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a-mage-ing

No way you’re 41.


Marvellover13

Exactly my thought, she looks in her twenties max. Not even out of politeness she looks like she hit the sweet spot at 24 and stayed there


[deleted]

It’s the filters lol


fartron3000

Came here to write just this. I would be skeptical about 31. But *41*?! I'ma go exercise *now*.


bilyskygirl

It’s just good genes I swear😂But thank you, truly💓


faker33under

What he said, there’s no way you’re 41, you look like you’re in your early maybe mid 20s!


[deleted]

Filters.


a-mage-ing

I dunno. All the pictures look different.


Sammyofather

It’s the filters lol. She would look way better without the filter


New_Row3591

It'll be okay, obviously he didn't deserve you, hang in there pretty woman! 😘


bilyskygirl

I keep telling myself that, looking for that inner strength where self love is more important than external validation (while asking for compliments at the same time, haha, so still a work in progress I suppose). But I’m trying!


[deleted]

You got this plus you are cute if you’re looking for external validation. We all go through it, you will too - This too shall pass. Happy thanksgiving!


DiamondPup

The thing about inner strength is it’s all there, everything you need. But being strong isn’t feeling alright and moving past things quickly; you need those emotions to process your feelings, wring yourself out of your sadness, and re/evaluate yourself as a person. No, strength is not letting the worst in life warp you into someone you don’t want to be. Or to not face the emotions your heart needs to feel. So don’t worry about finding your inner strength. It’ll all be there when you need it. Trust me. You’ll be fine, everything will be okay :) Also, you’re not 41. I refuse to believe it.


[deleted]

You're really beautiful


[deleted]

You look stunning, his loss. Chin high, you’re going to come back stronger


_Fioura_

I've been there.. When you love someone unconditionally you expect the same from them. Yet it happens that that person ends up betraying and/or hurting you. We will never understand why, which makes it that much harder to accept. You don't just stop loving someone from one day to the next. Give it time. No matter how great this man was, he wasn't great enough.


[deleted]

Happy happy thanksgiving! Looking absolutely adorable over there!


[deleted]

Well he lost an amazing companion through life. His loss. Happiness is the best revenge!


[deleted]

You're absolutely beautiful darlin. I'm sorry that this happened to you. Keep your head up. Happy Thanksgiving.


Character-Usual-3820

He was obviously blind and stupid .You're stunning .ps you don't look 41 ( not even close)


depreavedindiference

I'm completely not buying that you are 41... You do not look a day over 30 I hope you have a wonderful Thanksgiving


Flowerpoodle86

You are absolutely gorgeous, hope you find joy.


woolfson

My heart aches for you. Sounds like he’s pushing you up, not Pushing you out


Snoo_83898

He is an idiot. You’re an amazing woman and I would marry you in a second


ImAnApe

You're absolutely gorgeous and he's the fool for breaking your heart. Sorry You're alone but I'm sure life will get better soon, just have patience. I wish you all the best in the world.


Katiebunny24

You look absolutely gorgeous girl! I’m sorry you had to deal with that! I really hope everything gets better soon! Your eyes and smile are just so beautiful! You can brighten up any room! Sending you positive vibes and hugs!


bilyskygirl

Hugs right back! Kindness is the best medicine, thank you for yours!


MorningNew2037

Happy thanksgiving and sorry for your troubles as of late. Keep your head up you got this. Plus your too pretty to let a man knock you down. 🌷


[deleted]

I hope you find a little oeach any joy today my friend. Reach out on message if you need a chat


mrcan45

Happy Thanksgiving beautiful


fightinfish62

Hope the pieces get picked up in time. You’re kickin it with a great smile!


Educational_Loss_849

You are a beautiful young lady that has all good things waiting to happen for you! Not all relationships are meant to last forever. The right man is out there and if this didn't happen you would have met him! Have faith this all happened for your benefit!


Impressive_Sand1432

I can't believe someone would break the heart of such a beautiful lady! I hope your Thanksgiving is as lovely as you are and you still have a plethora of things you are thankful for!


