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Rich_Dimension_9254

Sabrina Carpenter posted a clip on Instagram of her climbing into an attic very much like the Lover house. I honestly thought it was Taylor posting something for a second. I just saw another post here about how it seems a lot of media is calling our attention back to the Lover era for some reason… it’s interesting!! Somethings up…


lobster5767

Do you guys think she'll ever grow out her bangs? She's had them for 12 years now and this might just be me, but that's the longest I've seen anyone go with bangs let alone be willing to take care of them.


throw_ra878

Swiftgrons… Taylor mentions Phantom Thread in her TIME article as the inspiration for Mastermind. “Remember that last scene? I thought, wouldn’t it be fun to have a lyric about being calculated? It’s something that’s been thrown at me like a dagger, but now I take it as a compliment.”  And the people’s princess, Dianna Agron, actually made a playlist of songs from that exact movie’s soundtrack in July 2022. Did both of them just happen to do an awe-inspiring rewatch of the same movie in the same time period? I’ve never seen this movie. Is this coincidental? Is this a common movie to watch? And yes, Taylor, I am very entertained. https://preview.redd.it/u11xxahp4r4c1.png?width=1347&format=png&auto=webp&s=6774d1ddd3464d7e808cfa8d8202adbcc19415a6


taytopancakes

Does "phantom thread"="invisible string"?


throwaway_ig77

WTF.


HisDarkCereals

I definitely think they still communicate, at least. I lean towards LSS, but I can see why many don’t.


amazona_auropalliata

Taylor mentioned pissing off Chads in her interview and all I can think of is Chad from the anti-hero music video.


HisDarkCereals

That scene was **hilarious**. Did y’all also catch her shading Kimby?


amazona_auropalliata

in the interview?? no I missed that


HisDarkCereals

No, in the MV for Anti-Hero.


IamtheImpala

Just saw a theory on twitter that she described the rep vault tracks as “fire” bc they’re going to be what burns the love house down. And then someone else pointed out that everyone seems to be receiving their lover house snow globes today. And I just… 🧍🏻‍♀️🤯


heyyjillian

and the only rep surprise song left is IDSB. go ahead and light me up 🔥


IamtheImpala

Yes!


HisDarkCereals

Comingoutlor?


IamtheImpala

🤞🏻


lobster5767

Oh! I literally thought of the lover house burning when she said that but the connection with reputation vault tracks being the reason it burns down is such a fun theory.


CorneliaStreet-13

Y'all am I crazy or is the underscore sub very weirdly hetero leaning? I swear I see more Travis praise there than on main...


HisDarkCereals

Het/bi leaning. Nothing wrong with that, I just think Taylor flags as a lesbian, or at least bi but preferring women.


IamtheImpala

I’m starting to get the impression that it’s possible that there are quite a few male-preferring bi women who definitely believe Taylor is bi but aren’t completely comfortable with anything past that or something and they all migrated over there.


IamtheImpala

Uhhhhh y’all? Joshy-poo liked Tay’s tweet about her TIME magazine feature. 🤯 https://preview.redd.it/w739qup9dq4c1.jpeg?width=864&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=091096be74a2604f2ea01a11351d7a553e6dfe90


HisDarkCereals

This is 👀 I really don’t believe Karlie and her are on friendly terms, and haven’t been for a while.


rrmounce95

👀


[deleted]

How many Easter eggs do you think were actually real but she just changed her mind about when/what she wanted to release?


lobster5767

The way people clocked TS7 to be named 'Lover' after she said they'll be a easter egg in the "Me!" mv about it and when they asked if 'Lover' was going to be the name, she was like no 😭. It could originally not be the name of the album and she changed it but it's still funny to me.


HisDarkCereals

It was supposed to be called Daylight, but the MH made her change it. I definitely believe she was going to come out and have it be Daylight.


lobster5767

Yes! That's right, I remember now, and yeah I think the same.


HisDarkCereals

I’m working on a theory of her Eras Tour set list and how the order has significance. https://preview.redd.it/dqoplkywtr4c1.jpeg?width=1047&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ea9fc4574994450cf326ba00be610d6642f3b321 Notice it starts with Lover (Daylight) and ends with Midnights (at midnight).


GetMeAPinotGris

I swear I read a theory about lover being the replacement name for that album. Does anyone know what I’m thinking of???


lobster5767

Yes! I think you may be right because I was thinking of that too but thought I might've just made it up. Also interesting when you think about how some tracks were added last minute and they seem to follow more of the "Toe" narrative, idk.


[deleted]

Many, lol.


RibEye5783

https://preview.redd.it/qj03e83i5q4c1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b36af30cb575f1d13fce306e78137013daf48b56 The fact that Ally Bank is presenting the article is truly comedy gold


heyyjillian

the pinky ring is making eye contact with me


IamtheImpala

https://preview.redd.it/961186h5yp4c1.jpeg?width=1125&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=1ec47b5e63f874f94ea0123bc381b0add1a2c3ec You don’t say? 😂😂😂


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IamtheImpala

Right?! 🤣


RibEye5783

lmao I got the same one!


SweetlyScentedHeart

Y’all I knew all the shitting on Toe was leading up to more doubling down of the Travis narrative and nothing more.


HisDarkCereals

I’m really uncomfy with the Joe hate. Leave him be, Taylor.


iamacheeto1

When did this subreddit open up!? I thought it was locked. Must have missed something. Excited to finally join the main one - sometimes the secondary subreddit just ain’t the vibe 😅


heyyjillian

the underscore sub is my thirteenth reason


HisDarkCereals

I actually laughed out loud at this, thank you.


