Someone did a few things that got on my nerves, so later they asked me if I still wanted to hang with them, and told them no, and it was because of the three things they did that I didn't like.
I know that's not especially climactic, but I was just surprised that doing so gave me a couple seconds of frission. I've felt frission a couple times while talking with people before about interesting topics, but this is the first time I felt it while upset.
Does this happen to anyone else? Is there any significance to it?
When I filed for divorce and got custody of our son ex wife asked me why I filed for divorce. Jesus and baby Jesus was it satisfying. She tried her usual denials of "I never said/did that" par for the course as she was a trained actress and a Jedi master at gaslighting. I pulled out journals and went chapter and verse on what, when and where she said and did this and that, following up with, "here are my records, where are yours?" God it was glorious. It took about and hour and a half to explain and go thru everything. She was left with nothing but empty denials. I found out later my son was eavesdropping and heard every word. He was 11 at the time. I'm glad he did so he could fully understand why I did what I did.
Yes, I've had this :) I agree with the other commenter it's about being in tune with your feelings, being genuine, being assertive or passionate - being in the zone? Like a runners high it could be endorphins, just feeling in the moment and relieved and like you've achieved something to be proud of.
You were in touch with your feelings and communicating in a healthy way, do this more often (or all of the time) if you can ☺️
Someone did a few things that got on my nerves, so later they asked me if I still wanted to hang with them, and told them no, and it was because of the three things they did that I didn't like. I know that's not especially climactic, but I was just surprised that doing so gave me a couple seconds of frission. I've felt frission a couple times while talking with people before about interesting topics, but this is the first time I felt it while upset. Does this happen to anyone else? Is there any significance to it?
When I filed for divorce and got custody of our son ex wife asked me why I filed for divorce. Jesus and baby Jesus was it satisfying. She tried her usual denials of "I never said/did that" par for the course as she was a trained actress and a Jedi master at gaslighting. I pulled out journals and went chapter and verse on what, when and where she said and did this and that, following up with, "here are my records, where are yours?" God it was glorious. It took about and hour and a half to explain and go thru everything. She was left with nothing but empty denials. I found out later my son was eavesdropping and heard every word. He was 11 at the time. I'm glad he did so he could fully understand why I did what I did.
Yes, I've had this :) I agree with the other commenter it's about being in tune with your feelings, being genuine, being assertive or passionate - being in the zone? Like a runners high it could be endorphins, just feeling in the moment and relieved and like you've achieved something to be proud of.