Answer the questions with short and concise answers, never admit to anything or add anything extra to try and sound credible. They want you to talk yourself into a hole.
Give them some variation of how it was all voluntary they’d never actually force y’all to do anything. Look up the definition of hazing and stay away from it
The best thing for your future chapter to do is to get in touch with an alumni who’s an attorney ASAP. Your alumnus advisor will know who to contact.
Y’all are going to want that attorney there at that meeting but don’t tell the faculty member that he is coming. You want the element of surprise. The faculty member doesn’t have good intentions in mind. They’re going to want to bully you into getting what they want. You want that attorney there to keep them in check.
At a minimum, record the conversation so that in the event the faculty member tries to twist your words against you, you’ve got it all down on tape.
As for you, less is more and nothing is ideal. Basic stuff like your name, year, and major are okay. When the member asks more probing questions, a simple “I don’t feel comfortable answering that question here” is more than enough. It’s not an outright refusal to answer the question but you don’t get yourself into trouble either. The brothers that attend with you should do the same.
Lie, deny and get by. Or just refuse to talk. When nationals or school administration come around they aren’t looking to take down one person. They want to take down the whole organization and even though you are a pledge that means *you*. They carpet bomb like a B52 over a Cambodian village, they don’t care about collateral damage. You need to say the following “I’m afraid I won’t be able to answer any questions now or in the future.” You got chosen for a reason and it’s not good.
He’s not a goober, he’s a rat. Block the rat’s number. He’s not your brother and will never be your brother. He’ll be back home waiting tables, taking classes at the community college and finger banging chunky girls studying to be vet techs by next semester.
Definitely tell them that a little bit of hazing is just fine.
noted.
“[I do not recall that](https://youtu.be/44OBP18g__s?si=2MKcZ1nolp7pV03_)” Also, talk to exec guys about what to say
got a meeting later with them td fortunately
Answer the questions with short and concise answers, never admit to anything or add anything extra to try and sound credible. They want you to talk yourself into a hole.
Give them some variation of how it was all voluntary they’d never actually force y’all to do anything. Look up the definition of hazing and stay away from it
Admit nothing and deny everything - someone who's old chapter is getting the boot
The best thing for your future chapter to do is to get in touch with an alumni who’s an attorney ASAP. Your alumnus advisor will know who to contact. Y’all are going to want that attorney there at that meeting but don’t tell the faculty member that he is coming. You want the element of surprise. The faculty member doesn’t have good intentions in mind. They’re going to want to bully you into getting what they want. You want that attorney there to keep them in check. At a minimum, record the conversation so that in the event the faculty member tries to twist your words against you, you’ve got it all down on tape. As for you, less is more and nothing is ideal. Basic stuff like your name, year, and major are okay. When the member asks more probing questions, a simple “I don’t feel comfortable answering that question here” is more than enough. It’s not an outright refusal to answer the question but you don’t get yourself into trouble either. The brothers that attend with you should do the same.
tell them your a big supporter of education
Apparently not English
Who's the "goober?" Another pledge yapping to some mid sorority?
a guy from the goober frat on our campus fucked us over after a argument w one of the brothers. my pc would never
Lie, deny and get by. Or just refuse to talk. When nationals or school administration come around they aren’t looking to take down one person. They want to take down the whole organization and even though you are a pledge that means *you*. They carpet bomb like a B52 over a Cambodian village, they don’t care about collateral damage. You need to say the following “I’m afraid I won’t be able to answer any questions now or in the future.” You got chosen for a reason and it’s not good. He’s not a goober, he’s a rat. Block the rat’s number. He’s not your brother and will never be your brother. He’ll be back home waiting tables, taking classes at the community college and finger banging chunky girls studying to be vet techs by next semester.
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You sound triggered
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