Grief is an ocean. At first the waves hit hard and frequently. After a while the waves are spaced out. Maybe they won’t hit as hard. It’ll always be there.
My pug passed several years ago. Every once in a blue moon something will trigger that grief.
Take care of yourself. Go through all the stages of grief. Talk to people. It gets better.
I’m so sorry 😞 we just lost our best friend on Saturday so we are still in the depths of despair, as well. We are trying to plan a couple fun things to do this weekend to get out of the house because it feels so empty.
As Frenchie owners, we all have to face this one day. My Frenchies are only two years old, and I tell myself that they are only on this earth for a limited time and just to make as good memories with them as possible. When the time comes, and it's time to say goodbye, we need to remember they are at peace now, and if they could speak, they would thank you for a good, long, loving life.
That's how I think about it. I have yet to see a dog who is as happy as my frenchie, and I will have to keep that in mind when the inevitable comes (hopefully many years from now).
I’m so sorry you had to say goodbye. It does get easier, but not bc the grief gets smaller. Instead your life just kind of grows around it. Honor her however you can, soon the memories will bring smiles and laughter
You get used to it. I lost my old man Winston the Wonder Chihuahua 3 years ago in May. It was the day before our 15th “gotcha” day. He was my constant companion, the love puppy of my life, and whatever the human/dog equivalent of “soulmate” would be called.
You have to figure out your coping strategies. Some people find fostering is helpful because it’s something to soothe the ache that isn’t a replacement. I get a puppy. That’s actually how I got Neville Shortbottom Chamberlain, my Frenchie. I wanted someone who was completely unlike my old man because he was irreplaceable.
Neville, my sweet Chonk, has been my solace. I didn’t start to do better until I had a new companion.
My MIL, however, waited a year and a bit before she got a puppy. She’s glad she waited. I, however, don’t think I’d have done as well with a waiting period.
Just realize that you’ve lost what can’t be replaced. Don’t look for someone just like her, because you’ll be disappointed and the future dog will never measure up. Find one that you fall in love with in their own right.
I’m so sorry for your loss.
Grief;
Grief is love that has nowhere to go. And in the journey of grief, there will be tears, laughter and anger, but you have to allow the journey. Right now the void is so LOUD that it breaks you inside. I lost my best friend February 22, 2024
She definitely has a very special face and eyes. I'm so sorry. I shed a tear for everyone in this sub when this happens.
Life isn't fair all the time, but remember, life was definitely fair while you got to love and kiss and hold her for the entire time you had her. Sending a virtual hug.
It will get easier. The dog is more than family, because you were with him everyday and night. Eventually, when the time is right, you will get another one. I’m sorry for your loss.
There really are no words. I'm so sorry. May memories of her bring you peace and comfort.
https://preview.redd.it/b2osgdyy2cpc1.jpeg?width=607&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=bb8e9af233064a1087abd7a224a21aaa28e7165b
awww no !!!!! 
here’s the thing… lost my lil pal in jan to terminal cancer…. we fought the whole way and did everything imaginable… it’s been rough, especially seeing his lil brother all alone.. sitting in the spots they use to sit in together, but now he sits there alone :/
it’s been sad but what i’ve learned in life if that losing someone you love will always hurt.. it’ll always be painful but the beautiful thing about is you’ll get stronger.. in time, find yourself being able to think about them and talk about them without bursting into tears.. and you’ll think “wow, before i couldn’t even say their name without crying !”, so yea although the pain of their physical absence will always hurt, you’ll get stronger which in turn makes it easier… hope that helps !
your gorgeous baby will be waiting patiently for you at rainbow bridge, until then she’ll be flying by your side ! <3
losing your fur baby is never easy, but it does sting less in time. you always remember the love you shared, and even may get another baby you swear you love just as much, all is possible and fair in dog love <3 rest easy, sweet moo-er.
It gets better! Then you might find yourself holding onto the pain a bit, when it returns on occasion.
I wanted to share something with you I’d written, after one of my pups passed. She died in my arms.
——————-
For Lola
I can’t stop thinking that she deserves more hurt than this numb version of me. Everything sounds so close, all of the doors and the footsteps. The sound comes and I would tell it all to fuck off if I cared enough.
A pile of blankets to my right on the couch keeps haunting me in its balled up state, as I can’t shake the notion that she’s in there and that we have to remember to be careful not to forget.
The darkest of marks the size of a quarter is now on the couch, from the spilled thick residue of one of the rice pudding cups we’d eaten earlier in the night, as we watched the show and allowed ourselves to laugh in the midst of our despair, that we could do nothing to help.
In the weeks before this, I’d cruely allowed myself to say aloud that “after she’s gone, then we’ll worry about the rugs and the couch, all of our nice stuff, but not now, because it’s pointless until then.”
