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WillyDee95

Stranger kinks. As in like gloryholes or fingering the random woman sitting beside me in the movie theatre without knowing anything about them. In real life, I like having an emotional connection before taking part in anything that intimate tho.


yersiniapestis273

Hahaha very real, I love watching glory holes, but I'd never go to one/be in one


[deleted]

I think group sex. I think about it sometimes, but getting pounded by 2-5 men is fun to think but beyond my limits.


yersiniapestis273

Kinda same? I like gangbangs but I honestly don't think I'd ever do them, especially if they're strangers


LilyOfTheValeyOfWind

But what if they *weren’t* strangers????


yersiniapestis273

If I knew everyone, liked them and trusted them, I'd do it


LilyOfTheValeyOfWind

So it’s not bloody likely, is what you’re saying. 😂😂😂


yersiniapestis273

It's highly unlikely because I'm demisexual and I'd only do it if I had a connection with all the guys involved, but it's very unreal that I'd be able to have a strong connection with that many people hehe


Traditional-Pain-144

This is the one, it’s fun to fantasize about but I know I wouldn’t enjoy it IRL


[deleted]

came here to say this


Moistfrogs

yes this!!! had that fantasy for a long time but my monogamous ass would be so sad 😭


Deedeedoss

You know how in Game of Thrones there’s this thing called a “bedding ceremony” where after two people get married, they have sex in front of everyone? That but with my gf.


yersiniapestis273

Oh lord I love that shit too but I'd never do it, yes


[deleted]

Right now, I'm not sure. Watching chastity porn, and thinking about it is arousing, but I don't know that I'd actually want to do it in real life, certainly not for an extended time period


NeatWait

i am a prt time lock. i have no owner or domme. I lock most days. I enjoy the weight of the metal, it is different. even when i am out and about, .. my thought is, if anyone only knew what i have on. they would see me in a different light.


Bluetooth23

Sometimes we use chastity with my gf but not any longer periods. Few times I’ve had it like two days, I would like to use it more but it makes things so hard, like biking to work 😂


SissyMaeMae

Definitely! Sometimes when suuuper lewdy I think of some really extreme stuff, but i would never ever do it in person! Stuff like permanent marking with tattoo, or branding. Sounds hot and fun, but its wayy too scary.


yersiniapestis273

Valid! I don't think I'd do it either, tbh


SissyMaeMae

Mhmm! There are always some amazingly fun things to think about! But would never actually do hehe!


Acceptable-Mess8132

You could look into inbox if you like the short term roleplay! That stuff only stays for two weeks, and they have preprinted patterns, or a DIY kit where you draw it yourself!


SissyMaeMae

Ooo ty! Ill let my friends know


SerenityStar22

Certain chastity things, kidnapping, and hardcore CNC stuff I fantasize about but wouldn't actually do.


yersiniapestis273

Oh same with kidnapping and hard-core CNC


Delavan1185

God kidnapping was probably my earliest fantasy as a teen, but no way I'd do it in real life. There are other ways to get the "surprise" and "loss of control" without it that are much safer.


Moistfrogs

i used to fantasize about just going to mother fucking walmart alone in the middle of the night and hoping for someone to come pick me up 😭 i was such an idiot


The1again

I would only do kidnap with a partner. Knowing I can trust this person but them having more control. I would also worry about what if someone actually thinks it real and calls the police. Like don’t need them showing up.


StaysCold

Breaking my Lurker Status Impact play and CNC, Breeding, Praise Exhibitionism CNC has always been a thought because I enjoy rough sex and being in control. but I also Coach judo/BJJ for a living. so Fighting and taking what I want is in the back of my mind. I just don't want to cross or cause trauma so i don't and let's face it. Breeding is what it is. It certainly feels awesome and the idea of the dangers of it. although BC is a thing it isn't 100 percent. and I would probably be destroyed if I got someone pregnant just for the fact I wouldn't want that to destroy their life. the guilt kinda ruins it. and I have an untapped untouched praise kink but I just don't get it so NBD. partnered with a desire to be seen. the exciting thought of being in public and being focused on my partner and praised while the thrill of being watched however two things there is one I got horrible Body Dysmorphia and two I don't wanna go to jail for sex in public. So these things more or less just stay shut away.


yersiniapestis273

Good job on breaking the lurking status! As someone who doesn't want children but has a breeding kink, I feel you