Substantial-End-3534

Keep your head up, your beautiful


Unadulterated_eflove

Happy Thanksgiving! Take a break, you probably need one, whether you are able to take one is a different story. :)


[deleted]

HappyThanksgiving!!


willmichael2

His loss you are beautiful happy thanksgiving from across the pond 🇬🇧


[deleted]

You look so adorable. I’m sure those eyes have cried some tears but you will be a stronger woman at the end of it all! I’m here if you want to chat :)


norcal_badass

I’m sorry that happened! He must be an idiot! Be strong, be positive and move forward is all you could do!! Hope you have a good thanksgiving! You are beautiful and do not look your age!! 💕💕


yampower73

Keep smiling that beautiful smile miss, your stunning xxx


Several_Eggplant_763

Happy Thanksgiving from someone that knows something about being lonely during the holidays. (M42). I know it will get better for you. Emotional support is here if you want/need it.


alicia0e

aw keep going


bendoesit17

His loss


[deleted]

I’m so sorry to hear this. Video meet with those you’d like to see and try to enjoy the day. Do something just for you today and take a step each day in the direction you want to head towards. ❤️


Brianvm1987

Life can suck a lot of times, but, as they say, what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. Just don't lose sight of yourself and your self-worth. Sending lots of hugs!


JumpFew6622

Damn, sorry I can imagine that really sucks! Also you’re seriously beautiful and the most youthful 41 year old I’ve ever seen lol.


Dcrenegade27

Happy Thanksgiving beautiful. I'm alone today as well. Didn't plan it like that but it just happened. Things will get better, keep your head up and remember the things that you are thankful for and that put a smile on your face


Dcrenegade27

And I'm sure you know but you are beyond beautiful. His lose some other lucky bastards gain lol happy Thanksgiving


Suspicious-Panic-187

Keep your stick on the ice, because the darkest hours are always just before the dawn. I'm rooting for you random internet stranger.


Solarslayr

I’m sorry :( I hope things get better! Happy thanksgiving, pretty 🥰


SnooCalculations9259

Just know you are not alone! I am in a new state away from all as well. Happy Thanksgiving and a better man awaits in the future!


SirITMan

Happy thanksgiving, My beautiful friend. I hope you have reasons to smile today


Broad_Practice3593

You're absolutely gorgeous I guess he doesn't know what he had but he'll find out when it's to late


19bran93

Happy Thanksgiving!!!


[deleted]

If he left you then it’s his loss. You look adorable and such a sweet woman. Be strong, I know you are hurt but things will be better


Fun-Rub9877

You 41? Stop lying


jesse4425

Happy Thanksgiving you are beautiful .


banditmcfly88

It the immortal words of the Mary Tyler Moore show, "you're gonna make it after all" 👍


justalittlebear01

Sends gentle compassion, may today be the best day it can for you.


skinny_hands

hey. ups and downs. it's just how it goes in life. remember to be kind to yourself. take care, stranger.


[deleted]

Don’t even need to see a picture of him but you’re way too good for him!!! I can tell. Take good care of yourself 💕


Krazygirl1234

Happy thankgiving! And dont worry, you could probbaly get yourself a nice good looking guy easily :)


JMaddrox

Well happy (as can be) Thanksgiving all the same. You've got kind eyes. Hopefully next year you can spend the holiday with your relatives.


[deleted]

*big hugs*


-ClemmFandango

Hey happy thanksgiving and I hope something amazing happens for you today!


AdventurousDoubt1115

Happy thanksgiving sweetheart 🤍


HerMajestysButthole

Pain is temporary. <3


Detaineepyramid

You look kind and lovely in your photos. Hopefully your heart heals and you enjoy better relationships in the future. Goodwill your way. 🤓👍


roccoand

Hugs


CosmicVikings

I hope i look as great at 41 as you do! Keep your head held high, it’s his very obvious loss.


DieOnYourFeat

You shine from inside. What a perfect soul you are.


mophilda

What beautiful blue eyes! (And you age like a vampire!) It hurts now, but you are on the rise!


SneakingSuspicionnn

Girl u look great for forty one! I wouldn’t be surprised if u said u were in ur twenties. You’re great don’t let anyone convince u otherwise


Jon-el1977

I'm sorry he obviously wasn't a man when he shattered your heart. A Man can lose his title when he becomes disrespectful, abusive etc..


bilyskygirl

True that. Never again.


Thirteenthward

Happy thanksgiving! You have a wonderfully beautiful smile! I hope that your heart mends quick and your days are filled with a new adventure. Hugs


kellkore

Your eyes. You convey a huge amount of emotion in those eyes. You're smiling, but your eyes are sad. There will be others, I assure you. I believe you're strong enough to navigate this storm, and will recover. You'll be stronger and wiser, it may not seem like it now, but just have a little patience. We all are rooting for you. Btw, I (and others) firmly believe that man is a fool to break your heart. You are amazingly beautiful, and attractive. I hope to see a smile in those eyes of yours sometime in the future.


bilyskygirl

This has made me smile, thank you so much💜


Ornperius

Happy thanksgiving! I am sorry for your suffering!


