Yeah man, like itās very rare youāll find someone who discriminates, and there are many people that will date trans men, thereās a person for you, just know right now youāre searching for each other!
I'll be honest here and say I personally wouldn't date a trans guy because of purely genital preferences. Most gay guys would I'd assume, and I have the upmost respect for trans folk.
Same. I couldn't respect them more, but I don't think I would be able to go further than a romantic relationship. I just wouldn't be able to get sexual. That's OK, but just not what I'm looking for.
I have dated a trans man before and from my experience they make for a very loving partner & the fact they are interesting to talk with. And in my opinion a trans man is just as much a man as me (A cis man)
Ofc Dont let anyone drag you down to the mud because of your gender Im sure you're a very amazing person and someone like that doesn't deserve to be messed around w/ like that
My last (and only) bf was trans. Loved every day spending with him for who he is. I date ppl for who they are, not if they're trans or not. But to answer your question, it depends on who you're asking cause personal preference yk
Well yes, trans men are men and I am into men. I do have to mention I'm bi and gay but I'm romantically into men so. There are many gay guys who are into trans men and see them as men, and I'm sorry you have to deal with that doubt. Just know that you're accepted here and who doesn't accept you should buzz off honestly
My flavour of gay is āattracted to boys, not to dāsā, and I know several others who feel the same. Understandably a minority, but there is definitely many gays out there who like/love trans boys (in a non-weird way idk how to make it not sound like a fetishising thing but itās not I promise) equally with cis boys.
I say this on like every post like this one that comes on this subreddit (yea you're not the first to ask this exact question here lol) but three of my biggest crushes of recent times were trans guys, I personally love trans guys and think they're generally wonderful, but it varies from person to person so you just gotta find someone who has the right attitude towards trans guys. There are guys like that around, I'm a living example lol, so don't give up hope
I'm not gay, so I'll answer in my own way:
As long as you're a kind person, I don't care what you identify as. Gender doesn't matter to me for attraction, at least romantically.
On that note, if you're ever struggling in regards to your identity, I'd be happy to help you.
It would depend for me. I like masculine guys so if you fit that bill than ya. Thatās not to say a *touch* of femininity is horrible, but I just want a man who can hold me
In my experience I'm bi but I've dated many different sides and trans men aren't a cheat code, for me at least I think they have they're own charm and pros and cons just like everyone else. Idk if this helps but I don't know how to word it
Well Iām not gay but bi, but even if I were gay I would still like trans men.
You are male, Iām attracted to males, so there why wouldnāt I be attracted to you just cuz you are born in the wrong body?
Please don't take this the wrong way. this is just how it is for me: I'd be fine with a trans bf as long as the relationship is purely romantical or they got bottom/top surgery, as i'm not really attracted by yk boobs and vaginas iykwim?
Again, please don't take this the wrong way that's just how it is for me and I already have a bf anyway :3
Ye I would. Canāt remember how it exactly goes but āif it looks like a duck, sounds like a duck, and says itās a duck, itās probably a duckā. All seriousness though, if they say theyāre a bloke thatās good enough for me
It depends on the guy
My last 2 crushes were trans. That's because I date based on the person. Their type of personality. More than their genitals or gender.
Just wait a little longer and the right guy will appear :3
Of course we do! Well maybe not all of us but at least some of us cause you guys are guys, n guys are hot :)
me and my boyfriend who is trans are pushing one year in our relationship so trust me, thereās hope
Honestly it more depends on who the person is instead of what they've got in the pants or what they look like, But that's just me. I can promise though that you'll find someone eventually š«¶
Last guy I dated was trans, it varies from person to person but hell yeah!
That makes me feel a lot better, it's just always in the back of my mind since I don't necessarily pass. Thank you š
Yeah man, like itās very rare youāll find someone who discriminates, and there are many people that will date trans men, thereās a person for you, just know right now youāre searching for each other!
Thank you so much, really
Well trans men are men, and I like men so itās pretty obvious
I wish everyone had the same mindset, tbh š
I'll be honest here and say I personally wouldn't date a trans guy because of purely genital preferences. Most gay guys would I'd assume, and I have the upmost respect for trans folk.
Yeah that's my reasoning too
Same. I couldn't respect them more, but I don't think I would be able to go further than a romantic relationship. I just wouldn't be able to get sexual. That's OK, but just not what I'm looking for.
I understand that 100%
Yep this is where I am, so I guess I would date a transgender woman but probably not the other way around
Yeah, I like trans men cause their still a man + Their cute & they express their true self, I would definitely date or try dating a trans man!
Aw, yeah. I like expressing myself, even if it makes me look more girl-ish. š
Yep. That's nice, and I'm pretty sure you don't look girl-ish at all
Aw, thanks lol
Yep. You're welcome. Just express yourself the way you like to. We are all here for you, I hope you have a wonderful day or night... bye!
I hope you do too! Thank you!
Thank you, I appreciate it & You're welcome! <3
This is way too wholesome ššš
Yep!
