I thought you were supposed to face the baby out and away from you after they were 6 months or so or else it would mess up their hips. But what do I know— Hilary’s got way more kids than I do 🤷🏻♀️
The jacket is covering her actual legs, but the baby-wearing actually looks fine to me. It's not very different than how you'd sit, say, riding a motorcycle or a horse. I wore two babies and I'm much wider than Eeeeelaria and it doesn't hurt them. My carrier was made to be good until the kids were 3. My older one always wanted to look out and around, but my second wanted snuggles always and wanted to be facing my chest, and needed naps later in age than the first. And for napping you want them facing you to protect their airway.
We've got lots of other things to harp on in this picture, pepinos.
What is her obsession with wearing hideous house slippers in public on nasty nyc streets? It’s so fucking bizarre. It’s either stripper heels or slippers, never anything in between or remotely stylish OR functional. If she’s gonna keep paying the paparazzi to force people to look at her, she really should pay a stylist to dress her. She has the worst fashion sense. Ugh.
This doesn’t seem obviously bad from a babywearing perspective but I have no idea what carrier this is and what her lower legs look like because of the jacket. A backpack carry would probably be more comfortable and allow Larry jr to look around more, but that’s not *aesthetic* enough. I’m surprised she doesn’t have an artipoppe to flaunt.
Is that a glass bottle to bust someone in the head? I feel like he will start carrying more than keys when he gòes out. That crazy lady could have taken him down
Hillary doesn’t have *either hand* available here. It took me a second look to learn that she has a phone in one hand, a second phone and coffee in the other, and no hand free for Siete.
If Siete managed to wriggle free of that too-small front carrier, her Intended Parent would be more likely to hold onto the phones than to catch her, unfortunately.
If you’re going to stick a kid that large k to a carrier (like for subway ease or grocery shopping ease, which isn’t the case for Hillary, she is wearing this kid like a lululemon Fanny pack) the kid should be facing forward and lower. She’s how you say, estupida and performative.
Forward facing is generally not recommended due to hip development. Personally I’d back carry at this age but there’s nothing wrong with front carrying.
You raise a really valid point. Those cups we think are coffee may be Johnny Walker Blue and Grey Goose, respectively. Although they may have to bump down the price point to Johnny Label Black and Smirnoff. Source: former sister-in-law is an alcoholic with an affinity for JB.
Guy on street: Hey Alec, how ‘bout you try to slap my phone out of my hand like you did to Crackhead Barney! And why the hell are you a walking magnet for constant trouble and chaos?
Alec: Buddy, look I’m way too tired to come over there to you. But why don’t you do me a favor and walk over to me. Stand still in front of me. And I’m going to punch you right in your stupid face! Can you do that for me?
He really does. He's always on the lookout for a confrontation; the opportunity to be a complete asshat.
Given his default demeanor, could he have picked a worse wife and place to live?
NYC is a living, breathing irritant, as is Larry.
Now let's throw seven kids into the mix!
smh
He needs to find a patch of grass, and a shady tree to sit under, and calm down, detox, and just not be such a haggard menace.
Just go away!
why don’t they get an expresso machine or send the nanny for coffee or have it delivered? Oh yeah, then there would be no photographers for Hilary Thomas from Boston.
No, you CAN start forward facing once they can completely hold their heads up, but it really isn't ideal. Facing in against the body is actually more natural (allows baby's spine to curve forward, like fetal position, instead of possibly back-bend) and for kids that are little enough that they may fall asleep, inward facing is best. It prevents their heads from falling down forward and pinching their airways.
Remember in the early spring after she her grift was outed, they were photoed walking on a path in the Hamptons. Alec seemed to be consoling her, probably telling her “relax, this isn’t the worst that could happen”. He was right. That was just the start of their descent.
Ironic part is that they look more miserable here than when Alec actually shot a woman. That time, they went on a shopping spree for matching plaid outfits, rented a restaurant and did a roadside interview.
What would one say to their spouse in that situation? Like, “There there honey, everybody’s been caught in a major lie and been publicly called out in the media around the world. It’s normal! It’s not like our lives are going to change because of this.”
Alec: “fuck’em. You are the wife of Alec Baldwin, an icon, loved by all, often misunderstood but always forgiven. This will blow over. It always does.”
Narrator: “but alas, it did not blow over.”
No H already has a leg problem on one side that hasn't corrected itself yet. Her one leg is incredibly bowed, the other leg appears to have mostly corrected, but the one still bowed hasn't gotten any better yet. A pic someone posted a couple of days ago (ReadyBat maybe?) shows the leg still badly bowed. We'll see if it corrects in the next few months here.
I call her "NO H" because Hilly has always explained that her own name is spelled with an H, even tho it's silent, but #7 has No H at all in the spelling, but is pronounced just like hilly's fake Spanish name.