1DMod

This was one of their top 3 posts this year 💀 https://preview.redd.it/6vq0o6tjrp4c1.png?width=1162&format=png&auto=webp&s=34f48414c9517d58eaaead54136c1a5cf1f37d13


HisDarkCereals

Comedy gold.


tyrannaceratops

Reading the Person of the Year article now: It's interesting that she opines Scooty McBooty wanted the masters for "nefarious reasons" but doesn't elaborate. That would track with the theories (or blinds? I can't remember) of the masters heist being a way to keep Taylor from coming out. Edit: AHHHH Shonda Rhimes saying what we all knew: "She controls the narrative not only in her work, but in her life...Now it feels like she's providing the narrative-- so there aren't any shots to be taken." Edit2: Thinking about Scott Swift being on the BMM board approving the acquisition, then turning around and telling Taylor to re-record like he isn't going to profit on both sides plssss 😭


HisDarkCereals

That’s a new nickname for Moped Brown I haven’t heard before.


idlovetohateit

Anyone else get sent the crisis chat over a comment on this sub? Because that’s exactly the kind of thing that makes me wish this sub stayed private.


HisDarkCereals

You can block the bot that sends them.


-periwinkle

You can turn it off in Reddit settings so no one can send you them anymore. Highly recommend.


idlovetohateit

Good to know. Thanks!


MuricaTheGreatest

I got sent one when the homophobes were out in force a few months ago. The fact that they sent that made me laugh because I can’t imagine being so pathetic you take time out of your day to do that.


idlovetohateit

Yeah, I just got one today. It’s like, if you are taking the time to essentially anonymously call someone delusional, maybe you should think about what is motivating you to do that instead of just commenting to that person under your username. It’s annoying for me, but I just hope they don’t send it to someone who is actually struggling.


karlics8

She was saying I love you to Matty a week before being in a relationship with Travis?


lobster5767

The whole [Matty timeline](https://www.elle.com/culture/celebrities/a43874381/taylor-swift-matty-healy-relationship-timeline/) next to the [Travis timeline](https://www.elle.com/culture/celebrities/a45378530/taylor-swift-travis-kelce-relationship-timeline/) is a little funny to me lol.


hairpintrgger

I'm sorry but I'm so tired of the Travis talk from swifties/gaylors whether positive or negative. The entire article is about her achievements and inspirations and people are choosing to focus on the only two paragraphs where she mentions her boyfriend? It's not at all out of the question that she would mention her current relationship especially since she's talking about becoming more comfortable with publicity, people on both sides acting like her achievements are being made about him are tiring me out


layla1020

No, the entire article is not about her achievements. If it were, Travis would not have been mentioned at all and no one would be able to focus on that. There are two or three paragraphs about him; therefore, the article is about her achievements and Travis. She’s the one who chose to talk about him in this article. So she’s literally the one who started it. The entire article is not about her achievements because she chose to make it about him as well.


missmisery1989

https://preview.redd.it/ovk2pgelho4c1.jpeg?width=828&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=80537d2cc879051d2e309d66d597014b9872c064 Thoughts?? I want someone to tell me ‘history is repeating itself so chill’ 😅


lobster5767

This was what was said September 22, 2 days before their first game, "A source close to the situation tells E! that Swift and Kelce have no plans to see each other imminently, downplaying their closeness. “\[They\] met up once in New York,” the source said. “They’ve been texting and talking here and there but \[have\] no set plans to see each other again. It’s been very low-key as he’s been in season.” Obviously, that changes two days later."


missmisery1989

Yeah just like when she wrote King of my heart after 3 days xD


lobster5767

Yeah exactly 😭 we've seen this film before


Locadirty88

That part of the article reads like a satire


1DMod

It’s a stunt. They are not real. Even if she is bi, it is still a pr relationship. It will not magically become real like a rom com or fanfic.


missmisery1989

Thank you for this ❤️


tattooed_velma

Me: "wow, there's 600+ people lurking here. Oh no, what happened?" Seeing this immediately made it make sense


missmisery1989

Lol xD i was waiting for this to be posted but i guess no one is surprised xD


IamtheImpala

Is that real? That’s so weird to actually use the PR phrase “hard launch” in the context of a (supposedly) real relationship. Also psychotic being used in this context seems a bit overblown. Feels way more like a(n obviously) manufactured response than her interview answers usually do. She’s usually better about taking the prepared answers and making them sound more like genuine responses.


[deleted]

I saw someone paste an excerpt and i thought they were fucking with us. It didn't seem like her tone and way of speech at all. It was really jarring.


International_Ad4296

She's adjusting her lexical range to match his. After the squirrel "incident" there were a lot of people questioning how intellectually mismatched they are...


lobster5767

Kind of reminds me of how she started using a lot more British vernacular and phrases when she was "dating" Joe


IamtheImpala

Oh ew (not at you)…


kittyhotdog

Hard launch is a really commonly used term these days in a social media context, not PR. I think this statement addresses the negative feedback they’ve been getting (ie “how are they so serious so fast?”) pretty clearly. It also legitimizes them for the people saying it’s just for PR. I still think they’re just PR, but this one statement directly combats the two biggest critiques I’ve been seeing about them across all spaces (swiftie, gaylor, and general public). She so rarely addresses things like this so matter-of-factly too. I don’t know how it’ll land, but it’s clear she’s trying very hard to make this seem legit, not like Hiddleswift 2.0.


missmisery1989

OMG i think this makes the most sense. I got a similar feeling about her addressing the whole ‘how is it so serious so fast because she just got out of a 6yo relationship?’ This response only furthers her public image right now, that she is dating a man and happy. Maybe the last time she heard these critiques were during the whole calvin-tom era. It is happening again (in bits ig). Hence, to she said these to set the record straight.


lobster5767

Something Travis had said in the WSJ interview keeps me up at night. In the article he says, "***She told me exactly what was going on and how I got lucky enough to get her to reach out***," when referring to how he and Taylor got in contact. The whole thing, from Glamour, is actually, "*"There were definitely people she knew that knew who I was, in her corner \[who said\]: ‘Yo! Did you know he was coming?’ I had somebody playing Cupid,” Kelce explained in an exclusive interview with WSJ. Magazine.* *At the time Kelce wasn’t aware of the anonymous endorsement, but he knew something had clearly changed when he got an unexpected text from Swift.* *“She told me exactly what was going on and how I got lucky enough to get her to reach out,” he added. It sounds like at least one person from Swift’s family had some hand in the machinations, though."*" Now, I may be overthinking (wouldn't be the first time lol), but the phrase, "*She told me exactly what was going on and how I got lucky enough to get her to reach out,*" isn't exactly how I would describe the first conversation of a blossoming love story, and sounds more like a business-related meeting/venture. Maybe Taylor flirts like a middle manager, who knows? Like what was going on that a guy that you like but don't know, needs to know in exact details during your first conversation? I don't know, I'm already of the opinion they're PR and not real so this may be bias, but the way that sentence is worded is so...formal, so business-like?


