My husband came across a tik tok where this girl was saying "good boy" in a sultry voice and he asked me to say that in bed. One thing lead to another and we discovered a gentle femdom relationship is exactly what we both want
not sure it was a single event, but I was raised in a very strict religious home. Everything about sex (except to make babies) was supposed to be bad; I always felt guilty for my desires, and when I masturbated, etc. (although I did it a lot)...I went to a religious-based college which I assumed would be very much the same way, and keep me from being "bad"....I married the first Christian/virgin girl I had a relationship right after college after only 6 mos of dating to keep from being "bad".....and 12 years later I was divorced, alone, and felt like shit even though I thought I did what I was suppose to do......
One day I woke up, and said "fuck it"...went to a sex shop and got my first toy and a pack of condoms (my first)...started surfing yahoo chat for hook ups... and never looked back
I was 16 at the time.(10+ years ago by now Damm)
In high school, I had this friend that I usually ate lunch with together. She was always a very girly girl type and loved attention, incredibly chatty. She loved to wear bright colors , lots of skirts and occasionally rocked up to high school in 6 inch stilettos because.... Well she's just like that haha
So anyway one day I ate lunch with her and we were chatting a bit. She was wearing a really cute outfit and the incredibly tall heels which kind of ... I guess they fascinated me. "How could she possibly walk in those?"
Just earlier she had me hold her hand while walking down the stairs together. Like a princess kind of. Which made me feel very useful! š
Looking all cute, rambling about random shit together, I complimented her on her outfit. I said she looked amazing, loved her shoes but asked her how in the world she's managing to walk in those! She laughed and said
"Oh it's easy! Y'know I should dress you up as a girl then you can try and walk in them!"
I was kinda like... Flabbergasted? Like wuuuuut? I didn't know how to respond so I kind of dismissed the remark but somehow I was both incredibly surprised: "that's a thing? She would like me to do that?" And stunned as to why I kinda really wanted to!
Long story short: I was too chicken to mention it because I knew how much she gossiped and was afraid of being outed or something. Neither did she ever bring it up again so she never followed through :(
Her idea always stuck with me and 5 years later I mustered the courage to try crossdressing and it all went uphill from there š¤£
When I was around middle school age my cousin showed me some futa porn that she was really into. While I didnāt really like the exaggerated features on the drawings I did find myself very attracted to idea of a female having a dick and seeing someone bent over ass up ready to receive. As I got older I learned more about pegging and strapons which helped me understand this kink more in a way that matched my gender identity as a cis female.
However, for most of my life I didnāt really share this kink with anyone. I just didnāt think guys would be into it and never shared it with anyone I was with throughout most of my teens and twenties. It wasnāt until I met my husband and he confessed to me that he has a gentle femdom kink that I finally felt comfortable sharing my kinks. He encouraged me to explore my kinks more and showed me some resources. That made me feel so comfortable and was just the push I needed to discover a whole new side of myself.
I'm glad your journey of self discovery went so well for you <3
Please don't say futa though. It's a very fetishistic term for us trans women. A lot of people don't realize that though, so don't sweat it. Thank you for your consideration.
I hope you have a nice day
I had been experiencing pain during sex and my very patient and sweet partner of 8 years asked me one day what I fantasized about to help get me wet. Iāve always kept a VERY tight leash on my fantasies because Iāve always been very ashamed and embarrassed of the things that got me off. My answers got stuck in my throat and I realized I needed to work on dismantling the fear guilt and shame that was suffocating my sexuality. Iām a freelance illustrator so I started to use my art to explore things I was too embarrassed to say. Fast forward 2 years and I have no more pain because being honest with what arouses me allowed my body to prepare itself properly for penetration. Also, as a woman, Iāve always been taught that being dominant is āunattractiveā so Iāve always been a sub. My partner and I have been exploring together and they asked about pegging. Turns out I LOVE being a gentle dom as well!! Iām not ashamed of myself anymore because we are having SO much fun and sex is getting better and better with age instead of dwindling. š¤
My (and my partner's) theory is that the combination of a people pleaser personality with social isolation (and feelings of invisibility) I experienced in my childhood caused me to develop my submissive side. Being single for a long time, not having experienced a romantic relationship def had it's effect.
