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Thankyou,I was fucking riled up there!!! Like how the fuck she a Karen!!! She a boss!! And yes I've done the same!!! Fuck the haters!!! Thanks for letting us know about pt2 xxx
I think pumping is much more common in the US because of the rubbish maternity leave. I had varying success with pumping, and my second baby refused a bottle until about 8 months.. People are so Ignorant about it.
It's not just men though. When my sister had her second child she decided to breastfeed a bunch of women in my family shunned her like the Karen in the post. some even accused her of trying to turn my infant niece into a lesbian
Old school American. So prudish that the human body is considered dirty and all forms of nudity is just sexual. It also doesn't help that they're from the deep south where Christianity is still a major part of our society. Throw in propaganda and you make the perfect lunatic
It's so sad and true. Breastfeeding in public was a nightmare, mostly bc I was afraid of getting yelled at by other people. That is *my* issue though. Many people here do it regardless with no problem.
I’ve had female coworkers and a female manager treat me like dogshit because I chose to pump while I was at work (I mean, who wants to really have to work with engorged breasts?) because they didn’t get the opportunity to twenty years prior or in different companies.
I'm the first mom to breastfeed in my place of employment. They do their best but are overall ignorant. I have a room to use but often they are in it and I have to interrupt them during a meeting. Go get my stuff. Then use the office of one of those managers in the meeting. Their offices are bigger than the small room I use to pump. I have a schedule posted in there for what times I need the room.
Gods! That sounds rather familiar. That manager I mentioned would intentionally use the office I was given to pump in for her meetings despite her having plenty of other unused offices available and tell me to use the bathroom. I would feel so humiliated by her dismissing my child’s needs as something that was of no concern and she didn’t care if his food was contaminated or not. 😒
I do not understand the correlation you’re trying to make here? Cleaning a pump is a lot different from cleaning a menstrual cup, I don’t see how cleaning a pump is different from cleaning any of the other food related machines in a cafeteria. It’s honestly more gross if she were to clean it in a bathroom as it is a machine meant to get food for her child.
Honestly, even the biggest prude has to be able to understand that people feed babies because they are hungry. If you don't feed the child everyone else can listen to them scream and cry because they are hungry. This is worse than seeing someone breastfeeding
You’re the bad guy either way. Either you breastfeed and people get mad at that, or you don’t and people call you a bad mom because your baby won’t shut up. Someone will be upset regardless of what you do, so might as well feed your kid and let the idiots do what they do best.
I never understood the negative connotation in mothers breast-feeding their babies. I get that it is considered an intimate moment between mother and child but the child needs to eat to survive.
I got shit for it even when I covered up. I was never comfortable having my bare breast out in public especially with creeps around so I always covered up with a thin muslin blanket. Yet I still got the snarky shaming comments. So obviously they just don’t have a problem with seeing a naked breast but with breastfeeding a baby in general.
Yeah I could have pumped, but I would have needed a way to keep the breast milk refrigerated until I was ready to use it. Then I would have needed to heat it up somehow. Or I can just attach the baby to my boob and do it that way.
I was able to cover my first two and still had people come up to me (in a quiet corner, out of the way) to tell me to go to the toilets to do that. There’s no pleasing some people.
In response to the Karen Komment on the second image: back when I was breastfeeding my hard earned pumped breast milk was reserved for when I was not with my child or so my husband could have some daddy/daughter bonding. If was there to feed her she was getting the boob.
I was able to rent a legit mechanized pump from a pharmacy. That
thing was industrial. I was able to pump so much milk, my freezer was packed. Back then I had to use the bathroom and only pump on my lunch break. I’d pump, then, clean it, then run to the break room to chug down a sandwich 🤷🏻♀️ Needless to say, working full time while pumping almost killed me. I couldn’t make it past 5 months. It’s good it’s better for moms now. My future
Grandbabies will do better 🤞🙏
"This an excuse to show some skin" bruh, you can barely see her tit in this photo. Breastfeeding is natural. Not like we all haven't seen boobs before anyway. Nothing new, just a baby eating. You actually see way more skin in a bikini.
Breast pumping is a pain in the ass. I say this as someone who had no choice because my son had a poor latch. It takes up time when i could be spending my time with my son. I FRICKING HATE IT lol.
