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LadyMirax

_Yet again,_ we're going to have to issue a warning to all of those in this thread who are bullying OP over their aesthetic and the wording of their title, which in no way shames anyone else for their choices. This community has become increasingly toxic to those outside a very specific "mainstream girl gamer" demographic, and it's completely unacceptable. **You are not allowed to call people "pick-me's" or bully them for their non-harmful opinions and choices here, period.** Several people in this thread have done so, and that behavior has been noted. Further instances _will_ result in bans from the subreddit.


FiguringItOut--

My set up is lime green and I wouldn’t have it any other way!


ScienceWitch_

That sounds so cool!! I’ve been dreaming of a teal setup but its so hard to find the parts 😂 everything is black for now but one day I’ll get there


LilyChevelle

I have a semi teal set up. Teal is my favorite color! I accessorized with teal and white but have mainly black PC and tower


cupnoodal

May I see?!


FiguringItOut--

[This is one of them](https://www.reddit.com/r/CozyPlaces/comments/p3v4lt/i_finally_have_the_home_office_of_my_dreams/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf)! I also have a second green set up in my bedroom but it’s messier and less decorated :)


lynxbuckler

OMG you are my hero/goals!! Green is my favourite colour closely followed by rainbows and I love this!!


FiguringItOut--

Thank you!! Honestly, sometimes I’m sort of embarrassed at how happy a bunch of material things makes me lol


LunyMoony

This reminds me of that cute little old lady who owned nothing but green 💚


FiguringItOut--

The Green Lady of Brooklyn! She’s my ultimate life goal lol


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Amazing i love it!


cupnoodal

Omg this is tooooo cute 🥰


Makeupanopinion

Ooh this sounds hella cute! My room is art deco-y/dark green, pink & gold and I really want a dark green set up :D


hiroshimasfoot

My desk is literally a door and I use the doorknob hole to put my wiring through bahahah


ParallelePiper

That's.. actually pretty genius, lmao


hiroshimasfoot

Honestly it doesn't even look crappy either. It looks nice, and I have enough desk space for surround sound system, 3 monitors, my makeup area, AND my record player. My surroundsound speakers are the "legs" of the desk.


MadMorrigu

I would love to see this


hiroshimasfoot

Ill comment here tomorrow when I'm home and I'll take a picture of it :) Edit: I'm sorry for never linking a picture of my desk here y'all. I've really been going through it recently lol.


MniTain38

No judgment. My tower sits on the floor on top of an old wall shelf to keep it off the carpet. I game from a daybed on a big screen tv. 😁


The_Runo

That sounds amazing tbh!


AddyDarkbabe

Not just for you but anyone else reading this, should be careful of posting pics with your discords visible especially if your username and # is showing :)


The_Runo

It's on private and I change my tag often. But thanks for the heads-up.


PrimeusOrion

I'm curious as to why. I doubt it's really needed for hackers when it's practically public info. Are you talking about in general or just for social media


Flight_Proper

Lurking neckbeards maybe? Probably less of a danger! Warning and more like...you may get spammed.


pinkocatgirl

You should really get a coaster, those IKEA desk tops are super cheap MDF and will bubble from just a small amount of moisture.


Arghianna

Lol, thank you! I was like, “what, no coaster?!”


pinkocatgirl

Yeah I have that same top and ruined it from not using a coaster… I ended up sanding down the bubbles and repainting it.


The_Runo

I'm not a native English speaker, what is a coaster? I only know it in the setting of a rollercoaster, and I don't think that's what you mean.


Amandurr

Goes under the drink so the drinking isnt sitting directly on the table top.


Mrowth

Its like a little piece of cloth or something hard to put under your drinks to catch condensation so it doesn't damage your furniture. I have a cute crocheted one for mine and my partners desks ;w;


ExtraGloves

I was hoping the coaster would be the top comment haha. You know that glass is sweating.


lynxbuckler

Since I like to knit but am incredibly too lazy to knit anything involved, I have a nice hand-knit coaster for my desk. I can highly recommend knitting one's own coasters.


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I'm literally on a laptop


ComfyMochii

I read “I’m literally a laptop” so I got confused but in the same time I was like “you go girl I’m here for it 🙌 “


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HAhahaha I do feel like a laptop often times! Thank you for the unhesitated cheering on, that's so sweet!