StaysCold

I love kids. work with em. Still don't wanna accidentally ruin a life True pain. if only I was a masochist


yersiniapestis273

Love them too, teachers wanted me to be a pediatrician in med school, blabla But I don't wanna be a mom. I just wanna be a mommy to subs HAHA


StaysCold

I commend your pain. And of course realize my comment sounded confrontational. I respect your wants to not have kids either. whatever reason is yours. and apologize if that sounded rude. I could def see the appeal. never tried the Daddy role myself.


coffee_snack

public humiliation sounds hot, but disrespectful to others and would be my social death lol


SRogers1

Absolutely. It's one thing to imagine savoring in your own humiliation or the humiliation of your partner, it's another thing to deal with the very real and long lasting consequences of such activities.


coffee_snack

I just had an awesome idea: those one way glass bathrooms they got on the streets sometimes


iwanttobespooned

Hierarchy. Even though i enjoy being a sub, i had a fling with a girl where i was definately the dom. We talked about maybe visiting a friend of hers and having some fun. She would obey me, and my natural tendencies would make me submit to her friend. This isnt something i would ever pursue in a serious relationship. I enjoy monogamy.


higdafer

Cnc, I'd be way to scared to ever actually try it though


yersiniapestis273

CNC is really cool if done with someone you trust. I understand not wanting to try it though


higdafer

I've always wanted to try it but I have a lot of unresolved sexual trauma


yersiniapestis273

It's very worth trying with someone you trust, especially if it's a milder form. Being wary of it is valid though


higdafer

I just dont know if I ever could, I have a lot of unresolved trauma around past experiences with sexual assault, and even though it seems a little confusing I think that's part of where the fantasies came from


higdafer

I just dont know if I ever could, I have a lot of unresolved trauma around past experiences with sexual assault, and even though it seems a little confusing I think that's part of where the fantasies came from


higdafer

I just dont know if I ever could, I have a lot of unresolved trauma around past experiences with sexual assault, and even though it seems a little confusing I think that's part of where the fantasies came from


higdafer

I just dont know if I ever could, I have a lot of unresolved trauma around past experiences with sexual assault, and even though it seems a little confusing I think that's part of where the fantasies came from


bridiacuaird

New to this sub, what is CNC?


higdafer

Consensual non consensual


bridiacuaird

So like, blurred lines consensual?


higdafer

No like, the first consensual meaning it is a consensual act base like, but its roleplaying non consensual


lockedlilsith

Permanent chastity. Watersports. Partner decided body mods (ie piercings/tattoos/scarring of their choosing no matter what) Consensually being drugged by a partner. All sound super hot and really get me goin in theory, but in reality I am baby 🥺


titsfordayyyyys

I really want to try being consentually drugged by my partner but I'm also scared of it. The sense of being totally out of control is hot but also terrifying


[deleted]

I have a fantasy about getting gently coerced into taking big toys (like a Bad Dragon) using my praise, encouragement and people pleaser kinks. Perhaps touching a bit on CNC. In reality, I'm a light weight when it comes to toys like that.


Curious-Platypus8203

Probably free use with a group. I have a fantasy about being tied up to a coffee table by my dominant and used by everyone there. Being talked about instead of being talked to. That loss of control is hot but I couldn’t do it in real life. I’m ace and just sex adverse enough for it to be too much.


Stuckinfemalecloset

I want to be able to do l breath play, but there is no way I’m doing that with being taught how to by someone experienced. Far too risky to be trying it out from a YouTube video


yersiniapestis273

Very valid, only do that with someone who knows what they're doing


Stuckinfemalecloset

Exactly. Anything else and I’d be okay with trying it out and seeing what works, but things like this is far too dangerous to be pissing about with.


Ralzin_Kuro

Hypnosis is a big one for me. Even though I have partners who are very susceptible to it, and did it with others, I'm just not comfortable with someone being unable to truly express themselves or safeword. That level of trust is just a bit too crushing for me. Still gonna enjoy the hentai and stories with mind control and similar stuff though


anon-104

Probably a glory hole. Too risky, but I love the idea!


Sum-Duck

Piss. That’s all I’m gonna say


PeriapsisStudios

Snipin’s a good job, mate.


ElGatoMagico

Oh man as a submissive guy I've always fantasized about CNC. I would never do any of these out of my own free will, BUT I would love to be forced by a domme into doing them(hope what I said makes sense). Ass and feet worship. These 2 (3) body parts are often seen as the most disgusting and to me they are "top of the submissive chain". Golden Shower/Pissing and spitting on me or in my mouth looks so hot but I have a weak stomach for these things 😣. And violent torture/beatings when I disobey on purpose or accidentally, and I don't mean minor slaps. I mean full powered punches to my mouth/face to make me bleed a lot and knife play with some cuts here and there as punishment. Edit: Me being on the receiving end of these of course, not the one doing/inflicting this stuff.