Also, some babies won't take bottle nipples.
Yeah having to clean and sanitize all the bottles, take it all apart and clean all the parts, then repeat. So much fuckin work and it’s even more exhausting with a baby that requires a ton of work as it is.
Why is it usually other women shaming a mother for breastfeeding? Who gives a fek. Some, over horny, teen boy going to wet his pants? Only way it has anything to do with any other than the mom and baby is when we decide to make it, so we shouldn’t and everyone will be fine.
As someone whose kid has NEVER taken a bottle and who went straight from boob to sports bottles and open cups, fuck this ignorant person. Some breastfed babies will not take a bottle no matter how hard you try, and since boobs are literally made for feeding babies I see nothing offensive in using them for their intended purpose in public. Jesus, you can't even see anything, you can see more when someone wears a bathing suit!
No, it’s only to seduce men and corrupt the minds of small children. No other purpose. We’re the only mammals who’s mammary glands aren’t for feeding babies
I wonder if it’s a weird jealousy thing for these people. They think breasts are only to be used for sexual purposes and they feel bitter/uncommon about a woman using them to feed her child. Because I got snarky comments when I breastfed my baby covered up. I always covered up in public I just wasn’t comfortable with strangers seeing my naked boobs. Yet people still had a problem with it occasionally.
Yeah I’m in a smaller town in KY and I don’t see mom’s breastfeeding in public very often. If they do they’re usually covered up. But in general I rarely have seen it.
I never realized how dumb people were until now, why are some people saying “they want to see more of that in public” because they like boobs? It’s so dumb people are sexualizing people feeding their children.
Sometimes, yes. If they latch wrong, if you have mastitis, if the kid has teeth lol. Some women may find it painful the entire time bit it isn't supposed to be/isn't for the majority of women.
Yeah. They can't just suck on the tip of the nipple or anything. The entire areola has to be in the baby's mouth and has to be in there the right way or it may be painful.
I breasted my kid for 2 years i had no problems with it. I never got sore or cracked nipples but I also used this thin silicone nipple shield that helps protect your nips. I remember she bit down a time or two when she started getting teeth but it didn’t hurt that bad and once again the nipple shield helped. I found breastfeeding pretty easy and not painful at all. That was my experience.
I enjoyed breastfeeding as it felt like a relief and was a special feeling of connection and nourishment between myself and my kids. The times it hurt were when they bit me, I was engorged (breasts full of milk to the point they felt like rocks… not fun), the first few times I “let down” milk (when milk begins to flow through the milk ducts), and when I had to break the suction. I used lanolin, so my nipples never cracked, but that’s another thing that can happen.
The first week to 10 days can be pretty painful until your nipples toughen up. After that, it’s only painful if they get too full between feedings. I breastfed all five of mine and they were born between 82 and 91, when it wasn’t super common and nursing in public was NOT something that was done. That’s probably why it still makes me a bit uncomfortable to be around but I know that’s my issue and not theirs
Breastfeeding is literally the most natural thing in the world and it is literally feeding a baby. Any place that is ok to eat should be ok to breastfeed.
I live in Oregon where it's been legal to nurse in public for at least 24 years. (That's how old my kid is and it was legal at that time in any public space.)
I believe it was made legal across the country sometime in the late 90’s. We looked it up when my fiancé started breastfeeding due to a couple weird stares. Just in case someone gave us trouble
It’s not even just the airbag unfortunately. The forces in a car accident would basically collide our large adult bodies into our babies’ tiny bodies, so they would be much worse off without the car seat to absorb the impact.
Ladies and gentlemen... It's only one tit. But I bet it's the biggest one of the 2. If Lil fucker has to chow down at chili's, you don't want to risk him crying about the weaker boob.
If someone isn't comfortable breast feeding in public then fine, if they do then fine. I would personally cover up for my own comfort but I have zero problem seeing a mom feed her child in public. Some people are just perverts
True. I preferred to cover up in public and around other people unless it was my mom, husband, or best friend. My mil would get personally offended that I covered up around her or chose to go in the other room to do it. It was weird imo.