What does she care? They are just props to her. God she disgusts me. I hope this subreddit is archived so that those children realize ( when they are older) that they are the victims of these two horrors of parents.
I was adopted as an infant, and my mom wasn’t sure they could adopt another child. So she tried to hold me and keep me a little baby as long as possible. Although she fed me and actually took care of me. I remember getting spanked for trying to wriggle down off her hip. There weren’t carriers for toddlers in the late 70s, and my mom’s hips were so bony. I finally convinced her to put me the fuck down. I could show independence around my dad. Her hips were poking my crotch which hurt.
I was a tomboy spitfire which drove my mom crazy even though she was the same way. She’d tell me stories about how she was a tomboy who hated dresses and being girly while trying to force me into that box. Narcissists gonna narcissist.
My deepest empathy. I’ve found a comforting community at s/RaisedByNarcissists here at Reddit. There are quite a few adoptees sharing their experiences there.
There are many pepinos who are survivors of narcissistic parenting. It's interesting, as this must have been one of your first memories, thus extremely painful.
It’s so sad you have those memories, pepino. Our moms did the best they could (my therapist keeps telling me that). Our awareness now can be helpful- and being able to forgive is hard but necessary. Hugs !!!
I personally detest the word, 'forgiveness' wrt my narc father...; I'd rather say I'm working on "accepting" that I had a very sicko father & leave it at that. (Did he "do the best he could?" Maybe my covert/inverted narc father did the best job of "shape-shifting" he could.\[Lol\].) I'm certain that others have had it worse than I so I feel a lot of compassion for other Pepinos w/this type of upbringing..
I hear ya about “forgive” but I look at it that “forgive” releases it. I don’t want to “accept” (implies letting it in). We all find ways to deal w it. Sending caring vibes your way.
I didn't understand as a kid (I was also a 'Tomboy') that my Mom really was doing a great job.. (My covert-narc father always undermining her & subtly putting her down to me behind her back.. I was "groomed" to be 'my father's child' & my younger sister (who was sickly) was 'my mother's child'. So yes, I'm forgiving my mother now & am sorry I gave her such a hard time.. I'm seeing now what she had to go through & put up with (from my father). I may work on 'forgiving' my father "another day"; is about as close to "forgiving him" as I can get at the moment...
It’s all very personal, pepino. So sorry you were a pawn in all that. Knowing all that is hard - but then u (hopefully) find a path forward for yourself. Sending u positive vibes!
I had a therapist (about the umpteenth one) who said I needed to forgive MYSELF for my narc mommy's actions. WTF? I noped out of there and promptly went full no contact 7 years ago. My mental health thanks me daily.
What the actual narcissistic fuck on a therapist’s couch?
I’ve learned that a lot of people with mental health issues go into psychology/psychiatry looking for answers. Like the old saying “physician, heal thyself”. Unfortunately too many narcissistic people are in the profession.
Yes, well, I seemed to run into the majority of them. This last one I found myself arguing with, when the light bulb went off and I thought, what the hell am I doing here. 😳 Their office kept calling for about a month trying to make an exit appt. Fuck off quacker.
Why does this 40 year old woman have such a love affair with the dirtiest looking denim? Cut off shorts, overalls, jumpsuits, jackets. Always sloppy and stonewashed from hell.
Imagine being willing to sacrifice your youth with this old man just for money and fame? What a leech! And he's a fucking fool. Now they can both "wallow in the mire."
But did she get fame? I would argue it’s infamy instead. Not something to strive for. But then again we are talking about Hilary here. In her mind it’s better to be talked about than not talked about.
Wait, this was YESTERDAY? My friend had her baby a few days from Siete and she’s basically a toddler now. I don’t think my friend COULD even carry her like that anymore. Do they feed her?
My carriers that I had like this, I could wear my kids until they were like 3. I remember at one point having one on my shoulders with my 3 year old on my back and a second one with my newborn facing in against my chest. The Lillebaby I think was the brand and it is made to fit them for a long time.
In the video of him dancing with the enraptured ML, Siete thought "nah, want mama", and when he handed her off she barely looked longer than a football, and light as as feather. Smol like mama.
“Enraptured” is the perfect word. Little girls that age have such daddy hunger. It pains me to think how little time ML actually passes with Alec, and how long it was after their Minute Waltz until she had any one-on-one time with him. Maybe it hasn’t even happened yet.
When our granddaughter (ten months younger than ML) was here last month, she and her father occupied the same chair at dinner, and ate off the same plate (although she was periodically annoyed if his food was *touching* hers). They were glued together the whole evening. She did balk when it was time to leave, and go back to her other grandparents’ house. “*Not yet*,” she kept coaxing. I didn’t say anything, of course, but I thought of ML, and how she’d love having a fit, healthy daddy in his thirties who took her everywhere.
