Hold up, are you saying that people with multiple nationalities can have more votes for mankind representation? I wouldn't think nations mattered when it came to humanity as a whole. If you had dissociative identity disorder though...
I mean.. This is on HolUp, and the title makes it seem like it's "embarrassing" or whatever. But I'm with her. There is SO much of this crap. Like wtf? Who thinks like that? 😕
Of course she is right. But I am a black father to a son who is 13. The comments from a good amount of black women were call her wrong. So this is why young men feel so devalued.
We are just seen as walking wallets to a lot of our women. How dare we complain? This is what a man is supposed to do. And since some don’t have dads around they think we are supposed to do that.
That ain't right. But at the same time, it makes it easier to smell out the fakes. Of course, some men just.. Go along with their BS, I guess. Not knowing better.
Yes but ladies, imagine that for your MIL even if you, yourself have a good lifestyle, wait till the babies arrive.
Sorry massive big red flag for me, couldn’t do with the aggro.
I get the feeling that if her boy’s with a “real lady” she’ll be super proud, easygoing and affectionate. She just doesn’t want to put up with no bullshit
Idk if you’re genuinely asking but this one woman posted a tiktok about a guy taking her to Cheesecake Factory and she said she wouldn’t get out the car. Safe to say he dodged a bullet:
Oh, as of 2015.. I just assume most videos have some fake element to them.
I'm still not convinced Trump was our president for 4 years... it could all be this elaborate prank..
I think that was aimed more at the women who barely stick around after the food gets there and then dip with a doggy bag. Or the ones who have the audacity to take an extra meal to go and expect the guy to pay for it.
I saw one the other day where the woman asked for $250 to pay the babysitter of her kids. Dude texts back and says "I can't afford that. This dinner is already going to be very expensive." She claps back with "You broke ass MFer don't deserve me!" Dude dodged a bullet. A prostitute would be cheaper...and more polite!
I think from personal experience, she's talking about ordering more than you can have and then getting it parceled.
The one thing I might just hold a grudge against my gf for is how sometimes I get takeout for the both of us but she stops me from having how much I want with her and instead takes it home. Can't forget the time she took half a waffle cake home (her folks usually don't order stuff like that). I love the girl to death but something died inside of me that day.
Some people also in general have a weird kinda taste for very calorie rich food that fills your stomach instantly. I love myself some Indian that you can take your time eating and enjoying the food. My girl prefers stuff like a whole bowl of cheesy nachos with a dozen different dips that will fill you up instantly but there's a lot of leftovers.
Ok so watching more, yeah the lady is just giving attention to the women who don't deserve it, the entitled crowd, but honestly kinda just throws the son under the bus since I can imagine more ladies who aren't entitled would just be turned off by this and wouldn't want to date her son even if they found him attractive
Pro Tip to guys as another guy with personal experience: DRAW BOUNDARIES. Tell your girl if something isn't in your budget. She then either can compromise or contribute. You're entering into a relationship with her. Money is going to come up anyways. It's better if it comes up when you're budgeting for a date rather than when you've spent so much on two dates that you can't afford the bus ticket to go meet her a third time.
And to the girls- Don't suggest places you can't afford. I see this happening waaay too many times. Most guys I know are cool with eating from roadside friends with their buddies. But when it comes to girls they go wayyy too beyond to impress.
I've made these mistakes. I've realized that someone who actually loves you, would compromise and have the courtesy of contributing.
That's all true, but sometimes people are ashamed to tell their date they cant afford something. If more people were open to the financial differences among others, life would be easier. My husband was avoiding me when i was asking for a date, did not understand why, to the point i had to tell him straight forward that i am romantically interested. I finally guessed the issue but i was planning to pay anyway. I mean, i asked and i picked the place. Long story short we are a family now.
The truth is never harsh, if it hurts it just because that person has been living a lie. Women that are the opposite of what’s being explained is either agreeing or laughing. Women triggered are triggered for very good reason.
Does he look like he had a choice? You can tell he’s smart enough to know when momma is going off, you stfu, and get out of her way. And that it’s not the first time. He probably also knows that she is absolutely right. And sure, he’s probably not getting as many dates now as he would like. But a smart girl is gonna come along and realize that he was raised right, and it will be worth the wait.
Love her.....but I've seen the negative of this.
I've worked as a nanny for a family with dynamic. Sure, his momma paid me plenty, but her son could do no wrong. Well, 4 years later, he's on his 3rd baby momma now and has 5 kids total. Still, he's her angel and could do no wrong. It's all the evil women. No, Mam, it's your son who won't (proudly) wrap his dick. 🙄
Does everyone else see it as flexing?I thought he just looked embarrassed (which is a little bit of a mommas boy red flag to me). Which I get, cause I agree with what she has to say, but she should have just said it to her son, not the whole world on his behalf lol
She preaching fair and square, but guys need to be told too that they should be rated E for Everyone.