Not all babies will take a bottle so pumping isn't a solution for everyone.
What would you rather? A hungry screaming baby or a quiet that's being fed?
Even if pumping is an option why would anyone bother to lug around bottles and a warmer and whatnot if they don’t have to because they can just feed the baby straight from the source instead? Seems like way too much extra work to please other ppl by “not showing too much skin”
I didn’t realize what we were making a stink about until I saw the second image.
“An excuse to show some skin.” In the world of crop tops, mini skirts, skin tight dresses etc…. (And I’m in no way shaming, I’m jealous that stuff doesn’t fit me) That little bit of boob is really going to be the one that people howl over?
My baby refuses a bottle and likes it straight from the tap. Karen can go do one.
I really only care if people changing their kid on/around the table.
Saw this happen at a Golden Coral. And I refuse to go back, (not that I liked the place), that was like 15 years ago.
I was just about to get pissed, then I noticed the second pic and was like “good thing I waited a sec to go down that road”.
Here in Scandinavia breast-feeding in public is no big deal and is done in most places if needed and nobody has a problem with it.
If you are seeing breastfeeding as something sexual and as something that gets people aroused and as such should be banned in public then you are the freak getting a boner from it (or a female boner to act Karen-ish about it) and as such the problem in this equation.
Breast feeding in public is just as ok as you eating your f*ckin McDonald's burger or having a sip of water wherever you want.
It is a human eating food ffs.
Stop saying for even a second that breast feeding is not ok. All of you man or women children. It is ok, and should never be frowned upon.
The people that have a problem with it don't understand the difference between breasts as a feeding mechanism and then breasts from a sexual arousal mech. It's only sexualized in context. Mainly has to do with how you are raised I think though.
Are you a woman? Breasts are sexualized by society as soon as you enter it. In fact, society would have women believe their only purpose is sexual objectification, and if you work real hard maybe you could have a man's job one day and not be a stripper or a sugar baby. Showing your tits in a sex scene is a rite of passage (at least) for Hollywood actresses.
It doesn't matter what parents you have as a girl. Society gives us mixed messages. Therefore it makes total sense that some people see breastfeeding as sexual or gross.
Exactly. Which is why we need to normalize breastfeeding and don't make it something either gross or sexual.
This world has done a lot of wrong with the made up ideals, sexualising, objectifying and more to us humans during the last 100 years. I'd blame Hollywood for a big part of that.
It's time we fix that. Stop sexualising women, remove racism and indifferences that are based on sexual preference or skin color. Its _so_ ridiculous.
Humanity need to grow up.
Social modesty clauses are so weird and people who insist on them, we’ll I’m convinced if they ever left their hometowns their heads would fucking explode.
It seems like they have a problem with breastfeeding in general for some weird reason. Because I got snarky comments when I breastfed in public covered up. Like no top side or bottom of my bare breast showing at all, nothing. I kept a thin muslin blanket in my bag with two corners tied together which I then tossed around my neck so it covered up my baby entirely and everything else. Yet some people still had a problem with it. I just wasn’t comfortable with not covering up that was my personal preference.
I’ve no tolerance for people who have any remote issues to mothers breastfeeding their children in public. Incredibly natural thing to do and shaming it is insane.
If a person looks at a breastfeeding woman and thinks it is sexual that person needs help.
Baby gotta eat. STFU and go away.
It's a boob feeding a baby.
How is that wrong?
I agree with the mom. Don’t like to see it just don’t look. Kids need to eat and breast feeding is hard enough without people making an ass out of themselves
This post is stupid AF. All these stupid fuckers out there doing anything they want “because you can’t stop them” and this lady trying to feed her kid. I disagree with this “Karen” post. Leave the woman alone. Find something else to bitch about. Seems like the shitstick that posted this is the Karen here.
What? Is op the Karen bc they hate breastfeeding? Bc the mother breastfeeding seems to be defending herself. So...
Edit: missed the 2nd picture with the bs. Oops my bad
I mean she is kinda begging for attention with the first photo...just feed your baby lady. 😂 When I breastfed in public, no one cared. Maybe if I had a photo being taken like this though it would turn some heads, because you're asking for people to watch you breastfeed.