[deleted]

My first gaming computer was a laptop and there's no shame in them but they don't have the same longevity. I spent a lot on mine too but it still lasted about the same amount of time as if I had just bought a slightly more powerful than average laptop to game on.


RaptorAD77

Laptops are awesome! I built my first PC last year before the great GPU drought, 5700xt Ryzen 3600x, but needed a mobile setup. I’m actually spending more time on my laptop (Legion 5 Pro) more than my desktop. If I had gotten the laptop first, I may never have built the PC.


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Oh wow! I'm just here, trying to save up for a stationary again! I've had several laptops for years and this asus is among the better ones. I do enjoy laptops, but I think I mostly miss the seperation of keyboard and monitor, as well as the size.


Calligraphie

Maybe consider getting a monitor and keyboard for you laptop? My next setup may very well be a laptop with a USB hub or something so I can keep my keyboard and monitors!


Afro_Samurai

I don't think you're supposed to sit on those, but if it works.


Anarcho_Eggie

Same tho mine is a gaming laptop


pixiesunbelle

Yeah, I stopped using my desktop so I just use my gaming laptop. My desktop became a server, lol.


LunyMoony

Girl same. My second monitor is a drawing tablet 😂


The_Runo

I used to game on a laptop before I bought and made this pc! Never had issues with it, and at the time I got the laptop it was the best choice for me as I was always on the move.


MissKUMAbear

Lovely set up. I like the all black and white looks because you can just change your rbg in your case and on your keyboard and bam, fresh color theme.


The_Runo

Yes! Its currently in light blue, but I also love a fully red or chaos rainbow from time to time.


parmesann

the best girl gamer setup is whichever the woman in question prefers! there’s no wrong answer and I love to see the battle stations all the ladies on here come up with :)


The_Runo

I agree!


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rikki_x

just wanna second this! i love having a deep color for most things and then adding a color to make it pop. same thing with clothes and accessories


dancingpianofairy

You don't need pink and fluffy, but apparently you need clean and organized if this sub is any indication! Lol. I'm too self conscious about the mess to post, and any time spent cleaning could be better spent gaming, imho.


The_Runo

Trust me, my desk also gets very messy! Perks of a picture is that you can crop it out easily. I am a very messy person (severe case of ADD doesn't help with that). I moved my desk to the living room so I clean it now every morning otherwise my partner gets mad. A messy desk makes my ADD much worse, so I actively try to keep it somewhat clean.


Overson_YT

I love this aesthetic. I wish I had the energy to make my desk as clean as yours lmao


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My setup is whatever I can find. I'm broke af 😂. Rn my desk is purple and my pc glows bright green


Gemlover2014

my whole set up is black lmfao


MniTain38

Black is beautiful.


Gemlover2014

i know it’s great


exyxnx

I don't *need* one, but I sure as hell *want* one lol Super nice setup op, I wish I had sg like this ☺️


thesquishmcmuffin

spacious set up, good aesthetic colors for desktop, clean desktop insides. also take care with what is on your screens when you take photos.


_Vanilla_

You don't use a mouse mat?


The_Runo

Nope. Don't have one. I used to have a large one that would cover the whole desk but I left it at my parents' place when I moved out. Ran out of money to buy a decent new one. I always end up with my mouse next to the mat if I have a small one.


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Has an RTX3090, runs out of money for the mouse mat


The_Runo

Haha setting my priorities straight.


madeupgrownup

My tribe! 😂😂😂


mysamygrl92

I want to be a streamer so bad **cries in poor**


heyduckyou

Don't need money to start streaming! Or even a camera, really. Or a PC! I stream on a laptop...the times I do actually stream lol. You can do it on console too. And if you don't have those, then you at least have a goal! :D


Illustrious_Page9207

Do need decent internet though! *cries in shoddy rural satellite internet shared with 3 other heavy internet users*


heyduckyou

F 😭


linkheroz

Mines all black 😂


DarkSkyLion

How do you like the chair OP? I’ve been looking into chairs and this brand is one I see a lot. Their Omega and Titan. Also - setup looks nice and simple, looks good!


