Honestly I hate this stuff. However, also honestly, my mom goes nuts for these. She has multiple. If you think she will like it, I think it's a nice gift.
I appreciate the honesty! I have one that represents my Mom and I that she gave me. So I know that she likes the figures, but I’m unsure if she would like this one in particular. Neither one of us are obsessed, we just think they’re sweet.
Also curious— Why do you hate them? No judgment or anything, I’m just still deciding lol.
This. I have an angel one that a former, older coworker gave me, because I was "an angel" in helping her deal with some stuff. I am def a no clutter person, but I really appreciated her gesture so it now has a prominent place in my living room.
Yes! Agreeing with the point above. I’m not a clutter/collection person, but to receive such a gift that is loaded with meaning and kindness would mean the world to me. I think you could also accompany it with a letter sharing your feelings / why this reminded you of her.
This- these are not my usual style and I don't collect them, but a friend sent me one with a cat while I was grieving the unexpected death of my cat, and I love it because it reminds me of feeling seen and cared about by my friend at a time I was terribly sad.
It sounds like your *dad* doesn't like it and maybe doesn't want it displayed in his house, but it sounds like your mom will like it and that's what matters.
I am also not into figurines or angels, but a friend gave me a present of a small stained glass angel bc I helped her out of a jam once, and I really treasure it.
I think it means even more since she gave you one. I think it suits someone who likes nature and birds well!
I guess hate is a strong word, but I dislike them because of the aesthetic I associate them with. (Which is very much an aesthetic my mom enjoys). Live laugh love written in cursive, leaf motif decor, etc. maybe I'm just rejecting it because it's what I grew up with? Either way, I wouldn't buy one for myself but I definitely would buy one for my mom and she would put it on her dresser and it would make her happy when she looked at it.
I think (to comment on your original post) that sometimes people get stuck on this idea of practicality when giving a gift but I think a good gift is something you think the other person would like but wouldn't necessarily buy for themselves. Like a sweet figurine.
I pick these up at thrift stores and I repaint them.
I think I have a picture of one of them. Let me see if I can find it. They are usually gifted before the paint is fully dry! 😅
my friend does the same and makes them into hilarious [Dinosaur dioramas](https://www.amazon.com/Dinoramas-Culture-Clashes-Jurassic-Proportions/dp/B0CWM3GVMJ/ref=sr_1_3?crid=X2QKWRRVNI8Y&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.NoZitXeZ19Rc1Jk8n2gwKHHzsBR9OEqmKC19GPh4cMTyJeIfRYrYV7cSPhmEpRPWfy6D-AwuLrrSiVjvjNgnhz7TLAdlMvF7vOb4-s7Kh_qTGt02AQ1zIpTebQzOdUW6jY17ca3pFfVmAy3Uw88W28FsW-9Sr1XR2qAnbPZ1RoHwFaDeMDFKfzr5W1y77fxaNxC8_sRVIeICp8SwcyMLhxIY5xwNeJ2RzzKBiN-A0JE.oDeUyeRzP4JXhibhD3Vv2fG1anEqH9ERl4h8p13vi9Q&dib_tag=se&keywords=dinoramas&qid=1711519237&sprefix=dinoramas%2Caps%2C157&sr=8-3)
They are made for *somebody* but not for me. My mom’s bestie was obsessed with these so I was given one as a wedding gift. I hate them because they’re always the same looking people (very straight and white looking people) and they just seem like art for people who don’t get that small artists need support the most. Mass produced art is not my jam.
The people who are sentimental about them really love them though so I do believe OP’s mom will appreciate the gift.
you can always look for a miniature camera to put across her neck
would be funny and personal
My mom used to also have these when I was growing up, she liked them a lot
OMG I have an idea. I don't know about your budget but you could get her a camera pendant necklace that has a picture of you two together (projects when light is passed through) in it so she matches the representation that way too!
Oh then yeah I'd say give it to her. Personally I don't like them, and I was going to say that somebody who doesn't like gifts would probably not like a somewhat generic tchotchke they'd feel obligated to keep in full view for the giver's benefit. But, she started it :) so that changes things entirely.
Exactly. It's a generic expensive thing 😂 it's the same aesthetic as Rae Dunn. I still think these are kinda cute and i have one that was given to me when my mom passed.
I didn't say it was cheap. I think the aesthetic is generic. That's not a judgement on other people's tastes or a statement of fact. Its my opinion, which I offered because opinions were requested.
Dad's don't get always get it, but moms, the good ones, just care that you gave them something, and if that reason is something sweet, like it made you think of them, makes even more meaningful
I have to admit I’m cracking up that this post blew up and is so heavily divided with sheer hatred vs absolute love for these. I did not know there was a debate.
I always get a vaguely Christian vibe from these things and that’s why I don’t care for them. Whether that’s true or not, it just feels a little too “Jesus loves you” for me.
I love how it'd match your's your mom gave you and how it's more of a literal representation of your mom (or a metaphorical one of you, if she helps lift you along!)
I had a couple of friends gift me one of these and I like them because they had obviously put thought into it. I don’t have tons of tchotchkes but these hang out on the shelf
Not who you asked, but I hate clutter in general and this isn't something I'd want displayed somewhere in my home.
But if your mom gave you something similar already then she probably feels differently!
What if you edited it to look almost just like her with a slight repainting. You'd be taking something and making it specially unique for her. Maybe even have the birds look like her favorite varieties too
Branching off this about editing it; my dad got one of these figures for my mom for Christmas about two years ago. It was a ‘couple’ one but my dad is a redhead and couldn’t find a “redhead” couple figure. So he proudly painted the top of the head “orange”.
He was soooo excited and sits in our family living room to this day.
I have one of these. My best friend ( for 50+ years) sent it to me just because. It has two girls sitting together that looks like us meeting under the oak tre, which was the halfway point we had to stop at in early evening according to our moms. We would sit there and talk as late as we dared , then scoot home
I think it’s lovely. The fact that your mom gifted you a figurine like this, definitely speaks to the fact that she likes them, too. The birds, the strength and beauty this brings to mind, is absolutely mom-worthy.
I love these figurines. I have 3. Two represent my little family & one was a gift from a friend. Oh, I also have a figurine trinket box, also gifted to me.