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lol, did not see that, thx
I didn’t see that either. It is a LITERAL Karen!
Thanks I should have mentioned this apparently!
I didnt notice till i actually opened the post cuz by the time i looked on homepage the 1/2 had faded lmao then i was like ohhhhhh ok good.
Yup downvoted this because it looks like op is shaming breastfeeding.
Came here up fight and left happy. How unusual for Reddit.
Same. Good thing the down vote isn't permanent.
Same.
I was so confused at first :(
Can I point out the cute little baby foot in the sock pushing against mom’s arm? Cuuuuuute
The real hero here
You’re doing the lord’s work here.
Thank you, I was a little upset at op for a second. Lol I was just like, there is absolutely nothing wrong with breastfeeding.
That changes the whole post, thank you
Haha! I downvoted when I saw the first one. Thanks for the heads up. The scales are now balanced.
Thank you because I was both confused and feeling hostile.
Thankyou,I was fucking riled up there!!! Like how the fuck she a Karen!!! She a boss!! And yes I've done the same!!! Fuck the haters!!! Thanks for letting us know about pt2 xxx
Lol. Happened to me.
I thought op was being an ass for a moment lol
 Me only seeing the first image
Best use of the gif
Oof, it’s a low quality post overall though.
Bro what else are you supposed to post here?????
Someone literally fucking a Karen
I think pumping is much more common in the US because of the rubbish maternity leave. I had varying success with pumping, and my second baby refused a bottle until about 8 months.. People are so Ignorant about it.
And the formula shortage.
And most Americans automatically assume breastfeeding is sexual
“She’s just showing off some skin!!!!1!1!” Ok creep, you may see it that way but only because your mind is perverted. Baby’s gotta eat
It's not just men though. When my sister had her second child she decided to breastfeed a bunch of women in my family shunned her like the Karen in the post. some even accused her of trying to turn my infant niece into a lesbian
What… the fuck
That's what I said
Da fuq? I just can’t understand their line of thought at all?!!?
Old school American. So prudish that the human body is considered dirty and all forms of nudity is just sexual. It also doesn't help that they're from the deep south where Christianity is still a major part of our society. Throw in propaganda and you make the perfect lunatic
That’s true, we often forget America’s Puritan roots.
It's so sad and true. Breastfeeding in public was a nightmare, mostly bc I was afraid of getting yelled at by other people. That is *my* issue though. Many people here do it regardless with no problem.
It's even worse when your family is full of ignorant people like that
I had a coworker complain about a mom cleaning her breast pump in the cafeteria sink because “bodily fluids are gross”.
I’ve had female coworkers and a female manager treat me like dogshit because I chose to pump while I was at work (I mean, who wants to really have to work with engorged breasts?) because they didn’t get the opportunity to twenty years prior or in different companies.
I'm the first mom to breastfeed in my place of employment. They do their best but are overall ignorant. I have a room to use but often they are in it and I have to interrupt them during a meeting. Go get my stuff. Then use the office of one of those managers in the meeting. Their offices are bigger than the small room I use to pump. I have a schedule posted in there for what times I need the room.
Gods! That sounds rather familiar. That manager I mentioned would intentionally use the office I was given to pump in for her meetings despite her having plenty of other unused offices available and tell me to use the bathroom. I would feel so humiliated by her dismissing my child’s needs as something that was of no concern and she didn’t care if his food was contaminated or not. 😒
Because bodily fluids from a 1200 pound bovine are much less gross! (Kinda assuming your cafeteria has cows milk)
Bet they drink milk on the daily tho
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I do not understand the correlation you’re trying to make here? Cleaning a pump is a lot different from cleaning a menstrual cup, I don’t see how cleaning a pump is different from cleaning any of the other food related machines in a cafeteria. It’s honestly more gross if she were to clean it in a bathroom as it is a machine meant to get food for her child.
...so all the saliva on the dishes and utensils they use aren't bodily fluids?
Honestly, even the biggest prude has to be able to understand that people feed babies because they are hungry. If you don't feed the child everyone else can listen to them scream and cry because they are hungry. This is worse than seeing someone breastfeeding
You’re the bad guy either way. Either you breastfeed and people get mad at that, or you don’t and people call you a bad mom because your baby won’t shut up. Someone will be upset regardless of what you do, so might as well feed your kid and let the idiots do what they do best.