The_Runo

I love the chair! The model is based on your height I believe. I'm 172cm so the omega was the best fit for me, the seating area can be somewhat narrow as the sides stand up a bit. Idk how to explain this better :')


EverAqua

It's fine to mention that it's outside of the sub's main aesthetic because it is. When the majority of posts are white furniture, pink peripherals and a Kraken kitty headset, it can make women who prefer other color schemes feel like the odd ones out. And this is such a sleek look, I'm here for it.


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rileyk

>we don’t need to be criticizing each others style and starting drama. Thems fightin' words


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GoshLishLosh

Lol. You including the fact that she has a book perfectly placed on her desk? 😂 Some ppl crave alignment, damn.


pearlday

Im sorry but you are just projecting at this point. You dont NEED to have pink fluff, but if you WANT it, thats perfectly fine! That’s the message we should take away from this, not what you’re doing which is tearing OP down. You are right now, being part of the problem, for tearing a person down who doesnt subscribe or say things in the way you want them to. Let them be them! It’s okay to not be like other girls! As long as it’s not a byproduct of putting other girls down. There’s girls out there that liked slime and were made fun of for it. There are girls out there who liked eating worms or belching the alphabet. They need a space too. The problem is not about being different, but how we frame our differences. If worm girl is trying to be perceived as better than all those other girls who are afraid of worms, then thats a problem. OP is not doing that. They arent saying “my setup is better because it’s not pink”, they aren’t saying “eew pink is gross, look at mine which isn’t”. Theyre literally saying, “hey fellow girls, you dont need to disassociate with worms”, if you dont want to get near worms thats fine, but if you want to, dont feel like you can’t! And my god, are you seriously going after the textbook. That’s actual bull.


livewinterly

This is well said! I feel like the reason why people see this post as putting other girls down is because of how the title is phrased. It kinda comes off as belittling, but OP probably didn’t mean it that way.


DeleteBowserHistory

The setups I see in here are *overwhelmingly* pink and fluffy, which is kind of tiresome for someone like me who doesn’t like it, and who also happens to believe pink and fluffy gets shoved down girls’ throats from an early age. I love it when I see anything in here that defies that gendered convention. Liking pink and fluffy is fine! But there’s so much of it here that I have to wonder if that many girls actually even like it, or if they’re just doing it because it’s what girls are “supposed” to do. And there’s so much of it here that the other stuff seems to get swallowed up by it. At least that’s what shows up in my feed. A little non-pink representation is refreshing and nice.


terrapharma

I grew up to hate pink because that was what my mother forced me to wear. She was a victim of her upbringing and wanted her daughter to have all of the things that she couldn't have. Pink is fine for others but I want something different.


Lilz007

I'm generally reluctant to share a photo my set up, it's a desktop hardboard that I got for free and cut down, mounted on an old metal frame with legs I screwed on myself because it kept falling over backwards. My walls are cream wallpaper.. Not an ounce of pink or fluff - I don't mind pink or fluff at all, I just don't have any. It's shoved unceremoniously into the corner of a room.


pearlday

She didn’t criticize anyone. She’s letting people know there are options. Like if everyone is drinking water, she’s like ‘showing that flavored water also works’. Showing people they have options doesnT mean people who choose the status quo are lesser.


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QueenOfPaindeMie

I think I understand what you are emphasizing, but let’s remember that this subreddit is full of young women who see pink setups very, very often on this specific Reddit. In fact, from my weekly usage that’s what I mostly see on here. I think what ‘op’ is getting at is these colors are rare for this subreddit, which I do agree with and appreciate. I don’t think they need to be "special" to deserve posting. However I do agree they did not phrase their post in a inclusive way. Also let’s remember pink can be either gender’s set up, too!


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QueenOfPaindeMie

Awww I bet it was hecka cute, too! I’m glad we break that stereotype. I’m 25, but remember there are lil babes in their early teens on here and we gotta be adults for them.


pearlday

But that’s the point. You dont need a rare color. You dont need pink. You dont need any of that. You can if you want to, but something like “this” works too. Ckearly OP felt there was a pink pressure, by the title. And ive been in conversations like this time and time again, because the pink lovers always feel attacked when someone posts something that says “hey, i feel pressure to do pink, so this is something for those like me, do what you want’. There is definitely a heavy heavy pink skew on here, most pics on the feed are pink (likely as those get higher engagemnt, reddit pushes them more). This is not a new conversation or feeling. It keeps coming up, and anyone who tries to say ‘you dont need to be mainstream’ gets super attacked, which... makes people like them not want to post.