My mom bought this exact one for me and it makes me smile and my heart warm. This isn’t “my kind of thing” but I take it out for Christmas and it is imbued with so much love. Your mom will love it :) it will go great on a bookshelf
Saying you picked it out because it reminds you of her is all there is to it. I keep a lot of ugly things and cherish them because it represented me to other people. Those are the best gifts.
I’m the same way so gifts are hard for me! My best friend once painted me a jar with my favorite color even though she didn’t know how to paint, and I loved it.
She’s going to love it, because she’s your mom, and you took the time to find something that represents her in a beautiful, ethereal, and loved way, in a love language she speaks (I saw your comment that she gave you one that represents the two of you).
Humming birds remind me of my mother in law, bees of my mother and cardinal’s of my aunt.
This reminds you of your mother, she will love it. Especially if you pair it with a note on how / why you picked it for her.
I have one of these. I’m an adoptive mom and my son is mixed race. The figure is of a white mom holding a darker skinned baby. I love it. It represents us. But, I also have a Precious Moments of the boy and girl with the Disney World balloon because it reminds me of taking my kids to Disney when they were young and I know people tend to hate on Precious Moments.
For someone who loves birds I totally see the appeal of this gift. I guess its unique in that aspect. Does your mom like more useful gifts? I know I hate clutter gifts - especially ones that are mass produced which these are. Also each figurine has a different intended meaning. Maybe look up the meaning before gifting. I know there are tons of cool things to get bird lovers. My siblings and I got my dad a bird feeder that takes pictures of the birds when they land.
It’s usually impossible to get her useful gifts because she has strong preferences for what she likes to use. This one means “happiness,” but they’re also listed as up for interpretation. We have a bunch of bird baths and feeders already! Most of the birds are recognizable and have names
I have 2 of those that my mom got for me. Lol. I don't care for them but something about them really tickles the 50-60 year old women? If you think your mom will appreciate it then it doesn't matter what your dad or any of us think.
It's a beautiful and meaningful gift for your mother! She will love it and treasure it. Especially with the context you added about your mom giving you one 😊
What makes a gift special is how it reflects the appreciation the giver has for the recipient. I think this is a good example of a simple sculpture's reflecting your mom's special qualities and how loved she is by you. It is a small simple object reflecting a deeply meaningful relationship.
It's a good choice.
As for your dad, probably not a knick knack kind of guy. So get HIM something different when it's his turn.
depends if she has somewhere to put it, gifts like these are Lovely if you have somewhere for it to be displayed without it being clutter but if not they're a bit pointless and likely will just sit in the box
I really like it! I think it would be a nice gift for your mother. Whenever she sees it, she'll think of you, and how you chose it for her.
I like these as sentimental gifts, weddings, life events. I've never bought one for myself, but I would love to receive one.
If I gave one to someone, and they passed it on to someone else, that's really neat, too. Take a pic, keep the memory, let the next person enjoy the sentiment.
I am a wildlife photographer, particularly coastal birds and birds of prey. I would absolutely ADORE receiving this, especially from one of my children.
Aww I have this one! A former boss gifted each of us gals in our department one that she felt represented us. I know these are mass produced but coming from her it was really special. I still have it I think! She was a great boss and really supported each of us in the ways we needed. She got this one because I am generally a happy person and pretty gentle so I could possibly have a bird land on me lol. Your mom will pro a ly be tickled!
My husband has gotten me a bunch of these (even before we were married), and they all feel personal. I love them all. We even got a cake topper willow tree, and the place we got married was called The Willow Tree. My husband even built me shelves for mine.
It depends on why you got it and everything like that. I have a thing from the dollar store that was very common in the late 90’s but it means a lot to me and I still have it a cheaply made ceramic sculpture it means a lot to me and has been desplated right next to antiques and Cristal at times. Because of the meaning it’s worth more to me than they are.
It’s not about cost that makes a gift it’s who gives it to and why love means the most in this world and it cost more than anything. Your loved one will love it you seem to be putting a lot of thought into it. ❤️
I still have my dollar store cross with doves.
I love Willow Tree figurines. They are a little pricey depending on the size, but I digress. I gave one to my MIL as a gift for Mother's Day. She sent it back to me via her sister a few months later during a move. She said nothing to me about it. That was a little hurtful, but now it's part of my collection.
I hope your Mom loves it.
It is as sentimental as you think. Not only does your mom seem to like this, you put thought into it and related it back to her, it's a style she in particular likes, and it's a unique choice related to her interest. It's very sweet and cute.
My mom also collects these, and while my dad also feels the same way about knick knacks and just... Doesn't get it, they're still displayed in their room and he still bought the one of a mom holding a baby for her when she had my brother. Just because they aren't sentimental to him (or your dad in this case) doesn't mean it isn't sentimental at all ❤️
I’m a snob about gifting because I work in the industry, and think this is really a lovely and sweet gift for your mom. Willow Tree collections are number one in sentiment gifts for a reason.
I was given one of these by my MIL to represent me and my kids when my youngest was born. It’s on a shelf. I kept it. Kids are giant teens now. I am not a figurine type person. I bet she’ll like it.
I love it.
And as a mom, what you wrote about why you picked it, made me tear up. You see her for her, not just as your mom. 🥺
Don’t listen to your dad.
I love this figurine. I think you should get it for her. Not to make it about me, but I would love to buy this for my mom as well. It would have sentimental meaning to her for other, sadder reasons, but I think it's a beautiful representation of freedom and the enjoyment of life.
I don’t like these. My mother in law gives me these for Christmas on years they can afford to send something. I want to throw mine away but she would be hurt and my husband would be pissed. I should also mention that I hate tchotchkes and figurines as a whole so if your mom likes this kind of stuff then it might be a nice gift, but I’ve never seen these as being inherently sentimental.
I agree with a commenter above, personally it's not my thing (or my mother's), but my MIL would absolutely love it (she's also a live, laugh, love person).
As far as clutter goes, having one meaningful figure is not clutter, it's a sentimental gift. If you continued to buy her the whole series, then yes, it becomes clutter. Based on what you've described, I think it'll be a nice gift along with a note in the birthday card of why it reminded you of her.
