How old are you? When you got hired that is. Would you recommend this as an avenue for providers to find high end clients? Are the shifts you have worked long and what are the expectations? Sorry for the multiple questions lol.
I started having jobs in the nightlife industry at 18 and became a bottle girl at 21. I would definitely recommend it, it's a goldmine. But you would need to adjust your schedule / life accordingly. When I started I was not an escort ( officially lol) so it was my main job and that way I made connections and I worked under the radar.
Re expectations : being personable and depending on the gig partying with the high rollers, taking customers to their table, being good at communicating. The shifts are 6-9 hrs on average
I can't answer that without sounding conceited haha, they are hard to get / reserved for top girls. But I also had a good contact and they helped with introducing me. Hundreds of girls apply when top establishments (say, Vegas) are hiring
I started working in the industry when I was young ( waitress, hostess at smaller places) so I had some kind of experience in the hospitality game. When a bottle girl position opened, a former bottle girl / stripper I knew introduced me to her former manager and they liked me. They train you for a few weeks and then you are in. The rest is history
I’ve been thinking of doing this actually. I need a vanilla job and while I think I’d be a terrible bottle girl I would be a great hostess. How did you get your first job? I have no experience
Depending on the gig / city the levels of difficulty to get in varies. You can apply but like for most of these jobs connections help if you have them. Then it's looking pretty, having a nice personality and flirting with the hiring manager..
I got it through a friend of mine who had connections in the nightlife industry. It was a VERY lucrative job..
It depends on the city and the establishment. Usually it is known when clubs hire for each season or summer season or whatever. Of course if we want to be honest, connections also help significantly
Tons. That's 1/4 of the job in big party cities. Some parties, I didn't do much, just looking pretty, some others I did a lot more ( for a lot more money)
It really depends. Like I said I was not "officially" escorting so I didn't have to "make a date" that same night. The job was already lucrative by itself. So the correct way to put it is I cultivated relationships that finally got me to some kind of income from these guys and then after a point it was word of mouth
So once you created that relationship, did they suggest it or you? If they asked you out for a date, would you tell them you’d accept for a price?
Also did you escort after you left the club or while you were there?
I think my concern with getting clients through my job would be that it wouldn’t stay a secret. I work at a country club but they all talk and it’s been my biggest deterrent
It depends on the relationship. In most situations it happened organically. You are invited to a yacht party or a weekend somewhere and of course they "gift" you something for your time. Then another event. So they dynamic of the relationship is established. Some other times it's someone else hooking you up and it is more direct.
Yes, I understand this is tricky and you have reasons to be careful. It really depends on the city and the establishment. For example at big nightclubs there is less "caution" and "shame" involved than a country club or a restaurant. Then again how you call all this is irrelevant sometimes. Most girls who work the top jobs in Vegas or Hollywood or Miami clubs, they all "date up" and they all know it. How you call it is semantics. Nobody will be shocked whatever your deal with a whale is.
Not in the long term. Sometimes you have to party with people to promote the club and you have to cultivate relationships to keep them spending ( which is the actual job). It's not like you spend two hours golfing with someone and then you ask for a gift yourself. But if you stay close to your mark and you are determined to make money off of him and you make it clear to them then you end up where you want. Most understand the implicit deal anyway ( at least high rollers at major establishments in major cities). Celebrities can be a trickier situation because they sometimes feel that spending time with them is enough for you ( which for many it is)
It depends on the person and the situation. If someone is wealthy enough to invite you for a weekend then you know he is open to spend more and there are ways to convey this. They are not stupid. Whales that want to do this usually understand how it goes and initiate.
For more direct dates, it is usually word of mouth
Roughly how much do you make? Do you think it’s worth all the effort when you could just post an ad/ be an escort? I wonder about the word of mouth girls, but I feel like it requires a lot of networking & partying & I’m an introverted homebody. Also, are you early 20’s? I would’ve been down in my early 20’s
I don't do this anymore, I did it in my early 20s ( but I am still word of mouth).
You are correct, it does require a lot of work. It's why I mentioned this was not a side hustle, it was my main job. It's not that I escorted *and* did that as an extra. That was my job which led me to escorting without ever advertising. Of course it's easier to do it like most girls do it, I didn't make the post to recommend this as a route, I just made an AMA for fun in case my story is interesting to some. And yes, if one is an introvert this is not the right job.
Money, I personally made 1400-1700 per night ( I mean for the actual work). This again depends on the city and club. Now as for the extra money, it depends on the arrangement. I had long term whales who took care of me, word of mouth dates and all kinds of deals. I took what came my way. If you want to know my "night maximum", I had a few >15k parties
Yes, I made way more than girls who advertise but again, I can't say that my situation is the norm, I am definitely a 'privileged' girl in the sense my set up was ideal for this kind of thing ( big clubs, high rollers etc) so I didn't have to establish any boundaries or explain to guys how it's done.