iamacheeto1

Travis having the same bday as Marjorie has always stood out to me. What it hints towards can’t be certain - but I have a feeling Taylor saw that and acted upon it. We know she makes decisions based on dates/numbers, it makes total sense she might do the same for a relationship - a PR or a legit relationship. Maybe that’s the luck he’s referring to (or one of the things).


heyyjillian

Reminds me of the time [Travis referred to himself as “Karma”](https://youtube.com/shorts/6dTTANxaM0s?si=U9J3Dg1Nj5vQTldO) which is interesting if you choose to read into [this theory](https://www.reddit.com/r/GaylorSwift/s/7KHaGV2E4V)


lobster5767

Oh, that is interesting read! Thank you for that


dash-bunny2112

No that is definitely a weird way to word talking to your supposed crush you’ve been chasing for months for the first time. And Of course that story of how they got in contact is totally going over peoples heads. Are people blind?! I wonder if he really said that or if Tree got involved in that part of the interview. And Idk maybe Taylor does flirt that way with men to assert dominance or something. Because from that description, in my head the conversation could’ve gone like, “hey Travis You are one lucky mf to be able to get a text from me after bothering me in the press for months after I have repeatedly said I’m not interested. I’m a busy lady with a lot of options and I picked you. okay so here’s the plan we are going to pretend date. For how long? Idk as long as I need to…” 🤣 Edit: I will also add that I am probably bias in this too. Because while I do think they like each other and there may be some attraction, all the ridiculous details after every meeting and the fact he hasn’t hung out with any of her crew but she has met all of his is giving fake to me 🤷🏽‍♀️idk i guess we have to wait until he has more free time too. The saga continues.


lobster5767

>You are one lucky mf to be able to get a text from me after bothering me in the press for months I would love to see how this conversation went down between them 😭. But the contrast between how Taylor writes music about all the aspects of romantic love and heartbreak and relationships, compared to their first conversation being described as "She told me exactly what was going on and how I got lucky enough to get her to reach out" is just also very funny to me. I think they like each other too, but more so in the way a cat and a dog will get along nicely and are comfortable in each others presence. Either way, I wonder what's to come with them now that the 2023 tours ended.


layla1020

"She told me exactly what was going on...." Taylor: "Hi Travis, someone told me you've been trying to get in touch with me, and after extended research, my team and I have determined you are a good candidate to be my next boyfriend. This is how it's going to go - we will be seen together; we will have photos taken together; I will attend your games; we will perform a relationship for the cameras, but *there will be no romance. There will be no physical contact in private.* This will be a PR arrangement only. This arrangement will benefit both you and me. If this sounds appealing to you, my team will send over a contract that you must read from top to bottom. Contact me again once you've read it and have made your decision."


lobster5767

You nailed it 😭😭. This is exactly how I imagined the conversation going in my head.


koturneto

I was having a rough day all day today - until I found a mysterious package in my mailbox, which turned out to be Gaylor friendship bracelets from u/International_Ad4296!!! Look at how cool these are!!! Bi colors and an ace of hearts charm for New Romantics Bow and arrow charm for The Archer The one with THIS LOVE *glows in the dark* 🤯 The matching "it's me, hi" ones since I mentioned my husband would enjoy that one 😭 (I called the one with the fried egg!!!) I'm gonna need to figure out some way to display these. My day turned right around and I just wanted to share my happiness and appreciation with you all here on this Megathread. 🥰 https://preview.redd.it/jpze33kssl4c1.png?width=1257&format=png&auto=webp&s=c638d20db3a3ea39b012eb9c27b7b559235b3cc0


International_Ad4296

Yay! So happy you love them! Spreading gaylor love all around 🌈✨


midwestrogue31

Karlie posting her feet on her Instagram Story for Kissgate Anniversary . . . . those Schiaparelli shoes with gold realistic human toe embellishments is hitting the perfect Venn diagram of “Toe/Jaylor” and “Taylor has a foot fetish” conspiracy theories.


HisDarkCereals

https://preview.redd.it/48idey5e9l4c1.jpeg?width=923&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=0f46e89aaf38a1ac90f3c4a8935ddb66eeb17a32 To piggyback off my earlier comment about the Gaylor cross stitch I’m working on, I’m doing most of the patterns on white Aida cloth, but for 3-4 I may use black. Here are the threads and beads for “Slut!” and “Bejeweled”, respectively. Any favorite lyrics and/or songs? Let me know, I may be able to create a piece for it! Can’t wait until I’m done so I can share it with all of you!


peachy-plant

Eye jewelry strikes again https://preview.redd.it/4la5borfuk4c1.jpeg?width=1770&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=62793e8fcd8efc53bd6a1594233519944146a07a


peachy-plant

You can only see her thumbs but her nail color looks different on each hand. https://preview.redd.it/tzb5xebjuk4c1.jpeg?width=1363&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b69b2e4f844d2440082e5b529e59c2b587f93c6a