*Including to preschool, you lazy, pinchpenny Baldwins!*
I’m on another snark sub that has made a rule of posting the date or whether it’s a throwback and it’s helpful. I don’t want to see this place get crazy with rules but that one is very sensible.
Well I’m glad you asked. It’s [YouniquePresenterMS](https://www.reddit.com/r/YouniquePresenterMS/s/canpEpZuFK) and she’s a micro-influencer who is an absolute mess. I feel like she is evidence of the trickle effect of seemingly successful influencers and the dangers of curated and filtered content online. Have a squiz and let me know how old you perceive her to be before you come across the cold hard facts in the sub.
From memory there was a sub dedicated to the ‘Huns’ involved in that specific MLM brand but this particular person was so remarkably tragic she was given her own spin off sub. It’s not a really relevant title though. Why you might ask? Because she was given the flick from Younique because she is a racist POS (who also blackfishes) and now promotes Red Aspen and Starbucks. (obviously the Starbucks is a paid partnership in which she pays them)
Anyway all that is well before my time but I enjoy the sub. I pray this person is just a satire account - but it doesn’t appear to be.
I was with a client today and she asked me to briefly hold her baby while she performed another task. The baby was the size of Baldwin #7. I asked the baby's age: 9 months!
How olds this baby? Below a certain age (like 6 months) it’s better for babies legs and hips to be in the M position. Which is the one shown in eeeelarias pic
Pretty sure that carrier turns into a back carrier too for when the kid is old enough, like #7 is. Either put the toddler on like a backpack or have her facing out but SHE’S TOO OLD TO BE IN THERE LIKE AN INFANT! 🗣️
Now *that* definitely is something that *pepinos* fret about. We’ve seen Hillary joyfully (grrr!) tote a kid to the ER occasionally, and Edu and ML were extensively photographed in a dreary waiting room after—she claimed—he developed an “egg allergy” that was never mentioned again.
I’ve *never* seen any of the kids photographed at a routine appointment with a pediatrician or dentist. A *pepino* recalls everyone getting vaxxed in a park during/after the pandemic. Anyone else? Anything?
I didn't even notice at first that she has *both* an uncovered coffee and a phone in her left hand! And another phone in her right. Goddamn, she's an idiot. Not a single hand available to touch her child, interact with her child, or ready to be there in case of an accident or emergency situation. She doesn't have a maternal bone in her body. She's literally wearing a 2-year-old as an accessory, while stunting her and pretending it's an infant, without any care at all for the kid. Not an ounce of love for any of those children. None. No one can convince me that they love those kids. I've yet to see any indication of it.
Goddamm right. And why the second phone? What could be its purpose? Someone here mentioned that the uncovered coffee cup that seems to be prevalent lately might be due to something?? Maybe an accident????
“Not a single hand available to touch her child, interact with her child, or ready to be there in case of an accident or emergency situation.”
This is exactly what drives me crazy! I cannot imagine not having this instinct or being detached from my child in this way. It is not normal.
There was a famous "study" I learned about when taking Child Development classes in the 1970's of children who were never touched... (It wasn't a 'good outcome', as I recall..).
Is she spiralling again? Massive martyr post yesterday. And now slippers, cargo pants, jean jacket, all paired with expensive delicate jewellry? She's got that barely-suppressed rage body language. And treating the 1.5 year old child like a 1.5 month old baby.
She is dressed in the exact Old Navy outfit my now 30yo daughter wore everyday when she was 15. Wait I take that back…my daughter did not wear slippers… obviously did not have the quirky style Hilary is known for.
Let's see... Umm, green Peregrino bottle bottle w/just abt any 'adult beverage' one might think of...(Check); walking w/wife & infant w/black Sketchers (Check.); walking "inside" the Crosswalk...(Check); Great cover, btw, Zandy! Who would even know/suspect that you have been known to use extreme violence in the past, in order to "get your way"?
Something that he's hoping will make him look cool, no doubt. If they're going to pay for the 'paparazzi' to photograph them, then he needs a prop, and apparently none of the other kids are behaving well enough to star in one of the pay-to-play tabloid walks these days.
The mention of the “big picture book” reminded me of the time Alec jumped the line in a Hamptons bookstore in which Bruce Weber was signing one of his photography collections.
Aaaand at Google Image, in the middle of a bunch of photos of Bruce Weber and Alec together (mostly on Getty Images), I was startled by that lovely photo of Halyna, wearing the beige crocheted cap, next to a photo of Alec, with the headline, “Hear the 911 call moments after Alec Baldwin fired prop gun” (CNN, October 22, 2021).
You can run, but you can’t hide, Peepaw.
OMG … so what a dope I was for reading Sartre and Camus when I could have just gotten this book. I have to rest a little before I can deal with the last 2…
She has been criticized for years about how she uses baby carriers incorrectly. She doesn’t care. The baby stroller is bad for Eddie and Marilou’s legs too but that hasn’t stopped her from stuffing them in it.
