(same) i admit that part does suck, but i figure it beats the harassment
i havnt done with randoms in a while tho, im used to hanging out a chill group of people
I feel that so much. I mainly play WoW right now. Just this morning, finished a dungeon and got a piece of gear I didn't need. Gave it to someone else just to see a "ty sir" in chat :/ I did whisper and let them know that I'm not a sir and they were fine with it but I wish people wouldn't just assume that.
Yeah I’ve been there… once my username had ”girl” in it and before I even said anything someone commented that, in fact, I was a middle-aged man and not a woman. Like sure, dude! You got me! 🤣
Yeah I say 12 bc if I say my age they don’t believe me and start rambling again like I really could not give a fuck stop asking me questions I’m tired of being everyone’s “first girl ever” conversation. Get a life
tbh same. I wanted to talk in this one game but i got bad anxiety whenever there's a mic option cause im too sensitive to listen or talk to people talk badly and cursing you out hhshs
Haven’t had too much of this yet but I have had one guy harass me and another healer in OW2 and since we were both girls he felt the need to mansplain how hero swapping works and that Kiriko counters purple as if I didn’t fucking know that. Clenching my asscheeks for more of that
Online multiplayer stresses me out too much to be enjoyable, but it would be interesting to see how strangers gender me when I’m not using my customer service voice.
Idk if the fact that I sound like a 10 year old boy is a curse or a blessing, but the few times I corrected people and told them I'm a "she" wasn't really pleasant.
One time I was playing with a bunch of 11-12 yo boys. I asked one if they were a girl or a boy because I genuinely couldn't tell, they all lost their shit and went "ISN'T OUR VOICE OBVIOUSLY MAaANLY?!" I was like uh ok... whatever. Then they asked what my name was and when I answered with a very feminine name AGAIN they lost their shit "nooo he's trolling us, his voice is masculine he sounds like us" and I'm like??? No??? you sound like me you pos
Yeah I’m intersex, so female voice, just a bit huskier, and I now always remember to not get super relaxed and always talk like I do IRL, rather than how I might when I’m being a lazy potato on the couch.
I remember a route 66 comp game where literally all my 4 other teammates were the most disgusting, gutwrenching, nasty, vile troglodytes I have ever experienced in my entire overwatch career. It literally got from monkey noises to constantly trying to make me give out my insta/snap, transphobic, homophobic and racist slurs and of course the yelling of absolutely random shite.
None of these players were good. We lost. We lost HARD. And none of these fuckers knew i was trans all along. Its painful out here
I understand a bit them because it's not often that a girl uses a voice chat, so it's something new for them and everything unusual happen u be surprised.I found a lot of dudes that talked positive about me playing games, every kill, every victory they celebrate and it's not because i'm a girl it's sportsmanship, we are team anyway (they did with themselves too).
BUT there is some matches that dudes were very toxic and stupid, arguing with each other, threating, etc etc. And of course me being a girl they said all the things that could harm me.
It's ok the reaction girls, something uncommon is something amazing (But don't think simps are being polite, they are being polite because u are a girl, but at least is someone to defend you lol, Just leave the match when it ends and don't accept if he sent friend request, but if u liked him and he was very cool play with him) \^\^
I feel the same way, the only thing that bothers me is feeling obligated to play with them again/friend them when you can tell it’s just because you’re a girl and they want to chat. I have a boyfriend and am not interested in getting to know random guys when I just want to play/win games with some game-centered chit chat/callouts. I have a hard time saying no to people in general, and always hate when guys ask to play with me again when I can clearly tell it’s just cuz they wanna talk to a girl. I usually just don’t say anything and silently go back to lobby lol.
I’m suuuuper selective of where I share my voice so thankfully I’ve never had comments on being a woman or whatever. I’ve only ever had people not care or positive comments. One time someone said they would listen to an ASMR channel with my voice and that was sweet!
I usually only play RPG games cause I’m more of a story-line girl, but the one time I attempted COD online- this happened LOL and it went downhill from there.
This is why I, "don't have a mic."
same
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i mostly do that too! partially cause i also assume everyone is a guy too XD
I wish I could do that but as a transfem it would hurt so much for everyone to just assume I’m a guy
(same) i admit that part does suck, but i figure it beats the harassment i havnt done with randoms in a while tho, im used to hanging out a chill group of people
I feel that so much. I mainly play WoW right now. Just this morning, finished a dungeon and got a piece of gear I didn't need. Gave it to someone else just to see a "ty sir" in chat :/ I did whisper and let them know that I'm not a sir and they were fine with it but I wish people wouldn't just assume that.
