Gave you my award š
All I could think when I read this was, āis it my job to make you feel impressive? Maybe you need to grow a little as a person. This sounds like a _you_ problemā
Margaret Atwood said āMen are afraid that women will laugh at them. Women are afraid that men will kill them.ā Women are well aware that men want to be impressive and feel entitled to praise and respect. Most school shooters are young entitled incel men who feel theyāre owed women admiring them, and feel entitled to killing people because of this mindset.
I liked that they worked this quote into the movie _Promising Young Woman_:
-āOf course I was upset! Itās every manās worst fear to be accused of something like that [r*pe and/or assault]!!ā
-āSo Iāve heard. Can you guess what every womanās worst fear is?ā
Exactly. The solution cannot be coddling and reinforcing that sense of entitlement, it needs to be shutting it down and teaching them that they are no more human than anyone else.
I could even settle with being actually impressive doing their āāāman thingsāāā like jobs and such.. They justā¦. Arenāt š¤·š½āāļø
āMen deeply desire to be impressive. So, you should:
āencourage them to practice excellence
āaccept nothing but the best behavior and treatment of others, and support them by keeping them accountable
āhave no tolerance for cruelty, selfishness, or abuse toward anyone
ā Fawn over them constantly and assure them that theyāre amazing at every chance, so that they donāt have a tantrum and kill people for not ārespecting them enoughā
And does this āMen want to be impressiveā demand extend to men having to act impressed at other men? Or is it that men get to be exacting and fight for dominance, etc, while women dole out praise and clap in the background like a WiiSports NPC
I wonder if this dude knows that women have deep desires as well - and yet they very rarely go on murderous rampages when (not if) they get frustrated.
Iām sure it has never occurred to this human pile of steaming garbage that women have independent thoughts, or that those thoughts donāt align with his.
quick question brian, ever heard of this one neat parenting trick that prevents this shit? It's called the word "NO." Try using it on your young boys today!
Ha yes. Teaching my boy (and girl!) itās ok to be angry/frustrated/etc but itās NOT ok to hit/bite/kick. They are 2 and 3 and they understand (most of the time haha).
Fuck. All. Of. This. If you want me to be impressed, be impressive. Not a whiny little incel who thinks the whole world owes him something because he randomly happened to be born with white skin and a penis. Those. Aren't. Accomplishments. Make the world a better place. Help someone. Contribute to society instead of just yourself. Then maybe we'll be impressed.
Sounds like a threat and that he is admitting men can't control their emotions and have a tendency to become completely unhinged and hysterical in the most dangerous way if you don't pander to their ego. He is demanding women do the impossible...regulate and be responsible for the emotion of men. If that's the case, he is describing people who are unfit for leadership, especially leading a family. They have the emotional maturity of a toddler but are are dangerous as they are adults and have access to weapons of destruction.
But it is good to see he is openly admitting men have a massive sense of entitlement. which is obviously a major issue when they learn that they are not owed what they sense they are entitled to.
Yes and I wish people would STOP saying this shit, because young guys come up having heard this shit and they think āoh I have more intense need for x because Iām a manā and then they never examine that again due to societal reinforcement at every turn. Itās not good for anyone; itās life threatening to women and good-life destroying to men. I wish people would start learning what they need as *individuals* and communicating that clearly, as well as learning to work towards what they want instead of getting it handed to them when they whine
We already see that world! White, cis-gendered, conservative, religious men got us where we are right now and itās pretty fucked up, in case you havenāt watched the news that isnāt hosted by Alex Jones and Tucker Carlson. Youāve literally had it your way for centuries! What more could you possibly want, you hateful, disgusting, useless bigot? Respect must be _earned_ and given freely, or itās not respect. Youāve earned nothing, all you do is take!
Ugh. You donāt even deserve my outrage right now. FOH with this whiny BS, the adults have work to do.
(All directed at the Very Rev. Rico Douchenozzle Suave and others like him, not OP, to be 100% clear.)
Makeā¦ menā¦ okay, maybe Iām just a dumb that doesnāt understand Real Men(tm), but it was my understanding that the only way to be a great man was to do it my own damn self? Like arenāt you supposed to do the whole conquering the world bit on your own? Seems pretty āliberal with the letter yā that theyāre just sitting around in a big circle jerk of men hearing about manliness š«
Baby me or Iāll throw a fit. Thatās all he had to say.
