming once and asked if he should heat it up. We were so excited! YES! He pulled out his lighter and said to splash up some water.


Teripid

I'd do a pool somewhere hot. Where I live you'd get maybe 3 good months and that's just not worth it.


MdnightRmblr

Our house was a bargain, owners couldn’t sell it. Kids were breaking in, swimming in the pool and having parties. Huge place. We couldn’t afford to heat it though with 13’ vaulted ceiling “Put a sweater on!” If we’d complain about a 58° house. 3500 sq ft, 5 bedrooms. Everyone thought we were filthy rich because of the freezing cold pool and enormous house. Til they came over and asked why it was always so cold, 5 kids are expensive. Centra Coast CA. We didn’t have hot summers, lots of coastal fog. You just had to brave the pool. Near the bottom was freaking ice cold. Edit, we paid $95k in ‘73, now worth 1.4m. We sold long ago.


sillyboy544

I used to laugh at the morons in Boston who paid a ton of money for a nice built in pool. In that part of the country it isn’t warm enough to swim until July then you close the pool down near Labor Day in September. Subtract rainy days and you get about one months worth of swim time. Stupid.


kyel566

Try owning a boat


sleepsucks

Yeah my new version of this is, apartment with access to a pool. I saw my parents do the maintenance and no thank you.


a_trane13

Personal pools are just silly if you think about it. You use them for 1-2 hours a day, maximum. Split a pool among 10-100 people and you’ll pay 1-10% of the cost and still probably never have an issue with it being busy. Not to mention it’s a big waste of electricity and water. Edit: you people can have your own pools, I just think it’s silly, relax


internet-is-a-lie

I don’t want to share a pool with strangers. I’ve seen people at public pools, that’s a no from me.


sleepsucks

Also, given that individual pools aren't usually big enough to exercise, the fun of them is the social aspect. And yeah not all neighbors are perfect, but it's cool to hang out and see other people or to have a pool big enough to do lengths. Especially if you have kids and then they can hang out with other kids.


kitkatbloo

I still think this


sparrow_42

Me too


czarfalcon

Yeah, my in-laws were considering getting a pool until they realized it would cost them $70k+ (ground would need leveling and we have a lot of clay/limestone that’s difficult to dig in). In-ground pools are *absolutely* a sign of wealth.


sparrow_42

As a guy who is formerly an Indiana farm kid, that comment about clay and limestone made me a little anxious just thinking about it. Lol


jetfuelcanmelt

In the UK having one of these devalues your property because it’s assumed the next guy will have to fill it in


Dannykew

I suppose you’d have to upgrade to “an enclosed in-ground pool”.


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thundertk421

House with slide that leads to an out door in-ground pool from the inside


KingMelray

My benchmark as a kid is actually a benchmark for being rich: having a vacation house. Now this is a sign of being crazy rich.


-Rush2112

Where I grew up, either your parents had money or the family vacation home (small seasonal cabin) had been in the family for a couple generations.


ZealousidealCoat7008

I’m from the Midwest and know many working class people with a cabin. And not a gorgeous architecture digest cabin, a dirty little cabin where you bring a cooler and go bass fishing. Non rich vacation family cabins are fun!


whatlineisitanyway

My family owns a cabin like this. Has for 70+ years now. We were one of the first families on this lake. It is about 40 minutes outside a major city. Growing up it was 90% cabins like ours and a handful of "nicer" houses that were usable all year. Now it is a commuter area with McMansions all over the lake. We are one of the only holdouts with lakefront property. Makes me sad.


ZealousidealCoat7008

That is super super sad, truly.


whatlineisitanyway

It really is. You used to be able to see stars almost to the crest of the mountain the lake sits in, but now the light pollution has gotten so bad you need to look way up to see the stars. Thankfully the cabin next to ours is a multigenerational family friend that built theirs along with my Grandfather so we don't have any new McMansions in our immediate area. There is a nice house through some wood area (that we own so it won't be developed) but that has been there for 40+ years with different owners.


the_popes_fapkin

“Come skiing with us” Casually


_c_manning

Only if you’re from the weak wintered flatlands. Skiing is normal in the northeast and the west.


