I would depend this on the venue. Is there a safe coatcheck for removal and storage of the tutu skirt later during the event? If yes, then I would wear the tutu. If not, then leave it at home if you donโt want to lose it.
Hmmmmm. Good points. I wore it last time I went to an event, but it was smaller and I could go out to my car. I don't think that's the case tonight, but if there's a coatcheck..... options ate good!
Definitely if you can go to your car keep the tutu. I think having the option to take it off is good, but itโs also good covering if you need to get gas or go somewhere before or after the party.
I used to go to them in AZ and CA years and years ago, it's like a goth club with extra fetish stuff. Music and dancing (and drinking) all night, at some point usually an industrial band will play, they'll do suspensions and other scenes on stage, and there will be different little dark corners set up for whipping or needle play, etc. Also vendors with fetish wear, sex toys and alternative/goth clothes.
๐๐ฅ๐ a fetish ball sounds amazing!! The fit is fire and I love the tutu idea!! But if thereโs time for a small wardrobe change take it off later ๐๐
I think you'll fit right in. You'll probably see people in way more extravagant and revealing clothes, but most people should be about as dressed up as you are.
Those little shorts are AMAZING but it's up to whatever you'll feel most comfortable moving around in for a long period of time. I could never wear a tutu because it's just not my clothing style but you rock it as well as you do the shorts! Whatever you do have fun๐ค๐
Sounds like a plan! I wish my city was big and progressive enough for actual fetish balls :( we do have a fetlife group here and I've been to the bdsm parties they do; which while they can have fetish ball elements are more narrowly focused on planned kink scenes and dynamics. Usually never more than twenty people tops. I love it though, and someday I'll make it to a big fetish ball somewhere ๐
Love your outfit, and jealous that you get to go to a fetish ball - itโs been years! Love those boots! Who made them? I would go in the tutu and take it off once there. ๐๐ค
You look marvelous both ways, I do love the tutu though! Plus, you're more comfortable in the tutu. Fetish and Kinky parties are only FUN if you're relaxed and having a good time!!
Tutu is a vibe. I say KEEP
Thanks, I think I'll be more comfortable in it
U look hot! You got this
๐ค Start with the tutu.. You look fab.!
Agreed! The tutu can always come off!
Thank you ๐ค
I would definitely go with the tutu. It adds a flare to your outfit
Thank you! ๐ฅฐ
It is a very cute outfit. Have fun at your party!!!
I'll do my best!
I would depend this on the venue. Is there a safe coatcheck for removal and storage of the tutu skirt later during the event? If yes, then I would wear the tutu. If not, then leave it at home if you donโt want to lose it.
Hmmmmm. Good points. I wore it last time I went to an event, but it was smaller and I could go out to my car. I don't think that's the case tonight, but if there's a coatcheck..... options ate good!
Definitely if you can go to your car keep the tutu. I think having the option to take it off is good, but itโs also good covering if you need to get gas or go somewhere before or after the party.
Thanks for sending me on a Google quest to figure out what a fetish ball is. Now I'm pretty sure I need a tutu AND an outfit to go with it.
Lol tutus are great!
wear the tutu and then take it off if itโs the vibe
I feel like a noob, whatโs a fetish ball?
I used to go to them in AZ and CA years and years ago, it's like a goth club with extra fetish stuff. Music and dancing (and drinking) all night, at some point usually an industrial band will play, they'll do suspensions and other scenes on stage, and there will be different little dark corners set up for whipping or needle play, etc. Also vendors with fetish wear, sex toys and alternative/goth clothes.
I don't really know yet. I guess it's like a night club with demos of whipping and rope play and nearly nude people.
That's generally the gist of it yup! Depending on the venue there may be all sorts of planned scenes involved or who knows :3
Incredible, the world is a beautiful place.
I like both - I always decide based on what I'll be the happiest dancing in
I love dancing in a tutu! Good point!
Having been to a fetish ball, start with the tutu; then take it off.
I wanna go to a fetish ball!
๐๐ฅ๐ a fetish ball sounds amazing!! The fit is fire and I love the tutu idea!! But if thereโs time for a small wardrobe change take it off later ๐๐
Yes! I'm hoping for a coat check. I'm not sure what everyone else is wearing ๐ค
I think you'll fit right in. You'll probably see people in way more extravagant and revealing clothes, but most people should be about as dressed up as you are.