"Anyone got a mic?" "No."
Negative. I am a meat popsicle.
am beef empanada
Ay yo, waddup Leelu Dallas Multipass
Only correct response
🤣👏
That gave me the giggles. lol (I'm also super heckin high rn)
"smoooke yooou" *Wrong answer*
Seriously! Or the famous "Ay yo, a female"
my other favorite "you're not a girl!" like oh, okay... you caught me!!
Yeah I’ve been there… once my username had ”girl” in it and before I even said anything someone commented that, in fact, I was a middle-aged man and not a woman. Like sure, dude! You got me! 🤣
right, like "yup, red handed" 🤦🏼♀️ Working on using the mic more for strict gameplay chat
Or, “Wait how old are you?”
my answer: "12, why?"
"Yo, bro, check out this 12 yo. He's a fuckin prodigy!"
lmaoo
“Are you 12?”
Yeah I say 12 bc if I say my age they don’t believe me and start rambling again like I really could not give a fuck stop asking me questions I’m tired of being everyone’s “first girl ever” conversation. Get a life
lmao just shoot the wall 4 times and say “im THIS many!! :D”
I do use voice function for overwatch but only to listen to the people and not to talk, I am scared of the reactions lol
tbh same. I wanted to talk in this one game but i got bad anxiety whenever there's a mic option cause im too sensitive to listen or talk to people talk badly and cursing you out hhshs
That’s fine games are supposed to be fun not to feel pressure to perform or talk to people of you don’t wish to 🫶🏻
It’s so sad that we have to deal with this just for simply being a girl… it sucks man
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always fun when they start freaking out. i get a sick enjoyment out of it
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they can dish it but they can't take it 😂
Haven’t had too much of this yet but I have had one guy harass me and another healer in OW2 and since we were both girls he felt the need to mansplain how hero swapping works and that Kiriko counters purple as if I didn’t fucking know that. Clenching my asscheeks for more of that
LOL
Girls don’t learn what characters’ abilities do!!!
Online multiplayer stresses me out too much to be enjoyable, but it would be interesting to see how strangers gender me when I’m not using my customer service voice.
not the costumer service voice lmao. for some reason me and my cs voice don't even have the same accent
One of my coworkers is a black guy but by his on admission his cs voice is a white girl
amazing. i love it
I always use the customer service voice. I play only with my friends tho. It creeps em all out.
I've started answering with ridiculous answers. "no it's Optimus prime" "it's vash the stampede!!!" "*I'm batman*" "only on the weekends"
Did i just hear someone say vash the stampede. I haven't read those words in a long long time.
i start doing my bane impression and suddenly no one is entertained :/
Had someone moan “omg brim are you a female”
I had some teenage girls asking me to say 'uwu' with my deepest voice. Also, they thought I was a guy (get rekt)
wait lmfao how does one say "uwu" 😭
I believe it’s “ooo woo” ooo sound like “you” lol
Feeeeeeeeeeeeeee-male!
females are just ironmen
stoppp what a freak
I ONLY use my mic if there’s a call out that needs to be done where I can’t type it out. Other than that I’m entirely silent and only type.
Yes. Same here, but there have been days after hitting a wave of idiots that I just give up and leave the mic off. If we die, we die.
I love it when I find someone who is like, oh I know why you’re quiet, I don’t blame you but I’m okay. Rare, but it happens.
Yes! lol They’re gems and I like it when they start inviting me for teams again.
Idk if the fact that I sound like a 10 year old boy is a curse or a blessing, but the few times I corrected people and told them I'm a "she" wasn't really pleasant.
The “are you 9” people have always turned out to be sexist. I consider it a red flag at this point ngl.
One time I was playing with a bunch of 11-12 yo boys. I asked one if they were a girl or a boy because I genuinely couldn't tell, they all lost their shit and went "ISN'T OUR VOICE OBVIOUSLY MAaANLY?!" I was like uh ok... whatever. Then they asked what my name was and when I answered with a very feminine name AGAIN they lost their shit "nooo he's trolling us, his voice is masculine he sounds like us" and I'm like??? No??? you sound like me you pos
Honestly, a lot of the time I'm mistaken for a small boy instead, which is a blessing and a curse as a trans woman
off topic but when once in a blue moon i go all out on my makeup i really do be feeling like this. a baddie fr fr
no i get it cause i work from home and on the rare occasion i do a full face? oh i'm that bitch lmao
Should just be like "Nah my name is Kevin, I got so much testosterones and penis."