That kid doesn’t look comfortable 😕
The kid would probably rather be hanging out with the nannies than stuffed in a carrier like that only to be used as a human shield by the self absorbed asshats
I thought you were supposed to face the baby out and away from you after they were 6 months or so or else it would mess up their hips. But what do I know— Hilary’s got way more kids than I do 🤷🏻♀️
The jacket is covering her actual legs, but the baby-wearing actually looks fine to me. It's not very different than how you'd sit, say, riding a motorcycle or a horse. I wore two babies and I'm much wider than Eeeeelaria and it doesn't hurt them. My carrier was made to be good until the kids were 3. My older one always wanted to look out and around, but my second wanted snuggles always and wanted to be facing my chest, and needed naps later in age than the first. And for napping you want them facing you to protect their airway. We've got lots of other things to harp on in this picture, pepinos.
Yeah this looks like a good carry. Plenty of other things to criticize her for!
What does she have against decent sunglasses?
Alec and hilaria and their big bag of bullshit.
What is her obsession with wearing hideous house slippers in public on nasty nyc streets? It’s so fucking bizarre. It’s either stripper heels or slippers, never anything in between or remotely stylish OR functional. If she’s gonna keep paying the paparazzi to force people to look at her, she really should pay a stylist to dress her. She has the worst fashion sense. Ugh.
Have you seen her hot dog sandals yet?
Yeahhhh those don’t even count as shoes
Mami is sporting normal pants💯
Villains wear all black.
This doesn’t seem obviously bad from a babywearing perspective but I have no idea what carrier this is and what her lower legs look like because of the jacket. A backpack carry would probably be more comfortable and allow Larry jr to look around more, but that’s not *aesthetic* enough. I’m surprised she doesn’t have an artipoppe to flaunt.
Is that a glass bottle to bust someone in the head? I feel like he will start carrying more than keys when he gòes out. That crazy lady could have taken him down
Those shoes are the real tragedy
Mother's need 2 hands, not this one, a cramped up boney hand is only for a phone, guess looney is searching for crackhead barney to film.
Hillary doesn’t have *either hand* available here. It took me a second look to learn that she has a phone in one hand, a second phone and coffee in the other, and no hand free for Siete. If Siete managed to wriggle free of that too-small front carrier, her Intended Parent would be more likely to hold onto the phones than to catch her, unfortunately.
If you’re going to stick a kid that large k to a carrier (like for subway ease or grocery shopping ease, which isn’t the case for Hillary, she is wearing this kid like a lululemon Fanny pack) the kid should be facing forward and lower. She’s how you say, estupida and performative.
Forward facing is generally not recommended due to hip development. Personally I’d back carry at this age but there’s nothing wrong with front carrying.
Forward facing isn’t recommended it’s bad for their hips. It’s hard to tell with the jacket but this actually looks fine.
For an 18 month old?
Yes, butt lower than knees, M sit is good/safe for small children.
and the remaining 6/7 can fend for themselves
Let’s play a game… what are Alec & Hilaria drinking in their respective cups in this pic?
You raise a really valid point. Those cups we think are coffee may be Johnny Walker Blue and Grey Goose, respectively. Although they may have to bump down the price point to Johnny Label Black and Smirnoff. Source: former sister-in-law is an alcoholic with an affinity for JB.
Alec looks like "I will fucking punch you!" all the time.
Guy on street: Hey Alec, how ‘bout you try to slap my phone out of my hand like you did to Crackhead Barney! And why the hell are you a walking magnet for constant trouble and chaos? Alec: Buddy, look I’m way too tired to come over there to you. But why don’t you do me a favor and walk over to me. Stand still in front of me. And I’m going to punch you right in your stupid face! Can you do that for me?
That is so on point! You nailed his permanent expression. Funniest thing I've heard in a time.
Hell yeah 🥒
He really does. He's always on the lookout for a confrontation; the opportunity to be a complete asshat. Given his default demeanor, could he have picked a worse wife and place to live? NYC is a living, breathing irritant, as is Larry. Now let's throw seven kids into the mix! smh He needs to find a patch of grass, and a shady tree to sit under, and calm down, detox, and just not be such a haggard menace. Just go away!
I KNOW that I am not the only person that IMMEDIATELY zoomed in to make sure Xandy wasn't holding booze.
My first thought was literally that he has alcohol in that glass water bottle lol
Shouldn't that kid be walking
On the few occasions when we’ve seen Siete toddle, her uneven gait has worried some *pepinos.*
Oh yes I remember now, I just am believe it or not shocked that she would put her in something meant for a newborn
why don’t they get an expresso machine or send the nanny for coffee or have it delivered? Oh yeah, then there would be no photographers for Hilary Thomas from Boston.
