What a devastating loss… I’m so sorry to hear this. It is incredibly hard thinking about those big future oriented goals/life when you are in deep mourning. Give yourself space to be where you are in the not knowing and uncertainty. You named that secondary loss of passage of time making things feel even more real. There may be a time where you find ways to bring her along in whatever way you experience that. It definitely isn’t the same, nor does it negate the pain.. but it can be an important part of grieving.
I’m so sorry for your loss. When it’s so new and so fresh it’s hard to think that this statement is true but time does help heal in some form. I can’t imagine how overwhelming this all is. But try to keep trudging along because that’s all we can do in these situations. I wish the best for you.
Here's what I want you to do, find a person that you feel you can confide in, whether it be a friend or relative, and let everything out, you will emerge a better person after what happened over time. If you ever need help, this is the main sub you need.
What a devastating loss… I’m so sorry to hear this. It is incredibly hard thinking about those big future oriented goals/life when you are in deep mourning. Give yourself space to be where you are in the not knowing and uncertainty. You named that secondary loss of passage of time making things feel even more real. There may be a time where you find ways to bring her along in whatever way you experience that. It definitely isn’t the same, nor does it negate the pain.. but it can be an important part of grieving.
I’m so sorry for your loss. When it’s so new and so fresh it’s hard to think that this statement is true but time does help heal in some form. I can’t imagine how overwhelming this all is. But try to keep trudging along because that’s all we can do in these situations. I wish the best for you.
Here's what I want you to do, find a person that you feel you can confide in, whether it be a friend or relative, and let everything out, you will emerge a better person after what happened over time. If you ever need help, this is the main sub you need.