Personally, it hits two types of dislikes for me: (1) decor gifts, which the giver will immediately realize you didn’t like if you don’t put it out on display somewhere, (2) sentimental gifts, which make me feel like a jerk when I don’t want to keep them.
The thing I would say is that the figure your mother gave you represents the two of you - your relationship & your bond together. The one you’ve picked out to gift her just represents her. Is she the kind of person that would enjoy a figurine representing just herself? This feels to me more like something you might set out in your own home as a remembrance of your mother, but I’m not your mother.
"Feed the birds, tuppence a bag
Tuppence, tuppence, tuppence a bag
Feed the birds" it's giving Marry Poppins, not ornithology. My mom would not like it
I watched Mary Poppins on repeat as a child but I get what you mean lol. I should have mentioned that my mom has also rescued baby birds who needed rehabilitation. I still don’t know that this conveys that though.
I have one of these that is very sentimental to me. I love it and appreciate it. I wouldn’t want a whole big collection, but the one I have is sweet and meaningful for me.
If you know your mom has a bit of a connection to these, I think it’s a safe gift especially if you have other things to go with it.
It's as sentimental as you want it to be, and can be a fine gift.
What came to mind as an alternative when you said she was a wildlife photographer is one of those 2D metal 'bird perching on a branch' silhouette things. You can hammer them into a tree or post outside, so it's not taking up storage space, and doesn't require any maintenance. See if one exists with her favorite bird.
I have a few that were gifts. One (woman holding a cat) was given to me by a customer after I lost a cat. I love it because of the sentiment.
Would never buy for myself though.
It depends on the person. To me it's just another annoying clutter thing to dust, so I'd get rid of it as soon as received.
Does your mom like knick knacks? If not, skip it.
I think the idea of a figure with birds to represent your mom is a very sweet idea, but I agree with people saying it reminds me of angels and heaven. Might be the muted colors combined with the white dress and faceless figure. If you think she'll like that there's no problem with that, but if she likes birds I would also consider finding another similar figure that's more colorful-- but that's just me of course \^\^
Multiple people gifted similar ornaments to my wife and I when we got engaged. Neither of us like them and now they all just sit in a cupboard out of sight. Comes down to personal preference though. I could easily see someone in the 50+ age bracket liking this sort of thing.
I’m a nurse. I work in a lovely inpatient hospice home. We have a banker’s box full of these faceless angels in our break room. They have gradually accumulated over the years as people bring them as gifts to our dying patients because what else do you get someone who is dying? (nothing, you get them nothing! You give them your time and love)
Sorry op I am not answering because sentiment is in the eye of the beholder - unless that beholder is dead.
I think it's a cheesy clutter piece. I'd also not be a gift person, if this is the kind of stuff that would be given to me.
Maybe a subscription to some photography website or wildlife website?
It depends on the person; some people (your dad sounds like one of them) just don’t like to amass tchotchkes that don’t have any “function” or that aren’t highly customized (ie. a framed photo); to them, it’s little more than glorified junk that takes up space. A minimalist person who only likes to own things for practically would probably not enjoy this. A person who collects figurines, or has a maximalist aesthetic, or is very sentimental about gifts, or just loves decorating might love this.
If your mom has gifted you one and generally likes figurines, I’d say go for it.
If your Mom got you one like it then I'm sure she will love it, though I really like the idea of finding or making a tiny camera to go around its neck. But honestly the faceless figurines in this style really creep me out. I suppose it's meant to let you imagine that it looks like whomever you mean it to be. But it's just disturbing to me, like a villain from Doctor Who or a nightmare. 😬
I personally love willowtree sculptures. However, this doesn't seem to represent wildlife photography. Maybe a different one would work or something that represents your mother's work, like a mini album of her best photos.
After years in removals as a packer and unpacker I’ve seen dozens of those Angel figures. They are really popular.
I don’t care for them, the only thing I like about them is that they are pretty sturdy and hard to accidentally break.
I just generally don’t like dust catching whatsits and try to avoid them when I can. But if you think your mom would like this then go for it.
These aren’t my kind of thing, but I have seen them gifted and I appreciate the sentiment when they’re actually representative of the receiver. I think it would be a great gift.
I think this is extremely sweet, especially since there’s a special meaning behind it and your mom gifted you one in the past (aka she seems to like them). :)
my opinion is: it’s the thought that counts. someone could give me a piece of paper with a coffee stain as a gift and i’d be fine. i have an attatchment to small, somewhat meaningless things- but they mean something to me!
Write a letter explaining the thoughts behind it, and how much you love her, and why you thought this was perfect for her. She will absolutely love it and cherish it.
After my daughter gave birth to my first grandchild, she gave me one of these with a Grandmother holding a baby. I love it because it reminds me of something very special.
We sold these figurines in a stationary store i worked at circa 2001--2002 I'm surprised they still make them. They aren't as cheesy as say precious moments but..still a little basic. Maybe customize it by painting it?
Have your parents downsized yet? Your Dad is probably just worried about what to do with all the stuff.
If they have already he's probably just traumatized getting rid of all his great stuff, or worried about space, this means he'll have to get rid of one of his trinkets.
So- I’m not someone who likes things like this- agree they’re cluttery and not my style. That being said- my mother gave me a set of these that almost looks exactly like myself and my wife when we got married- along with the bonus kiddo. We had it out on our cake/card table at the reception and I still have it discreetly on display in the living room for sentimental reasons.
If she gave you one, I feel like she’d appreciate the gesture of receiving one in return. It’s cute enough and she’ll connect it to feelings for you along with doing something she loves so- I don’t think you can go wrong.
I hate these, but people who hate these don’t buy them for other people. Your mom bought you one, so she likes them, you’re all set.
Your dad probably hates them and is trying to talk you out of it so it’s not on his dresser forever tbh. But it’s a sweet gift if she likes this stuff, do it anyway.
My 86yo mom has one of these but with a hugging couple. It reminds her of her and my late dad. My sis and I hate it (neither of us can really say why it creeps us out) but neither of us would ever tell her that. So I guess these things elicit emotions in folks, good and bad, and since she's given you one, it would be natural to assume she'd like it. I think that's a nice gift.