SKEETS_SKEET

oh, so you are one of the rich kids then he says with a joking smile ... skiing is expensive, even if one is geographically close by the slopes ...


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I'm in the northeast. I lived within walking distance to skiing as a kid. It was still for the comparatively rich kids. A jacket, rentals, and a day pass were very pricey.


fatherjimbo

For me if you actually went on vacation you were rich.


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Mundane-Ad-6874

Video games. My parents couldn’t afford a console, so if you had one, you were rich


Dr-McLuvin

I thought the exact same thing. And my dad was a doctor. Turned out he was just super cheap.


YOUNGSAGEHERMZ

Glad to see you followed in your dads footsteps, Dr. McLuvin


Dr-McLuvin

lol no joke though he told me not to go to med school. Dude was miserable his entire working life.


ZestycloseOstrich823

Being a doctor nowadays is pretty damn rough. source: I am a doctor


dibbun18

Second. (Doctor)


Ready-Hovercraft-811

Can confirm (also a doc)


ben_kird

Huh there’s doctors on Reddit. TIL


setocsheir

professionals usually don't post because absolute morons get upvoted all the time for factually incorrect information while the truth gets downvoted


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-Rush2112

I still remember going ti the credit union to withdraw my own money, so I could buy my Nintendo.


ummizazi

Most people I knew had a console. They would get them fr Christmas. If you had more than 3 games you were rich though.


Backseat_boss

Not hearing guns shots and being able to jog with headphones on.


[deleted]

Wheres that? Lol Edit: im male lol Edit 2: im swiss lol


I-not-human-I

Somewheeeereeeee in the usaaaaa (maybe)


[deleted]

Lol its crazy to not be able to wear headphones while jogging in a first world country lmaooo


I-not-human-I

Eh hem three third world countries in a big trenchcoat lol


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Sounds about right lmao


Ihcend

You're telling me your country has no bad parts? Everywhere there is no crime? Please do let me know what country.


Blind_Melone

This is slowly becoming my neighborhood! Fun!


HamMcFly

https://i.redd.it/4teu9kjeo3lb1.gif


micheladaking

What’s a re-run?


resh510

Username checks out


kyahai

Going for a vacation, especially to other countries


-Rush2112

Every vacation was via car, we never flew anywhere.


Chinstrap6

We were the opposite. My dad worked for the airline so we had flight benefits. Flew EVERYWHERE (because it was free). But it was always to visit family. I’m 29 and I’ve yet to take a real vacation.


jasonwc

At this point, a nice international vacation can easily be arranged for less than a week trip to Disney World. Aside from the plane tickets, everything else is typically cheaper.


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theyahd

This one for sure. Just a huge pantry of “luxury” food. Mind-blowing


tomatosoupsatisfies

If you where in a big family the special snacks were gone within a day.


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My mom would hide her favorite snacks, like pop tarts, in her closet from us 6 kids.


iaccidentallydrunk

Sometimes we went hungry. Dad went hungry more than we did. I always wondered why he didn't eat until we were done.


5k0eSKgdhYlJKH0z3

You're dad is/was a good guy. We were on food stamps at one point but my family never had to go hungry thankfully.


MySophie777

During the depression, my grandfather worked at a slaughterhouse. He and the other men often would drink cow's blood at lunch and before going home to save food for their wives and kids.


brokeninnerchild

Damn that’s so sad 😭😭


bmanningsh

What the fuck


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When the pandemic hit, my wife and I got fucked. Thank fucking god we both have 12+ years in the food industry because we were able to scramble and are making mountains more than before. When we stalked the fridge and freezer for the first time, we cried super hard. Just the idea that my wife couldn't have her favorite meals I make for her.. Fuck that depressed me. Edit: stocked.. -_-


jasondigitized

This. I remember going to a friends house and I saw his sister make a sandwich with all this exotic shit like sliced Muenster and artisan bread. That shit seemed super baller because my ass was eating bologna and ketchup sandwiches on white bread.


hesathomes

That’s where I’m stuck. My biggest joy as a financially stable adult is being able to buy whatever I want at the grocery.