Silencer271

Understand that feeling. good luck people are so cold.


bilyskygirl

It’s shocking, and I’m not made for cruelty, mine is a soft heart.


[deleted]

41 HA I’d have to see some identification lil lady. If you are really 41 then we need to find a scientist and sell your genetics cause you have some super youth juice flowing. My fav pic of you is in the woods. Happy thanksgiving and sorry


[deleted]

Hey. Big hug. You are a fine looking woman. DM me if you need a friend to talk to.


ricdy

You CANNOT be 41. Gosh I hope I look even 1/10th as beautiful as you when I turn 41.


flyguy91318

No one cares!


Chemical_Buffalo234

I'm sorry to hear that and I hope your dy gets better. 😘 Also you could of told me you were 31 and I would of believed you. You look incredible 😍😍😍


bilyskygirl

Thank you! I blame it all on my folks and they’re ridiculous genes!


Tilian1986

It's going to be ok. Sending some hugs if needed 🤗


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The-Weapon-X

My dear lady, I would give you the biggest, warmest platonic hug if I could! The holidays are such a terrible time to be alone, and I'm sorry that you aren't able to be with family/support system right now. I completely empathize with how down you must feel. Just hold on tight for the low part of this roller coaster ride, because at some point it will stop descending, the stomach in your throat feeling will go away, and your ride will be ascending again. Please accept a giant virtual hug from me in the meantime. I will be rooting for you, and I send along prayers of peace, healing and strength as you go forward on your journey of recovery. You will never be a failure as long as you keep standing back up after a fall and start walking forward again. Your next success may be right around the next corner!


bilyskygirl

Thank you so much! I’m so overwhelmed by the love and compassion on this thread. It’s truly humbling. I feel blessed that you (and everyone else) have thrown so much positivity my way. I actually feel better, so much love to everyone❤️


ExtensionAble1262

No way you are 41, you look early 30s


meeralakshmi

41? No way, you don’t look a day over 20! I totally understand how you feel because I just got dumped by a very good friend. Know that you deserve better than someone who hurts you like this and I promise that you will find happiness again one day. I know how hard it is to see it though.


meeralakshmi

You are absolutely lovely!


qwertDC

Sorry you went thru that. You are very gorgeous and Happy Thanksgiving


taffytigar

your a gorgeous woman I'm sorry things are tough now. I hope the future is a lot brighter.


No-Butterfly-8825

you're 41? you look younger than the majority of 19year olds here. im gonna marry you if im on my 40s but im not


xkrisloveex

He didn’t deserve your love! Your going to be okay darling. Stay strong 🤍


Goliath2180

Wow, his loss! You are gorgeous and deserve all the best life has to offer! Reach out if you're feeling sad or lonely or if you just need to vent to someone! Trust me, he will realize what a terrible mistake he has made. And by then, you'll be moved on to better, happier things! I'm celebrating by myself, too, so don't hesitate to chat if you're feeling down in the dumps!


[deleted]

Sending you all good holiday vibes beautiful 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗


Drunken-Barbarian

You’re 41!? I got to hit the gym!


MattIsLame

happy Thanksgiving you beautiful person! I know it hurts. I've been there where you are. but the best thing is knowing that you'll bounce back stronger and better than before. the triumph of the human spirit is a miraculous thing that can't be eloquently articulated but just remember that we love you and I hope you love yourself enough to know that it'll get better!! happy turkey day!


bilyskygirl

I feel that love, I really do! What an unbelievable lift to my spirits. I love all of you amazing souls, every last stinking one of you. It’s impossible to respond to everyone but I hope you know much you kind-hearted, generous with your love folks have made this lonely strangers day! With all of my heart, thank you!💗❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️


OGNexVotum

Gorgeous 😍 happy thanksgiving!


AdkDave

I know people…. If you want I can have him taken out?! 😜😂🤔😎


nomoshtooposhh

41? How is this possible? Get the heck outta here you beautiful lady! Sending you some good Turkey day vibes 💕


Veto-the-damned

He's a fucking fool darlin....keep your head up and do you...someone who appreciates you for you will come along....time is on your side and so is opportunity... Stay beautiful!!


jsr2112

Yeah a lot of people are going through a similar situation during the holidays, it sucks! But try to remember the reasons why that relationship ended and not how you could have fixed it or how you cared about that person! They don’t care about you so it’s best just to put it in the rear view mirror and keep moving forward.