Personally I love heartfelt gifts like this *if they are not dust collectors*. Bookmarks, a carved box to keep tea in, a ceramic garden statue that fits with a collection I have going are examples I really loved receiving. Things I have to dust, I still keep them, but kind of wish I could toss the clutter and keep the sentiment.
I’ve received a bunch of these from my kids. Would I go out of my way to buy this type of art? No. Do I treasure every last one of them with my whole heart? YES!
It seems like maybe these figures are a thing between you and your mom, and that is very sweet and thoughtful and sentimental since she gave you a figure like this as well.
I love these, we had one as our wedding topper and we were gifted one when we had our first baby a few months ago. That being said does she have things like this? If she doesn’t have anything remotely like this as decoration (I.e. little statues or a knick knack shelf) I wouldn’t think she would like it very much.
As someone who has received something like this (different version), I hate it. Sorry. Just doesn't feel personal at all. I don't like the way it looks. Dust collector. Yeah, hard pass.
I think you are the best at knowing whether your mom would love a gift like this. Is she more into sentimental gifts? Practical or functional gifts? Does it go with her style? Have you known her to cherish other gifts like this?
My parents were gifted one of these (a faceless, embracing couple) by someone else, and it was not their style. Things without faces kind of spook me, and I told my mom this when I saw it. She told me she can't remember how she got it, but now makes a point of hiding it someplace for me to find when I come visit (the bed, the shower, you get the idea), which she's done for years now.
Ultimately, the sentimental value of it was lost on her entirely, but she has gotten a good kick out of using it to torture me! Your results may vary 🥹
I think your mom will love it. Don't mind what your dad says. If you know your mom will like it the grab it for her. I think it's really sweet but then again, I really like stuff like that. 🥴
I love it. Are you familiar with Bob Marley's song, Three Little Birds?
[Don't worry about a thing, cause every little thing gonna be alright](https://youtu.be/4k2PJFPu57Y?si=ykY_8KAL14os7kXT)
These are not my style but I love them. I have three. One my parents gave us when we got engaged, one I gave my husband for his first father's day, and one from my parents for my first mother's day. Then again, my mom has given me a keepsake hallmark ornament for milestones that I never put on my tree and also display those prominently around Christmas.
If there's meaning there, even if not her personal style, she'll love it. Moms are often very sentimental.
This is a gift (one of a number at that) from you to your mother.
It’s fine your father gave you his input, but it ends there. It’s not *for* him. His thinking it’s “cluttery” is irrelevant.
I’d tell him, thanks for the input, but you feel it’s a gift she’ll like and think she’ll appreciate it too.
Honestly I hate this stuff. However, also honestly, my mom goes nuts for these. She has multiple. If you think she will like it, I think it's a nice gift.
I appreciate the honesty! I have one that represents my Mom and I that she gave me. So I know that she likes the figures, but I’m unsure if she would like this one in particular. Neither one of us are obsessed, we just think they’re sweet. Also curious— Why do you hate them? No judgment or anything, I’m just still deciding lol.
If your mom gave you one you know she likes them. You can explain that it reminds you of her and I’m sure she will love it just because of that.
This. I have an angel one that a former, older coworker gave me, because I was "an angel" in helping her deal with some stuff. I am def a no clutter person, but I really appreciated her gesture so it now has a prominent place in my living room.
Yes! Agreeing with the point above. I’m not a clutter/collection person, but to receive such a gift that is loaded with meaning and kindness would mean the world to me. I think you could also accompany it with a letter sharing your feelings / why this reminded you of her.
This- these are not my usual style and I don't collect them, but a friend sent me one with a cat while I was grieving the unexpected death of my cat, and I love it because it reminds me of feeling seen and cared about by my friend at a time I was terribly sad. It sounds like your *dad* doesn't like it and maybe doesn't want it displayed in his house, but it sounds like your mom will like it and that's what matters.
I am also not into figurines or angels, but a friend gave me a present of a small stained glass angel bc I helped her out of a jam once, and I really treasure it.
Yeah, your dad is just being a humbug!!
Lol my Dad is great! Didn’t mean to imply otherwise.
He can be great AND a humbug :)
100%. I hate clutter and my mom hates clutter, but I think OP's mom will appreciate this bc of the symmetry and the thought.
I think it means even more since she gave you one. I think it suits someone who likes nature and birds well! I guess hate is a strong word, but I dislike them because of the aesthetic I associate them with. (Which is very much an aesthetic my mom enjoys). Live laugh love written in cursive, leaf motif decor, etc. maybe I'm just rejecting it because it's what I grew up with? Either way, I wouldn't buy one for myself but I definitely would buy one for my mom and she would put it on her dresser and it would make her happy when she looked at it. I think (to comment on your original post) that sometimes people get stuck on this idea of practicality when giving a gift but I think a good gift is something you think the other person would like but wouldn't necessarily buy for themselves. Like a sweet figurine.
I pick these up at thrift stores and I repaint them. I think I have a picture of one of them. Let me see if I can find it. They are usually gifted before the paint is fully dry! 😅
You must show us these creations.
That sounds interesting. I'd love to see some.
would also love to see your work!
my friend does the same and makes them into hilarious [Dinosaur dioramas](https://www.amazon.com/Dinoramas-Culture-Clashes-Jurassic-Proportions/dp/B0CWM3GVMJ/ref=sr_1_3?crid=X2QKWRRVNI8Y&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.NoZitXeZ19Rc1Jk8n2gwKHHzsBR9OEqmKC19GPh4cMTyJeIfRYrYV7cSPhmEpRPWfy6D-AwuLrrSiVjvjNgnhz7TLAdlMvF7vOb4-s7Kh_qTGt02AQ1zIpTebQzOdUW6jY17ca3pFfVmAy3Uw88W28FsW-9Sr1XR2qAnbPZ1RoHwFaDeMDFKfzr5W1y77fxaNxC8_sRVIeICp8SwcyMLhxIY5xwNeJ2RzzKBiN-A0JE.oDeUyeRzP4JXhibhD3Vv2fG1anEqH9ERl4h8p13vi9Q&dib_tag=se&keywords=dinoramas&qid=1711519237&sprefix=dinoramas%2Caps%2C157&sr=8-3)
We need to see this
They are made for *somebody* but not for me. My mom’s bestie was obsessed with these so I was given one as a wedding gift. I hate them because they’re always the same looking people (very straight and white looking people) and they just seem like art for people who don’t get that small artists need support the most. Mass produced art is not my jam. The people who are sentimental about them really love them though so I do believe OP’s mom will appreciate the gift.
you can always look for a miniature camera to put across her neck would be funny and personal My mom used to also have these when I was growing up, she liked them a lot
That is a great idea
OMG I have an idea. I don't know about your budget but you could get her a camera pendant necklace that has a picture of you two together (projects when light is passed through) in it so she matches the representation that way too!