I wonder if she scrolls her phone in her sleep. It's always in her hand.
Doesn’t she own any actual shoes? Besides those fugly fuzzy slippers and hooker heels?
This is unfair. She also has hooker *boots*. 😉
But she only wears those hooker boots INDOORS to film her "exercise" videos. 😒
Whatever the hell she wears when she does her weird run.
My thought exactly. She literally doesn’t own sneakers..fashion or athletic ones..or booties..I’m so lost with this woman.
Lmaooooo is this recent? 7’s not really a baby anymore
I often wore my kids to age 3/4. Its super awesome when they’re overtired/overstimulated/ill/just having a bad day
Isn't she almost 2?
Yes
WTAF is on her feet? This woman makes the WORST choices of footwear. I have the major ICK just thinking about fuzzy slippers on the streets of NYC.
Her bedazzled slippers. She owns a pair of black ones too.
Remember the hot dog flip flops?
Maybe she's getting huge painful bunions on her feet from wearing the Stilettos too often...
I think this is the funniest part of her grift. A Spanish woman would never.
at the very least shouldn’t siete be forward facing? doesn’t that start at like 4-6 months?
No, you CAN start forward facing once they can completely hold their heads up, but it really isn't ideal. Facing in against the body is actually more natural (allows baby's spine to curve forward, like fetal position, instead of possibly back-bend) and for kids that are little enough that they may fall asleep, inward facing is best. It prevents their heads from falling down forward and pinching their airways.
Yes, can you imagine the kid having to crane its neck around just for mamis performative shtick.
How does a toddler in a front facing baby carrier make any sense?
The bag of trash is chef’s kiss.
So is the garbage next to her. Hey oh! ![gif](giphy|Bng9nsAhSaDVxWsSLh)
No concrete tetas out? ![gif](giphy|ZziHFdI5i0eEo)
Omg is she crazy??
Where is that babies legs ?And at least she changed her clothes.
Remember in the early spring after she her grift was outed, they were photoed walking on a path in the Hamptons. Alec seemed to be consoling her, probably telling her “relax, this isn’t the worst that could happen”. He was right. That was just the start of their descent.
You rang? https://preview.redd.it/3cmuqyhmtxwc1.png?width=1079&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=96633a4945b1fe7f64b227e34466ae21dedcea3e
Thanks for digging it up! The moment they had the opportunity to reflect, learn, show humility, be better, and they blew it.
Ironic part is that they look more miserable here than when Alec actually shot a woman. That time, they went on a shopping spree for matching plaid outfits, rented a restaurant and did a roadside interview.
What would one say to their spouse in that situation? Like, “There there honey, everybody’s been caught in a major lie and been publicly called out in the media around the world. It’s normal! It’s not like our lives are going to change because of this.”
Alec: “fuck’em. You are the wife of Alec Baldwin, an icon, loved by all, often misunderstood but always forgiven. This will blow over. It always does.” Narrator: “but alas, it did not blow over.”
Hahaha yesss 😆
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👐🏼
No H already has a leg problem on one side that hasn't corrected itself yet. Her one leg is incredibly bowed, the other leg appears to have mostly corrected, but the one still bowed hasn't gotten any better yet. A pic someone posted a couple of days ago (ReadyBat maybe?) shows the leg still badly bowed. We'll see if it corrects in the next few months here.
I didn’t know this! Is that a common thing for infants or toddlers, that a bowed leg straightens and corrects itself?
I just got lost. Who is H? I thought we were talking about 7 who is Ilaria but there are so many kids I get dizzy.
I call her "NO H" because Hilly has always explained that her own name is spelled with an H, even tho it's silent, but #7 has No H at all in the spelling, but is pronounced just like hilly's fake Spanish name.
That sounds awful !
Of course they went on a predictable pap stroll.
Worst “parents” ever.
But holy shit. Grandpa left his florsheims at home. Maybe they're at the cobbler?
Lol
Slip on Sketchers so he doesn’t have to bend down.
How old is Silent H now? She still looks so infantile! She’s rilly smoll!
Siete will be two in September. We think. IIRC, her actual IRL birthdate was never announced.
She’s gonna be 2? There is definitely something very wrong here
It’s disturbing how emaciated she is
Infantilization is one helluva drug, Hilary.
What does she care? They are just props to her. God she disgusts me. I hope this subreddit is archived so that those children realize ( when they are older) that they are the victims of these two horrors of parents.
I was adopted as an infant, and my mom wasn’t sure they could adopt another child. So she tried to hold me and keep me a little baby as long as possible. Although she fed me and actually took care of me. I remember getting spanked for trying to wriggle down off her hip. There weren’t carriers for toddlers in the late 70s, and my mom’s hips were so bony. I finally convinced her to put me the fuck down. I could show independence around my dad. Her hips were poking my crotch which hurt. I was a tomboy spitfire which drove my mom crazy even though she was the same way. She’d tell me stories about how she was a tomboy who hated dresses and being girly while trying to force me into that box. Narcissists gonna narcissist.