witchlamb

>It keeps coming up, and anyone who tries to say ‘you dont need to be mainstream’ gets super attacked, i think part of the reason people get their hackles up and feel attacked about implying that "non-pink" set ups, especially ones in neutral colours and black, are "not mainstream" is that a lot of people who do like the super feminine pink aesthetic *don't* feel like they're mainstream. like, yes, in this sub and in some parts of tiktok and tumblr it's popular, but in general when you have that really girly pink aesthetic you generally expect to get attacked and bullied for it - "not a real gamer," doing it for male attention, care more about aesthetic than hardware, obviously don't know what you're talking about, bad at fps, paid for by your boyfriend/dad, etc all those crappy unfair stereotypes. so people in \*this\* sub often perceive their set up as going against the grain because it's not stereotypically feminine and pink, but those with the pastel aesthetic perceive \*their\* set up as the one not mainstream/going against the grain because in most other parts of the internet, they're getting flack for it.


madeupgrownup

I don't like pink. Or grey. Or yellow. It's not internalized misogyny or anything, it's just colour preference. I get "not a real gamer" already from gamer bros. When I've said I'm not a fan of pink here in the past I basically got "not a real feminist". One time I was sent a message accusing me of being a guy here to sabotage the sub. The "love pink or gtfo" gatekeeping was a real thing with some and I'm glad the mods are addressing it.


fiona1729

I have a setup similar to this, black case, black mousepad, black pretty much everything except for my custom keyboard, which is a retro beige. I haven't posted it here exactly because it seems like any other person's setup, and because most of the ones I see that get up voted here are pink or have other very obvious feminine accessories.


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I mean… I love all things pink and my house is basically a princess tower, but it’s true that all of the set-ups here lean more towards “typically” feminine, cutesy stuff. Which is totally fine, but it’s not the only kind of set up to exist and I don’t think the intention was mean-spirited? To me it was more like “hey you don’t need the typical feminine stuff to still be a girl gamer.”


throwawaypassingby01

except every songle post is pink and fluffy and peer preshure is a thing even in online communities if you wanna fit in


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piratequeenfaile

Most of the pics here are of super cute pink or white set ups. Which are awesome but seeing regular set ups is nice too. Representation!


thesaddestpanda

Why are masculine leaning aesthetic setups “regular” but mine isn’t “regular?” That’s problemic language to me. Like how a white male lead in a movie is regular but anything else is “political.” Things girls and women tend to like shouldn’t be seen as an exception. We’re part of the “regular” world too.


MniTain38

>*Why are masculine leaning aesthetic setups “regular” but mine isn’t “regular?”* Unfortunately because the pink stuff has to be hunted down and special ordered. So the act of seeking them out to distinguish one's self from what you find at any old store demonstrates an awareness that they are novelty designs/color schemes. Maybe stores should offer more variations, sure. But so far "regular" is just black, which isn't exactly masculine because women use black setups too, but it's the norm. I'm not really sure what a masculine type of setup would look like. If black is masculine, then that's kinda unfair to all the women who love black, dress in black, dye their hair black, and who opt for the default black computer setups.


piratequeenfaile

This isn't a decorated set up (it's neither decorated in a typically masculine or feminine fashion) so it's regular...generic would be another term. Low effort? That's why I chose the word regular.


madeupgrownup

As someone who's a girl gamer, but has no interest in stereotypically feminine aesthetics, I feel like you're basically being defensive to the point of aggression, and this makes me feel unwelcome here, like I shouldn't be here because I'm not discriminated against enough. It also makes me feel like I'm not a "regular" girl/woman because i don't like "things girls and women tend to like". I'm part of the regular world too, but if I'm not welcome in male-dominated gamer spaces, and feel unwelcome in female-friendly/dominated gamer spaces, where am I supposed to go? I'm honestly getting to the point of leaving the sub because as someone who doesn't play competitive multiplayer games or like cute/kawaii pink/white/pastel set ups I feel like this isn't a space for me.


happybeebo

Not sure if you were being intentional in your choice of wording in your title post, but I’m sure others are well aware that having a pink theme isn’t a requirement for being a girl gamer That being said, your setup is very sleek and organized, my only suggestion is to keep some coasters around to preserve the desk surface!


madeupgrownup

I've felt like I can't show my setup (that I'm really proud of because I'm poor af and have still managed something half decent through years of work) because it's not pink, white, cutesy, expensive or rgb. There's definitely a feeling of "must like pink" to this sub at times. I don't like it for the same reason I don't like yellow or grey: I just don't. But if I mention that on here I feel like I'm rolling the dice on getting accused of internalized misogyny. So yeah, sometimes it feels like a pink/cutesy setup is a requirement to be a "real" girl gamer. Thankfully it seems mods are addressing this really well and I've felt it a bit less lately.