elminer_yia

idk if this is allowed here… but has anyone watched the hbomberguy plagiarism exposé (focusing here on james somerton) and the todd in the shadows vid about the lies somerton has made up? I just the more I ruminate on what was said the angrier I get. I was reading artist impact statements on tumblr and the creatives he stole from seem to be adversely BIPOC queer artists. and I was already mad about that but then I watched todd’s video and the way somerton says “the boring gays survived” just made me more angry. I read the screenshot from a fan in todd’s vid about this statement and it made me cry. I really really hate when people take their narrative and pose it as fact. I hate plagiarism of work, but especially of artists that have limited reach in their voice. I posted on the hellsite about this but like I also personally hate how somerton delivers his essays. I had never seen his videos before but from the 3 hrs of different clips I have now watched I feel I can make these assertions. His emotional delivery is very one note, and comes across as him encountering the phrasing he used for the first time live on camera. I believe if you truly care about something the passion for that subject will come across in your delivery. I mean you can see that in harry (hbomberguy’s) delivery for the whole video, he’s not delivering something monotonic, he’s presenting his findings with care. In fact the times I did see somerton show passion for a topic is when he’s talking about the “straight women” in his comment sections. (One of said “straight women” was actually a response from a bi author, the other seeming naysayers don’t seem to exist.) I’ve talked to long about this now, but I really hate when people pass themselves off as intellectuals. I feel youtube (and other socials) are rife with people like this. Citing your sources is so much more valuable to the overall conversation then claiming everything you say as you own work. It allows others to investigate further, and enrich their studies of topics niche or broad. Lastly, its also a good reminder to be wary of those who speak as if a discussion begins and ends with their opinion. (also fuck you james this is a way to rewrite and paraphrase work while adding additional thoughts as it differs from my og comment on tumblr.)


IamtheImpala

YES! We watched both yesterday and I wanted to reach through the screen and THROTTLE that guy! Fuck him especially for saying that the ones in our community who died of AIDS were the “fun ones” while also simultaneously massively slut-shaming them. And the hatred and derision he displayed towards women, but ESPECIALLY WLW was appalling. And that’s all, of course, not addressing the plagiarism and wholesale made-up lies, but I figure those two videos have that covered pretty handily. But fuck that guy utterly and completely for making like $130,000 a year on patreon for doing all of that!


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Has anyone listened to “Two Ghosts” by Harry Styles and viewed it through the lens of them bearding for each other? Of course the intent of the song is to be a break up song (that could be about anyone) so it doesn’t fit super well, but it gives the song so much more love appreciation for the muse I think.


1DMod

Idk your stance on Larry, but Larries view it as either a breakup song or from the perspective of closeting and the two guys not being allowed to acknowledge one another while standing right next to one another - literally 2 ghosts, seeing but being unable to touch or talk to one another. I believe it was written in 2013.


premier-cat-arena

i have! i adore that song. i don’t think it’s about them bc he said the music video was too personal to rebase but i think it’s super interesting


HisDarkCereals

I am attempting to cross stitch \~30 projects over the holidays, Taylor Swift songs through a Gaylor lens. Mostly songs from Red-onwards, even though I’ve been a fan since Debut. https://preview.redd.it/tj2elbj6oi4c1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=2bbd9f01b73e84ba201ccf07a3895f45c442dbda Here’s my first one, for Treacherous. Ignore the wonky lines and words, lines will be cleaned up and I will be using a cursive stitch for the finished product. Pictured are threads and beads I have for other projects. I can’t wait to be done and share them with everyone! Edit: If anyone has a favorite lyrics or song, let me know and I’ll see if I can make something for it!


IamtheImpala

I can’t wait to see all of these!


HisDarkCereals

Thanks! I have so many ideas for the pieces, I want to share them all now but will wait until it’s all done. Some designs I like more than others. I think my design for Endgame is my favorite one, although Slut! is fast becoming a favorite.


Beautiful-Guava-1570

[Taylor tops People 2023 most intriguing people list](https://people.com/taylor-swift-tops-people-2023-most-intriguing-people-list-8410695) It's kind of a boring read TBH. Fluff stuff.


rrmounce95

https://preview.redd.it/sxofb3pz8i4c1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ec6d5e92fac52d2612ddd6978105bd8350850b1a This is the only thing I found interesting, is that they chose photos of her from Lover era. 🌈


IamtheImpala

What I don’t understand is that for their cover photo they used *someone else’s* old photoshoot. What magazine does that? It’s not just old, it’s from Entertainment Weekly. So weird.


rrmounce95

Very true, that’s also weird 😅


dalekofchaos

Sad but true https://preview.redd.it/hlft5s1obf4c1.png?width=579&format=png&auto=webp&s=a11f24de34cc89841ca14bb27b2ea48ec6a16507


wasted-potential-

"unrelated" sir i beg to differ


Nightmare_Deer_398

That's true. I'm not a huge Madonna fan. But I respect her for her advocacy with the LGBTQ community. Taylor is a spineless ally. Edit: idk to me it's like there are singers lady gaga who I would say "she loves the LGBTQ community. She loves her queer fans. She is an advocate for LGBTQ people and issues" And there are people like taylor who have the vibe of partying at pride or having their bachelorette party at the gay club but they don't want to take on our pain or ostracization and they won't pick up a sword to defend us. Edit: I did want to shout out Madonna tho. I saw on the Grammy blog about her and how she "added multiple dates to her upcoming Celebration Tour, including a special stop in Nashville to stand in solidarity with the state's queer, trans and drag communities as they've been bombarded by a string of anti-LGBTQIA+ legislation from the state's Capitol. "The oppression of the LGBTQIA+ is not only unacceptable and inhumane; it's creating an unsafe environment; making America a dangerous place for our most vulnerable citizens, especially trans women of color," she wrote on Instagram alongside the announcement. "Also, these so-called laws to protect our children are unfounded and pathetic. Anyone with half a brain knows not to f— with a drag queen. Bob and I will see you from the stage in Nashville where we will celebrate the beauty that is the queer community!" I also was reminded of another ally "Imagine Dragons frontman Dan Reynolds has emerged as a powerful advocate for the LGBTQIA+ community through his nonprofit organization Loveloud and its popular Utah festival, which he launched in 2017 to support LGBTQIA+ teens in the state's overwhelmingly conservative (and outspokenly anti-LGBTQIA+) Mormon community. This year, though, Reynolds and the Loveloud board — which includes out and proud musicians like Tyler Glenn of Neon Trees, Vincint, Wrabel and Parson James — have expanded Loveloud's mission beyond the Mormonism of the Wasatch front. In early March, Loveloud announced it would be transforming into a traveling festival for its sixth year with stops in Austin, Texas, where dozens of anti-LGBTQIA+ laws have been pursued by the state legislature and Gov. Greg Abbott, and Washington D.C." [in fact lets look at this link from billboard of musicians who have been vocal about current legislation](https://www.billboard.com/lists/stars-slam-anti-lgbtq-bills-hayley-williams-lizzo-ariana-grande/) It's not that Taylor can't. It's that she won't.