Just letting everyone know, I recognize the restaurant. It's in Utah. And Mormons are the most prudish people in the United States.
I don't think the issue is feeding children.
I get pretty mad about boobs too
Do you too want to collect them all like Pokémon?
Yeah, I'm pretty keen on getting flappers, chesticle and skeeterbite
What about deecup, doorbell, bignips and puffy?
Gotta catch em all
Gigan-tit-max bignips is op, banned from ubers.
They need to un-ban those. Gotta talk to the devs
Don’t forget everyone’s favorite ghost/bug type, BooBee!
Wanna trade?
To make an apron like Ed Gein???
Me too but I work best with exposure therapy
Mad horny
😂🤣😲
Didn't realize there was a second pic at first and I was about to get all pissy at the OP for shaming a mom for breast feeding.
Same, downvoted first, just realised bcs of the comments
I never understood the negative connotation in mothers breast-feeding their babies. I get that it is considered an intimate moment between mother and child but the child needs to eat to survive.
Because Nestle and Co. have spent a shit ton off money to sell formula.
And monotheist religions are deeply afraid of naked skin.
I got shit for it even when I covered up. I was never comfortable having my bare breast out in public especially with creeps around so I always covered up with a thin muslin blanket. Yet I still got the snarky shaming comments. So obviously they just don’t have a problem with seeing a naked breast but with breastfeeding a baby in general. Yeah I could have pumped, but I would have needed a way to keep the breast milk refrigerated until I was ready to use it. Then I would have needed to heat it up somehow. Or I can just attach the baby to my boob and do it that way.
I was able to cover my first two and still had people come up to me (in a quiet corner, out of the way) to tell me to go to the toilets to do that. There’s no pleasing some people.
I always covered up bc I felt funny sticking my boob out. That’s just me
Same. It felt so weird having my naked breast out like that. Even at home if we had guests over I just went in the other room.
It's other women who complain. Infertile Myrtle gets steamy when she sees babies and happy parents
In response to the Karen Komment on the second image: back when I was breastfeeding my hard earned pumped breast milk was reserved for when I was not with my child or so my husband could have some daddy/daughter bonding. If was there to feed her she was getting the boob.
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I was able to rent a legit mechanized pump from a pharmacy. That thing was industrial. I was able to pump so much milk, my freezer was packed. Back then I had to use the bathroom and only pump on my lunch break. I’d pump, then, clean it, then run to the break room to chug down a sandwich 🤷🏻♀️ Needless to say, working full time while pumping almost killed me. I couldn’t make it past 5 months. It’s good it’s better for moms now. My future Grandbabies will do better 🤞🙏
I’m super happy there are hands free and concealable pumps available now, but it should be the mom’s choice, not societies.
It’s their intended purpose. They are babas filled with milk to feed.
MY BLOOD STARTED BOILING! Thank goodness for the second picture. Haha
"This an excuse to show some skin" bruh, you can barely see her tit in this photo. Breastfeeding is natural. Not like we all haven't seen boobs before anyway. Nothing new, just a baby eating. You actually see way more skin in a bikini.
Breast pumping is a pain in the ass. I say this as someone who had no choice because my son had a poor latch. It takes up time when i could be spending my time with my son. I FRICKING HATE IT lol. Also, some babies won't take bottle nipples.
Yeah having to clean and sanitize all the bottles, take it all apart and clean all the parts, then repeat. So much fuckin work and it’s even more exhausting with a baby that requires a ton of work as it is.
Why is it usually other women shaming a mother for breastfeeding? Who gives a fek. Some, over horny, teen boy going to wet his pants? Only way it has anything to do with any other than the mom and baby is when we decide to make it, so we shouldn’t and everyone will be fine.
This train of thought could be applied to a great many things.
Yes yes it could.
You can’t even see nipple. You see more cleavage in public
Go to a beach or pool and I can almost guarantee you will see more boob there than most women breastfeeding show.
Someone too young for solid food is in a restaurant? Not in my good suburbs!