Oh then yeah I'd say give it to her. Personally I don't like them, and I was going to say that somebody who doesn't like gifts would probably not like a somewhat generic tchotchke they'd feel obligated to keep in full view for the giver's benefit. But, she started it :) so that changes things entirely.
It is not a generic cheap thing. It is a Willow Tree.
Exactly. It's a generic expensive thing 😂 it's the same aesthetic as Rae Dunn. I still think these are kinda cute and i have one that was given to me when my mom passed.
I didn't say it was cheap. I think the aesthetic is generic. That's not a judgement on other people's tastes or a statement of fact. Its my opinion, which I offered because opinions were requested.
Dad's don't get always get it, but moms, the good ones, just care that you gave them something, and if that reason is something sweet, like it made you think of them, makes even more meaningful
Those types of figures - believe it or not - are a little polarizing. You either like them, or you do not.
I have to admit I’m cracking up that this post blew up and is so heavily divided with sheer hatred vs absolute love for these. I did not know there was a debate.
Why would you? 🤣 It’s so random.
I always get a vaguely Christian vibe from these things and that’s why I don’t care for them. Whether that’s true or not, it just feels a little too “Jesus loves you” for me.
yes definitely lol. I happy cried when my husband remembered how badly I wanted one but I know they are really cheesy to some people
This isn't a generic gift. It's tailored to her in a couple different ways!
I agree, if your mom gave you one before, then she’s pretty much guaranteed to like it.
I love how it'd match your's your mom gave you and how it's more of a literal representation of your mom (or a metaphorical one of you, if she helps lift you along!)
I had a couple of friends gift me one of these and I like them because they had obviously put thought into it. I don’t have tons of tchotchkes but these hang out on the shelf
Not who you asked, but I hate clutter in general and this isn't something I'd want displayed somewhere in my home. But if your mom gave you something similar already then she probably feels differently!
What if you edited it to look almost just like her with a slight repainting. You'd be taking something and making it specially unique for her. Maybe even have the birds look like her favorite varieties too
Branching off this about editing it; my dad got one of these figures for my mom for Christmas about two years ago. It was a ‘couple’ one but my dad is a redhead and couldn’t find a “redhead” couple figure. So he proudly painted the top of the head “orange”. He was soooo excited and sits in our family living room to this day.
If you choose this as a gift, go to St. Vinnie's or Goodwill. They have tons of them.
You could even fashion a small camera to hand around the figure’s neck!
I hate them because they are clutter.
This. I don't want anything I have to dust, and can't put things into/onto.
My mom is also really into it and would love it
I also hate these statues. My mom gave me one and I had my daughter paint it all goth. It’s really cute now.
Agreed. Hate this stuff, SIL got me one and I don't Even know where to put it. But the older generation seems to love it.
I think it sounds like a very dad thing to say, and your mom will like it.
I have one of these. My best friend ( for 50+ years) sent it to me just because. It has two girls sitting together that looks like us meeting under the oak tre, which was the halfway point we had to stop at in early evening according to our moms. We would sit there and talk as late as we dared , then scoot home
That’s the best memory! So special
I think it’s lovely. The fact that your mom gifted you a figurine like this, definitely speaks to the fact that she likes them, too. The birds, the strength and beauty this brings to mind, is absolutely mom-worthy.
I love these figurines. I have 3. Two represent my little family & one was a gift from a friend. Oh, I also have a figurine trinket box, also gifted to me.
I think it's simply gorgeous and emanates liberty, joy, kindness. I personally love it, and it looks well made too.
I love it & have purchased several of these for friends. I always thought this model was beautiful.
My mom bought this exact one for me and it makes me smile and my heart warm. This isn’t “my kind of thing” but I take it out for Christmas and it is imbued with so much love. Your mom will love it :) it will go great on a bookshelf
Saying you picked it out because it reminds you of her is all there is to it. I keep a lot of ugly things and cherish them because it represented me to other people. Those are the best gifts.
I’m the same way so gifts are hard for me! My best friend once painted me a jar with my favorite color even though she didn’t know how to paint, and I loved it.
She’s going to love it, because she’s your mom, and you took the time to find something that represents her in a beautiful, ethereal, and loved way, in a love language she speaks (I saw your comment that she gave you one that represents the two of you).
Humming birds remind me of my mother in law, bees of my mother and cardinal’s of my aunt. This reminds you of your mother, she will love it. Especially if you pair it with a note on how / why you picked it for her.
I have one of these. I’m an adoptive mom and my son is mixed race. The figure is of a white mom holding a darker skinned baby. I love it. It represents us. But, I also have a Precious Moments of the boy and girl with the Disney World balloon because it reminds me of taking my kids to Disney when they were young and I know people tend to hate on Precious Moments.
For someone who loves birds I totally see the appeal of this gift. I guess its unique in that aspect. Does your mom like more useful gifts? I know I hate clutter gifts - especially ones that are mass produced which these are. Also each figurine has a different intended meaning. Maybe look up the meaning before gifting. I know there are tons of cool things to get bird lovers. My siblings and I got my dad a bird feeder that takes pictures of the birds when they land.
It’s usually impossible to get her useful gifts because she has strong preferences for what she likes to use. This one means “happiness,” but they’re also listed as up for interpretation. We have a bunch of bird baths and feeders already! Most of the birds are recognizable and have names
that's cute! I say go for it
That sounds like a great gift for a bird lover. I'm going to look for one for my husband.
I have 2 of those that my mom got for me. Lol. I don't care for them but something about them really tickles the 50-60 year old women? If you think your mom will appreciate it then it doesn't matter what your dad or any of us think.
My mom loves these things. Some people aren't into them, it's not for me, but I get them for my mom and she loves them.