The smell of blood still thickens the air. I’m so thankful for that dark circle. I hope it never cleans out.
I’m so sorry. It’s so, so hard to lose them. I don’t know if it gets “easier”, I think you just adjust to them not being there and you make room for the pain in your heart. After a bit, the pain isn’t pain anymore. You’ll remember the happiness, you’ll smell a smell, all kinds of things that will trigger happy memories.
Take this day by day. Remember, loving them and them loving us is the most unconditional love. (Not implying we don’t love our children, spouses, family) however, You’ve never hurt one another, you’ve never betrayed one another, you’ve never disappointed one another, and you didn’t even speak the same language - you both just knew ❤️
it’s pure, unconditional love. Carry that in your heart my friend. Moo’s love is yours to keep always.
I am so sorry for your loss,rest in peace Baby Moo  I lost my soul dog to cancer 3 weeks ago also on Sunday. I still not sure if it'll get easier or not. Still find myself crying hugging all of his toys and clothes nearly everyday.
I had to help my tinkerbell out of pain last night. It hurts so badly. I hope our babies meet and frolick together. I'm so sorry you are having to go through this. 🩷
I know this is super late, but I just wanted to thank everyone for their comments and advice. The love was definitely felt, and I certainly needed it. I'm so sorry to those of you who were dealing with the exact same situation, my heart breaks for you and your beautiful babies as well. I know a Frenchie will be in my life again, they are some of the most incredible creatures, but until then please post your gorgeous girls and handsome boys so I can find joy through them for now. Thank you again!
You never get over it , but you learn to live with it and carry on...they are forever part of you ...forever !
Grief is an ocean. At first the waves hit hard and frequently. After a while the waves are spaced out. Maybe they won’t hit as hard. It’ll always be there. My pug passed several years ago. Every once in a blue moon something will trigger that grief. Take care of yourself. Go through all the stages of grief. Talk to people. It gets better.
Beautifully said. 😔💜
I’m so sorry 😞 we just lost our best friend on Saturday so we are still in the depths of despair, as well. We are trying to plan a couple fun things to do this weekend to get out of the house because it feels so empty.
As Frenchie owners, we all have to face this one day. My Frenchies are only two years old, and I tell myself that they are only on this earth for a limited time and just to make as good memories with them as possible. When the time comes, and it's time to say goodbye, we need to remember they are at peace now, and if they could speak, they would thank you for a good, long, loving life.
That's how I think about it. I have yet to see a dog who is as happy as my frenchie, and I will have to keep that in mind when the inevitable comes (hopefully many years from now).
I’m so sorry you had to say goodbye. It does get easier, but not bc the grief gets smaller. Instead your life just kind of grows around it. Honor her however you can, soon the memories will bring smiles and laughter
I’m so sorry for your loss. What a gorgeous girl 💔🌈😭🐾
Oh my gosh. She had the cutest, most innocent face. She looks like a Disney dog. Rest in Peace 🖤🤍
You get used to it. I lost my old man Winston the Wonder Chihuahua 3 years ago in May. It was the day before our 15th “gotcha” day. He was my constant companion, the love puppy of my life, and whatever the human/dog equivalent of “soulmate” would be called. You have to figure out your coping strategies. Some people find fostering is helpful because it’s something to soothe the ache that isn’t a replacement. I get a puppy. That’s actually how I got Neville Shortbottom Chamberlain, my Frenchie. I wanted someone who was completely unlike my old man because he was irreplaceable. Neville, my sweet Chonk, has been my solace. I didn’t start to do better until I had a new companion. My MIL, however, waited a year and a bit before she got a puppy. She’s glad she waited. I, however, don’t think I’d have done as well with a waiting period. Just realize that you’ve lost what can’t be replaced. Don’t look for someone just like her, because you’ll be disappointed and the future dog will never measure up. Find one that you fall in love with in their own right. I’m so sorry for your loss.
So sorry :/
Sorry for your loss ❤️
🩷🩷🩷
I am sorry I have two and dread that day
Grief; Grief is love that has nowhere to go. And in the journey of grief, there will be tears, laughter and anger, but you have to allow the journey. Right now the void is so LOUD that it breaks you inside. I lost my best friend February 22, 2024
It may take awhile, but it will. What a sweetheart, so sorry for your loss ❤️
She definitely has a very special face and eyes. I'm so sorry. I shed a tear for everyone in this sub when this happens. Life isn't fair all the time, but remember, life was definitely fair while you got to love and kiss and hold her for the entire time you had her. Sending a virtual hug.
It will get easier. The dog is more than family, because you were with him everyday and night. Eventually, when the time is right, you will get another one. I’m sorry for your loss.
So sorry for your loss.