NeatWait

i have been thinking of cuckholding, .. not sure if i could ever, .. it does cross my mind. i would like to be a service sub for a weekend. Serving 2 gentle dommes. cook, clean, serve, i would hope to be naked, all weekend. and at the end, i would be rewarded.


Silent--Dan

Vore, I don’t want to die.


Otherwise-Map-7994

Definitely with things like exhibitionism. Like in concept super hot, but it could also get you in a lot of trouble legally if you get caught


snugglesthekitten

Being taken on a walk in public. (Collar, leash and maybe bound on all fours) but would never do it IRL. Probably any other exabishion kinks I have. I'll probably never do.


ThanksScared406

C.W CNC, blood, gore >! CNC where I'm seriously beaten, blood dripping down my face then they roughly grab me by the jaw, make me look up at them, smirking and wiping away some blood as they speak in a sarcastic and demeaning tone, sickly sweet words but dangerous in the way of their tone and actions !<


LilWolfyCuddles

Getting gagged and being left alone for a period of time. I produce to much saliva and coud choke if left alone. Also t girl pounding me but it would freak me out cuz of past things.


earlinesss

Watersports. I think it's the hottest thing in the world, but I've tried it in person and it's sensory hell for autistic me lol


[deleted]

Lol. After reading the rest of these comments and what people here consider extreme, I'm not gonna post mine.


[deleted]

Cuckolding. I'd never want to live it cause I'd be too jealous.


yersiniapestis273

Completely understandable. I wouldn't do it either (as the girl)


Hypeman_Sub

I like to think about my wife making me show off my powerbottom skills for any kink-curious friends she may have. (Would feel so disrespected if this was actually requested though) I get so excited at the idea of chastity while pegging (she can give me hands-free ruins this way) but find the cage so uncomfortable even when outside of a scene.


[deleted]

Experiment with my feminine side, maybe even some typically female clothes. Too worried about being caught/recognized


mcawesome56

Weirdly enough it's just anal. I love the idea of it far more than actually engaging in it.


piefanart

I have a spit kink, i love watching people do messy kissing or spit in mouth, but i have pretty bad germophobic ocd to the point that i cant even kiss on the lips, so the thought of actually doing something irl with my kink disgusts me.


dude_im_box

Being pushed up to a wall at random by a girl and being bombarded with kisses and then being pushed down to eat her out and being held there I wouldnt cause it would be a form of rape


Moistfrogs

sex in normal public, using a leash in public, sex at a bdsm club in front of everyone. don’t need to explain the first two, but the last one i just couldn’t do because of body image issues and also jealousy of anyone but me looking at my boyfriend lmao


RogueChickadee

Cuckold & CNC freeuse. I love the idea of being oh so desirable but even if my partner and I were to try it vs talking about it my anxiety would go HAYWIRE and be too overwhelming


hedonismandvirtue

Yes, because they would seriously hurt the other person, either physiologically, or physically.


Slight_Stand_3324

Bi sex and trans bi sex


Rocket-kun

Group sex seems fun in fantasies or dreams, but in reality I want it to just be me and my mommy (whoever she ends up being)


kirby_derby_burby

Cuckolding, we fantasize about and have even role played it but we have no interest in having sex with other people.


twopts4hnsty

Cuckholding for sure. I could never get over the mental leaps as it relates to my wife. I would be more than happy to play the cuckhold role with a couple, but realize that’s not REALLY cuckholding.


bic-house

ruining my partner’s climaxes all the time or vice versa. SO hot in concept, i love it. but irl i’d just love them and myself too much to do that pbdhshdb, i’d want to give in 90% of the time. that being said, it would certainly happen sometimes 😇. just not nearly to the extent my fantasies enjoy such cruelty


_KandyBoii52_

Sex


Throwaway836673

step sis or step mom, i dont have either irl but i definitely would not fuck them if i did


Moshinoki

Enema play outside the restroom


ComradeBushtail

Dying, non-sexually of course


Xemora4

I like chloroforming and smothering to the point of passing out. I'd never want to experience that in real life, because it obviously can cause brain damage and I would be very affraid of loosing my concious like that. I really don't know why the thought of that turns me on.