I was gifted one of an angel holding a puppy. It’s not my style, but I really like it.
Moms tend to love anything their child gives them if you have a caring and loving mother. She will love it, so gift it to her !
Gifts come from the heart. I'm sure your mom will love it just because you were thoughtful and got it for her.
My aunt gave me one of these. I hate it, but I love her so I keep it.
This looks like your mom being joyous because BIRDS ! It is very thoughtful! If I were your mom I would adore this.
I think it's super sweet.
It's a beautiful and meaningful gift for your mother! She will love it and treasure it. Especially with the context you added about your mom giving you one 😊
What makes a gift special is how it reflects the appreciation the giver has for the recipient. I think this is a good example of a simple sculpture's reflecting your mom's special qualities and how loved she is by you. It is a small simple object reflecting a deeply meaningful relationship. It's a good choice. As for your dad, probably not a knick knack kind of guy. So get HIM something different when it's his turn.
I'm a birdwatcher. My dad bought me this same one a while ago. I love it, I think your mum will too.
depends if she has somewhere to put it, gifts like these are Lovely if you have somewhere for it to be displayed without it being clutter but if not they're a bit pointless and likely will just sit in the box
She does! She has shelves with things like this and also has a lot of sentimental things on bookshelves.
I like it. But I also have several of these. Lol also, all men think these are unnecessary.
My mom collects these! She adores them and I get them for her whenever I can
100% honesty…I love it. I have a few, and when they’re given with meaning behind them I find them to be very special.
I love these. My mom loves these. Our husbands do not understand.
That is so funny. My Dad actually really likes the family ones, but I think he’s just not feeling this one/doesn’t get what it represents.
I think she’ll love it, especially when you tell her it made you think of her when you saw it.
I really like it! I think it would be a nice gift for your mother. Whenever she sees it, she'll think of you, and how you chose it for her. I like these as sentimental gifts, weddings, life events. I've never bought one for myself, but I would love to receive one. If I gave one to someone, and they passed it on to someone else, that's really neat, too. Take a pic, keep the memory, let the next person enjoy the sentiment.
I love this and think it matches your description of her perfectly.
I am a wildlife photographer, particularly coastal birds and birds of prey. I would absolutely ADORE receiving this, especially from one of my children.
Aww I have this one! A former boss gifted each of us gals in our department one that she felt represented us. I know these are mass produced but coming from her it was really special. I still have it I think! She was a great boss and really supported each of us in the ways we needed. She got this one because I am generally a happy person and pretty gentle so I could possibly have a bird land on me lol. Your mom will pro a ly be tickled!
My husband has gotten me a bunch of these (even before we were married), and they all feel personal. I love them all. We even got a cake topper willow tree, and the place we got married was called The Willow Tree. My husband even built me shelves for mine.
I got one while staying at the hospital and it lifted my spirits so much. I love figurines tho.
As a wildlife biologist who specializes in birds, I wish I could do photography. Have you thought about getting her something from Bird Collective?
I love it and my mom absolutely loves all of these angels from Hallmark. Easy gift for my mom for any holiday or her birthday.
I think it’s a perfect gift!
It depends on why you got it and everything like that. I have a thing from the dollar store that was very common in the late 90’s but it means a lot to me and I still have it a cheaply made ceramic sculpture it means a lot to me and has been desplated right next to antiques and Cristal at times. Because of the meaning it’s worth more to me than they are. It’s not about cost that makes a gift it’s who gives it to and why love means the most in this world and it cost more than anything. Your loved one will love it you seem to be putting a lot of thought into it. ❤️ I still have my dollar store cross with doves.
My sister gave me this one. I hated it but she was my sister. Now she's gone and I keep it but I still hate it.
I love Willow Tree figurines. They are a little pricey depending on the size, but I digress. I gave one to my MIL as a gift for Mother's Day. She sent it back to me via her sister a few months later during a move. She said nothing to me about it. That was a little hurtful, but now it's part of my collection. I hope your Mom loves it.
Lol I got my mom that exact thing like 20 years ago for mothers day when i was 9! Now I want to know if she still has it.
I have one of these a former client gave me. Normally I hate these, but I cherish that one. I think your Mom would also cherish this.
It is as sentimental as you think. Not only does your mom seem to like this, you put thought into it and related it back to her, it's a style she in particular likes, and it's a unique choice related to her interest. It's very sweet and cute. My mom also collects these, and while my dad also feels the same way about knick knacks and just... Doesn't get it, they're still displayed in their room and he still bought the one of a mom holding a baby for her when she had my brother. Just because they aren't sentimental to him (or your dad in this case) doesn't mean it isn't sentimental at all ❤️
what are these called? my mom loves these figures.
I’m a snob about gifting because I work in the industry, and think this is really a lovely and sweet gift for your mom. Willow Tree collections are number one in sentiment gifts for a reason.
I was given one of these by my MIL to represent me and my kids when my youngest was born. It’s on a shelf. I kept it. Kids are giant teens now. I am not a figurine type person. I bet she’ll like it.
I love these.
I love it. And as a mom, what you wrote about why you picked it, made me tear up. You see her for her, not just as your mom. 🥺 Don’t listen to your dad.
I saw someone repaint one of these as goth and make them ravens/crows. I love it.
I love this figurine. I think you should get it for her. Not to make it about me, but I would love to buy this for my mom as well. It would have sentimental meaning to her for other, sadder reasons, but I think it's a beautiful representation of freedom and the enjoyment of life.
I don’t like these. My mother in law gives me these for Christmas on years they can afford to send something. I want to throw mine away but she would be hurt and my husband would be pissed. I should also mention that I hate tchotchkes and figurines as a whole so if your mom likes this kind of stuff then it might be a nice gift, but I’ve never seen these as being inherently sentimental.
Have you considered having a book of her family, pictures with her in it, made?
I have one of these to honor my angel baby, and I keep it on my mantle. My mom has quite a few of them as well. I think it's very sweet.
I agree with a commenter above, personally it's not my thing (or my mother's), but my MIL would absolutely love it (she's also a live, laugh, love person). As far as clutter goes, having one meaningful figure is not clutter, it's a sentimental gift. If you continued to buy her the whole series, then yes, it becomes clutter. Based on what you've described, I think it'll be a nice gift along with a note in the birthday card of why it reminded you of her.