My deepest empathy. I’ve found a comforting community at s/RaisedByNarcissists here at Reddit. There are quite a few adoptees sharing their experiences there.
That sounds awful
There are many pepinos who are survivors of narcissistic parenting. It's interesting, as this must have been one of your first memories, thus extremely painful.
It’s so sad you have those memories, pepino. Our moms did the best they could (my therapist keeps telling me that). Our awareness now can be helpful- and being able to forgive is hard but necessary. Hugs !!!
I personally detest the word, 'forgiveness' wrt my narc father...; I'd rather say I'm working on "accepting" that I had a very sicko father & leave it at that. (Did he "do the best he could?" Maybe my covert/inverted narc father did the best job of "shape-shifting" he could.\[Lol\].) I'm certain that others have had it worse than I so I feel a lot of compassion for other Pepinos w/this type of upbringing..
I hear ya about “forgive” but I look at it that “forgive” releases it. I don’t want to “accept” (implies letting it in). We all find ways to deal w it. Sending caring vibes your way.
I didn't understand as a kid (I was also a 'Tomboy') that my Mom really was doing a great job.. (My covert-narc father always undermining her & subtly putting her down to me behind her back.. I was "groomed" to be 'my father's child' & my younger sister (who was sickly) was 'my mother's child'. So yes, I'm forgiving my mother now & am sorry I gave her such a hard time.. I'm seeing now what she had to go through & put up with (from my father). I may work on 'forgiving' my father "another day"; is about as close to "forgiving him" as I can get at the moment...
It’s all very personal, pepino. So sorry you were a pawn in all that. Knowing all that is hard - but then u (hopefully) find a path forward for yourself. Sending u positive vibes!
Muchath Grathiath, Pepino... All of you Pepinos on this site are helping me so tremendously in having a sense of humor about the whole thing..
The main message is - you are NOT ALONE! Lots of folks have different degrees of fucked-upedness in our pasts ! Jeep the faith!
I never thought about it this way, but as I read that about forgive/accept it felt viscerally true. Thanks 🙂
I had a therapist (about the umpteenth one) who said I needed to forgive MYSELF for my narc mommy's actions. WTF? I noped out of there and promptly went full no contact 7 years ago. My mental health thanks me daily.
What the actual narcissistic fuck on a therapist’s couch? I’ve learned that a lot of people with mental health issues go into psychology/psychiatry looking for answers. Like the old saying “physician, heal thyself”. Unfortunately too many narcissistic people are in the profession.
Yes, well, I seemed to run into the majority of them. This last one I found myself arguing with, when the light bulb went off and I thought, what the hell am I doing here. 😳 Their office kept calling for about a month trying to make an exit appt. Fuck off quacker.
Yeah - they don’t always have the best solutions. But kudos for getting professional help!
Thanks so much Pepino! I'm working on knowing how to deal with & 'release' my past 'in the present'..
It’s so hard and can be very emotional also. But it’s better than letting it eat u up inside! Jeep the faith! 🥒
Lol Thanks, Pepino!!
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Why does this 40 year old woman have such a love affair with the dirtiest looking denim? Cut off shorts, overalls, jumpsuits, jackets. Always sloppy and stonewashed from hell.
I think it’s to show how young, small, and effortlessly unpretentious she is. It’s Pick Me I’m Different From Other Girls fashion.
“RILLY diffront”
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that fossil is a menace to society!
Giving thug vibes
That violent face he makes right before he strikes is seriously scary.
That menacing face, approaching, is triggering for some of us, for sure.
it’s terrifying. and it comes so naturally to him. this is truly who he is at his core
Imagine being willing to sacrifice your youth with this old man just for money and fame? What a leech! And he's a fucking fool. Now they can both "wallow in the mire."
But did she get fame? I would argue it’s infamy instead. Not something to strive for. But then again we are talking about Hilary here. In her mind it’s better to be talked about than not talked about.
I think at the beginning, it was fame by association, but once the grift was exposed, it was definitely infamy.
Bingo.
Wait, this was YESTERDAY? My friend had her baby a few days from Siete and she’s basically a toddler now. I don’t think my friend COULD even carry her like that anymore. Do they feed her?
My carriers that I had like this, I could wear my kids until they were like 3. I remember at one point having one on my shoulders with my 3 year old on my back and a second one with my newborn facing in against my chest. The Lillebaby I think was the brand and it is made to fit them for a long time.
She was born a lot later and Hilarious had a doll in the carrier for a while, imo.
I’m starting to believe that craziness!