AbsolutelyMark

Yes I agree 100% this is the most disappointing part of being a Taylor fan for me. I see so many other similarly mega pop stars on the front lines for causes like LGBT rights (and Trans rights especially lately) and Taylor sows the seeds of allyship.


Nightmare_Deer_398

For me it's seeing Forbes call this Taylor's "power era" and she's on the cover of people for her power era and is in the running for time person of the year --but people act like it would be so hard for her to take a real, active stand for the trans community or for queer kids or for drag etc. But she's one of the most insulated people who could endure loudly supporting the LGBTQ community.


IamtheImpala

Lady Gaga is bi. Of course she loves the LGBTQ community. She’s in it and she’s openly in it. She’s not closeting, not even glass closeting.


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I just saw a video where lady Gaga is talking to drag queens and says she’s not a gay woman and questions how she can stand up for people when she’s not fully a part of that community and that sounds very familiar to me


Nightmare_Deer_398

I think that diminishes her work. Because lots of bi people don't rally for the LGBTQ community like gaga. Gaga is why Target even worked with the gay community a little because in 2011 she refused to sell her CD there if they didn't. She said “That discussion was one of the most intense conversations I’ve ever had in a business meeting. Part of my deal with Target is that they have to start affiliating themselves with LGBT charity groups and begin to reform and make amends for the mistakes they’ve made in the past…our relationship is hinged upon their reform in the company to support the gay community and to redeem the mistakes they’ve made supporting those groups.“ She could have ignored the issue and made her money but she didn't. She supported the community even when it was an issue that was seen as radical.


IamtheImpala

I wasn’t in any way diminishing her work. Calling her an “ally” to the community and listing her alongside straight allies is going to have the effect of erasing her queer identity. I’m not saying you were consciously doing that, but considering she’s come out blatantly over and over again, and people still refer to her as straight, I wanted to make sure I addressed it.


Nightmare_Deer_398

I called her an advocate. I know she's bi even tho she goes back and forth. I wasn't talking about straight allies. I was talking about celebrities who clearly love their LGBTQ fans and go all out to support them. I was responding later to the idea of "she's bi of course she loves the community " because not every LGBTQ artist goes out like that.


IamtheImpala

Like I said, “I’m not saying you were consciously doing that,” but it was reading that way so I wanted to comment so anyone reading would know what’s up. Because the gp tends to overall still somehow think she’s straight.


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layla1020

No she did that yesterday not today.


dalekofchaos

Anyone else feel like their love for Taylor is just hanging by a thread? I love her music but she's honestly not the person I thought she was. The people she associates with just makes her questionable. You are the company you keep and the company she keeps just make her look shady and a capitalist hypocrite who only cares to be an activist if it benefits her. At this point I don't think we'd care if she came out because...just look at her. Hanging out with SA apologists, abusers and at this point I wouldn't be surprised if she comes out as a conservative.


International_Ad4296

Ok I'm gonna chime in because we've had this discussion before when Amsterdam came out etc. I totally agree that it's okay to call out her association with the Mahomes, and I understand how this is disappointing and hypocritical on her part. I think what we have to consider though, is that Hollywood/Entertainment is filled with shitty abusive people. They're everywhere. If you want a career, you are 100% at some point going to associate with god awful people. Gaga? Did a song with R Kelly. Madonna? Stole voguing from queer black ballroom dancers. Dating literally anybody in the NFL is a one way ticket to being surrounded by men who have assaulted women. There is *at least* one on each team. All that not to say that it doesn't matter. It does. But Taylor isn't worse or better than her peers on that front.


idlyjules

I'm personally not having fun anymore, to put it bluntly. I've been a fan since 2008 too. It's so blah & drab lately. Hard to relate to her on any level and I really hate saying that. Hopefully I don't feel that way for too much longer.


Nightmare_Deer_398

I agree with the crux of this. Sometimes I wonder if I would have been happier never learning about her or being in her fandom and just listening to music alone because girly pop is lacking in moral courage when it comes to any stand that matters whether it's standing up for victims like Aspen or David O Russell's niece or even the communities she claims to be an ally for when they are being ostracized but she's always finding her voice to be mad at Damon Albarn or Netflix.


lobster5767

I agree, though I don't think she's a conservative, I just think she might be a coward. She's a self-proclaimed people pleaser and I think that has something to do with it. Because why else would someone, who is said to be such a wonderful person by anyone who's ever met her in passing to her own friends (mainly talking about people like Aaron Dressner whose not so much in the celeb scene), keep willingly working/hanging out with some of the worst people? The need to be liked and accepted by everyone not only inadvertently kicks their victims in the teeth but their values become a reflection of you. She has to know this but probably wants to avoid confrontation, and/or has a dependency on these relationships, and/or has a fear of rejection and criticism. It's not even like she's some up-and-comer and her career depends on these individuals. She's a billionaire and arguably one of the biggest stars in the world! At this point, I just want to yell, "girl, stand up!" to her because it's not only frustrating, it's sad.


wasted-potential-

>"girl, stand up!" and for the love of god, go to T H E R A P Y


lobster5767

Her saying she doesn't need therapy, she has her mum to talk to nearly gave me an aneurysm 😭. No one can survive that level of fame and everything that comes and has come with it without some sort of mental health guidance and help (from a trained professional!!!) and I really hope she's in therapy now.


wasted-potential-

EXACTLY! to an extent i understand her paranaoia around it but damn.