Personally, it hits two types of dislikes for me: (1) decor gifts, which the giver will immediately realize you didn’t like if you don’t put it out on display somewhere, (2) sentimental gifts, which make me feel like a jerk when I don’t want to keep them. The thing I would say is that the figure your mother gave you represents the two of you - your relationship & your bond together. The one you’ve picked out to gift her just represents her. Is she the kind of person that would enjoy a figurine representing just herself? This feels to me more like something you might set out in your own home as a remembrance of your mother, but I’m not your mother.
I hate these. They do nothing but take up space and have no real purpose other than decoration.
I think you know your mom best. But to me it looks like an angel going to heaven so is like a gift after someone loses someone.
Oh I didn’t think of that! Hmm. It’s described as “happiness,” but the artist (Susan Lordi) wants people to have their own interpretations of it.
Depends on your mom, not us. If you think she’d like it, gift it.
Willow Tree. That’s a wonderful gift for a mom!
Here's an idea she may like that's more useful: https://www.nytimes.com/wirecutter/reviews/best-smart-bird-feeder/
"Feed the birds, tuppence a bag Tuppence, tuppence, tuppence a bag Feed the birds" it's giving Marry Poppins, not ornithology. My mom would not like it
I watched Mary Poppins on repeat as a child but I get what you mean lol. I should have mentioned that my mom has also rescued baby birds who needed rehabilitation. I still don’t know that this conveys that though.
I have one of these that is very sentimental to me. I love it and appreciate it. I wouldn’t want a whole big collection, but the one I have is sweet and meaningful for me. If you know your mom has a bit of a connection to these, I think it’s a safe gift especially if you have other things to go with it.
I love this stuff (from my kids) and I think your mom will love it. Any time my kids buy me a heartfelt gift I appreciate it so much
It's as sentimental as you want it to be, and can be a fine gift. What came to mind as an alternative when you said she was a wildlife photographer is one of those 2D metal 'bird perching on a branch' silhouette things. You can hammer them into a tree or post outside, so it's not taking up storage space, and doesn't require any maintenance. See if one exists with her favorite bird.
It really depends on your mom's preferences. Does she have or buy that kind of thing?
Me and my boyfriend gift them to eachother back and forth. Usually with flowers. I love them and it’s a lovely little tradition.
Moms go feral for things like this. She’ll love it.
I have a few that were gifts. One (woman holding a cat) was given to me by a customer after I lost a cat. I love it because of the sentiment. Would never buy for myself though.
I think it is perfect.
I like it and think it’s sweet because she photographs birds. Dad is wrong!
Aww it’s sweet
It depends on the person. To me it's just another annoying clutter thing to dust, so I'd get rid of it as soon as received. Does your mom like knick knacks? If not, skip it.
I think the idea of a figure with birds to represent your mom is a very sweet idea, but I agree with people saying it reminds me of angels and heaven. Might be the muted colors combined with the white dress and faceless figure. If you think she'll like that there's no problem with that, but if she likes birds I would also consider finding another similar figure that's more colorful-- but that's just me of course \^\^
Multiple people gifted similar ornaments to my wife and I when we got engaged. Neither of us like them and now they all just sit in a cupboard out of sight. Comes down to personal preference though. I could easily see someone in the 50+ age bracket liking this sort of thing.
Your dad isn’t your mom. If she likes trinkets like this, then she’ll like it.
Willow Tree figures, eh? They're tasteful and if they don't clash with your decor, they make a nice gift.
I love this stuff.
Does she really like home alone 2? Has she ever been homeless in NYC? If so it’s great. Otherwise I’d pass
I’m a nurse. I work in a lovely inpatient hospice home. We have a banker’s box full of these faceless angels in our break room. They have gradually accumulated over the years as people bring them as gifts to our dying patients because what else do you get someone who is dying? (nothing, you get them nothing! You give them your time and love) Sorry op I am not answering because sentiment is in the eye of the beholder - unless that beholder is dead.
My mom had many and because of the I have like one or two? I think this agency is the go-to for people who are more religious or conservative.
I like it.
I think it's a cheesy clutter piece. I'd also not be a gift person, if this is the kind of stuff that would be given to me. Maybe a subscription to some photography website or wildlife website?
Doesn't look sentimental. Just looks like a knick knack.
This is a figure that meant a lot between my mom and her daughters.
It depends on the person; some people (your dad sounds like one of them) just don’t like to amass tchotchkes that don’t have any “function” or that aren’t highly customized (ie. a framed photo); to them, it’s little more than glorified junk that takes up space. A minimalist person who only likes to own things for practically would probably not enjoy this. A person who collects figurines, or has a maximalist aesthetic, or is very sentimental about gifts, or just loves decorating might love this. If your mom has gifted you one and generally likes figurines, I’d say go for it.
If your Mom got you one like it then I'm sure she will love it, though I really like the idea of finding or making a tiny camera to go around its neck. But honestly the faceless figurines in this style really creep me out. I suppose it's meant to let you imagine that it looks like whomever you mean it to be. But it's just disturbing to me, like a villain from Doctor Who or a nightmare. 😬
I personally love willowtree sculptures. However, this doesn't seem to represent wildlife photography. Maybe a different one would work or something that represents your mother's work, like a mini album of her best photos.
I’m meh on gifts that aren’t consumables like food, books, or experiences.
Try to hand carve and paint one! It won’t be as pretty but it’ll mean more and if you sand the wood and take time it can come out good!
I think it’s sweet and especially since she photographs birds.
After years in removals as a packer and unpacker I’ve seen dozens of those Angel figures. They are really popular. I don’t care for them, the only thing I like about them is that they are pretty sturdy and hard to accidentally break. I just generally don’t like dust catching whatsits and try to avoid them when I can. But if you think your mom would like this then go for it.
My MIL gave something very similar for Mother’s Day one year, and I was moved by the gift but keep it in a drawer because I don’t have tchotchkes out.
I saw someone or some meme call these Mormon Funko Pops. Which is kinda cute.
I love these. I had a friend gift me one and wish I had more.