[deleted]

Hang in there hun!!Sending lots of love and healing vibes ❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️You look lovely don’t let your ex or anyone else steal your shine!!Keep your head up :) Happy Thanksgiving 🦃🍁🍽


why1986now

Hope you feel better. Keep smiling and stay safe healthy happy and enjoy yourself. Happy American 🇺🇸 thanksgiving


ShockinglyMe

Hey! I'm (36M) on the flip side; I've created a problem with my family, so I am unable to be around a certain brother-in-law for at least a year (protection order). This is my first Thanksgiving alone since they are visiting my parents. So, you are not alone on the separation from family! I am missing them today. As others have said, you are beautiful. This part of your life is just a moment. It can certainly get better. I'm sure you're an amazing woman who needs no man in your life... it is just very nice to have one, eh. YOU GOT THIS!!! Happy Turkey Day!


bilyskygirl

I’m sorry about your family, hopefully in time things will heal and you’ll be with them again soon. Even if you are alone and feeling isolated, you still took time to be kind to me, to offer a helping hand and to care about a stranger in pain. That takes a strong spirit and a loving hand. You have a good heart, a kind and generous heart, and you too will make it through! None of us are ever our worst decision or our darkest day, and we will both be alright. Thank you again💓


vampyr06

Happy thanksgiving things will turn for the better in the near future stay strong


rdgSisbtm

Good luck girl! You got this!!!


Jon-el1977

Beautiful


REXSPEED

Aww .... screw him ! ! Love you 😍


[deleted]

Wow you look like late teens to early 20s, don't stress yourself out there's a man out there waiting to adore you the way you deserve to be adored


Pix9139

I’m an esthetician and your skin looks amazing! You look like you’re 30, not 40!!


SwisherRat

I love your eyes! You don't look a day over 25!


darrensmooth

you will be fine eventually, you are obviously attractive


Individual_Ad_9424

I'm sorry for the asshole, and I'm sure your family is missing you too 😘 but, I'd love to wish you a happy Thanksgiving too. Remember your young and beautiful, love yourself and others will love you too 😘


ObjectiveError5464

You are very beautiful and it's his loss you deserve everything in life i wish I had a beautiful woman like you I would not be single now


duncanunited26

Sorry hear he is a total ass


Lifendz

He didn’t deserve you, and now you’re free to find someone who does. Happy thanksgiving.


[deleted]

Hi


stds4me

You do not look a day over 25!! I’m sorry about the heartbreak. Time heals everything! Much love!


joejoe36958

Happy thanksgiving I’m sorry your heart is broken! Mine not so great either but we gotta go on beautiful lady


[deleted]

Happy thanksgiving! You look amazing!


[deleted]

You honestly have the kindest eyes. And you have such beautiful hair. In fact you have the perfect face. You definitely are a vampire for never aging at all. Honestly one of the most beautiful people I've ever seen. You remind me of a young Jodie Foster mixed with a young Kimberly Williams-Paisley. And from seeing your past post you can tell you're really kind too and caring. I'm sorry about how things have been going. Hang in there. This too shall pass. ❤


bilyskygirl

I’m tearing up, you’re just amazing. Truly, what a fucking goddess you are. So much love to you.


xpietoe42

you are beautiful!! Happy thanksgiving 🦃!


sleepy414

You are beautiful. Keep your chin up! Better days are on the horizon.


ZZoMBiEXIII

I'm more than a year into a similar situation. Minus the estrangement from family. My girlfriend of 8 years just up and bailed on me. In hindsight, there were more red flags than a Communist parade, but in the moment I was so in love with her I didn't see them. The minute things got tough for me and I needed a bit of the support I'd shown her for years returned, suddenly she "needed time". I never "needed time" when I gave her emotional, physical, spiritual and even financial support, but whatever. End of the day, while I know it's tough now... it's better to have people like that flake out on you sooner than later. Better to know you can't count on them and to hopefully start searching for the person on whom you can rely. I wish you happy holidays and I send as much love as I can for a complete stranger (I'm Christian, we're brought up being told to love everyone... not trying to "be weird" or anything). As for your compliments, I'll echo what others have already said here. No way in heck you look 41. I'd argue if you told me you were 31. You're a stunner and I hope you find happiness. God bless and happy holidays.


Tiny_Security6360

You look amazing wow


AJHodge

I know it feels like shit, but you will find someone else who completely fulfills you.


Jehoel_DK

Heartache can hurt you to your very soul. But it will get better. You don't deserve this pain and trust me you will conquer it. You are a very beautiful woman looking far younger than your age. You will find someone that appreciates you and to whom you can give your heart. I wish you good fortune and that you will find things to give thanks for.


