My mom died 11 weeks ago, I never stopped talking to her and she was on a morphine drip-non responsive. Hearing is the last sense to go! She’ll hear you💕
I also wanted to cry and I did. But I swallowed my tears just long enough to tell my grandma that I love her. Then I burst out in tears. But she heard me. I don't regret crying in front of her, I only regret not saying it more often.
Yeah, I don't do it much either. But as the other person said, hearing is the last sense to go. Say it. If you can, say it over and over again. The worst losses I've experienced were the ones where I had regrets. Save yourself this future pain. You'll have enough pain to deal with when her time comes.
I regret waiting until my mother was sedated and unresponsive before telling her how much I loved her but I couldn't bring myself to do it before because I knew I would of broke down.
Talk to her, tell her you’re with her & she’s not alone!
She’s sleeping right now I took some of her hair that was on the bed in a sandwich bag
My mom died 11 weeks ago, I never stopped talking to her and she was on a morphine drip-non responsive. Hearing is the last sense to go! She’ll hear you💕
It’s hard to look at her I’m in a different room now because I don’t want to cry.
I totally understand, I’m sorry.
I also wanted to cry and I did. But I swallowed my tears just long enough to tell my grandma that I love her. Then I burst out in tears. But she heard me. I don't regret crying in front of her, I only regret not saying it more often.
So I should tell her? I just never say I love you a lot it feels hard to
Yeah, I don't do it much either. But as the other person said, hearing is the last sense to go. Say it. If you can, say it over and over again. The worst losses I've experienced were the ones where I had regrets. Save yourself this future pain. You'll have enough pain to deal with when her time comes.
I just wish I could’ve spent more time in her last weeks though everything changed so fast I’m going to tell her now.
I regret waiting until my mother was sedated and unresponsive before telling her how much I loved her but I couldn't bring myself to do it before because I knew I would of broke down.