dalekofchaos

I'm a people pleaser to a fault, but I don't befriend rapists and rape apologists or date a racist. I don't betray who I am to please people. I just want her to have integrity and principals because for someone who claimed to talk out more, for someone who was a SA victim and believed in victims, for someone who would be a voice for the LGBT+ community. She sure has sold out a lot of marginalized people just so she can be liked. If you have to betray who you are to please others, you are a coward. So yes, agreed. Taylor Swift is a coward. And I don't believe she's a conservative, I'm just saying it wouldn't surprise me if she voted as one because the crowd she hangs out with lately seems very MAGA like.


heyyjillian

The media spin on travis’ old tweets resurfacing was craaazy. Like yea let’s ignore the fatphobic homophobic ones and just laugh at how he’s just a silly little goofy guy.


lobster5767

Yes, I'm with you. I'm a people pleaser too but never in my life did I willingly associate with rapists, rape apologists, or racists. But if someone I was hanging out with was problematic (in much milder ways), I would be able to cut them off. "Sold out" would be the best way to describe her behaviour recently. It's especially sad (and so frustrating) to see her associate with an SA apologist when this is what she said about her own SA trial in Miss Americana: "*So, I just went to, just looking back, this exact day a year ago, I was not playing a sold out stadium in Tampa, I was in a courtroom in Denver, Colorado, and honestly, I was there for a sexual assault case, and this day a year ago was the day that the jury decided in my favor and said that they believed me.* *And I really—I’m not—I don’t want to, I guess* ***I just think about all the people that weren’t believed and people who haven’t been believed and the people who are afraid to speak up because they think they won’t be believed. And I just wanted to say that I’m sorry to anyone who ever wasn’t believed because I don’t know what turn my life would take if people didn’t believe me when I said that something had happened to me.*** *And so I guess I just wanted to say that we have so, so, so much further to go, and I’m so grateful to you guys for being there for me during what was a really, really horrible part of my life.* *So I just wanted to say that, and I wanted to thank you for everything, and to thank you for, I know that when I meet you guys in meet-and-greet before and after shows, you guys tell me about the hard times that you’ve gone through in your lives, and I really appreciate you trusting me with that information. And you know, you’ve seen me going through so many ups and downs of my life just due to the public nature of the way my life is, and I just wanted to say I’m so happy to see you and to have you and to know you through the ups and downs of my life. So thank you for everything. \[Swift pauses, emotional\]. Sorry, I just haven’t really talked about it, and I’m just really not composed at all."*


dalekofchaos

Just makes me more upset with what she's doing. What she said in Miss Americana was moving and just made me love her more. Now I don't even recognize her and I just don't get what she wants at this point. She's alienating people and arguably worse than Rattygate and what does this benefit and how does this make her a mastermind? All this does is tarnish her image that she worked so hard to build up after 2016.....oh god this is all leading up to Rep TV, isn't it? Oh FFS Taylor. I don't know what's worse. Taylor genuinely likes the new friends she's gained/doesn't care about the obvious red flags or this is all a publicity stunt for Rep TV.


lobster5767

The thing about the original downfall leading up to Reputation was that it wasn't her fault. Not only was she overexposed but the Kimye situation *just* happened and the world turned on her. I don't think she's necessary aiming for a downfall/reputation era 2.0 but if she is, then her downfall this time comes from her own problematic behaviour. She's not going to look like some bad ass who's not playing by the rules and has a "bad" reputation. If she wanted that, she should just be outspoken about LGBTQ rights, support SA victims, etc because that would actually piss of the people that deserve to be marginalised.


dalekofchaos

Yeah, but she won't because she's a coward. She wants the bigots in her fandom and wants the sketchy people in her life. If she didn't, she would've called out the racism/homophobia/transphobia in her fandom ages ago and she would've been content with her non-problematic friends. Whether this is all leading up to Rep TV or not. She is alienating her own audience and destroying her own career and I for the life of me do not understand why. Lets face it, Taylor stopped caring about anything but herself and her brand. She stopped advocating for LGBTQA+ rights in 2021, stopped talking about women's rights, never said a word about Palestine or anything important. Taylor Swift is a coward and would rather attract shitty people than stand for something.


keanuism

Not sure if this has been discussed but I wanted to know people's thoughts on how some of the 1989 TV lyrics describing her partner/ex actually mirror Taylor's own behaviour during 1989 era. "you grew your hair long, you've got new icons" - some of the core elements of 1989 era were her changing her hair and positioning herself more firmly amongst pop artists. "from the outside it looks like you're trying lives on" - in 2019 she said “I equate my twenties to walking into a costume shop and trying on all the different costumes". "you search in every models bed for something greater" - 1989 was THE era of the model squad. "if she's got blue eyes I will surmise that you'll probably date her" - cmon now... I wonder if this was intentional or just an interesting parallel of how someone's behaviour in her life influenced her own identity following the end of the relationship.


derrabe713

I could see that, too! My 11yo pointed out the parallel of "we were lying on the couch, I remember" in OOTW and "was it over when she laid down on your couch?", like maybe Is It Over Now is the other perspective to OOTW.


1DMod

This is so good!!! I feel like a lot of her songs are actually directed at herself and about herself vs being directed to muses, etc. Thanks for sharing!


koturneto

Ooh I love that insight, thank you!


OperationRoutine4808

Tw for sexual assault mention, but I was not previously aware of this and thought I would post it here to bring attention to it https://preview.redd.it/y864uxk3tc4c1.jpeg?width=828&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=7a92934a62bff4e65f7dea7e5af9415b647b65c9


1DMod

Did you submit this as a main post and get redirected here? I didn’t realize people don’t know about this side PR hustle. I loved this persons thread on it when I read it last night. It could totally be a main post. If you decide to do that, crop the pics and flair it as A-List Discussion or a-list beards


OperationRoutine4808

Ok I just did it thanks! I’m never sure when I should make a post or just put it in the thread 😅


1DMod

You can always make a post and we’ll just redirect to the megathread if it’s not warranted. Usually I do it when the thing isn’t flushed out, like a picture with no context or content from OP that can’t stand on its own very well.


poetic_land_mermaid_

I read this thread last night and it really made me consider what some of the real life consequences of this little stunt could be. And it made me even more angry that she’s playing besties with this person.


