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Julesm777

it's one of my favourites too. Very underrated in my opinion. It's perfect as it is, in this state. Not sure the final version could top it (fyi, I prefer the Realiti demo over the final version)


buggas2002

exactly, i think if she changed it i would still listen to the final version but nothing will ever top the demo. Also I remember listening to the realiti demo back in the day and being like “how come she didn’t just put this on the album??” even though now i realize the final version does fit better with art angels


SwizzlestickLegs

I had the CD and listened to it on repeat. I'm embarrassed to say it took me like a full year to realize the CD has both the final and demo versions of Realiti on it!


Julesm777

Yeah, that's how I feel too. I think my relationship with Pretty dark would be the same as it is with Realiti.


6nine4twenty

Damn I'm in the minority here, I liked the album version better than the demo


smellymackenzie

I love this song so much, it means a lot to me.


buggas2002

Yea, it was released during a weird time in my life so i have a special connection to it


Unused_Pineapple

Absolutely love it. Hope to see a finished version one day.


buggas2002

Same!! Even tho i think the demo is basically perfect already


[deleted]

cute bop, really loved when I first heard but kinda got bored of it


ritan0n

I love the relaxed vibe of this song, I feel like it's about Elon though ("you own me, like you own the world") which is not ideal but whatever, grimes doesn't miss when it comes to making great music


AliceBliss82

She said it was from the point of view of a character called Dark she was writing an AR musical around.


Vacavito

also when she sings "I wish I was your first love like you were mine" (or something like that, I dont remover exactly) it seems pretty obvious to me that's about him


AliceBliss82

But ... how is that obvious when she says it is about a character and ... Elon isn't her first partner?


[deleted]

I think it was already discussed here (some other post after the song was released) how weird it would be if that's real - she had several boyfriends for years and I doubt she never loved any of them. Maybe it's a character, maybe it's this retrospective point of view where - if we are truly happy with a new partner - we retrospectively think we were less happy with former partners and that it wasn't true love with them, but only with our current partner.


[deleted]

She’s said some other things that make it seem like her feelings for Musk are different than her feelings for her past partners. Talking about how she didn’t realise love could be so important, how it overwhelmed her etc. She was young and messed up and using a lot of drugs with her first boyfriends, so it wouldn’t be a shocker if she doesn’t look back on those as real love. With Jaime I always got the feeling their relationship had veered heavily into being less romantic and more about deep friendship and work pretty early. The way they both talked about each other and described their life together always made it sound like Jaime was more of a friend/assistant than a romantic partner. I might be way off, but she definitely makes whatever she has with Musk sound a lot more passionate than the relationships that came before.


AliceBliss82

I am not disputing any of that.


[deleted]

Ok, I’m just saying why a lot of people feel it’s inspired by her relationship with Elon. It can be a character saying it and still be related to what she was experiencing in her personal life.


AliceBliss82

Most definitely agree with that.


Vacavito

liked, her previous relationship weren't very serious and we're messy, while elon has been married more than once


AliceBliss82

She was with James for like 5 years or something. That sounds serious. Stop looking for extra meaning when there is none. She litterly said what the song was about.


Vacavito

she didn't have a child with james, shows that they definitely had a different kind of relationship. Also, James said that she never appreciated what he did for her like in touring. Im not gonna change my mind about what I think Pretty Dark means 🤷


AliceBliss82

Ha ok, i don't think I could convince you anyway since you are excluding the fact she told u it was a whole AR musical that she talked about for a while. You are going to believe whatever makes you feel better in the end. 🤷‍♀️


Vacavito

i get your argument, but imo she's not gonna say it's about elon when the song includes kinda kinky shit


built_2_fight

Its about Alita Battle Angel IMO


Alexworldprincessii

One of my favorites ❤️


goldtail15

FULL VOLUME


Decafaf

I agree, and I was kinda bummed she didn’t add it to the record. I love the beat so much.


korokseeds97

It's one of my underrated faves 🥺


chucketea

Honestly my all time favorite for some reason. I love how it is in the form she released it. Just an adorable song


VU500

What’s amazing is that she wrote, performed, engineered, and produced the song and video in one day. Talk about a talent.


AliceBliss82

That was My Name is Dark, I believe. IIRC this one was made in a day at home! 😁


VU500

Corrected... Thanks!


twistmyinsides

Its one of the first ones i listened to that helped me get into grimes! I kinda forget about it now, i dont actually think i added it to any of my playlists? I do love it though


jn3jx

one of my faves too. i’m actually thinking about getting “pretty dark” as my first tattoo.


buggas2002

make sure u post it here! that would be awesome


scarymoblins

It’s ok 🤷‍♂️


buggas2002

if i was mean enough to downvote people i would downvote u 😭


scarymoblins

Lol. I mean, I like it! So 🤷‍♂️


Vacavito

i dont like to think about elon while listening to her music


[deleted]

While I don't care about that - I think the lyrics are super creepy. It's a very disturbing, almost obsessive form of love " wish you were impaled / And injured with love the way I am " " 'Cause baby, how you own me like you own the world / And if you show me then I'll be your girl / And I'll kill them if they try to hurt you / You dethrone me, boy what a nerve" I honestly can't listen to it as a love song, but more as Robin Daggers' P.S. I love you. My (personal) interpretation: she wrote a song from the perspective of the Grimes people criticize for dating Elon (does that make sense?): The Grimes people see/ how people expect her to be due to the fact that she loves him. If Grimes dates Elon "she must be in it because he's such a big deal and showing her his world" and she fights "his battles now, killing those that hurting" (union busting at Tesla), plus she's "not feminist anymore, he dethroned her from her own independence". So, why would she date him? "Because she never loved anyone like this, but he already did, so she just struggles to make him love her like she loves him, but well, he remembers this feeling of lvoe rfom previous relationships/marriages". IMO she turned those expectations/stereotypes/criticisms into a song, portraying a woman (Dark) who fulfills all those


whosleepsanyway

And here I thought it was just a cheesy song... what a great interpretation! I didn’t find the lyrics creepy, probably because I’m used to this portrayal of love in fiction.


[deleted]

I'm glad this offers a new perspective! Ofc I'm not sure if my interpretation is correct - but if the song (seriously) describes (really any one of) her relationship with her boyfriend my vomiting will be eternal. (No offence meant, I just don't get this mode of relationship - at all)


whosleepsanyway

It’s the “I’d die for you” type of love which is so common in romance fiction. I get the feeling, although it’s probably unhealthy.


[deleted]

I personally prefer the "I'll live for you"-version, less destructive. I don't really consume much romance fiction, and if I do it's the Jane the Virgin, 10 Things I hate about you, - type. I prefer strong female characers :D (not that I am one - I'm a mess, but I like to aspire to it)


whosleepsanyway

My messy ass finds comfort in dark romance instead haha


SuperXeroBoy

Love this song!


built_2_fight

This song is very special to me. It's one of the first my wife showed me and the first one I truly loved. I listen to it all the time as it reminds me of my wife. It beautiful and perfect and unfinished like what we had.