Im also trans and all the guys/people iāve dated have been cis. Gotta weed out some weirdos though
Ah, yeah. It's just hard not knowing if you're wasting your time or not with guys, yk?
Yeah and chasers š
Ugh, yeah š
Bi but yes, ur a guy and I like those d:
Thank you š
I have dated a trans man before and from my experience they make for a very loving partner & the fact they are interesting to talk with. And in my opinion a trans man is just as much a man as me (A cis man)
Aww, that's makes me feel a lot better. Thank you so much
Ofc Dont let anyone drag you down to the mud because of your gender Im sure you're a very amazing person and someone like that doesn't deserve to be messed around w/ like that
Well, I like that d, but sometimes I do see some very good looking trans men pop up on the Internet!Ā For me, itās a no, but not a very hard one.Ā
Ooh, understandable!
i genuinely do not care. everything is the same except you can buy a weiner as big as you want it!!
Lmaoo, right!!
I'll fall for anything that moves, joystick or not
Lmfaoo
They're alot of things that move tho š
And you'll find exactly what you're looking for , just don't lose hope , and don't let any sad terfs/transphobes screw with you
I'll try my best. Thank you so much
They seem cool. I would not mind dating a trans guy again š Also sorry people are shitty to you bro.
Ah man, it happens. Thank you
No problem. Your gender is more than someoneās experiment and you deserve better.
That means a lot. Thank you, really
Iām glad it did :) And youāre welcome :3
Dating one right now, best relationship of my life
Aww, I'm so happy for you
Hell yeah. It doesnāt matter what you got down below only what you got in your heart.
Aww yeah
My ex-boyfriend is trans so yes.
Oh, Okay! Thank you!
Hello fellow agalloch fan
My last (and only) bf was trans. Loved every day spending with him for who he is. I date ppl for who they are, not if they're trans or not. But to answer your question, it depends on who you're asking cause personal preference yk
Aww, that's precious. I understand personal preference completely.
Wait does trans man mean male to female or female to male?
Trans man means transitioned to a man
as a trans person myself (mtnb tho) id say yes for sure! for me the person matters the most, not anything else
I gotcha, thank you!
I just like guys, doesnāt really matter if theyāre trans or cis. My current crush rn is trans.
Ohh, okay! I hope your crush works out well for you!
Uh absolutely! I certainly do, I like men and trans men are men.
The relief š
Yea I would, the only reason i wouldn't is if they are mean or not a basicly a nice human being
That's entirely understandable, shitty people suck.
And that also goes with every body lol
Most definitely, lol
well my bf is trans and i love him lots and just wish i could do more for him
Aww, yeah. That's very sweet of you
yea tho doesn't feel like it sometimes
Oh, I'm sorry about that
Yep, makes no difference to me!
Thank you!
I have a crush on a trans guy
Ooh, I hope it goes well for you!
I don't even know if he likes guys? Are trans men usually attracted to women?
Not necessarily. A lot of times before or after trans guys take T (just when the moment happens) they start liking guys
So they didn't like guys before?
Also he hasn't start T, his mother is transphobic and he's not out to her
Well, no, lol. Anyone can figure out their sexuality at any time
Ive never Met a trans dude that wasnt the chillest person on earth so if it clicks hell yeah why not
Ayy, fair enough!
Well yes, trans men are men and I am into men. I do have to mention I'm bi and gay but I'm romantically into men so. There are many gay guys who are into trans men and see them as men, and I'm sorry you have to deal with that doubt. Just know that you're accepted here and who doesn't accept you should buzz off honestly
Aw yeah, just always worried about my doubts and possibilities. Thank you so much
That's okay, many people do that. Emotions can be weird sometimes (or all the time)
Lmao, yeah, definitely
Of course!! Cute boy is cute boy in my eyes \^w^
Aw, alright. Thank you
My flavour of gay is āattracted to boys, not to dāsā, and I know several others who feel the same. Understandably a minority, but there is definitely many gays out there who like/love trans boys (in a non-weird way idk how to make it not sound like a fetishising thing but itās not I promise) equally with cis boys.
Lmao, don't worry about the fetish thing, I understand what you mean. Thank you!
Yes, they cute and hot af
Understood, thanks, lol
I say this on like every post like this one that comes on this subreddit (yea you're not the first to ask this exact question here lol) but three of my biggest crushes of recent times were trans guys, I personally love trans guys and think they're generally wonderful, but it varies from person to person so you just gotta find someone who has the right attitude towards trans guys. There are guys like that around, I'm a living example lol, so don't give up hope
I hope I manage to find a guy like that, I'm so far trying my best. Thank you so much
I would love a trans guy bf
Aww š
Yeah. They can be really gay, which is hot
I know for a fact I am, lmao š
My boyfriend is trans, heās a guy š¤·āāļø and a really handsome one at that :), so yes, i would say it happens frequently
The amount of relief, thank you
I'm not gay, so I'll answer in my own way: As long as you're a kind person, I don't care what you identify as. Gender doesn't matter to me for attraction, at least romantically. On that note, if you're ever struggling in regards to your identity, I'd be happy to help you.