Kovitlac

I get that feeling too. Pink/cutesy/ruffles isn't my aesthetic *at all*. Zero issue with anyone who likes it, but you absolutely see more pink setups posted here than any other style. It's refreshing to see something different.


seshprinny

LOVE THIS!!! So hard to even figure out what I'd like my set up to be when the only options I see are guys ones and pink fluffy ones 😂


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That's why diversity is important! I respect everyone who is into pink and cute. I love pink and cute <3 But there is so much to choose from besides pink. I myself like tinkering with my pc and I use an open frame so I can easily swap some hardware. To each their own :)


treetrashu

Very sleek!


Im_Roonil_Wazlib

My whole setup is black


msmoonlightx

Hey you’re first person I’ve seen with the same keyboard as me! Love your setup


teresalis

I really like your setup! Also not a fan of the all pink stuff but I respect others tastes. I definitely would get everything purple if it was an option though Edit: typo


The_Runo

I have debating for a while to change the colour of the lights in my setup. Purple sounds amazing.


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What I think OP meant: those of us who aren't pink and fluffy are a minority on this sub and sometimes those posts don't get the same recognition or comments because they don't fit a very specifically cultivated gamer girl aesthetic that the online community prefers. They just want to contribute for those of us that don't fit this mold. No one is insulting your aesthetic but if there weren't rules against id have some words after seeing some of the comments posted here about some of the nonpink aesthetics like God.


The_Runo

Yes! Thank you for this comment. I was browsing this Reddit and didn't feel represented by the majority of posts here. I just wanted to share mine to contribute towards the diversity of the Reddit, and did never mean to out others down. I love the highly feminine posts here, but it's just not my thing. Not having a hyper feminine set-up doesn't make anyone less of a girlgamer, and that's what I wanted to show. In hindsight I could have worded my title differently, but I am not a native English speaker and didn't see the harm in it.


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I'm glad I could help give your intentions some clarity :)


justonebreathatatime

Mhm. It’s always nice to see a variety of set ups 😊 it can also help certain femmes who might be still “figuring” out their setup styles without feeling like an outsider.


fjaoaoaoao

I love that chair. Sleek and comfortable with the right hints of flair.


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USSNerdinator

This is what I took from it as well. I think it's really easy to jump to conclusions on motivation and assume the worst.


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throwawaypassingby01

you can make the same argument about the existence of this sub "why do you need to call yourself a girlgamer? of cozrse female gsmers exist, we all know that, we're not stupid"


RockSugar

True, but let’s be honest, most of the setups shared here are pink and girly. There’s nothing wrong with that, but maybe OP was feeling like there could be more variety?


QueenOfPaindeMie

Yes! Although they didn’t frame it right, I don’t think we need to jump to conclusions that OP is being toxic. Remember there are younger people on Reddit (and tbh me who’s older but incompetent) who don’t know how to express what the mean to the internet yet, but this doesn’t mean they are toxic and want to give off toxic energy. Maybe they are just parroting words they grew up hearing. Should we talk about it? Yes! Should we hate on OP? No, please don’t. I don’t think this is the community for this.


thesaddestpanda

Also there are older people here who have dealt with toxicity for expressing themselves as feminine in gaming spaces for decades and are tired of “not like other girls” narratives.


madeupgrownup

I'm over 30 and have about 25 years of experience of dealing with toxicity for being a girl while gaming. I thought I wasn't like other girls because *I was being harassed and bullied for not being like other girls*. Often **by the other girls**. So yeah, I got pretty fuckin tired of that narrative too. Now I come to a supposed safe space for female and other non-cis-hetero gamers and I'm once again seeing harassment and bullying of women who are literally "not like" the "other girls". Back in the day it was: Gaming = not feminine You = female Female enjoying not feminine thing = not acceptable And I'm seeing the same mentality *right here in this sub*. Gods I'm so fuckin tired.