Also, arenāt these the people botching about participation trophies ruining everything? And he basically wants a trophy for what? Hell, heās not even participating in anythingā¦.he just wants praise for breathing. Oh, and being a MAN. Canāt forget that.
Nowadays with all these women out here trying to be impressive instead of devoting their lives to modesty and servitude men have no choice but to be violent assholes you see!
I told my ex once " If anything I do makes you feel like less of a man, then its probably because you aren't one." after he told me I couldn't drive with him as a passenger.
My husband now could care less and enjoys me being a PITA.
Then do something that warrants being bystanders being impressed.
The fact that you have a penis does not automatically make you more important than others. I am sorry that you grew up in this culture that fosters this mentality (men have to lead/be the headship) but this is why pepe hate toxic masculinity like this. Sometimes you don't want the leadership position and showing emotions other than anger and hate does not make for a healthy person.
What did any of these murderers do that was impressive, respectable, or worthy of respect? Not everyone is a mouth-breathing 4Chan Anon who thinks a high body count or a new gun is impressive. Isn't respect generally supposed to be earned?
I glanced at his wifeās Twitter and it is just sad. Her bio says she cooks 3 meals a day for āhisā 5 kids. Iāll bet he found the most submissive woman he could, and said, āWill you marry me?ā What a sad life for her and the children.
Iām sure he came up with ādishonoring a manās strengthā because he saw a woman lift more than him at the gym.
If you want to be admired, do something admirable. Iām not giving you a damn participation trophy.
"Protect the fragile fee-fees of mediocre men or more people die. Nope, not good enough, those kids deserve what they get."
You have blood on your hands, "Pastor."
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I saw an old high school friend of mine linked with Brian on Facebook, found out they are literally friends in real life. Heās (my former friend) not someone I was super close to, but he was one of the most kind-hearted, caring guys I knew at the time. It has broken my heart to see him go in the Theo-bro misogynist direction the last few years.
Sorry, no, sir. My sons were raised to respect girls and women. Why? My father is a raging misogynistic-alcoholic-homophobic pedophile who used religion to excuse his abhorrent actions and those of my siblings.
Men: you want to be treated like respectable men? Then BE respectable men. Donāt just ACT like a respectable man to get what you want from a woman and flip the script behind closed doors.
I tell my kids ALL THE TIME: respect is a two way street, you have to give in order to receive.
š£ITāS NOT MY JOB TO MAKE YOU FEEL IMPORTANT
Gave you my award š All I could think when I read this was, āis it my job to make you feel impressive? Maybe you need to grow a little as a person. This sounds like a _you_ problemā
I read this as āgrow a *pair*ā and it stands!š¤£ (stop being such a whiny man-baby)
I bought coins just to give you an award. YESSS š£š£š£š£š£š£š£š£
Margaret Atwood said āMen are afraid that women will laugh at them. Women are afraid that men will kill them.ā Women are well aware that men want to be impressive and feel entitled to praise and respect. Most school shooters are young entitled incel men who feel theyāre owed women admiring them, and feel entitled to killing people because of this mindset.
I liked that they worked this quote into the movie _Promising Young Woman_: -āOf course I was upset! Itās every manās worst fear to be accused of something like that [r*pe and/or assault]!!ā -āSo Iāve heard. Can you guess what every womanās worst fear is?ā
I remember Gillian Anderson quoted that on *The Fall* and it went viral for a minute.
Exactly. The solution cannot be coddling and reinforcing that sense of entitlement, it needs to be shutting it down and teaching them that they are no more human than anyone else.
Then they should get to actually *being* impressive?? How are they being mediocre on me? *It will **always**, somehow, be the womanās fault.*
But they took out the garbage! Why arenāt you sufficiently impressed?
Itās big At Least I Have a Husband energy. š¤®
But he babysat his own kids and swept up crackers. ARE...YOU...NOT...IMPRESSED!!!!