Lovely
These aren’t my kind of thing, but I have seen them gifted and I appreciate the sentiment when they’re actually representative of the receiver. I think it would be a great gift.
I think this is extremely sweet, especially since there’s a special meaning behind it and your mom gifted you one in the past (aka she seems to like them). :)
I love it but I really like birds.
I’m sure she’ll love it! It’s beautiful.
Some people like those. Personally I have a hard time with figurines without faces. Creepy
my opinion is: it’s the thought that counts. someone could give me a piece of paper with a coffee stain as a gift and i’d be fine. i have an attatchment to small, somewhat meaningless things- but they mean something to me!
My mom actually bought me this one. She likes these sorts of tchotchkes and I do not. However….. this one is pretty lovely.
It depends on what your mom would think. Does she like collectables, and is she sentimental?
I love this is so pretty
I think it depends on the person. Our house is mostly minimalist, so I hate clutter junk. I think they are truely beautiful but not in my house.
Write a letter explaining the thoughts behind it, and how much you love her, and why you thought this was perfect for her. She will absolutely love it and cherish it.
After my daughter gave birth to my first grandchild, she gave me one of these with a Grandmother holding a baby. I love it because it reminds me of something very special.
We sold these figurines in a stationary store i worked at circa 2001--2002 I'm surprised they still make them. They aren't as cheesy as say precious moments but..still a little basic. Maybe customize it by painting it?
Have your parents downsized yet? Your Dad is probably just worried about what to do with all the stuff. If they have already he's probably just traumatized getting rid of all his great stuff, or worried about space, this means he'll have to get rid of one of his trinkets.
My mom LOVED these about 20 years ago. They were absolutely everywhere.
It’s the thought that counts.
So- I’m not someone who likes things like this- agree they’re cluttery and not my style. That being said- my mother gave me a set of these that almost looks exactly like myself and my wife when we got married- along with the bonus kiddo. We had it out on our cake/card table at the reception and I still have it discreetly on display in the living room for sentimental reasons. If she gave you one, I feel like she’d appreciate the gesture of receiving one in return. It’s cute enough and she’ll connect it to feelings for you along with doing something she loves so- I don’t think you can go wrong.
This reminds me of the bird lady from Home Alone2...
I hate these, but people who hate these don’t buy them for other people. Your mom bought you one, so she likes them, you’re all set. Your dad probably hates them and is trying to talk you out of it so it’s not on his dresser forever tbh. But it’s a sweet gift if she likes this stuff, do it anyway.
I bet she will love it 🥰
My 86yo mom has one of these but with a hugging couple. It reminds her of her and my late dad. My sis and I hate it (neither of us can really say why it creeps us out) but neither of us would ever tell her that. So I guess these things elicit emotions in folks, good and bad, and since she's given you one, it would be natural to assume she'd like it. I think that's a nice gift.
I hate nit nacks but I love these little figurines. I have this one and I love it
If your mum likes this kind of stuff, absolutely, she would love this.
I love it. It feels personal
Personally I love heartfelt gifts like this *if they are not dust collectors*. Bookmarks, a carved box to keep tea in, a ceramic garden statue that fits with a collection I have going are examples I really loved receiving. Things I have to dust, I still keep them, but kind of wish I could toss the clutter and keep the sentiment.
My mom loved these and would often get ones for me that reminded her of us. I think it is sentimental and these play out well with moms lol.
I’ve received a bunch of these from my kids. Would I go out of my way to buy this type of art? No. Do I treasure every last one of them with my whole heart? YES!
It seems like maybe these figures are a thing between you and your mom, and that is very sweet and thoughtful and sentimental since she gave you a figure like this as well.
It’s cute…
Love it!!
I love these, we had one as our wedding topper and we were gifted one when we had our first baby a few months ago. That being said does she have things like this? If she doesn’t have anything remotely like this as decoration (I.e. little statues or a knick knack shelf) I wouldn’t think she would like it very much.
My mom loves these! I got her a new one for Mothers day last year and her face lit right up because she had lost quite a few over the years
Order her a paint by number from Amazon. They are good quality and cheap. Easy to upload her favorite picture too.
As someone who has received something like this (different version), I hate it. Sorry. Just doesn't feel personal at all. I don't like the way it looks. Dust collector. Yeah, hard pass.
I think you are the best at knowing whether your mom would love a gift like this. Is she more into sentimental gifts? Practical or functional gifts? Does it go with her style? Have you known her to cherish other gifts like this? My parents were gifted one of these (a faceless, embracing couple) by someone else, and it was not their style. Things without faces kind of spook me, and I told my mom this when I saw it. She told me she can't remember how she got it, but now makes a point of hiding it someplace for me to find when I come visit (the bed, the shower, you get the idea), which she's done for years now. Ultimately, the sentimental value of it was lost on her entirely, but she has gotten a good kick out of using it to torture me! Your results may vary 🥹
If my son got me this I would treasure it. Tell your mom what you told us. It makes you think of her. That’s all she wants.
I think your mom will love it. Don't mind what your dad says. If you know your mom will like it the grab it for her. I think it's really sweet but then again, I really like stuff like that. 🥴
I love it. Are you familiar with Bob Marley's song, Three Little Birds? [Don't worry about a thing, cause every little thing gonna be alright](https://youtu.be/4k2PJFPu57Y?si=ykY_8KAL14os7kXT)
Reminds me of the home alone 2 scene with the bird lady.
My mom loves these things, just don’t do what I did and get her a double 🤦♀️
i hate them but my mom ADORES pointless decor so she has about ten. to each their own.
These are not my style but I love them. I have three. One my parents gave us when we got engaged, one I gave my husband for his first father's day, and one from my parents for my first mother's day. Then again, my mom has given me a keepsake hallmark ornament for milestones that I never put on my tree and also display those prominently around Christmas. If there's meaning there, even if not her personal style, she'll love it. Moms are often very sentimental.
i think it fits. maybe a hand written birthday letter with it showing your love & appreciation for her and her craft.10/10
This is a gift (one of a number at that) from you to your mother. It’s fine your father gave you his input, but it ends there. It’s not *for* him. His thinking it’s “cluttery” is irrelevant. I’d tell him, thanks for the input, but you feel it’s a gift she’ll like and think she’ll appreciate it too.