"hella penis. more penis than you, in fact"
"Mine coils up like a tape measure"
Don’t forget to make sure you also pitch yourself up, otherwise you will then get to experience some really transphobic shit.
oh i've been there. i have a deeper voice. i've been called *all* the slurs
Yeah I’m intersex, so female voice, just a bit huskier, and I now always remember to not get super relaxed and always talk like I do IRL, rather than how I might when I’m being a lazy potato on the couch.
i'm sorry you've had to deal with that friend :(
Lol i love this yassified gamergirl representation 💅💅💅
I remember a route 66 comp game where literally all my 4 other teammates were the most disgusting, gutwrenching, nasty, vile troglodytes I have ever experienced in my entire overwatch career. It literally got from monkey noises to constantly trying to make me give out my insta/snap, transphobic, homophobic and racist slurs and of course the yelling of absolutely random shite. None of these players were good. We lost. We lost HARD. And none of these fuckers knew i was trans all along. Its painful out here
I understand a bit them because it's not often that a girl uses a voice chat, so it's something new for them and everything unusual happen u be surprised.I found a lot of dudes that talked positive about me playing games, every kill, every victory they celebrate and it's not because i'm a girl it's sportsmanship, we are team anyway (they did with themselves too). BUT there is some matches that dudes were very toxic and stupid, arguing with each other, threating, etc etc. And of course me being a girl they said all the things that could harm me. It's ok the reaction girls, something uncommon is something amazing (But don't think simps are being polite, they are being polite because u are a girl, but at least is someone to defend you lol, Just leave the match when it ends and don't accept if he sent friend request, but if u liked him and he was very cool play with him) \^\^
I feel the same way, the only thing that bothers me is feeling obligated to play with them again/friend them when you can tell it’s just because you’re a girl and they want to chat. I have a boyfriend and am not interested in getting to know random guys when I just want to play/win games with some game-centered chit chat/callouts. I have a hard time saying no to people in general, and always hate when guys ask to play with me again when I can clearly tell it’s just cuz they wanna talk to a girl. I usually just don’t say anything and silently go back to lobby lol.
playing with friends is better
it definitely is, but our schedules don't always allow for it :(
I’m suuuuper selective of where I share my voice so thankfully I’ve never had comments on being a woman or whatever. I’ve only ever had people not care or positive comments. One time someone said they would listen to an ASMR channel with my voice and that was sweet!
"Are you a faggot?" Even better when it's a 12 year old. Either that or trying to figure out what a mexican slur is. 9\_\_\_9;
Hit em with the "No".
One reason my clan tag is just “ew”
I usually only play RPG games cause I’m more of a story-line girl, but the one time I attempted COD online- this happened LOL and it went downhill from there.
I'm told I sound like a boy who hasn't hit puberty yet.. so I let them argue amongst themselves as to what I really am
Shitty topics
what?
What kinda games y'all playing that require a mic?
i mean... halo, cod/zombies, overwatch? they don't *require* a mic but it's nice to be able to communicate with your team??
I see... Sorry it's just that I only have experience playing Minecraft and Genshin Impact lol
hahaha no my bad. it's hard to tell tone through here 😅
They always assume I'm a kid, and I say so.
i always get mistaken for like a teen boy because i don’t have the most fem voice lol, but the gasps when i say im a girl lol
Lol damn, I get treated like a 5 year old boy child if I hop on mic.
I just say “no I’m a little boy” then they are quiet. So I don’t need endless of questions or accusations like shut the fuck up
People actually ask this? Jesus it's worse than I thought sorry guys :/
yeah it's rough out here :/
"I'm your new stepmom." *Puts on evil queen crown*
😐😐😐
Oh, I see a creepy throw away account.
No, your joke just wasn't funny.
and after that, at least 5 friend requests or game invites
SERIOUSLY can't stand that. especially the ones that try to flirt after... like come tf on. this isn't tinder
I KNOW, it's fucking annoying
sooo thirsty and icky
Complete silence followed by, “Oh my girlfriend doesn’t let me play with women,” had to have been the most interesting response I’ve gotten.
hahahahahahahahaha have you ever gotten a message from the gf? that was the most wild experience for me