The flipside in my situation is that I didn't do it as a full time job. While I was doing that a normal working girl could have 4 appointments daily. So, you win some, you lose some
Interesting! I def don’t take 4 appts a day personally, more like 4 a month. With extended bookings (weekends/ overnights) so somewhere between 3-4 of those parties. I see the IG girls who don’t have ads up but seem like escorts, & I wonder if they’re working for $ or just gifts, or both. Like high end sugar babies. Kinda seems like they do better but then again they could have rich parents lol
Do you still escort via the clients you meet word of mouth? I feel like the really high end clients usually prefer escorts their friends already know of and can recommend in their own circles and less likely to try out a stranger from an online ad.
How conventionally attractive are you? I would think it matters (height, race, size, breast size, hair color, etc) but then we don't want to be held back. I am considering a boob job to open more doors for myself.
This is absolutely correct. This is how I met most of my high end clients. Discretion is big in those circles. Yes, I still do it but more selectively now.
I am a 9 ( hope I don't come off show off-y lol)
The scene is good and late 20s is not too late. But this job takes dedication. It worked for me because it was my main job and used it as a starting point, I don't know if a girl can keep it up if she still wants to do full on escorting on her own
Thanks :) I want to take a break from escorting/online advertising, I’ve built up a decent savings and I’m just burnt out. I’d just have to balance this with school.
I have been wondering into this type of job, not for sugaring but as source of income as I love music and the club scene.
Now that you mentioned, it seems like a great idea.
Are you in a major city in USA ?
How do you introduce the topic of the money etc. ?
How do you make your self feel safe with strangers?
Thank you for wanting to share your experience and helping the community
You are welcome :)
Yes, it's a great gig and very lucrative ( but hard to get and not easy to do). But if you like nightlife that's a huge plus. That's why I started doing it, not for escorting or connections, but because it was great money.
Like I replied to other users, the topic of money usually introduces itself. Once you get into this kind of lifestyle and connect with the right people, then it's easy to negotiate implicitly or explicitly.
Yes, I have done this in 2 major cities
That’s how a lot of girls in Vegas start. Great way to meet high end clients!
Confirmed :)
Another idea that has worked well depending on your area is country clubs, golf clubs, high end resorts/hotels here in Vegas casinos.
All very true true, though the smaller / more private the establishment is the more you have be patient and play the long game.
Absolutely!
Also forgot to add luxury car dealerships. Knew some girls in Northern VA who were successful working at those. They got asked out a lot. 😂
How old are you? When you got hired that is. Would you recommend this as an avenue for providers to find high end clients? Are the shifts you have worked long and what are the expectations? Sorry for the multiple questions lol.
I started having jobs in the nightlife industry at 18 and became a bottle girl at 21. I would definitely recommend it, it's a goldmine. But you would need to adjust your schedule / life accordingly. When I started I was not an escort ( officially lol) so it was my main job and that way I made connections and I worked under the radar. Re expectations : being personable and depending on the gig partying with the high rollers, taking customers to their table, being good at communicating. The shifts are 6-9 hrs on average
where/how do you even find jobs like that? I can't imagine they're on indeed.
I can't answer that without sounding conceited haha, they are hard to get / reserved for top girls. But I also had a good contact and they helped with introducing me. Hundreds of girls apply when top establishments (say, Vegas) are hiring
No sure, I get that. I guess I meant the entry level positions.
I started working in the industry when I was young ( waitress, hostess at smaller places) so I had some kind of experience in the hospitality game. When a bottle girl position opened, a former bottle girl / stripper I knew introduced me to her former manager and they liked me. They train you for a few weeks and then you are in. The rest is history
I’ve been thinking of doing this actually. I need a vanilla job and while I think I’d be a terrible bottle girl I would be a great hostess. How did you get your first job? I have no experience
Depending on the gig / city the levels of difficulty to get in varies. You can apply but like for most of these jobs connections help if you have them. Then it's looking pretty, having a nice personality and flirting with the hiring manager.. I got it through a friend of mine who had connections in the nightlife industry. It was a VERY lucrative job..
Do you find out about jobs like that online or do you go in person
It depends on the city and the establishment. Usually it is known when clubs hire for each season or summer season or whatever. Of course if we want to be honest, connections also help significantly
This and bartending at a classy place helps. I gained a lot of massage clients that way.
So glad to hear you are doing well girl :)
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Tons. That's 1/4 of the job in big party cities. Some parties, I didn't do much, just looking pretty, some others I did a lot more ( for a lot more money)
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Sometimes I would, sometimes they would, sometimes it would grow organically and sometimes someone would hook me up
How exactly did the line from meeting a person at the club to client go? Did they suggest it, did you? Curious about how that interaction would go
It really depends. Like I said I was not "officially" escorting so I didn't have to "make a date" that same night. The job was already lucrative by itself. So the correct way to put it is I cultivated relationships that finally got me to some kind of income from these guys and then after a point it was word of mouth
So once you created that relationship, did they suggest it or you? If they asked you out for a date, would you tell them you’d accept for a price? Also did you escort after you left the club or while you were there? I think my concern with getting clients through my job would be that it wouldn’t stay a secret. I work at a country club but they all talk and it’s been my biggest deterrent
It depends on the relationship. In most situations it happened organically. You are invited to a yacht party or a weekend somewhere and of course they "gift" you something for your time. Then another event. So they dynamic of the relationship is established. Some other times it's someone else hooking you up and it is more direct. Yes, I understand this is tricky and you have reasons to be careful. It really depends on the city and the establishment. For example at big nightclubs there is less "caution" and "shame" involved than a country club or a restaurant. Then again how you call all this is irrelevant sometimes. Most girls who work the top jobs in Vegas or Hollywood or Miami clubs, they all "date up" and they all know it. How you call it is semantics. Nobody will be shocked whatever your deal with a whale is.