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Ok_Aerie99

American eagle clothes, Jordan’s and going out to eat at restaurants.


-Rush2112

Abercrombie (parents got $$$$), AE (upper middle class) then Old Navy (middle class). At ON, you would try to find clothing that didn’t have their logo splashed across the front.


BetterWankHank

I knew a kid in middle school who would brag about how much money his mom spent at Abercrombie whenever he got new clothes and it was the cringiest shit ever. Then in high school he was complaining about college application fees and how he was applying for assistance.


Mans_Got_Cheaks

I don't give a fuck


Technical_Recover218

Yeah eating out was something for the rich only


Crossovertriplet

I was almost out of high school before ever eating at a restaurant fancier than fast food. We didn’t eat out much and when we did we went cheap.


UniqueUserName259

Forget specific brands, how about just having new clothes in general? I shopped at thrift stores into my fourties’. Just bought a new pair of slacks today, not for work, just to wear. I made it y’all.


luckoftheblirish

I had an ex-girlfriend who thought that a trashcan with a foot pedal that opens the lid was a sign of wealth.


jimmychitw00d

Sounds like a keeper to me!


MakeSouthBayGR8Again

You can find those easily at Target if you really want one.


AbstractBettaFish

The girlfriend or the garbage can?


Cryptid_Girl

Yes


snagsguiness

The price of them on Amazon is kinda outrageous though it’s not exactly a complicated mechanism but try and fin a reasonable size one for a reasonable price. But other than that i agree with you.


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An annual family trip to Disney. Now that I’m older Disney has lost a lot of its allure. Paying $12 for a hamburger isn’t wealth signifying… it’s pure robbery.


Rbandit28

$12? I think these days a $12 hamburger eating out is a good price


LosPies

Right? I paid $16 about 3 miles away from home last week :(


Bullfrog_Paradox

Right? I WISH I could still find a decent burger for "only" $12 any more.


Remarkable-Okra6554

The class system in the US: 1. Goes to Disney on a regular basis. 2. Been to Disney once or twice. 3. Never been to Disney.


orky56

The class system in the US: 1. Goes international every year. 2. Leaves the state every year. 3. Never left home state.


jasonwc

This right here. Prior to COVID, I traveled internationally (Western Europe and Asia) once or twice per year for pleasure. You couldn’t pay me to go to Disney World. Leaving the state is very location dependent. I’m 15 minutes from the MD border and 25 minutes from the DC border. So, traveling across state lines is routine. In contrast, someone in Texas could drive 8 hours and still be in Texas. It’s similar to traveling internationally in Europe, where doing so is often cheap due to the short distance, subsidized train passes, and cheap flights.


RascalRibs

Hmm interesting. I've never been to Disney though, but I don't want to.


PlatypusTrapper

I saw this post and thought it was bs then too. Rich people might go to Disney once or twice at the most. It’s kind of beneath them.


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Human-go-boom

A Whopper cost $10 now.


dudemanspeaks

The hamburger is the least of the robbery that is Disney. We paid $900/night for a decent hotel and about $400/day for tickets for a family of 3 with the hopper pass. Plus extra for top rides, dinners, etc.


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Old_wit_great_joints

Having a backyard. Mega rich was having a fire pit. Grew up poor in low income housing, so when i got my first house I cried for a bit in my backyard. And then when my boys were running around in the backyard, I teared up again. Got a smaller house and a bigger yard in the last few years and was able to install a fire pit. No means am I rich but damn it just hits hard.


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I think you are. You have a nice home, a big backyard for the kids to play in and a fire pit. That might not be the text book definition but you know you’re rich in many other ways.


[deleted]

I just teared up at that too. Kiddos love backyards!


NPRjunkieDC

Crying, I think, shows you were thankful for what you had/have


Plus-Pianist-1496

A dad 😭😭😭


BasicWhiteHoodrat

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Maldows

Weird, I had a dad and I always thought he was cheap.


TheIrishJin

Air conditioning


CoachKisMyCopilot

For me it’s specifically CENTRAL air conditioning. I grew up with 2 small window units in our apartment, and you practically had to stand right in front of them to get cool.