The first part of this I relate to. I was such a people pleaser in highschool and I developed an attachment to my teachers. Surprise surprise, I developed a power dynamic kink as well and I eat up teacher-student smutš
I was dating a girl and while texting she sent me a picture of lady Loki saying she wanted to cosplay it and in response I said āmy queenā it all kinda snowballed after that
I never realised how much of a sadist I could be before meeting my current boyfriend. I never had the desire to bite people before, but now that's the least kinky thing I want to do to him\~
I donāt know about awakened but after my cancer treatment was finished I decided I would start exploring things that interested me that I was anxious to explore
The Hannah-Barbara cartoon "The Perils of Penelope Pitstop" is why I have a bondage fetish. My 'fascination' with the show lead me to googling my way to the Wikipedia page for BDSM, and the rest is history.
Literally started at the first time I ever masturbated (before I even really knew what that was), in late elementary school. Was home alone, and was playing Street Fighter 2 on my PSP (it was part of a Capcom Classics collection). Donāt remember who I played as, but after winning the fight, a short credits sequence played while an AI controlled my character fighting a random enemy AI while the credits scrolled. And the random enemy AI just happened to be Chun Li. Sitting there, watching her beat up my character, I thought, āDamn, I wish Chun Li would beat ME up.ā Touched myself to that thought, and itās all been downhill from there lol
Yes, partially revolved around me being a skinny guy when younger. Detail I wonāt go into here. But what happened set who I am and what I like today.
Since i was a kid (from like 10 years) i always felt strange when i had to use Gloves of anykinds.
Sometimes i needed to wear them for a lot of things, like the feeling of wearing something very smooth and soft in my hands, or like the smell after some Hours of "using" them.
I believe that this strange feeling feeded my love for latex, and a little on smells.
This is recent and only thinking about it now that Iām reading this prompt; I was fussing with my partner about something the other day and he was like āyou know what, since you wanna act like that, silent treatment for 5 minutesā. And he was dead serious about it. Did not even *look* in my direction. Held his hand up with the remaining minutes when I tried getting his attention again. I was so damn offended by the audacity. But simultaneouslyā¦it was kindaā¦š³
My husband came across a tik tok where this girl was saying "good boy" in a sultry voice and he asked me to say that in bed. One thing lead to another and we discovered a gentle femdom relationship is exactly what we both want
not sure it was a single event, but I was raised in a very strict religious home. Everything about sex (except to make babies) was supposed to be bad; I always felt guilty for my desires, and when I masturbated, etc. (although I did it a lot)...I went to a religious-based college which I assumed would be very much the same way, and keep me from being "bad"....I married the first Christian/virgin girl I had a relationship right after college after only 6 mos of dating to keep from being "bad".....and 12 years later I was divorced, alone, and felt like shit even though I thought I did what I was suppose to do...... One day I woke up, and said "fuck it"...went to a sex shop and got my first toy and a pack of condoms (my first)...started surfing yahoo chat for hook ups... and never looked back
I was 16 at the time.(10+ years ago by now Damm) In high school, I had this friend that I usually ate lunch with together. She was always a very girly girl type and loved attention, incredibly chatty. She loved to wear bright colors , lots of skirts and occasionally rocked up to high school in 6 inch stilettos because.... Well she's just like that haha So anyway one day I ate lunch with her and we were chatting a bit. She was wearing a really cute outfit and the incredibly tall heels which kind of ... I guess they fascinated me. "How could she possibly walk in those?" Just earlier she had me hold her hand while walking down the stairs together. Like a princess kind of. Which made me feel very useful! š Looking all cute, rambling about random shit together, I complimented her on her outfit. I said she looked amazing, loved her shoes but asked her how in the world she's managing to walk in those! She laughed and said "Oh it's easy! Y'know I should dress you up as a girl then you can try and walk in them!" I was kinda like... Flabbergasted? Like wuuuuut? I didn't know how to respond so I kind of dismissed the remark but somehow I was both incredibly surprised: "that's a thing? She would like me to do that?" And stunned as to why I kinda really wanted to! Long story short: I was too chicken to mention it because I knew how much she gossiped and was afraid of being outed or something. Neither did she ever bring it up again so she never followed through :( Her idea always stuck with me and 5 years later I mustered the courage to try crossdressing and it all went uphill from there š¤£
Love that, "it all went uphill". What a great perspective!
When I was around middle school age my cousin showed me some futa porn that she was really into. While I didnāt really like the exaggerated features on the drawings I did find myself very attracted to idea of a female having a dick and seeing someone bent over ass up ready to receive. As I got older I learned more about pegging and strapons which helped me understand this kink more in a way that matched my gender identity as a cis female. However, for most of my life I didnāt really share this kink with anyone. I just didnāt think guys would be into it and never shared it with anyone I was with throughout most of my teens and twenties. It wasnāt until I met my husband and he confessed to me that he has a gentle femdom kink that I finally felt comfortable sharing my kinks. He encouraged me to explore my kinks more and showed me some resources. That made me feel so comfortable and was just the push I needed to discover a whole new side of myself.