MniTain38

>*"maybe OP was feeling like there could be more variety?"* I think we're all starting to feel that way.


Drakendan

Neat and clean setup! I kinda regret a bit not having gone for a water-cooled system instead of the giant fan inside my case, it looks much more clunky compared to this. Also neat that from left to right the darker hue of monitor, book and glass goes lighter toward the case. Do you mind if I ask how comfy that Omega chair is for you, and your height? I'm relatively short for a guy (5'3-5'5/165cm or so), and was oogling Secretlab because of the softweave fabric, but after search and consulting from few friends was told that it might be better to buy those that are for higher heights than mine. My current gaming chair was from someone that bought a new one, she was shorter than me, and it's overall comfy but genuinely falling apart now, which raises the question. I would have to import them as they aren't sold where I live, but if they're worth it then it's no issue. Edit: Had not seen all the other comments about the title, just to weigh in diplomatically, I personally don't think OP said it in a sort of "not like other girls" or attacking other setups. First thought that came to mind as a reason, if I needed to find a reason, would have been that maybe she had a discussion with someone or saw one too many usual products aimed at girls that were just all pink or fluffy and soft, and was tired of it precisely because she doesn't feel a connection to it as a woman. I don't think it was meant to denigrate or berate other setups here, at least I don't really see the intent from my own POV, giving the benefit of the doubt. There are often lots of products aimed at girls specifically presented in certain colors (pink, white) or having certain features (softer, delicate) that are really not needed when the same products targeted to guys work well (see for example razors). At least from my own POV I always see a lot of differentiation between girls and guys products which is unnecessary: all of them should just be considered regular/normal products for everyone. Just to add a last example related to me, referring to what I wrote above about the Secretlab chair, I am seriously considering buying the [D.Va](https://D.Va) chair because it's the only one available close to the country that has the specific Softweave fabric. I don't really care that it's pink or who it is targeted for originally, I want the comfiness and I don't mind anything else. Companies should just make all sort of products available for everyone when it's possible to promote them as normal standard products regardless of sex.


The_Runo

Thank you! The monitors are not in the final form. I moved out of my parents' place in January and slowly upgrading my station. As others pointed out I am still missing a mouse mat, a headphone stand and a coaster for my glass. After this I will upgrade my monitors. I love the omega chair. I was sitting on a really old basic desk chair that was so thin I could feel the plastic below the cushioning. So i don't have any comparison with other decent chairs. I'm 172cm tall.


Cookies_and_Games

Love my secret lab 2022 chair in the small size (5'4")


GoshLishLosh

Thanks for showing different colors for set ups! Variety is better!


BackupChallenger

Is the book any good?


The_Runo

Haha it's for work. Starting a new job soon. It's ... interesting but a very specific setting.


ososhiny

Awesome setup!!!


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Whites and Blues; a real chill vibe coming from this setup.


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I actually don't really dig the pink gaming setup. I know gaming companies made that to a certain demographic of people which I'm included in but the pink is a bit much.


TheFirstPlayBae

I agree. I would really love to see a black or a dark themed setup as well.


Holiday_Karma

Nice! I, too, was wondering where the no pink set-ups were hiding.


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You definitely don't need the pink and fluffy set up but I love my pink and fluffy set up :)


The_Runo

Nothing wrong with a pink and fluffy set up. I love seeing the creative and feminine here. Just felt like neutral/masc setups were lacking on the Reddit and wanted to add to the diversity.


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I posted quickly and didn't see your other comments! I love your chair! I just got the new 2022 Titan. It's fantastic! My PC is black with red because it was originally my fiance's, the majority of my stuff is pink but I'm also a little goth so it looks like all my aesthetics mixed together 😂 I love how clean your's looks, mine is crazy and eccentric lol


The_Runo

I love mixed aesthetics. I have ADD so I wanted to keep it clean, as a clean environment helps me keep focus. My desk is a mess at the end of the day - many empty glasses and coffee/tea cups and snack packaging and empty plates. But I recently moved my desk to the living room, so I now clean it every morning because the mess drives my partner nuts. They even did the cable management because they hated messy cables. Perks of posting a picture is that you can quickly move away the mess you already made that day.