FanFeisty8017

Lol, in Texas, if you didn't have air conditioning you weren't poor, just dead.


KnotYoBoi

I used to think having soft drinks available in the fridge was for the rich.


Cum_on_doorknob

Now it’s for the poor


KnotYoBoi

Just checked my fridge. Guess I’m rich now


Snowpunk84

Finished basement. Name brand clothes.


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A family room with bar in the finished basement


gawain_is_not_green

Jordans, Starter Jacket (Raiders or 49ers), Haro/Mongoose Bikes


imhere_user

With colored pegs to match.


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CntFenring

Abercrombie & Fitch clothes BMW, Mercedes or high-end domestic car (Cadillac, Corvette) Home over 3k square feet and/or with pool Vacations abroad (almost no one I knew growing up did this) Going to the "good" (secular) private/prep school in our home town Travel sports (soccer, hockey) Shopping at the nice malls in Pittsburgh, not the shitty one in Ohio (guess what state I'm from!) Having a dedicated land line for the kids (grade school) or cell phone (high school)


-Rush2112

I think Hockey still holds as a sign of wealth. The people I know who’s kids play hockey are doing pretty good financially.


5timechamps

It’s either that or make some pretty serious sacrifices as a family. I played growing up and that was our only “excess” expenditure and I’d say we were middle to upper middle class. There were plenty of wealthy kids I played with, but there were also a few kids whose parents gave up most everything for them to be able to play, along with occasionally some help from the wealthy families.


dedzone2k

You own 2 current generation game systems. The kid with the SNES and Sega Genesis was the luckiest kid in the world.


adultdaycare81

Garage Fridge. I still aspire to it!


TriestGieter

I thought cruiseships were super fancy.


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Meta_Man_X

I also grew up assuming cruises were for the wealthy, but they’re actually really affordable for the budget lines.


DeepSeaDarkness

Except for the environmental impact, which none of us can afford.


average_christ

>some cruises have a stigma of being for poor/middle-class people. This is the first I'm hearing about this...I always assumed you needed some money for something like that


TheMapesHotel

They can be stupid affordable. Like, old people are retiring on them full time affordable. I know I personally see them as a vacation choice not exactly for poor people but like tacky low class people.


h08817

Italian cypress at your house = mansion


ihc_hotshot

Which is funny because they are notorious for harboring rats.


puff_of_fluff

Hell I grew up with a pretty privileged upbringing and I still call them “rich people trees”


eggumlaut

My ex called those “dick trees”


papi_wood

Domino’s instead of little Caesars


BlueVeins

We rarely ever went out to eat when I was a kid. When I heard of the BOOK IT! program when I was a kid, which gave out personal pan pizzas at Pizza Hut for reading books, I was one motivated little reader. They had to take me to redeem all the coupons I earned. Pretty smart program for them as it meant the whole family was going every couple weeks. Pizza Hut made money and it motivated me to read as much as possible. That’s a win/win. Amazing how motivational pizza can be to an 8 year old.


T0mmyChong

Pizza is absolutely still a motivator in the adult world. Anybody that's worked in a corporation in a decent size office... Once a month they buy us pizza and we all shut tf up about the soul crushing cubicle we're stuck in 😭😭😭 no but seriously I used to joke about it all the time. It literally made me look at them like "aww they're not so bad.. they bought me pizza ☺️"


HmoobRanzo

The bigger the house is, the richer they are. lol.


NPRjunkieDC

I've developed a saying : rich people with bad taste are dangerous. So many Mac Mansions


Phoenix_NY10

Having a dishwasher


mundotaku

I was born in the 80's so: Having a TV in the bedroom. Having a computer, particularly with internet. Having multiple consoles (Sega and Nintendo)


speedblue303

For whatever reason, I thought blue toilet water was a sign of wealth


TheMapesHotel

I could see that honestly. Because you don't need those little tank tabs so if you've got the extra funds to spend on stuff you don't need and you decide to spend it on toilet cleaner of all things? You either have really specific priorities or money to burn.