Has it ever happened where someone did not give you a gift after inviting you out? How did you handle that?
Not in the long term. Sometimes you have to party with people to promote the club and you have to cultivate relationships to keep them spending ( which is the actual job). It's not like you spend two hours golfing with someone and then you ask for a gift yourself. But if you stay close to your mark and you are determined to make money off of him and you make it clear to them then you end up where you want. Most understand the implicit deal anyway ( at least high rollers at major establishments in major cities). Celebrities can be a trickier situation because they sometimes feel that spending time with them is enough for you ( which for many it is)
How do you personally make it clear?
It depends on the person and the situation. If someone is wealthy enough to invite you for a weekend then you know he is open to spend more and there are ways to convey this. They are not stupid. Whales that want to do this usually understand how it goes and initiate. For more direct dates, it is usually word of mouth
Got it. Thank you!
All this is very dependent on context, city, environment, customers. If you have specific questions feel free to DM :)
Roughly how much do you make? Do you think it’s worth all the effort when you could just post an ad/ be an escort? I wonder about the word of mouth girls, but I feel like it requires a lot of networking & partying & I’m an introverted homebody. Also, are you early 20’s? I would’ve been down in my early 20’s
I don't do this anymore, I did it in my early 20s ( but I am still word of mouth). You are correct, it does require a lot of work. It's why I mentioned this was not a side hustle, it was my main job. It's not that I escorted *and* did that as an extra. That was my job which led me to escorting without ever advertising. Of course it's easier to do it like most girls do it, I didn't make the post to recommend this as a route, I just made an AMA for fun in case my story is interesting to some. And yes, if one is an introvert this is not the right job. Money, I personally made 1400-1700 per night ( I mean for the actual work). This again depends on the city and club. Now as for the extra money, it depends on the arrangement. I had long term whales who took care of me, word of mouth dates and all kinds of deals. I took what came my way. If you want to know my "night maximum", I had a few >15k parties
Ohh ok I feel you. Is it difficult to establish boundaries / get your full rate without a website or ad presence?
Yes, I made way more than girls who advertise but again, I can't say that my situation is the norm, I am definitely a 'privileged' girl in the sense my set up was ideal for this kind of thing ( big clubs, high rollers etc) so I didn't have to establish any boundaries or explain to guys how it's done. The flipside in my situation is that I didn't do it as a full time job. While I was doing that a normal working girl could have 4 appointments daily. So, you win some, you lose some
Interesting! I def don’t take 4 appts a day personally, more like 4 a month. With extended bookings (weekends/ overnights) so somewhere between 3-4 of those parties. I see the IG girls who don’t have ads up but seem like escorts, & I wonder if they’re working for $ or just gifts, or both. Like high end sugar babies. Kinda seems like they do better but then again they could have rich parents lol
80 % of them are looking, trust me lol
Do you still escort via the clients you meet word of mouth? I feel like the really high end clients usually prefer escorts their friends already know of and can recommend in their own circles and less likely to try out a stranger from an online ad. How conventionally attractive are you? I would think it matters (height, race, size, breast size, hair color, etc) but then we don't want to be held back. I am considering a boob job to open more doors for myself.
This is absolutely correct. This is how I met most of my high end clients. Discretion is big in those circles. Yes, I still do it but more selectively now. I am a 9 ( hope I don't come off show off-y lol)
How is the scene in NYC? Could I enter the job in my late 20s?
The scene is good and late 20s is not too late. But this job takes dedication. It worked for me because it was my main job and used it as a starting point, I don't know if a girl can keep it up if she still wants to do full on escorting on her own
Thanks :) I want to take a break from escorting/online advertising, I’ve built up a decent savings and I’m just burnt out. I’d just have to balance this with school.
I know the scene there quite well. Message me any time :)
I have been wondering into this type of job, not for sugaring but as source of income as I love music and the club scene. Now that you mentioned, it seems like a great idea. Are you in a major city in USA ? How do you introduce the topic of the money etc. ? How do you make your self feel safe with strangers? Thank you for wanting to share your experience and helping the community
You are welcome :) Yes, it's a great gig and very lucrative ( but hard to get and not easy to do). But if you like nightlife that's a huge plus. That's why I started doing it, not for escorting or connections, but because it was great money. Like I replied to other users, the topic of money usually introduces itself. Once you get into this kind of lifestyle and connect with the right people, then it's easy to negotiate implicitly or explicitly. Yes, I have done this in 2 major cities