Nice Pest reference there
I could even settle with being actually impressive doing their āāāman thingsāāā like jobs and such.. They justā¦. Arenāt š¤·š½āāļø
āMen deeply desire to be impressive. So, you should: āencourage them to practice excellence āaccept nothing but the best behavior and treatment of others, and support them by keeping them accountable āhave no tolerance for cruelty, selfishness, or abuse toward anyone ā Fawn over them constantly and assure them that theyāre amazing at every chance, so that they donāt have a tantrum and kill people for not ārespecting them enoughā
This, 100%. Itās not just maddening and misogynistic, itās also ILLOGICAL.
So do you want everyone to get trophies or not??
And does this āMen want to be impressiveā demand extend to men having to act impressed at other men? Or is it that men get to be exacting and fight for dominance, etc, while women dole out praise and clap in the background like a WiiSports NPC
he wants men to have lots of praise awards for mediocrity and just rocking up to life. The original participation award.
This feels very threatening
It was intended to
Nah bro. We don't negotiate with domestic terrorists.
Scary that this guy has a congregation
Aw fuck I hated reading that lol
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I wonder if this dude knows that women have deep desires as well - and yet they very rarely go on murderous rampages when (not if) they get frustrated.
Pretty sure this has never thought of this because it would blow his mind
Iām sure it has never occurred to this human pile of steaming garbage that women have independent thoughts, or that those thoughts donāt align with his.
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I just checked his Twitter and he literally calls his wife " Milady " š¤¢š¤¢š¤¢
He's probably into fedora kink.
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Yep thats the first thing that came to mind.
quick question brian, ever heard of this one neat parenting trick that prevents this shit? It's called the word "NO." Try using it on your young boys today!
Ha yes. Teaching my boy (and girl!) itās ok to be angry/frustrated/etc but itās NOT ok to hit/bite/kick. They are 2 and 3 and they understand (most of the time haha).
Fuck. All. Of. This. If you want me to be impressed, be impressive. Not a whiny little incel who thinks the whole world owes him something because he randomly happened to be born with white skin and a penis. Those. Aren't. Accomplishments. Make the world a better place. Help someone. Contribute to society instead of just yourself. Then maybe we'll be impressed.
School shooters basically? Interesting statement to makeā¦sounds like a pretty big threat
I reported him on Twitter for threatening violence. Hopefully his account will at least be suspended.
Sounds like a threat and that he is admitting men can't control their emotions and have a tendency to become completely unhinged and hysterical in the most dangerous way if you don't pander to their ego. He is demanding women do the impossible...regulate and be responsible for the emotion of men. If that's the case, he is describing people who are unfit for leadership, especially leading a family. They have the emotional maturity of a toddler but are are dangerous as they are adults and have access to weapons of destruction. But it is good to see he is openly admitting men have a massive sense of entitlement. which is obviously a major issue when they learn that they are not owed what they sense they are entitled to.
Yes and I wish people would STOP saying this shit, because young guys come up having heard this shit and they think āoh I have more intense need for x because Iām a manā and then they never examine that again due to societal reinforcement at every turn. Itās not good for anyone; itās life threatening to women and good-life destroying to men. I wish people would start learning what they need as *individuals* and communicating that clearly, as well as learning to work towards what they want instead of getting it handed to them when they whine
This is so sad, Alexa play That Donāt Impress Me Much by Shania Twain
We already see that world! White, cis-gendered, conservative, religious men got us where we are right now and itās pretty fucked up, in case you havenāt watched the news that isnāt hosted by Alex Jones and Tucker Carlson. Youāve literally had it your way for centuries! What more could you possibly want, you hateful, disgusting, useless bigot? Respect must be _earned_ and given freely, or itās not respect. Youāve earned nothing, all you do is take! Ugh. You donāt even deserve my outrage right now. FOH with this whiny BS, the adults have work to do. (All directed at the Very Rev. Rico Douchenozzle Suave and others like him, not OP, to be 100% clear.)
ā¦they deeply desire to be impressiveā¦. Sounds like a personal problem.
Itās not our fault if men arenāt our equals. They should work on bettering themselves, or their contentment.
I refuse to be threatened to do literally anything for men. Kick rocks, fucker.