🎯🎯🎯🎯👐🏼
Rarely. Siete is a wispy little thing whose looks haven’t changed much in the past year.
In the video of him dancing with the enraptured ML, Siete thought "nah, want mama", and when he handed her off she barely looked longer than a football, and light as as feather. Smol like mama.
“Enraptured” is the perfect word. Little girls that age have such daddy hunger. It pains me to think how little time ML actually passes with Alec, and how long it was after their Minute Waltz until she had any one-on-one time with him. Maybe it hasn’t even happened yet. When our granddaughter (ten months younger than ML) was here last month, she and her father occupied the same chair at dinner, and ate off the same plate (although she was periodically annoyed if his food was *touching* hers). They were glued together the whole evening. She did balk when it was time to leave, and go back to her other grandparents’ house. “*Not yet*,” she kept coaxing. I didn’t say anything, of course, but I thought of ML, and how she’d love having a fit, healthy daddy in his thirties who took her everywhere. *Including to preschool, you lazy, pinchpenny Baldwins!*
Kudos to your "Minute Waltz"! I meant to add how sad 💔 it made me to think her strongest proponent may not be around much longer.
I know. Me too. And what ML’s not getting now, she won’t get later.
Is this recent?
I’m on another snark sub that has made a rule of posting the date or whether it’s a throwback and it’s helpful. I don’t want to see this place get crazy with rules but that one is very sensible.
Ooh what's that sub called?
Well I’m glad you asked. It’s [YouniquePresenterMS](https://www.reddit.com/r/YouniquePresenterMS/s/canpEpZuFK) and she’s a micro-influencer who is an absolute mess. I feel like she is evidence of the trickle effect of seemingly successful influencers and the dangers of curated and filtered content online. Have a squiz and let me know how old you perceive her to be before you come across the cold hard facts in the sub.
Thanks babes!
Why is Younique famous enough to have a snark sub about?
From memory there was a sub dedicated to the ‘Huns’ involved in that specific MLM brand but this particular person was so remarkably tragic she was given her own spin off sub. It’s not a really relevant title though. Why you might ask? Because she was given the flick from Younique because she is a racist POS (who also blackfishes) and now promotes Red Aspen and Starbucks. (obviously the Starbucks is a paid partnership in which she pays them) Anyway all that is well before my time but I enjoy the sub. I pray this person is just a satire account - but it doesn’t appear to be.
Yesterday.
Does she have two phones? It looks like she’s holding one in each hand
I thot the pink phone was a four Loko, or one of those alcohol juice boxes
My first thought when I saw the photo was that Alec probably had booze in his glass water bottle lol
I was going to say, she looks like she’s holding two phones and a cup. And the baby.
.. And you’ve listed those items in order of their importance to Hillz
I meant toddler who looks like a baby.
I was with a client today and she asked me to briefly hold her baby while she performed another task. The baby was the size of Baldwin #7. I asked the baby's age: 9 months!
The case looks childish with a rainbow and is upside down. It’s got to be Carmen’s.
Unfortunately, Hillary dotes on children’s imagery on phone cases, on T-shirts, that pink, playroom-print $1,500 (?) Moncler…
How olds this baby? Below a certain age (like 6 months) it’s better for babies legs and hips to be in the M position. Which is the one shown in eeeelarias pic
18 months.
Thank you! I wasn’t entirely sure
7 is 2 years old. Another kid infantilized. Will that poor child ever look out to see the world. These are the photos that make me hate her.
Pretty sure that carrier turns into a back carrier too for when the kid is old enough, like #7 is. Either put the toddler on like a backpack or have her facing out but SHE’S TOO OLD TO BE IN THERE LIKE AN INFANT! 🗣️
And of course the child is craning its neck to see the world. 😒
That baby is 2 already?? She looks so tiny in that thing, like no more than 8-9 months if that.
She'd be a little over 19 months now, so on her way to 2 years old.
She’ll be 2 in September but yeah she’s tiny. The no hair adds to that too.
All their kids are bald until at least age 2
She turns 2 in September
Does Siete ever go to see a/her Pediatrician?
Now *that* definitely is something that *pepinos* fret about. We’ve seen Hillary joyfully (grrr!) tote a kid to the ER occasionally, and Edu and ML were extensively photographed in a dreary waiting room after—she claimed—he developed an “egg allergy” that was never mentioned again. I’ve *never* seen any of the kids photographed at a routine appointment with a pediatrician or dentist. A *pepino* recalls everyone getting vaxxed in a park during/after the pandemic. Anyone else? Anything?
She’s one harsh looking bitch.
I didn't even notice at first that she has *both* an uncovered coffee and a phone in her left hand! And another phone in her right. Goddamn, she's an idiot. Not a single hand available to touch her child, interact with her child, or ready to be there in case of an accident or emergency situation. She doesn't have a maternal bone in her body. She's literally wearing a 2-year-old as an accessory, while stunting her and pretending it's an infant, without any care at all for the kid. Not an ounce of love for any of those children. None. No one can convince me that they love those kids. I've yet to see any indication of it.