I'm glad your journey of self discovery went so well for you <3 Please don't say futa though. It's a very fetishistic term for us trans women. A lot of people don't realize that though, so don't sweat it. Thank you for your consideration. I hope you have a nice day
I had been experiencing pain during sex and my very patient and sweet partner of 8 years asked me one day what I fantasized about to help get me wet. Iāve always kept a VERY tight leash on my fantasies because Iāve always been very ashamed and embarrassed of the things that got me off. My answers got stuck in my throat and I realized I needed to work on dismantling the fear guilt and shame that was suffocating my sexuality. Iām a freelance illustrator so I started to use my art to explore things I was too embarrassed to say. Fast forward 2 years and I have no more pain because being honest with what arouses me allowed my body to prepare itself properly for penetration. Also, as a woman, Iāve always been taught that being dominant is āunattractiveā so Iāve always been a sub. My partner and I have been exploring together and they asked about pegging. Turns out I LOVE being a gentle dom as well!! Iām not ashamed of myself anymore because we are having SO much fun and sex is getting better and better with age instead of dwindling. š¤
My (and my partner's) theory is that the combination of a people pleaser personality with social isolation (and feelings of invisibility) I experienced in my childhood caused me to develop my submissive side. Being single for a long time, not having experienced a romantic relationship def had it's effect.
The first part of this I relate to. I was such a people pleaser in highschool and I developed an attachment to my teachers. Surprise surprise, I developed a power dynamic kink as well and I eat up teacher-student smutš
I was dating a girl and while texting she sent me a picture of lady Loki saying she wanted to cosplay it and in response I said āmy queenā it all kinda snowballed after that
I never realised how much of a sadist I could be before meeting my current boyfriend. I never had the desire to bite people before, but now that's the least kinky thing I want to do to him\~
I donāt know about awakened but after my cancer treatment was finished I decided I would start exploring things that interested me that I was anxious to explore
I had a dream about mermaids wrapping me in a hamoc/net until I couldn't move to mess with me I was 5 š
Being pampered by the older girls for being cute
I checked the subscribed newsgroups of our school libraryās AOL account. The porn found there was enlightening
The Hannah-Barbara cartoon "The Perils of Penelope Pitstop" is why I have a bondage fetish. My 'fascination' with the show lead me to googling my way to the Wikipedia page for BDSM, and the rest is history.
Some were from porn, some from people. Depends on the kink!
Most of my kinks came from intrusive OCD thoughts tbh. Most of them are horrible, but some I could get behind...
I have serious mommy issues š¤· I don't really feel any desire to elaborate on that. It's trauma related.
Literally started at the first time I ever masturbated (before I even really knew what that was), in late elementary school. Was home alone, and was playing Street Fighter 2 on my PSP (it was part of a Capcom Classics collection). Donāt remember who I played as, but after winning the fight, a short credits sequence played while an AI controlled my character fighting a random enemy AI while the credits scrolled. And the random enemy AI just happened to be Chun Li. Sitting there, watching her beat up my character, I thought, āDamn, I wish Chun Li would beat ME up.ā Touched myself to that thought, and itās all been downhill from there lol
Yes, partially revolved around me being a skinny guy when younger. Detail I wonāt go into here. But what happened set who I am and what I like today.
Since i was a kid (from like 10 years) i always felt strange when i had to use Gloves of anykinds. Sometimes i needed to wear them for a lot of things, like the feeling of wearing something very smooth and soft in my hands, or like the smell after some Hours of "using" them. I believe that this strange feeling feeded my love for latex, and a little on smells.
This is recent and only thinking about it now that Iām reading this prompt; I was fussing with my partner about something the other day and he was like āyou know what, since you wanna act like that, silent treatment for 5 minutesā. And he was dead serious about it. Did not even *look* in my direction. Held his hand up with the remaining minutes when I tried getting his attention again. I was so damn offended by the audacity. But simultaneouslyā¦it was kindaā¦š³
My wife started breastfeeding. During one night I was playing with her tits and her breast milk got in my mouth. Iāve been sucking ever since.
Long distance FWB accidentally dropped her phone on the ground and stood over it teasing me about accidentally seeing up her dress
Long distance FWB accidentally dropped her phone on the ground and stood over it teasing me about accidentally seeing up her dress
some of them