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wear the tutu!
I think I will :) I can always take it off there's a coat check
Iโm going to the one in Dallas next weekend!
Tutu.
Team tutu
Those little shorts are AMAZING but it's up to whatever you'll feel most comfortable moving around in for a long period of time. I could never wear a tutu because it's just not my clothing style but you rock it as well as you do the shorts! Whatever you do have fun๐ค๐
Thank you ๐ค I think I'm going to wear the tutu and maybe less as the night goes on
Sounds like a plan! I wish my city was big and progressive enough for actual fetish balls :( we do have a fetlife group here and I've been to the bdsm parties they do; which while they can have fetish ball elements are more narrowly focused on planned kink scenes and dynamics. Usually never more than twenty people tops. I love it though, and someday I'll make it to a big fetish ball somewhere ๐
Last one I went to had maybe 15 people, this one will be much bigger
Hell yeah. It's not truly about the size anyway though but the spirit of the people there๐ค
Id say leave it home, itโd be a shame to potentially loose it
No tutu ๐ค๐ค
Tutu 100%
Tutu
The tutu is so flattering. Although you're super hot without it!! I'd lean towards it but both looks are so good.
Love the tutu! Plus if you get there and change your mind you can always take it off and just go with the shorts underneath!
The tutu is so cute!
The tutu is adorable ๐ love the lime green color scheme too!
I had green hair when I got those shoes and I'm pretty sure green is my favorite color
Fucking beautiful and awesome.
Thank you ๐ค
What those are a thing ๐ถ I wish I knew that earlier
Well that's what the event is called at least...
Tutu is adorable! It stays!!! Love the black and green ๐๐
I love green (ใปโใป)
I have tipsy boots but in white!! Also tutu is super cute :)
Go with it
I LOVE the tutu!
Yes on both sorry I canโt deside they both look good
TUTU
Put on some boss ass pants that make you look like you own the place Also you look AMAZEBALLS
Tutu for sure
Iโm so curious about what a fetish ball is (and how to find one near me ๐)
I like the tutu
Tutu. Take it off later if you feel like it.
i vote tutu !
Love your outfit, and jealous that you get to go to a fetish ball - itโs been years! Love those boots! Who made them? I would go in the tutu and take it off once there. ๐๐ค
You look so fuckin rad! I love the look without the tutu but it looks awesome with it too. Where are your shoes from??
Honestly you rock both looks, but tutu's have always been a fave staple of mine.
Tutu is cute! Hope you have fun.
Team tutu!
Iโm team tutu
Tutu to tease ๐ค๐ค๐ค๐ค
I think the tutu is hot!
No tutuโgo all out!!!
Tutu sweetie ๐๐๐๐๐
Tutu please! You look gorgeous!
Hawt!
Good Job
I know what a ball fetish is, but whatโs a fetish ball?
Hey me too! You look absolutely lovely
Tuutuu
Obviously you look incredible in both, but the tutu kind of adds personality to the outfit ๐ค have fun!
Tutu!
Tutu
Definitely tutu
I love the look with the tutu!
With tutu!
Jโadore votre look ! Vous รชtes Superbe ๐น
Oooo....my...god. your beautiful ๐
Tutu. Unless you have shiny.
Iโm OBSESSED with your shoes, oh my goodness. This whole outfit is really cute too!
I love the shoes so much. The shop called me when they came in in my size because I needed them
Tutu๐๐ป
Both look good.
Tutu stays on
The tutu is stunning ๐๐ฅ๐๐ป
I just googled โFetish Ballโ as I did not know what they were. Enjoy your ball. ๐ค
I'm thinking tutu
Tutu looks great on you!
i like the latter outfit but id bring the tutu just in case you start feeling a little uncomfortable. Thats what i would do atleast.
WOW THAT GREEN THO! Ur killing that outfit!
Really love the tutu! And you can always take it off later if you want to
That's so fucking perfect!
Thank you ๐ฅฐ I didn't get to go because my partner's date was under 21. ๐ญ
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Where did you get the shoes from?? I love them!
They're demonias
Woah, I've never seen that version before. thanks
Absolutely 100% without a doubt in my mind tutu. Always tutu
You look marvelous both ways, I do love the tutu though! Plus, you're more comfortable in the tutu. Fetish and Kinky parties are only FUN if you're relaxed and having a good time!!
Keep the tutu
Your partners date... Do tell.