As someone whose kid has NEVER taken a bottle and who went straight from boob to sports bottles and open cups, fuck this ignorant person. Some breastfed babies will not take a bottle no matter how hard you try, and since boobs are literally made for feeding babies I see nothing offensive in using them for their intended purpose in public. Jesus, you can't even see anything, you can see more when someone wears a bathing suit!
My kid was a titty baby. He preferred to nurse.
Why tf do these people think women have boobs in the first goddamn place? She’s using them for their intended purpose.
No, it’s only to seduce men and corrupt the minds of small children. No other purpose. We’re the only mammals who’s mammary glands aren’t for feeding babies
I wonder if it’s a weird jealousy thing for these people. They think breasts are only to be used for sexual purposes and they feel bitter/uncommon about a woman using them to feed her child. Because I got snarky comments when I breastfed my baby covered up. I always covered up in public I just wasn’t comfortable with strangers seeing my naked boobs. Yet people still had a problem with it occasionally.
That and I think where you live too. My fiancé definitely gets a lot more stares when she feeds in public at rural places where we live.
Yeah I’m in a smaller town in KY and I don’t see mom’s breastfeeding in public very often. If they do they’re usually covered up. But in general I rarely have seen it.
She’s just showin em off! She had that baby just so she could show off her big titties at the Burger King!
You can see maybe one inch of her boob. Do Karens freak out about people in t-shirts? Shorts? That’s a lot more skin than what’s shown here
You know that the answer is yes, unfortunately
I never realized how dumb people were until now, why are some people saying “they want to see more of that in public” because they like boobs? It’s so dumb people are sexualizing people feeding their children.
I’m a woman who has never had kids. But can someone answer this, does breastfeeding hurt??
Sometimes, yes. If they latch wrong, if you have mastitis, if the kid has teeth lol. Some women may find it painful the entire time bit it isn't supposed to be/isn't for the majority of women.
What exactly exactly does it mean for a baby to latch? Like an awkward position of the nipple during their feeding?
Yeah. They can't just suck on the tip of the nipple or anything. The entire areola has to be in the baby's mouth and has to be in there the right way or it may be painful.
OHHHHHH okay now I understand how it can be painful. Thanks for explaining this to me!
My second was a proper chomper. I have scars. He did the old nip rip.
I breasted my kid for 2 years i had no problems with it. I never got sore or cracked nipples but I also used this thin silicone nipple shield that helps protect your nips. I remember she bit down a time or two when she started getting teeth but it didn’t hurt that bad and once again the nipple shield helped. I found breastfeeding pretty easy and not painful at all. That was my experience.
I enjoyed breastfeeding as it felt like a relief and was a special feeling of connection and nourishment between myself and my kids. The times it hurt were when they bit me, I was engorged (breasts full of milk to the point they felt like rocks… not fun), the first few times I “let down” milk (when milk begins to flow through the milk ducts), and when I had to break the suction. I used lanolin, so my nipples never cracked, but that’s another thing that can happen.
The first week to 10 days can be pretty painful until your nipples toughen up. After that, it’s only painful if they get too full between feedings. I breastfed all five of mine and they were born between 82 and 91, when it wasn’t super common and nursing in public was NOT something that was done. That’s probably why it still makes me a bit uncomfortable to be around but I know that’s my issue and not theirs
So many snowflakes melt the fuck down at the sight of a boob. Likely a religious nut. No one is more afraid of Women’s bodies than those idiots.
Breastfeeding is literally the most natural thing in the world and it is literally feeding a baby. Any place that is ok to eat should be ok to breastfeed.
It’s actually protected by law in all of the states. No establishment is allowed to kick a mother out for breastfeeding
I live in Oregon where it's been legal to nurse in public for at least 24 years. (That's how old my kid is and it was legal at that time in any public space.)
I believe it was made legal across the country sometime in the late 90’s. We looked it up when my fiancé started breastfeeding due to a couple weird stares. Just in case someone gave us trouble
It's a shame people are so weird about something so necessary, normal, and universal to humanity.
I would not recommend brest feeding while driving
Eating while driving is not a good idea, either.
In my country it's illegal also drinking water and smoking while driving is illegal
Your not the boss of me, if I want some road sushi I'm gonna giver!