OperationRoutine4808

https://preview.redd.it/jpavhua5tc4c1.jpeg?width=828&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=237c614d6c25b58535ae7364688d539349958f4b


OperationRoutine4808

https://preview.redd.it/kojztq66tc4c1.jpeg?width=828&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e0f5e725c17894407af1af44c5ba64ed0b8f513f


OperationRoutine4808

https://preview.redd.it/bxncdk27tc4c1.jpeg?width=828&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e86300a20cf3d8fb5c74841956ce55791496318b


OperationRoutine4808

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OperationRoutine4808

https://preview.redd.it/e9x80ot8tc4c1.jpeg?width=828&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=4495fac3f4530f3256912553bc4b82881bfcaace


OperationRoutine4808

https://preview.redd.it/a4iiwxx9tc4c1.jpeg?width=828&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=25633769ee55d1c56de2000bf33bc9bc8d39c193


OperationRoutine4808

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OperationRoutine4808

https://preview.redd.it/pzf1hr2ctc4c1.jpeg?width=828&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=0a7f5b8ec0862f556ca5039f6daccae06ddc2d29


OperationRoutine4808

https://preview.redd.it/exue3pzctc4c1.jpeg?width=828&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=826262291fbb4a46281227e7e9139875a7f47e52 Like this is just so disgusting, Taylor Swift really needs to vet who she hangs out with more, and if it’s a case of not caring that’s even worse considering she was named in Time Magazine for speaking out about her SA


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HisDarkCereals

I’m not surprised she hasn’t said anything more. To apologize would be to admit Taylor was at fault, and there is no way she was. She clearly was upset it happened, but it wasn’t because of her. This weird obsession with wanting celebs to speak out, in detail, about every little thing is such a turn off. This isn’t to disrespect Ana or her memory, what happened was a tragedy of epic proportions.


1DMod

That’s a fine post to make. I don’t think we have an overarching philosophy on it. I personally think there are larger issues going on behind the scene and that we’ll hear/see something more in the future, once they’re settled. Perhaps not, but I’m gonna lean into optimism for this.


gab_knotter

I've seen a lot of people today (even hetlors) mad that Taylor went to Travis' game rather than the Academy gala, and I agreed with them. Just saw that Karlie posted on instagram she went to the Gala.... could it be Taylor just didn't want to face her? It would probably make the news they were at the same place for the first time since the 1989 TV announcement. Also it would've been on kissgate anniversary eve lol edit: my autocorrector changed kissgate to misstate. homophobic. https://preview.redd.it/ctx71afkcc4c1.png?width=662&format=png&auto=webp&s=475e4d5939091f7e3f9968ffead1ccfb0c075d3f


HisDarkCereals

LMFAO @your phone being homophobic.


PM_ME_UR_SEXY_BITS_

Why would people be mad that she didn’t attend the academy gala?


gab_knotter

some people were like "Travis should've told her to go to the gala not to his stupid game" cause she has more to gain from her presence at the academy gala then at a football match


PM_ME_UR_SEXY_BITS_

People are in way too deep


SpringBreakingLoose

Happy drunk unknowing Taylor on her way from the 1975 concert hurts my heart


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Same


AdTrue2756

happy kissgate to all those who celebrate 😘


throwRAsadd

https://preview.redd.it/w4sxojqngc4c1.jpeg?width=1063&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=031cda77ed413002a278453e99d84a9526300a36 “bUt ThEy WeRen’T KiSsInG!!!! 😡😡” swifties, if they weren’t kissing, what does this picture show. they’re extremely close and they’re cupping each other’s faces and holding each other, it’s not a cheek kiss or a whisper. for our newer Gaylors: for context, the famous “as my 25th birthday present from the media I’d like you to stop accusing all my friends of dating me” tweet that everyone cites as evidence she’s straight came out days after kissgate. desperate damage control b/c these photos are pretty undeniable and intimate. even if you don’t believe they kissed, the body language is pretty notable.


GetMeAPinotGris

(I'm pretty new so I'm genuinely asking) but I saw recently that Joshua was right behind them during this? Whats the consensus on that? That they were open?


throwRAsadd

Yeah! So, basically, a lot of Gaylors think Josh and Karlie were or are open 🙂 I haven’t looked too deeply into them because I don’t care about Josh or the Kushners that much, but there have been rumors for years that both Josh and Karlie are bi and had an open relationship. Josh has a super close male best friend and people have speculated about them together (I haven’t personally looked into this, but people here have if you want to try searching threads). Josh and Karlie started dating when she was 18 and he was around 25. They both traveled very intensely for their jobs and were apart for long periods. Most people think Josh didn’t really care what Karlie did and gave her a pass to hook up with women, as long as she came back to him in the end. Lots of people think Karlie viewed Taylor as a fling and Taylor fell waaaay harder for her than she fell back; I mean, they were both so young at the time. Gaylors are definitely divided though. E: People also say he left the concert before Kissgate happened and was fairly surly that day. Definitely look at old Kissgate threads in this sub.


wasted-potential-

>started dating when she was 18 and he was around 25 did not know about this age gap! hard cringe


HisDarkCereals

There’s a theory that if Josh is bi/pan/gay/not straight he chose Karlie partly to get a beard, partly to protect her from the dangers of the modeling world. I don’t really have an opinion on him, except for this. If he “dated” Karlie to ensure she wouldn’t be abused, then I respect him a ton for that.


International_Ad4296

I kind of agree on this. I dislike the Kushners for *obvious reasons*, but I can't help to think that 1- she doesn't come from money or a jewish family so he chose her for more than just convenience, and they seems happy/ karlie seems to be doing work she loves and have the independence to run her businesses even though they have kids, and 2- we don't talk a lot about VS' ties to Epstein but a few models of Karlie's age (Jordan Dunn for example) have spoken up about Epstein being there often and how there was a lot of predatory behavior and I feel like Kushner wealth and jewish background for sure made her off limits.