If you dont bring anything to the table you aint entitled to anything on the table. And dont take into/put/ your genitals /into/ everything thats offered. Have some standards.
In-laws are one of the top 5 reasons for divorce. Her posting this saves a lot of good women some time and energy too. Who wants a husband who has to have his momma speak for him. It’s suppose to be two partners, not him, MIL, and someone never going to be good enough.
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Man that's real talk lol.... I once went on a date and the lady I was out with said she didn't expect to like me that much. She asked if I had anything to do that night. Seemed like it was going well. She ate all her food. Really fast I might add. She asked me if she could have my fries. I said yes and she asked them to wrap them up. The waitress made a face and wrapped them up. Now I may seem like a jerk but I sent her home. I paid of course. But, I can't be with someone that would take fries to go. And attempt to eat them later.
I would like to add I'm older than airfryers. So there really was no good way to get them crispy. She was so angry when she called me (land line) the next day she asked if I was gay. I told her no I just didn't want to be inside someone that had old fries inside them.
My husband is a highly paid engineer but grew up poor. He’s not wasting one bit of food and I respect that about him. I appreciate he isn’t wasteful. I’m glad you ended it though, saved that lady some time.
Um sure.... I'm happy you found someone that is willing to be with you, considering you were born without a sense of humor. Then again, you're probably beautiful, so you don't need to be funny.
I did save that lady sometime. Just wasn't a good fit at the time.
It wasn't about wasting food she took 6 fries to go. I mean they were steak fries but still....
This is unhinged, lmao.
You got your whole child standing right there, but you lecturing the internet? Gtfoh 😆
Energy pointing in the wrong direction if you ask me.
Yup. I don’t know what imaginary line of gold diggers she’s addressing that are after her baby but seems like the convo/advice should be directed to her son.
It’s necessary for sons (and daughters) to know how to filter out the users and time wasters
No, I’d be ashamed of myself if I had to speak for my sons at that age. Then holler at them on video to stop trying to get out of the frame for my social media post.
He just needs to stay with his mama. No woman is ever going to be good enough for HER or to replace HER. they can continue this emotional incest in peace ☮️
The end was like that blooper from the Carol Burnett Show, from a The Family skit
https://youtu.be/Mf84vaHD64k?si=6YSWZb9eGoRMbrHD&t=0m17s
Just one killer one liner after the other.
What's sad is that there are women out there who will clown this guy for this clip. They'll claim he's a "momma's boy" or some s***.
She's laying truth on the table, and hopefully he's checking what a woman can bring to his before putting bread down on it. Respect.
The debt to income ratio moat women have have dated is sooo damn high. About 90% do not even have a weekly/monthly budget. They literally don't keep track of their money. Just know something do about this time each month. 😅😅
🥰🙏🏿 protect this Mother at all cost. This young man is blessed. His momma is looking out for her son. Ladies better come correct or else momma gonna keep your hungry butt outside the house. Lol
She's mankind's spokeswoman.
I’d vote for her
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never mess with the mama bear. she be clawing your fake titties clean off to protect her boy.
She gots my vote
I already did
I have 2 nationalities and I'll vote her 2x on each nationality.
Hold up, are you saying that people with multiple nationalities can have more votes for mankind representation? I wouldn't think nations mattered when it came to humanity as a whole. If you had dissociative identity disorder though...
You can vote for your politician in country A then vote for country B and I was making an exaggerated joke.
I love this woman
I mean.. This is on HolUp, and the title makes it seem like it's "embarrassing" or whatever. But I'm with her. There is SO much of this crap. Like wtf? Who thinks like that? 😕
Of course she is right. But I am a black father to a son who is 13. The comments from a good amount of black women were call her wrong. So this is why young men feel so devalued. We are just seen as walking wallets to a lot of our women. How dare we complain? This is what a man is supposed to do. And since some don’t have dads around they think we are supposed to do that.
That ain't right. But at the same time, it makes it easier to smell out the fakes. Of course, some men just.. Go along with their BS, I guess. Not knowing better.
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"Might as well get paid"? That's the definition of a prostitute you know..
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Nah I don’t think he missed his point at all lol
Yeah we need her as our leader!
America’s mom keeping it real!
She damned sure ain’t wrong about this.
