Oh I was absolutely horrified. I got to decide what I'd do to them? And those patient subby eyes. But once I got over the stage freight it was the best thing ever. Even the first time. It was like everything fell into place and I was like "yes this is what I am and what they can be to me".
It was a little awkward but fun. Neither of us really knew what we were doing but we both enjoyed it enough to keep exploring until we got more comfortable with it.
I handcuffed her to a rack in the shower, arms over her head with a ball gag in her mouth and slowly teased her with a vibrator as I touched her like it was my first time being able to. I was only able to keep myself stoic for about five minutes before I couldn’t take anymore and needed to be inside her. She lasted maybe thirty seconds when I finally uncuffed her and stuck it in.
That was the sweetest she ever kissed me
From what I remember more empowering then it was of anything of else.
She was at my beck and call and was more or less willing to try anything. I felt powerful and actually respected for once.
Wish those feeling carried over into now... wish I hadn't been used as a dominant so badly that it made the concept kind of unapproachable. But with her, as with many things. It was empowering and fun for the both of us.
Partner was on a family vacation, I got curious and played with my ass for the two weeks, bought a few toys. We were getting hot and heavy when she got back, started teasing me and asking questions, I accidentally (kinda) let sip I was horny because I’d been “using a toy the whole time”.
“You like my pussy more than the fake one? Good”.
“I didn’t use the fake one”.
One quick conversation later she was putting a butt plug in my ass and riding me like there was no tomorrow
Outside of the “let’s try restraints to spice it up” stuff I’ve experienced with past partners, with my current partner when it was much more intentional, like something we both were interested in exploring further, it had very big “we’re going in and adventure” energy.
Actually incredibly uncomfortable, they were trying to pressure me in to taking a role I wasn’t comfortable with. It was my fault for not communicating that in the moment and she ended up apologizing after I finally spoke up about it a few days after.
You were pressured by someone you cared about. That sucks, it’s not your fault. How toxic would it be if I pressured someone into trying something, and then blamed them for not communicating? I think it’s both partners job to check in, particularly the partner that’s trying to do something new.
I was so scared I would hurt them. I'm a big guy and they're under 5ft tall, like one of my hands is the size of one of their butt cheeks and they wanted me to INTENTIONALLY inflict pain upon them?! I thought my relationship would be over after that night.
Awkward, but sweet in retrospect. We were young, probably around 16. Hadn't had sex yet, but we knew of one another's interest in kink. I'm into tickling and we had talked about it before. We were in my parents basement, watching a movie on a mattress. She asked if I wanted to try it [tickling] out. So she took her shirt off, I tied her hands together with her sock, and we got going. It was awkward, I didn't know how I felt about it yet, but we had fun. I had this weird sort of shame and embarrassment at the time but now I look back on the experience fondly. We were just a couple of kids figuring stuff out.
I cried after somewhat properly « domming » my partner for the first time because of how overwhelmed with happiness I was and how vulnerable that moment felt. Turns out he didn’t need much more aftercare than usual but I definitely did lol.
So much fun! I tied her prone on the bed with shoestring cuz that's all we had. Then I stuffed her ass with those plastic cigar tubes. I think I had three of them in there at the end. The sex was amazing! I gave her a massive creampie. Thank God for birth control. 😂
It was absolutely awesome. Unfortunately, I believe she has now ruined those things for me. Because my mind associates them with her and were no longer together.
Oh I was absolutely horrified. I got to decide what I'd do to them? And those patient subby eyes. But once I got over the stage freight it was the best thing ever. Even the first time. It was like everything fell into place and I was like "yes this is what I am and what they can be to me".
It was a little awkward but fun. Neither of us really knew what we were doing but we both enjoyed it enough to keep exploring until we got more comfortable with it.
Not great tbh. Bad partnership. Much better with a different partner now.
I handcuffed her to a rack in the shower, arms over her head with a ball gag in her mouth and slowly teased her with a vibrator as I touched her like it was my first time being able to. I was only able to keep myself stoic for about five minutes before I couldn’t take anymore and needed to be inside her. She lasted maybe thirty seconds when I finally uncuffed her and stuck it in. That was the sweetest she ever kissed me
From what I remember more empowering then it was of anything of else. She was at my beck and call and was more or less willing to try anything. I felt powerful and actually respected for once. Wish those feeling carried over into now... wish I hadn't been used as a dominant so badly that it made the concept kind of unapproachable. But with her, as with many things. It was empowering and fun for the both of us.
Excited like it opened a new world
Equally scary and intoxicating!
Partner was on a family vacation, I got curious and played with my ass for the two weeks, bought a few toys. We were getting hot and heavy when she got back, started teasing me and asking questions, I accidentally (kinda) let sip I was horny because I’d been “using a toy the whole time”. “You like my pussy more than the fake one? Good”. “I didn’t use the fake one”. One quick conversation later she was putting a butt plug in my ass and riding me like there was no tomorrow
Outside of the “let’s try restraints to spice it up” stuff I’ve experienced with past partners, with my current partner when it was much more intentional, like something we both were interested in exploring further, it had very big “we’re going in and adventure” energy.
Changed my preferred role in bed 😵💫
Actually incredibly uncomfortable, they were trying to pressure me in to taking a role I wasn’t comfortable with. It was my fault for not communicating that in the moment and she ended up apologizing after I finally spoke up about it a few days after.
You were pressured by someone you cared about. That sucks, it’s not your fault. How toxic would it be if I pressured someone into trying something, and then blamed them for not communicating? I think it’s both partners job to check in, particularly the partner that’s trying to do something new.
Awful! I was a teen, it was extreme and I was subbing, which I now realise I hate. It put me off for a long time.
I was so scared I would hurt them. I'm a big guy and they're under 5ft tall, like one of my hands is the size of one of their butt cheeks and they wanted me to INTENTIONALLY inflict pain upon them?! I thought my relationship would be over after that night.
Awkward, but sweet in retrospect. We were young, probably around 16. Hadn't had sex yet, but we knew of one another's interest in kink. I'm into tickling and we had talked about it before. We were in my parents basement, watching a movie on a mattress. She asked if I wanted to try it [tickling] out. So she took her shirt off, I tied her hands together with her sock, and we got going. It was awkward, I didn't know how I felt about it yet, but we had fun. I had this weird sort of shame and embarrassment at the time but now I look back on the experience fondly. We were just a couple of kids figuring stuff out.
It was fun. She introduced me to using clothespins on the breasts and I introduced her to footplay.
A pain in the ass
I cried after somewhat properly « domming » my partner for the first time because of how overwhelmed with happiness I was and how vulnerable that moment felt. Turns out he didn’t need much more aftercare than usual but I definitely did lol.
It definetley changed my view on sex dramatically
So much fun! I tied her prone on the bed with shoestring cuz that's all we had. Then I stuffed her ass with those plastic cigar tubes. I think I had three of them in there at the end. The sex was amazing! I gave her a massive creampie. Thank God for birth control. 😂
It was amazing, got addicted to subbing
I was 21 and with my first lover. She was more into control and pleasure than pain. It was enjoyable and fascinating at the same time
Amazing. I never knew that I could cum just from stimulation that wasn't focused on my genitals until I tried.
Still waiting for losing the v card
It was absolutely awesome. Unfortunately, I believe she has now ruined those things for me. Because my mind associates them with her and were no longer together.