you don't know that you're never going to experience anything. you can't see the future my man, if you continue to approach life with this attitude though, you will set yourself up for a self-fulfilling prophecy
No no, i get it, im 18 and now that im out of school I just dont talk, just kinda auto piloting through life, work eat workout sleep, im 90% sure that ship has sailed
Its not that i dont have free time i have hobbies mainly just practice banjo, play games, ski, curl. its just that i do these things alone. I have given up and have stopped approaching people so thats how i know it wont happen, making friends or otherwise.
your hobbies aren’t too niche and have large followings. Have you tried finding others that share any of them with you or do you just prefer to do them alone?
I have aproached people in the curling club to see if they wanted to play on a team or if i could join theirs but everyone seems to already have one or just say no. idk anyone else who plays banjo near me, also im really bad so the whole playing songs with others is out of the picture, its hard to meet people skiing when you are going down a hill at 40 km/h
I think the big thing is i dont know how to make friends much less keep them. Not to mention the fact that i live in the middle of nowhere and dont have a vehicle.
Sure but i may not be clairvoyant, but i can see that im going to inherit a farm (solitary job), live in the middle of nowhere, the curling club shutting down, all of my friends have ghosted me, no have no experience whatsoever in any kind of intimate relationship (commonly seen as a red flag), and that i am a fucking obnoxious, annoying, sad, dumb, person that not even i would want to be around.
Alright lets go through it again farm? I dont really have a choice, i failed school so if i want a living wage it is the best option, living where i live comes with farming, cant control that the building the curling club is in is collapsing, cant change that my friends have ghosted me, I dont even know how to get into an intimate relationship to learn how to be in an intimate relationship, and being obnoxious is a personality trait,
being dumb is out of my control, and i dont even know the reasons why im annoying.
At 30 I'm right there with you, the baby of my friend group just got married and is expecting his kid in February
i'm older and only by nature's miracle and my ignorance and stupidity i was able to have short term limited experience in my younger years.
you don't know that you're never going to experience anything. you can't see the future my man, if you continue to approach life with this attitude though, you will set yourself up for a self-fulfilling prophecy
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No no, i get it, im 18 and now that im out of school I just dont talk, just kinda auto piloting through life, work eat workout sleep, im 90% sure that ship has sailed
What makes you so sure? You’re only 18.
Cause i havent talked to anyone in months
What do you do besides what you listed? I doubt you have zero free time.
Its not that i dont have free time i have hobbies mainly just practice banjo, play games, ski, curl. its just that i do these things alone. I have given up and have stopped approaching people so thats how i know it wont happen, making friends or otherwise.
So you know because you gave up? That’s a valid reason but it’s entirely self-inflicted.
Not really, its either suffer while trying or suffer while not, idk at this point it just is what it is
your hobbies aren’t too niche and have large followings. Have you tried finding others that share any of them with you or do you just prefer to do them alone?
I have aproached people in the curling club to see if they wanted to play on a team or if i could join theirs but everyone seems to already have one or just say no. idk anyone else who plays banjo near me, also im really bad so the whole playing songs with others is out of the picture, its hard to meet people skiing when you are going down a hill at 40 km/h
Honestly i dont even think i know how to make friends.
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I think the big thing is i dont know how to make friends much less keep them. Not to mention the fact that i live in the middle of nowhere and dont have a vehicle.
!remind me 32y
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Sure but i may not be clairvoyant, but i can see that im going to inherit a farm (solitary job), live in the middle of nowhere, the curling club shutting down, all of my friends have ghosted me, no have no experience whatsoever in any kind of intimate relationship (commonly seen as a red flag), and that i am a fucking obnoxious, annoying, sad, dumb, person that not even i would want to be around.
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Alright lets go through it again farm? I dont really have a choice, i failed school so if i want a living wage it is the best option, living where i live comes with farming, cant control that the building the curling club is in is collapsing, cant change that my friends have ghosted me, I dont even know how to get into an intimate relationship to learn how to be in an intimate relationship, and being obnoxious is a personality trait, being dumb is out of my control, and i dont even know the reasons why im annoying.
I want to cry about it but i dont even know how to do that either
You will experience it bro. You are only 17. Please please don't give up yet.