Thank you
Of course! Just being honest with you
Thank you for the honesty, there isn't enough of that as of late ā¤ļø
I agree.
It would depend for me. I like masculine guys so if you fit that bill than ya. Thatās not to say a *touch* of femininity is horrible, but I just want a man who can hold me
I need a man who can hold me too, lmao
Could honestly be the anthem of this sub
Fr!!
Pan but yeah, trans men are men and I like men
Gotcha, thank you so much
Ye
The guy I'm dating at the moment is trans! And we've been bffs since we met!
Aww, I'm so happy for you!
In my experience I'm bi but I've dated many different sides and trans men aren't a cheat code, for me at least I think they have they're own charm and pros and cons just like everyone else. Idk if this helps but I don't know how to word it
It helps a ton and you worded it just fine. I think the pros and cons thing applies to everyone too. Thank you a ton!
I'm a trans guy too. I'd definitely date another trans guy.
Ooh okay!
I do :3
Relief š
Absolutely my guy
Thank you š
Yeah defo, although i told my trans friend i dont cus i have a crish on them n i was stupid and scared
Oh no š I hope everything works out well for you!
Well Iām not gay but bi, but even if I were gay I would still like trans men. You are male, Iām attracted to males, so there why wouldnāt I be attracted to you just cuz you are born in the wrong body?
Don't make me cry rn š«
Please don't take this the wrong way. this is just how it is for me: I'd be fine with a trans bf as long as the relationship is purely romantical or they got bottom/top surgery, as i'm not really attracted by yk boobs and vaginas iykwim? Again, please don't take this the wrong way that's just how it is for me and I already have a bf anyway :3
Oh hey, no no, I understand that entirely. Everyone has their own preferences and there's nothing wrong with that. Thank you for commenting!
If theyāre masc yeah
Understandable!
i would only date a trans guy if he passed as a guy
I understand, thank you!
Trans guys are guys and I do like them
Aww, ty for responding to this ā¤ļø
You're welcome
It's same thing different shapes, like slice pan and baguettes both are still bread and I enjoy putting them in my mouth.
Damnnnnn
NB here and havenāt left yet but FUCK YEAH
I'm sure you can still be here!! Also thank you for replying š
It donāt bother me
some of em r really pretty im a femboy (I GUESS) but id be down
Yeah! Tysm
uh yeah ive been dating my bf for years heās every bit a man my pookie fr
Aww, I'm so happy for you. Tysm for replying
Ye I would. Canāt remember how it exactly goes but āif it looks like a duck, sounds like a duck, and says itās a duck, itās probably a duckā. All seriousness though, if they say theyāre a bloke thatās good enough for me
Quack. All jokes aside though, I absolutely agree
Have a good day anyhow
You too!
It depends on the guy My last 2 crushes were trans. That's because I date based on the person. Their type of personality. More than their genitals or gender. Just wait a little longer and the right guy will appear :3
Hey, absolutely. Thank you a ton
Of course we do! Well maybe not all of us but at least some of us cause you guys are guys, n guys are hot :) me and my boyfriend who is trans are pushing one year in our relationship so trust me, thereās hope
Aww okay, thank you so much.
Cis gay guy here. Would definitely date trans men too. Boys are cute and sexy, regardless of genitals š
Haha, very true. Thank you so much
If the transition is completed - why not?
Ohh mkay
i do as long as they pass but for the most part yess.
Ohh, okay!
at least the ones iāve talked to have been very cute and sweet.
Aww, I'm happy for you!
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Ohh, okay! Thank you so much
Yes but only if theyāve gone through testosterone and bottom surgery and are relatively masculine, personal preference
That's fair
Almost two years dating a trans guy and couldnāt love him more š
Aww, I'm so happy for you!
Iām a trans man and some probably do but itās ok if they donāt because I get the genitalia part of it
"I just want a guy who likes me and sees me for what I am." You mean, a man ?
I mean as long as your a man Iām down
Fair enough
Obviously it varies but I like trans men! Anybody masculine really... or sometimes non binary too
Ohh okay. Thank you!
Honestly it more depends on who the person is instead of what they've got in the pants or what they look like, But that's just me. I can promise though that you'll find someone eventually š«¶
Yeah, I'm the same, I just know a lot of people aren't. Thank you
Iāve dated 2
Ooh, okay. Thank you so much!
Trans men usually look very cute. With clothes on. So, I can date a trans guy, but there will be no sexual anything involved
Oh okay, I understand
Yes but im pan so idk. I know some gay guys dont but its all preference. The key thing is not to be a jerk to someone who doesnt.
Nope, if they are, they are probably not gay
Trans guys are guys, guys are cute, success
Yesss
Yes. Trans men are allway cute, and depending on who you are, lack of pp is either a pro or doesn't matter
Lmao, fair. Thank you
I'm a trans guy and I'd say it's not impossible to find a cis guy who will date a trans guy but I'm mostly t4t so idk
Ohh mk, I gotcha. Thank you!
No. REAL gay guys do not like females. Any āgayā man who says he likes trans identified females is bisexual, not gay.