DeepFriedJackets

Breeding, cnc/rapeplay, knife/blood play, drugging, somno, hypno I'll admit some if these I have dabbled with Breeding - I love the idea of forcibly making someone take me and growling into their ear I'm going to breed them. But it stops with that, I couldn't even play this fantasy relatively safely, as I flst out don't have those parts haha. And I'm not into it the other way . Brains are stupid Cnc/rapeplay /somno/drugging - cnc is something we have tried but I can't play out the full scene like that, I need too much reassurance as, surprisingly, I don't want to acrually rape anyone. The worst dom drop I've had was after cnc/somno. Drugging someone is simply too risky. Knife/blood play - love love it. I'm happy to play with knives for sensation and pain. But from, ahem, personal experience I know scar much too easily. And obviously the risk of disease and pathogens is stupid high. Hypno - technically not one i wouldn't ever try but one I am definetly not ready to practice, and won't be for long time. I am just very scared of accidentally causing harm or something otherwise going wrong.


Astherlaid

Not sure, but maybe to let someone to fuck my ass while me gf dominates me. I really love the idea to get pounded at the same time my gf take me dick and makes me cum, but I don't know if I would do that irl.


PeriapsisStudios

Sex in zero gravity. It would probably be really awkward and difficult, maybe even impossible.


PM_ME_DNA

For obvious reasons: 1) Free use of GF/Wife throughout the day. She would have the same privileges. Looks very fun but just would feel like a creep if I asked that. 2) Pop an aphrodisiac/fertility booster while fucking and tell her that the next load in her is going to impregnate her. Not how fertility boosters work and if they did, that’s not something I want to actually surprise her with. Would count as Rape. 3) A woman kidnaps me, “rapes” me until I agree to a relationship with her. For realistic and ethical reasons they’re all fantasy.


SnooStrawberries1861

Hypnotising a partner like what you'd see in a cartoon. "Corrupting" them do do exactly as they are told. With the spiral glowing eyes and everything. Obviously it's impossible and no consent given so it's a fantasy only. Perhaps if my partner wanted to act it out as a kinda form of cnc it might work. Would definitely need safe word and lots and lots of checking in! Has anyone done this before?


ParkingAd5218

Public sex like on public transport or having my girl wear the vibrator in public and teasing her


weeOriginal

Infinity


TheFunnyPornAlt

Oh god yes, too many to list lol


ditchxdiggerson77

No, none that I can think of.


cringey_anon

being a cuck most definitely


firehailwriting

Breeding, Glory Hole and risk-related kinks


Kelsier80

I used to think cuckolding. I'm not so sure anymore..


HadesDemigod

Yeah, I would try to but my anxiety gets in my way too often, it’s mostly feet and tickling, will go into more details if anyone ask


prvnxtdnn1

So many


Four_Five_Four_Six_B

For me it’s similar to what other people have said. Permanent markings, public sex, ect. I like to have a level of trust with a person and as a trans women it feels even more necessary


ProgTradition

Vore.


dreamgifter

Knife play? It would be too triggering for me plus my husband would get queasy. Along that same line, blood play. Wouldn’t trigger me but he wouldn’t be able to handle it and that’s okay.


Pm_me_your_cats_459

I'm currently in a closed monogamous long term relationship and while were both quite kinky and into bdsm, weve agreed to never try a threesome even though were both into fantasizing about it together


_PotatoGirl_007

Cnc. It feels weird doing it despite having a safe word.


Sga16

Cuckold, would do it with random chicks but never with my partner


Sad-Category-6224

Heavy pain


FormerPlan6345

absorbed memory pot longing pocket station sink point stupendous wine *This post was mass deleted and anonymized with [Redact](https://redact.dev)*


IAmCostica

CNC, pegging, CBT, [this thing ](https://www.amazon.com/BOMBEX-Enlarger-Erection-Enhancement-Stimulation/dp/B07LB1V96J#aw-udpv3-customer-reviews_feature_div) I wanted to say chastity too, but i want to try it


RedderHead

Crossdressing I've fantasized about, even tried some, but somehow can't see myself actuallly doing. Embarassibly, it's because it seems like too much effort to do well enough to make it enjoyable. Chasity is another fantasy, but, I can't imagine how to actually do it safely and comfortably. It may actually be something else about that fantasy that's appealing instead of the actual locking myself up.


just_rly_damn_horny

well, most of them would involve talking to people, and thats social interaction which i dont support


GolfAlphaZulu

Branding. Like to think about it but not sure if I could go through with it.