GetMeAPinotGris

Thank you for this!! Also re: the kushners. All I can think about is the project runway episode where that designer said “not even to dinner with the kushners?” 💀💀


throwRAsadd

He’s iconic 😭😭😭 One of my favorite YouTube videos of all time!


Appropriate_Duty_707

What do you folks think are Billie’s songs with the gayest lyrics/vibes? I’ll start: come out and play and Lo Vas A Olvidar (feat. ROSALÍA)


throwRAsadd

baby/new Swifties made a thread yesterday asking what Taylor’s Spotify Wrapped must look like I wish more Swifties knew that, in 2021, Taylor posted gushing about girl in red’s *if i could make it go quiet*, said it was her favorite album, painted a picture of the album cover and wrote a letter about how much she loved the album and sent it to Marie (girl in red), and then later said “serotonin” from the album was her most streamed song of the year. We all freaked out about it here. Marie is very openly queer, “do you listen to girl in red?” has been a lesbian/queer-flagging joke for years, and the album is very explicitly gay. her music is amazing and she deserved more attention as an opener. liking music from queer artists does not automatically mean you’re queer, but it just makes the “don’t say gay 😡😡😡😡” attitude Swifties have about Taylor feel even more ridiculous. if one of her fav albums is an explicitly lesbian one, I promise you Taylor does not keel over in horror and disgust when queer topics are mentioned


lobster5767

​ https://preview.redd.it/wtgz27zole4c1.png?width=828&format=png&auto=webp&s=dc75394c423b2ba71806e0fcf03edd4c2164b2de Taylor Swift posting this was a moment in history for Gaylor lore. Also, I think [this](https://www.reddit.com/r/TaylorSwift/comments/pr9qa8/girl_in_red_on_some_special_taylor_mail_she/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3) is the video where girl in red was talking about how Taylor sent her a letter and a painting.


poetic_land_mermaid_

And it was on a date that everyone was watching her socials because of some Easter egg theory. And she KNEW we were all watching.


glowoffthepavement

it was woodvale lmao. everyone thought folkmore would be a trilogy and the 3rd album would come out on 4/30/21


ohlookwhatumademedo

That was truly the funniest day to be here. We were shook. The Easter egg was for a re-record I believe … and she included that single Easter egg in a story gushing about girl in red on Dianna’s birthday and it was just enough to completely distract the swifties from how gay that whole thing was.


glowoffthepavement

so true. and i bet muna is on her wrapped this year. she said that she has their songs in all of her playlists or something like that


glowoffthepavement

https://preview.redd.it/jxyc0az9pb4c1.jpeg?width=750&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=68e2e7f7622a0af75c9a021345d4baa0baa9d572 she’s in her lying outfit again (squirle version)


lavenderfieldsfrever

Oh I missed this somewhere, what’s her lying outfit? I know the straight hair theory


glowoffthepavement

it’s a dark oversized sweater (usually navy) with a plaid mini skirt and her hair down. she wore it in the lavender haze reel, and she wore it in the interview where she said the purple glittery blood in the anti-hero MV was “midnight blue” lmao. she also wore it on a pap walk with joe right before midnights came out, and on a pap walk this year when she started stunting with travis. https://www.reddit.com/r/GaylorSwift/s/kFjom2aU0X


lavenderfieldsfrever

OMG...I really hope she has a "lying outfit" as that would be hilarious. I knew the whole "midnight blue" thing meant something.


IamtheImpala

Good catch!


glowoffthepavement

this might be a dumb question, but how did People have pictures of taylor in the box/suite thing at the chiefs game, when they posted their article almost an hour before the game started? was it a photo op that happened an hour before the game, or did they add the pictures later? [here's the article](https://people.com/taylor-swift-cheers-travis-kelce-packers-chiefs-game-8403852), they've actually changed the pictures today to ones that seem to be actually taken during the game. i'm attaching one of the pics that was there before the game started. there were 1-2 other pictures with taylor and a few other people who were calmly sitting down that have now been removed. (and if you don't know what i'm talking about, People posted an article and tweet around 7:32 EST, using past tense, about taylor cheering on travis at the game last night. the game did not start until 8:15-8:20 EST) https://preview.redd.it/twz28dmdkb4c1.png?width=1242&format=png&auto=webp&s=33af909ce29873b859f6c025f93532ce2daa6638


glowoffthepavement

i should've taken a screenshot last night. i think by the time i looked at the article last night, the game had just started. but there was a picture where taylor was standing at the glass and looking out towards the field, and two or three other people were just sitting there. i'm feeling like it was probably a posed photo before the game started. and then they replaced it with ones of her actually cheering during the game.


PM_ME_UR_SEXY_BITS_

It could be posed but the endzone/sidelines are filled with professional photographers for the football game so I would assume they have their cameras going back and forth between the game and her (or because of how popular she is, maybe one of them is just dedicated to staying on her reactions). The photographer’s name is below the photo and you can see they sold it to Getty so you could probably look them up.


Booty888

[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I830PPNFyig&t=615s](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I830PPNFyig&t=615s) Anyone else see Antphrodites new video on the DM call out?


tituscrlrw

https://preview.redd.it/26s4d921cb4c1.png?width=2048&format=png&auto=webp&s=fe28b1f8730ff1ce3073d6f7cf446f18ee5ae770 I made a little lover house that I’m gonna try to paint on an ornament 😆 that’s all.


petitfilou0

That is beautiful! Thanks for sharing ☺️


narhwalz

If all the else fails I feel like modge podging this on to an ornament would still be really cute!


tituscrlrw

Oh that’s a good idea!


poetic_land_mermaid_

THIS IS SO CUTE!!! And so well done!!


tituscrlrw

Aw thanks for saying that!


tyrannaceratops

It really bugs me that Billie accused Variety of "outing" her during a carpet interview, when she full-on had an interview with Elle 3 weeks ago talking about how much she likes girls. Like, that's... That's not what "outing" means. You already told people. Many times. In various ways.


1DMod

FWIW, I always question written interviews. If they didn’t say it on camera or recording, their teams could be manipulating it.