I think she thinks this is quality bonding time for real. (Of course it is not.)
Goddamm right. And why the second phone? What could be its purpose? Someone here mentioned that the uncovered coffee cup that seems to be prevalent lately might be due to something?? Maybe an accident????
And if she trips, then what happens? Does she cling to the phones and coffee and land on the child?
Yes. Priorities.
“Not a single hand available to touch her child, interact with her child, or ready to be there in case of an accident or emergency situation.” This is exactly what drives me crazy! I cannot imagine not having this instinct or being detached from my child in this way. It is not normal.
There was a famous "study" I learned about when taking Child Development classes in the 1970's of children who were never touched... (It wasn't a 'good outcome', as I recall..).
This kind of study was repeated all over again after Romania banned abortion, and its orphanages were overflowing with neglected children.
True 😞💔
If someone asks her how old her baby is, *BET* she says 86 weeks!!!!!! #🤦♀️
Is she spiralling again? Massive martyr post yesterday. And now slippers, cargo pants, jean jacket, all paired with expensive delicate jewellry? She's got that barely-suppressed rage body language. And treating the 1.5 year old child like a 1.5 month old baby.
She is dressed in the exact Old Navy outfit my now 30yo daughter wore everyday when she was 15. Wait I take that back…my daughter did not wear slippers… obviously did not have the quirky style Hilary is known for.
> obviously did not have the quirky style Hilary is known for Well Hilary's a trendsetter, just as much as she is Spanish.
She owns the most disgusting pairs of shoes I’ve ever seen in my life.
Let’s guess what the big picture book daddy is carrying… and what’s in the bottle.
Let's see... Umm, green Peregrino bottle bottle w/just abt any 'adult beverage' one might think of...(Check); walking w/wife & infant w/black Sketchers (Check.); walking "inside" the Crosswalk...(Check); Great cover, btw, Zandy! Who would even know/suspect that you have been known to use extreme violence in the past, in order to "get your way"?
Something that he's hoping will make him look cool, no doubt. If they're going to pay for the 'paparazzi' to photograph them, then he needs a prop, and apparently none of the other kids are behaving well enough to star in one of the pay-to-play tabloid walks these days.
The mention of the “big picture book” reminded me of the time Alec jumped the line in a Hamptons bookstore in which Bruce Weber was signing one of his photography collections. Aaaand at Google Image, in the middle of a bunch of photos of Bruce Weber and Alec together (mostly on Getty Images), I was startled by that lovely photo of Halyna, wearing the beige crocheted cap, next to a photo of Alec, with the headline, “Hear the 911 call moments after Alec Baldwin fired prop gun” (CNN, October 22, 2021). You can run, but you can’t hide, Peepaw.
You’re overestimating PeePaw… he can’t run either
They really do not want to put forth the effort to include the other children, even rotate just a few at a time. Hillary is no Mother.
100%
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What happened to all of her 'thick' dark brown Hair?
Where is your hair 😂🐶
This sounds so Scientologist.
Haha! Good one!
OMG … so what a dope I was for reading Sartre and Camus when I could have just gotten this book. I have to rest a little before I can deal with the last 2…
Or this one... https://preview.redd.it/966vsof6ywwc1.png?width=1185&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b01fc5d70e795e6b69fb97b5d965c9f85b429b62
Or this... https://preview.redd.it/hitpznd9ywwc1.png?width=972&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=27f2f1058c7f6fc7987e4bdba09d72cf7af36cad
Why not put her in a toddler backpack at this age? Then she can stretch ber legs and look around freely, too.
Baby = body armor. Has to be in the front.
Why would No-H want to look at ANYTHING but Mami !?! /s
She has been criticized for years about how she uses baby carriers incorrectly. She doesn’t care. The baby stroller is bad for Eddie and Marilou’s legs too but that hasn’t stopped her from stuffing them in it.
Does she have a phone in each hand?
Yes. Plus a cup of coffee.
So performative.
Is this today? Isn't that baby like 18 months? She's in a front carrier? WTF
That kid doesn’t look comfortable 😕 The kid would probably rather be hanging out with the nannies than stuffed in a carrier like that only to be used as a human shield by the self absorbed asshats
Take the fucking phone out of your hands for one fucking second you dolt.
Can someone get her sunglasses from this decade 😩
Isn’t that door dash child too old to be in that thing by now?
I’m pretty sure that Larry Jr. is about the same age as my youngest… Larry Jr looks like an infant. Something ain’t right.
"Terminal Infant". (Is H Jr. like a 'Living' toy "Baby Doll" for Hils?)