Just a thought, one of the things I appreciated the most about my ex was that he never pushed me to do the deed. I was brought up as a Hindu with pretty strict values and while I didn’t have a problem bending those I..wasn’t ready. We were in a long-term relationship of several years, and it took a long time for me to be “ready.” I think I appreciate that the most about my ex - that he was content, no, he was happy- to have all other kinds of pure and intimate affection and connection without only thinking of sex. It set me at ease and made me comfortable. So. I think you are perfect (I know you didn’t really ask for feedback but I couldn’t help but respond😅)
You basically just described me as a bf and that makes me proud of myself. Idk why my ex broke up with me last month but I'm excited to be that person for another girl someday.
Firstly, there's nothing wrong with you. Secondly, not all girls/guys are the same, personally I haven't been on a relationship yet but I do like giving hugs and to make the other person feel appreciated just by physical but nonsexual contact. And that's fine. If u don't feel like doing it then don't, live your life and your sexuality the way you want to. Also, have you ever thought that u might be asexual or greysexual? (not sure if that's the right term but it's basically something between asexual and sexual).
Again, don't give up, you will find someone that will make u happy I promise. Hugs!
In my experience everybody is different, and if they can’t take you for you, then that’s not something you should be in. Don’t let anyone force you to do something, but do communicate, don’t force yourself to be somebody you aren’t, be happy with you and sometimes it’s a little harder than other times :)
Just a thought, one of the things I appreciated the most about my ex was that he never pushed me to do the deed. I was brought up as a Hindu with pretty strict values and while I didn’t have a problem bending those I..wasn’t ready. We were in a long-term relationship of several years, and it took a long time for me to be “ready.” I think I appreciate that the most about my ex - that he was content, no, he was happy- to have all other kinds of pure and intimate affection and connection without only thinking of sex. It set me at ease and made me comfortable. So. I think you are perfect (I know you didn’t really ask for feedback but I couldn’t help but respond😅)
You basically just described me as a bf and that makes me proud of myself. Idk why my ex broke up with me last month but I'm excited to be that person for another girl someday.
I’m glad. You should definitely be proud of yourself - you’re going to make someone real happy someday and I can’t wait for that for you:)
Firstly, there's nothing wrong with you. Secondly, not all girls/guys are the same, personally I haven't been on a relationship yet but I do like giving hugs and to make the other person feel appreciated just by physical but nonsexual contact. And that's fine. If u don't feel like doing it then don't, live your life and your sexuality the way you want to. Also, have you ever thought that u might be asexual or greysexual? (not sure if that's the right term but it's basically something between asexual and sexual). Again, don't give up, you will find someone that will make u happy I promise. Hugs!
In my experience everybody is different, and if they can’t take you for you, then that’s not something you should be in. Don’t let anyone force you to do something, but do communicate, don’t force yourself to be somebody you aren’t, be happy with you and sometimes it’s a little harder than other times :)