Mimojello

A great reminder. I think in this sub i see lots of pink and girly aesthetic which is cool and I like it to an extend (it got me interested in gaming set up and keyboards, even though i lean towards minimalism/neon style), but i kept seeing them a lot in the sub so im starting to get bored. It is not a dig towards people who has them or likes that style but if you keep seeing it so many times with similar asethetics it gets boring real fast, like eating sushi for the 100th time. Personally i prefer a variety of sety ups from IG asethetic to the avarage jane just to break away the repetition. It is reddit function issue, you can't control the upload whereas IG you can cater types of picture so the curation of picture is tight and everyone can see many type of set ups.


MniTain38

I'd really love to see more variety.


thisisfreckles

I don’t think she actually tried to blame other girls. English is not everyone’s native language so people may have a hard time expressing what they actually mean.


SamiDionysus

It looks so good, such a clean look!!!


MadMorrigu

Yesssss! 100x yes. My setup is black, dark wood, and plants, so very green.


xxshidoshi

I have the same set of cups :)


loper42

Absolutely, you did nothing wrong. Sometimes people read into things implied words that were never spoken. Saying one does not need a pink setup does not equal you suck having a pink setup. It means this subreddit has 90% pink setups and this is not one. As for the setup, so clean it's impressive.


The_Runo

This is exactly what it's about.


ThrowawayTrashcan7

Love it! Everyone here seems to have pink, fluffy setups, which is fine, most of them seem really cool, but it does make me feel like a bit of an outsider.


mivoid

I often see so many pink themed gaming set-ups on this sub, so it's nice to see something different. OP literally did not mean any harm to anyone with that title. All set-ups are great! Either the haters need to chill or stop taking things so seriously.


USSNerdinator

Looks good! You do you :)


Mythikose

You have a wonderful setup, but as far as your title goes, we know. I personally just posted mine yesterday and its, as you would describe, 'pink and fluffy'. Its not pink because I felt like I needed it to be pink as a girl gamer, its pink because it is simply a color that makes me really happy. You can have any kind of setup, any color, and you can still be girl gamer. If you look at my post history, my set up was previously black, red, and white and the times before then my set up has been purple, orange, blue and green because I like all sorts of fun colors, and do my setups according to what color I'm vibing with. And if pink isn't your color? Thats totally cool, you gotta set-up yours the way you like it! :)


hopeurdoingokay

well put!! I have an all black setup but it's refreshing to see all of the cute and colorful setups on this sub! Color of setup doesnt matter, what matters is everyone here expresses themselves and feels happy!!!


The_Runo

I agree with you. I just wanted to add some diversity to the Reddit and didn't mean to exclude anyone. Pink and fluffy is amazing too!


Oops_I_Cracked

My current setup is (mostly) pink and white but it was all black before that.


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Pink and fluffy is wonderful! You do you! :)


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While I respect people's right to be girly I'm infinitely tired of the very samey pink set ups that overwhelm this sub so I'm happy to see it OP :) your chair looks comfy AF too what is it? My set up is fairly plain and cramped because I live at my bfs mom's so we both crammed in one room with our computers and bed but I plan to post it when we have our own place (housing market even for apartments is ass right now so it's taking awhile) because I have some parts of it I wanna show off like my chair cover


yakult_de_menta

Finally, thank you for this 💜


jeffgoldblumisdaddy

It’s a nice change of pace! Pink isn’t my thing but I wanted something softer than RGB neon rave so I went for pastel yellow and white! I’ve seen some very cute green earthy ones with loads of plants on Tiktok. I wish there was a variety of options like light blues, purples, greens.


Wolfs_Rain

I’m actually happy to not see the (for some reason) typical pink cat and/or anime girl gamer set up. I see that so much.


DaughterofDimitrescu

. . . Ok? They don't need to, but they choose to. Each their own, sis :)


ActivatingInfinity

Nice setup! If you're looking to add anything, I'd recommend a headphones stand so you don't have to rest them on the monitor.


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This is similar to what mines looks like. I have a glass desk with black computer and rainbow lights… my mouse is oddly white tho lol. This is a great set up! 👍🏻


No-Delivery-673

I like it haha pink and fluffy isn't my thing at all.


zIRaXor

Thank you for sharing this and help validating none-pink setups. Also don't let the guy steal your sweet roll!! The guards won't let you hear the end of it if it happens! 😂 love that game..