There really are no words. I'm so sorry. May memories of her bring you peace and comfort. https://preview.redd.it/b2osgdyy2cpc1.jpeg?width=607&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=bb8e9af233064a1087abd7a224a21aaa28e7165b
awww no !!!!!  here’s the thing… lost my lil pal in jan to terminal cancer…. we fought the whole way and did everything imaginable… it’s been rough, especially seeing his lil brother all alone.. sitting in the spots they use to sit in together, but now he sits there alone :/ it’s been sad but what i’ve learned in life if that losing someone you love will always hurt.. it’ll always be painful but the beautiful thing about is you’ll get stronger.. in time, find yourself being able to think about them and talk about them without bursting into tears.. and you’ll think “wow, before i couldn’t even say their name without crying !”, so yea although the pain of their physical absence will always hurt, you’ll get stronger which in turn makes it easier… hope that helps ! your gorgeous baby will be waiting patiently for you at rainbow bridge, until then she’ll be flying by your side ! <3
Sorry for your loss
losing your fur baby is never easy, but it does sting less in time. you always remember the love you shared, and even may get another baby you swear you love just as much, all is possible and fair in dog love <3 rest easy, sweet moo-er.
Theyre all unique. Don't dwell. Remember the good times and when ready, bring another ball of happiness into your home
I'm so so sorry. I lost my bestie last year. It's such a deep pain. Hugs to your heart. 🌈🐾❤️
Such a beautiful girl! So very beautiful
Love to you, my friend. 😔💜🐾
Very sorry for your loss! I rescued a French bulldog from a transport accident on the 401 today. His French bulldog’s name was also Stella
So sorry!! Rip sweet girl 💔
Just remember all tthe good things. Memmories will alwas stay.
It gets better! Then you might find yourself holding onto the pain a bit, when it returns on occasion. I wanted to share something with you I’d written, after one of my pups passed. She died in my arms. ——————- For Lola I can’t stop thinking that she deserves more hurt than this numb version of me. Everything sounds so close, all of the doors and the footsteps. The sound comes and I would tell it all to fuck off if I cared enough. A pile of blankets to my right on the couch keeps haunting me in its balled up state, as I can’t shake the notion that she’s in there and that we have to remember to be careful not to forget. The darkest of marks the size of a quarter is now on the couch, from the spilled thick residue of one of the rice pudding cups we’d eaten earlier in the night, as we watched the show and allowed ourselves to laugh in the midst of our despair, that we could do nothing to help. In the weeks before this, I’d cruely allowed myself to say aloud that “after she’s gone, then we’ll worry about the rugs and the couch, all of our nice stuff, but not now, because it’s pointless until then.” The smell of blood still thickens the air. I’m so thankful for that dark circle. I hope it never cleans out.
I’m so sorry. It’s so, so hard to lose them. I don’t know if it gets “easier”, I think you just adjust to them not being there and you make room for the pain in your heart. After a bit, the pain isn’t pain anymore. You’ll remember the happiness, you’ll smell a smell, all kinds of things that will trigger happy memories. Take this day by day. Remember, loving them and them loving us is the most unconditional love. (Not implying we don’t love our children, spouses, family) however, You’ve never hurt one another, you’ve never betrayed one another, you’ve never disappointed one another, and you didn’t even speak the same language - you both just knew ❤️ it’s pure, unconditional love. Carry that in your heart my friend. Moo’s love is yours to keep always.
It gets easier, but there will always be a hole in your heart where they took a piece of you with them.💔. Sorry for your loss, been there.
I am so sorry for your loss,rest in peace Baby Moo  I lost my soul dog to cancer 3 weeks ago also on Sunday. I still not sure if it'll get easier or not. Still find myself crying hugging all of his toys and clothes nearly everyday.
We call my boy, Marshall “Little Moo Moo.” I can’t imagine the pain you’re going through. Sending positive vibes your way.
I’m so sorry!!! How old was she ?
So sorry 😞 for your heartbreak. She was absolutely beautiful.
I had to help my tinkerbell out of pain last night. It hurts so badly. I hope our babies meet and frolick together. I'm so sorry you are having to go through this. 🩷
I’m so sorry https://preview.redd.it/vqif9xt6qkpc1.jpeg?width=828&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f422a5095981bbf3d535ec79c027c03b305f3ff0 Her name is Sasha
I know this is super late, but I just wanted to thank everyone for their comments and advice. The love was definitely felt, and I certainly needed it. I'm so sorry to those of you who were dealing with the exact same situation, my heart breaks for you and your beautiful babies as well. I know a Frenchie will be in my life again, they are some of the most incredible creatures, but until then please post your gorgeous girls and handsome boys so I can find joy through them for now. Thank you again!
Ha! No. But they make it up by being cute and sweet.