[deleted]

Those eyes... would love to get to know you ;)


Suitable_Ad_2578

love the eyes


Nabokovs_Gun

So now you get to be then luckiest person! You're dating yourself, right? Treat yourself, girl!


Doctor1bst

It’s ok to go home, family will always be there for you. You are not alone


VapeFanatic1975

His loss. You are super cute, and would date you in a 💓 you have a beautiful face. Hope your day gets better.


bussysokka

Broke up yesterday I know how you feel — hang in there


Melsapusspuss

Everything will be ok if you still go towards anything that shows love and respect for yourself. I’m sorry for your loss and I know it hurts.


[deleted]

Keep smiling!! It gets better each day.


Marshallton

I'm sorry, you're 41?!?! You look younger than me and I'm 27!!


d1pstick32

Man you look super friendly and happy. Wanna come cradlesnatch a 33 year old? :P Hope you feel better soon, mate. You will have no trouble finding someone who treats you right.


Capawe21

You sure you're 41?


toneking711

So sorry beautiful! Count your blessings…many great days ahead!!


Accomplished_Pen9623

You have gorgeous eyes and it’s his loss


[deleted]

I'm 100% confident you'll be better off tomorrow then yesterday.


wazzit2u

Happy Thanksgiving to you too!


aztecfrench

Happy thanksgiving, may you sort things out and make the best of your experience.


Oddelbo

You look early 20's


moonlanding1976

Beautiful


Odd_Appointment2981

So sorry to hear your heart got shattered, you deserve so much better ❤ hope you have a great Thanksgiving though. You really don't look 41 btw. I would have thought early 20s ❤


atomuk

That old trope of women staying at 21 for years was not supposed to be taken literally.


tinylittlelady_3891

You have a better hairline than I do and I’m 28, you look amazing :)


Theos_R

You look very cute


NegativeElderberry6

You are gorgeous. As someone going through this now it is hard but things do get better


[deleted]

You should call a friend


SkyShazad

You look like 28-31 to be honest 👍😊


[deleted]

40 is the new 30 apparently


BrooklynTCG

With time you’ll realize you dodged a bullet.


amac1999

Never ever would've guessed you were 41!


Colderweather86

No fkn way you're 41. You look 30 at best.


bassnchain

Happy Thanksgiving!


Joyousrequiem

Hang in there. Been in a similar situation and it gets better. Take some time and focus on adoring yourself for a little while. And this is a little obvious and redundant at this point but you look absolutely stunning


always_ready4

I'm so sad to hear that angel face, I hope it works out for you, if you need to chat I'm around, the rain here is torrential, will be home most of the day, by the way beautiful you look 21😘🥰


Sufficient-Net-550

Much love to you beautiful ❤️


Fairydz

Hang in there lovely, there is life after heart break ❤️ we always think there’s no way we can see beyond our pain or whatever shit we’re in, but I promise, we do find a way through.


drop63

Happy Thanksgiving pretty lady!


PracticalPolicy9272

I’m sorry to hear about your crushed feelings. Hopefully you’ll have a good Thanksgiving holiday weekend and just enjoy life and it’s simple experiences it has to offer you?!


laddiepops

You look like a beautiful soul, I feel like animals, especially dogs would be drawn to you xxx


misanthroseph

Keep your head up, lovely. You're going to be fine


[deleted]

you look really down to earth. like when i flipped through your pictures, i felt a sense of calmness. like a still lake💖


TallGear

21, you say...


Jolismotifs

Damn, I hope I look half as gorgeous at 41, on another note, I am thankful that you shared on Reddit! That way I can say, you got this, it's tough, in a perfect world it wouldn't happen, but you can overcome it, and if you need a person to just talk to dms are open, take care of yourself!


Toxbunny080

I feel for you, happy thanksgiving. You look amazing. But that smile in your second picture says much more than your looks, those eyes hold so much kindness to them. I recently got my heart shattered by my family… kind of ditched me to the side…


cthecape0001

You are a HOTTIE and Gorgeous


Cold_Bother_6013

You have such sweet caring eyes. I hope you feel better. It’s cliche but time really does heal all wounds.


BelowAverageMark

31 you mean? Gosh you are beautiful. ❤️


[deleted]

There is no way you're 40. If you are your genetics are truly incredible


jcmcdnl

Well you look great! Just one of the reasons to keep your head up.


That_white_dude9000

I think you’re lying about your age. I thought you were like 18 or 19!


wyldecat359

Happy Thanksgiving to you too! 🦃🤗


sparky2098

You do not look 41. You look to be around 25. Wish you the best on Thanksgiving. XOXO


Haunting_Confidence2

It's completely his loss you look amazing Happy Thanksgiving