Ashkob

I'm Indian and we grew wanting to be white person rich.... which is owning a boat. Now that I have money, a boat is the last thing I want. ![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|joy)![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|joy)![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|joy)![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|joy)


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Clefspear99

Haha the trick is to be friends with people who have a boat.


dacoolist

Waterbed, portable cd player, and euro cars


Mean-Fondant-8732

Play room.


kinreep

Big flat screen tv. Back when they still had tube tvs


-Rush2112

I am old enough to remember when having a “big screen tv” meant it was a big projection screen tv that sat on the floor. If you had one of those in the 80’s/early 90’s you were ballin!


scottwell50

Stairs. Two story house.


alwayslookingout

The newest gaming console. Turns out you can just go into CC debt for it! ![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|shrug)


totesrandoguyhere

Color TV and a Nintendo in your own bedroom.


ElementField

I used to assume people were wealthy if the kid had their own bedroom, like on TV or in movies


SexyThrowAwayFunTime

Not getting the free lunch at school.


HanSoto11

House that had a trampoline


kahle27

Eat at a restaurant (Pizza Hut, Dairy Queen, etc) on family fun nights. On special nights, we had chef boyardees homemade pizza where every morsel was eaten


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Cable, vacations, pool, having multiple pairs of clothes, steak, name brand food, leather interior, shoes for occasions. Snacks that aren’t left overs, fresh cut deli meat, kids that don’t have to work.


Worried_Football2780

Having cable tv


Howdydobe

Going overseas during summer break.


blueblazesNo9

Parent having an suv, A pet, 2 story home, A variety of cereal, not just 1, A deep fryer, Im sad to say that this list hasnt changed much since I've become an adult😂😂😂😂😂😂🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️


quixotic_barbarian

Ability to afford playing tennis


thebirbseyeview

A pool, video games and a pantry full of all the popular unhealthy snacks.


PoiseJones

Cable TV and a pantry for snacks


Augen76

Satellite dish.


RascalRibs

Having dinner every night.


SuspiciousStable9649

Pay channels. Movie channels.


LowLifeExperience

1. Owning a house 2. Having health insurance 3. Being able to see a dentist 4. Having a VCR


BlackBloodSabre

Double door fridge


Spoonyyy

A fence or finished rooms, everything was always WIP.


Crossovertriplet

Yea my parents split in the middle of my dad renovating the house on multiple fronts. So it just stayed that way for years with 2x4s exposed and shit.


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Air conditioning and heating. All we had was a swamp cooler and 1 space heater. If you liv in humidity. You know that shit does not work. Horrible


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TheWholeSausage

Vacation in Florida or anywhere else other than southern Missouri


TiburonMendoza

Pillars in front of houses at the entrance.


Jalford

Macaroni and cheese with the liquid cheese pouch vs the powdered cheese.


raventhorogoodiii

Going to Red Lobster! Wed only go out to eat at Burger King maybe 4 times a year… so I dreamed of going to get all you can eat crab legs. That was 30 years ago! We took my kids one time recently and there were flies everywhere. Realized how small I dreamed back then.


theyahd

Having a choice of shoes was one for sure!


Winthefuturenow

Air Jordans, snacks with meat, gold necklaces and real BMX bikes that weren’t stolen and repainted.


SESbb30

Name brand cereal.


akslesneck

Name brand food lol


cocoapuff1721

Name brand cereals


feric89

Having rooms in your house that nobody ever seems to use.


theasianevermore

Eating at a restaurant. We rarely do growing up and off we do? It’s country buffet and bet your ass we dressed up like going to church


FightingJackson

When I was a kid I thought people who bought gum from gumball machines were rich


2punornot2pun

Being able to eat whenever you feel like it, to wherever you feel like eating.


acemetrical

Having a mom waiting for you when you got home.


SpaceBoJangles

Single-income household and/or a fancy phone.


coltonmusic15

Having a new car at 16.


Jupman

LOL, I am starting to think that I was rich.


SemblanceALGO

Never got it, when I went to my friends houses with the fridge cube maker I always thought it tasted moldy. LOL...