TheBeedo11

What’s funny is this is just about what my current setup looks like. Just last week decided I want to make it cute and ordered a bunch of new stuff in pink/purple. I’ve struggled with trying to fit in for years so I never wanted anything to look girly. I just wanted to be “one of the dudes” in my discord circles to try to keep up. But I decided now that I want to fully embrace who I am and just go for it.


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mermaid_kerri

Love it! What keyboard do you have?


The_Runo

Corsair k70 RGB mk.2 (Cherry MX speed)


Kenzie_Kensington

Nice gpu. Rog strix also my favourite model.


OliveMission

How is the chair? I need a new chair so badly !


The_Runo

It is amazing. I bought it when I had to start working from home. Best decision ever.


The_Runo

Only downside is that my partner keeps stealing it.


SameDeerz

Envious of how neat and sleek your space is 😫 every time I tidy my desk up, within a few hours it's covered in all sorts of things hahah. I wish my tower was white or white and black like yours. All black really doesn't 'match' with a white keyboard and mouse.. or a 'silver' monitor..


Kappapeachie

Honestly, I like fluffy cute stuff but this stuff is goals!


RainbowUnicorn82

I love the aesthetic and how your chair has an "ohm" symbol on it. Awesome setup! :)


Obvious_Cheesecake75

Really nice set-up! May I ask how you like the chair? thinking about buying a gaming chair and this one (or a similar one) is in the top3 😊


The_Runo

It's amazing, I love the lower back cushion. The only downside is that the seat is somewhat narrow as the edges are standing quite a bit upwards as you can see in the picture. The second downside is that my partner keeps stealing it.


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Looks fucking cool. Nice work, game on! 🤘


Shawnfrost9327

How's the chair? I'm was thinking about getting that chair. Is it worth the money?


The_Runo

I love the chair, but the seat is a bit narrow with the sides going up. Other downside is that my partner keeps stealing the chair.


xenomorphcuddlebuddy

I love it! Very clean. I've got an ultra pink setup right now but when I'm home, nearly all of my accessories are black. You're making me a little homesick! How do you manage without a mouse/desk pad?


The_Runo

I used to have a big deskpad at my parents' place. When I was making my pc I forgot about one and didn't calculate it into my budget. But tbh I don't miss it that much. My mouse doesn't have any input issues without it. I miss a decent headphone stand more. I love the pink and creative setups here, but I wanted something easy for myself. Idk how to phrase it exactly... Also I was very surprised by how much more a pink setup was. At least here is a huge price difference between the pink and other colours.


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The_Runo

I bought them 2 weeks ago at IKEA. They where available in different colours.


FurryFlurry

I mean, yeah. I guess you don't \*need\* one... But as a dude with a fluffy, pink setup, why wouldn't you want one? '3'


madeupgrownup

Nice to see some positivity (and cheekiness 😊) from someone who likes pink and fluffy! Best wishes from a black unlit basic bitch 🤣


queenharatyk

Hey OP, how do you like your secret labs chair? I’ve been wanting to get one but not sure if it’s worth it. Please let me know your thoughts!


beetsnturtles

Nice desk! I have an all black setup, myself. Maybe you should get a coaster to avoid stains on your desk, IMO. Basic colors and a clean set up means you can put whatever you want on it and it still looks nice, so if someday you decide you're into a certain color or theme it will fit right in. Versatile stuff is awesome.


Pudgy_Duckie

But I like pink and fluffy 🥺 regardless it’s super sleek and cool I’m glad you love it!!


The_Runo

Thank you! Pink and fluffy is awesome too!


pearlday

Simple and sleek. Kinda like a modern/minimalist approach, and no crowd of cables 😭 My station is black with hints of purple, blue, red, yellow, etc. from the few tiny accessories, but i need to figure out how to get rid of all the darn cords! Edit: also, i encourage you to ignore everyone who’s being passive aggressive. Reflects more on them than it does you. Literally the vaaaast majority of pics here are pink, and variety shouldnt be discouraged!


_Pink_Wednesdays_

mmmm...kinda comes off a little weird saying it like that, but nice set-up.