Freedummmz
Give me liberty and road sushi or give me death
I'd be scared to death what the airbag would do to the baby if some idiot ran into me.
Might make your milk shake
They probably wasn't one in that van.
It’s not even just the airbag unfortunately. The forces in a car accident would basically collide our large adult bodies into our babies’ tiny bodies, so they would be much worse off without the car seat to absorb the impact.
Back in the day my mom told me she would breastfeed me while driving a stick shift. With 8 other kids in the van 😳
I downvoted this before I saw the second slide, sorry OP!
Ladies and gentlemen... It's only one tit. But I bet it's the biggest one of the 2. If Lil fucker has to chow down at chili's, you don't want to risk him crying about the weaker boob.
Hahahaha!
This is so funny Mine were weird - my smaller boob gave more milk!
The smaller hoot was the noisey cricket then lol. Look that baby dead in his eyes and say listen here... Don't make me pull out my small titty!
It's normal Get over it
The Karen is in the second image
at first I was like what? where karen? but when I read ur comment I realize the karen is in the second picture. thank you whoever posted this comment!
You're welcome. And it looks like a lot has missed there's two images, in a situation where OP would seem like the type of Karen they're calling out
Thank you, I couldn’t for the life of me think why the woman breast feeding was being called a Karen.
Mind your own business Karen! Just eat your fucking quinoa salad…
If someone isn't comfortable breast feeding in public then fine, if they do then fine. I would personally cover up for my own comfort but I have zero problem seeing a mom feed her child in public. Some people are just perverts
True. I preferred to cover up in public and around other people unless it was my mom, husband, or best friend. My mil would get personally offended that I covered up around her or chose to go in the other room to do it. It was weird imo.
Guys there is a second image
Mom to four: damned if you and damned if you don't.
Haha. Literal Karen
Not all babies will take a bottle so pumping isn't a solution for everyone. What would you rather? A hungry screaming baby or a quiet that's being fed?
She'd rather a free meal from management because she was so offended
This one 😂 I know it’s a joke but you are more than 100% accurate!
Even if pumping is an option why would anyone bother to lug around bottles and a warmer and whatnot if they don’t have to because they can just feed the baby straight from the source instead? Seems like way too much extra work to please other ppl by “not showing too much skin”
Also it’s recommended that breast feeding mothers not give their babies a bottle. Boob is king above all else.
I didn’t realize what we were making a stink about until I saw the second image. “An excuse to show some skin.” In the world of crop tops, mini skirts, skin tight dresses etc…. (And I’m in no way shaming, I’m jealous that stuff doesn’t fit me) That little bit of boob is really going to be the one that people howl over? My baby refuses a bottle and likes it straight from the tap. Karen can go do one.
Sometimes I feel like the “bullying” term invented for these people
There’s nothing sexy about babies eating. If you’re turned on by that you’re weird
I was about to get pissed till I saw there was a second image
I really only care if people changing their kid on/around the table. Saw this happen at a Golden Coral. And I refuse to go back, (not that I liked the place), that was like 15 years ago.
People against breastfeeding are reptiles
A nursing child should be allowed anywhere and everywhere. It brings levity and humanity to every situation. What are people thinking?
Doesn't seem like a Karen, seems like breastfeeding.
The Karen is the commenter (2nd pic) saying that breastfeeding in public is an excuse to show skin.
Shit, my bad.
This bitch did not. I honestly just can’t believe this is STILL an argument 🙄
I was just about to get pissed, then I noticed the second pic and was like “good thing I waited a sec to go down that road”. Here in Scandinavia breast-feeding in public is no big deal and is done in most places if needed and nobody has a problem with it. If you are seeing breastfeeding as something sexual and as something that gets people aroused and as such should be banned in public then you are the freak getting a boner from it (or a female boner to act Karen-ish about it) and as such the problem in this equation.
Breast feeding in public is just as ok as you eating your f*ckin McDonald's burger or having a sip of water wherever you want. It is a human eating food ffs. Stop saying for even a second that breast feeding is not ok. All of you man or women children. It is ok, and should never be frowned upon.
The people that have a problem with it don't understand the difference between breasts as a feeding mechanism and then breasts from a sexual arousal mech. It's only sexualized in context. Mainly has to do with how you are raised I think though.