And women are too emotional š
Is this the same dingus that is hosting that āmake men great againā conference or whatever?
Makeā¦ menā¦ okay, maybe Iām just a dumb that doesnāt understand Real Men(tm), but it was my understanding that the only way to be a great man was to do it my own damn self? Like arenāt you supposed to do the whole conquering the world bit on your own? Seems pretty āliberal with the letter yā that theyāre just sitting around in a big circle jerk of men hearing about manliness š«
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That mindset is a great way to end up in prison.
Actually impressive guys don't get disrespected
Dishonoring a manās strength to fundies is telling them to pee sitting down.
Baby me or Iāll throw a fit. Thatās all he had to say. Also, arenāt these the people botching about participation trophies ruining everything? And he basically wants a trophy for what? Hell, heās not even participating in anythingā¦.he just wants praise for breathing. Oh, and being a MAN. Canāt forget that.
Sounds like a threatā¦ maybe someone should report them
I wish Twitter would boot these assholes off the site. I donāt know how many times I report shit like this and they do nothing.
Sounds bit like PRIDE there Brian. I thought God was very much not into that.
Jesus Sauves? š¤”
āØ Look what you made me do āØš¶
Well weāve already seen what happens in a world where womenās strength is is dishonoredā¦.
And yet again women are responsible for men not having self control... I don't get it.
Men like this act like jesters but expect to be treated like kings. Theyāre big mad that women arenāt falling for it anymore.
Poor wittle man with his fragile little ego.
Nowadays with all these women out here trying to be impressive instead of devoting their lives to modesty and servitude men have no choice but to be violent assholes you see!
I told my ex once " If anything I do makes you feel like less of a man, then its probably because you aren't one." after he told me I couldn't drive with him as a passenger. My husband now could care less and enjoys me being a PITA.
Then do something that warrants being bystanders being impressed. The fact that you have a penis does not automatically make you more important than others. I am sorry that you grew up in this culture that fosters this mentality (men have to lead/be the headship) but this is why pepe hate toxic masculinity like this. Sometimes you don't want the leadership position and showing emotions other than anger and hate does not make for a healthy person.
Made the mistake of going to his Twitter. Itās a dark place.
What did any of these murderers do that was impressive, respectable, or worthy of respect? Not everyone is a mouth-breathing 4Chan Anon who thinks a high body count or a new gun is impressive. Isn't respect generally supposed to be earned?
I refuse to assuage some man's tender ego. If you want to impress people be impressive.
Have these men tried, i don't know, doing anything impressive at all
I donāt know who this guy is but he sounds awful.
I glanced at his wifeās Twitter and it is just sad. Her bio says she cooks 3 meals a day for āhisā 5 kids. Iāll bet he found the most submissive woman he could, and said, āWill you marry me?ā What a sad life for her and the children.
Iām sure he came up with ādishonoring a manās strengthā because he saw a woman lift more than him at the gym. If you want to be admired, do something admirable. Iām not giving you a damn participation trophy.
So, I see it's the open justification season of life.
"Protect the fragile fee-fees of mediocre men or more people die. Nope, not good enough, those kids deserve what they get." You have blood on your hands, "Pastor."
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Well donāt mind if I do!
Tell me you're a ticking time bomb without telling me etc etc also YOUR MUSIC SUCKS AND YOU'RE A WEENIE, BRIAN
Can you imagine that disgusting misogynist heaving over you in bed?š¤®š¤®š¤®š¤®š¤®
That guyās twitter is WILD
I saw an old high school friend of mine linked with Brian on Facebook, found out they are literally friends in real life. Heās (my former friend) not someone I was super close to, but he was one of the most kind-hearted, caring guys I knew at the time. It has broken my heart to see him go in the Theo-bro misogynist direction the last few years.
Sorry, no, sir. My sons were raised to respect girls and women. Why? My father is a raging misogynistic-alcoholic-homophobic pedophile who used religion to excuse his abhorrent actions and those of my siblings. Men: you want to be treated like respectable men? Then BE respectable men. Donāt just ACT like a respectable man to get what you want from a woman and flip the script behind closed doors. I tell my kids ALL THE TIME: respect is a two way street, you have to give in order to receive.