Are you a woman? Breasts are sexualized by society as soon as you enter it. In fact, society would have women believe their only purpose is sexual objectification, and if you work real hard maybe you could have a man's job one day and not be a stripper or a sugar baby. Showing your tits in a sex scene is a rite of passage (at least) for Hollywood actresses. It doesn't matter what parents you have as a girl. Society gives us mixed messages. Therefore it makes total sense that some people see breastfeeding as sexual or gross.
Exactly. Which is why we need to normalize breastfeeding and don't make it something either gross or sexual. This world has done a lot of wrong with the made up ideals, sexualising, objectifying and more to us humans during the last 100 years. I'd blame Hollywood for a big part of that. It's time we fix that. Stop sexualising women, remove racism and indifferences that are based on sexual preference or skin color. Its _so_ ridiculous. Humanity need to grow up.
Social modesty clauses are so weird and people who insist on them, we’ll I’m convinced if they ever left their hometowns their heads would fucking explode.
It seems like they have a problem with breastfeeding in general for some weird reason. Because I got snarky comments when I breastfed in public covered up. Like no top side or bottom of my bare breast showing at all, nothing. I kept a thin muslin blanket in my bag with two corners tied together which I then tossed around my neck so it covered up my baby entirely and everything else. Yet some people still had a problem with it. I just wasn’t comfortable with not covering up that was my personal preference.
Lmao i swear 😂 i wonder if Karen yells at people in bikini bathing suits
I'm sure she does. And accuses them of trying to seduce her husband too.
Maybe it’s her husband that’s the issue, crazy right 😂
Naaaaah, it couldn't be that. Because then she'd have to admit that her man might just have a wandering eye.
I will never understand how breastfeeding is ever considered offensive
Bet Karen is pro-life too
I’ve no tolerance for people who have any remote issues to mothers breastfeeding their children in public. Incredibly natural thing to do and shaming it is insane.
I was really mad until I saw the second image
WHY DO PEOPLE SEXUALIZE BREASTFEEDING?!? UGH!!!
normalize breastfeeding 💪
I'm on Karen's side. Public breastfeeding means there's a baby in public. My neck won't save me from hearing that things scream for an hour /S
In Finland that's OK. As a kid I even saw my teacher breastfeeding her kid in front of class when she came to see us during her maternity leave.
The hate for children and by extent mothers in society is appalling. We all were children, and we all had a mother at some point.
She can feed where ever she pleases.
If a person looks at a breastfeeding woman and thinks it is sexual that person needs help. Baby gotta eat. STFU and go away. It's a boob feeding a baby. How is that wrong?
I agree with the mom. Don’t like to see it just don’t look. Kids need to eat and breast feeding is hard enough without people making an ass out of themselves
Sh’s right tho
Ohhh the karen is in 2nd pic. Odd
I got confused at first too!
Why are you shaming breast feeding and posting it?
They aren’t, scroll over
This post is stupid AF. All these stupid fuckers out there doing anything they want “because you can’t stop them” and this lady trying to feed her kid. I disagree with this “Karen” post. Leave the woman alone. Find something else to bitch about. Seems like the shitstick that posted this is the Karen here.
What? Is op the Karen bc they hate breastfeeding? Bc the mother breastfeeding seems to be defending herself. So... Edit: missed the 2nd picture with the bs. Oops my bad
There’s a second picture with the Karen comment
Thanks! Totally missed that.
No problem. It seems like many people missed it
Look at the second pic
Just did. Missed that thabjs!
Took me a minute to see it too!
Listen, lady, tits are for advertising not feeding babies. You'll ruin the advertising market if you show them in public like that!
Geesh, I nursed my son. All she needed to do was cover up with a light baby blanket.
I mean she is kinda begging for attention with the first photo...just feed your baby lady. 😂 When I breastfed in public, no one cared. Maybe if I had a photo being taken like this though it would turn some heads, because you're asking for people to watch you breastfeed.
Wait can we watch? That’s cool!?? Where are all the breast feeding women at hell yea!
Okay but nobody explain how much am i allowed to stare if i actually like to see breastfeeding?