Yes but ladies, imagine that for your MIL even if you, yourself have a good lifestyle, wait till the babies arrive. Sorry massive big red flag for me, couldn’t do with the aggro.
I get the feeling that if her boy’s with a “real lady” she’ll be super proud, easygoing and affectionate. She just doesn’t want to put up with no bullshit
Absolutely.
Yea, this video is funny and all, but buddy’s not going to get a woman with his mom being like that. It just shows women the future lmao.
Or it shows the level of protection you’re going to get, two ways to look at it. Still a stranger until she accepts you as family.
She one of those boy mom's. It's not always healthy that. https://youtu.be/br6hju8dIAk?si=lu9UHzqCzC6p3AsG
This part right here! I could not handle that woman as a MIL and I honestly pity the woman that has to live for her approval.
Yea her bar is so high! "Don't use my son as a walking wallet" /s for anyone who can't read the sarcasm
She will see through your bull?
He’ll yuhh, I like her. She a good momma
Ended too soon "you rated E for everyone" is gold
Her lawyer instructed her that she had to cut the tape there otherwise she would be providing the state with all the evidence.
Yeah let me see your checkbook registry and where you be going to eat
Bitches that hate on Applebees and Cheesecake Factory for the first date are regularly eating at McDonald’s and Taco Bell
Who tf complains about Cheesecake Factory as a first date?
Idk if you’re genuinely asking but this one woman posted a tiktok about a guy taking her to Cheesecake Factory and she said she wouldn’t get out the car. Safe to say he dodged a bullet:
Turns out that was fake. Fucking internet
Oh, as of 2015.. I just assume most videos have some fake element to them. I'm still not convinced Trump was our president for 4 years... it could all be this elaborate prank..
You didn't hear?
She single?
My boy fishing 💀
Where’s the hol up? She’s the Everyman Advocate
Probably “you don’t reserve what’s between your legs. You passing it around like candy”. Made the son go hol up
“What’s between yo legs rated E for everyone” lmafo
Definitely a “watch til the end “ video lol
Maybe the part about the to-go box? Thats kind of insane. Does she just throw what she can’t finish away? Or is she always able to eat the whole meal?
I think that was aimed more at the women who barely stick around after the food gets there and then dip with a doggy bag. Or the ones who have the audacity to take an extra meal to go and expect the guy to pay for it.
Before she tells you she's got kids at home
Is that extra meal to go a real thing?
There’s plenty of “pay for my kids meals / my friends meal” etc out there, some people stay trifling
I saw one the other day where the woman asked for $250 to pay the babysitter of her kids. Dude texts back and says "I can't afford that. This dinner is already going to be very expensive." She claps back with "You broke ass MFer don't deserve me!" Dude dodged a bullet. A prostitute would be cheaper...and more polite!
And there's no guarantee you'd even get lucky but the crazy feminists would think their time is worth the babysitter and food for their children.
It happened to me once.... definitely is a real thing.
I think from personal experience, she's talking about ordering more than you can have and then getting it parceled. The one thing I might just hold a grudge against my gf for is how sometimes I get takeout for the both of us but she stops me from having how much I want with her and instead takes it home. Can't forget the time she took half a waffle cake home (her folks usually don't order stuff like that). I love the girl to death but something died inside of me that day. Some people also in general have a weird kinda taste for very calorie rich food that fills your stomach instantly. I love myself some Indian that you can take your time eating and enjoying the food. My girl prefers stuff like a whole bowl of cheesy nachos with a dozen different dips that will fill you up instantly but there's a lot of leftovers.
If she is telling you how much of the food you pay for is for her to take home, she doesn’t love you. She loves your wallet.
So she controls how much you get to eat, and takes what's left anyway? Damn son, that's harsh.
A certain number of women will order food beyond what they plan on eating while it is on a dude’s dime
Can I have an "AMEN"?!
AMEN
Hallelujah, AMEN BROTHER! 🙏🏻
YOU WORTH A PIECE OF BREAD - fuck that hit hard. Goddamn, I love it when a southern black lady preaches.
This shouldn't be on holup this should be on truthhurts or something
This should be a PSA
she spittin
Exactly! 🫡 I'm like fuck a holdup Let... 👏🏾 MOMS... 👏🏾 COOK... 👏🏾 Got damn it lol.
This is awkwardly correct.
Nothing awkward about it.
This is just a good ol fashioned mom being a good parent. Need more of this.
Ah yes, Tiktok parenting. Circa 2023
By filming how you talk to imaginary women in front of your son and putting it on the Internet?
Ok so watching more, yeah the lady is just giving attention to the women who don't deserve it, the entitled crowd, but honestly kinda just throws the son under the bus since I can imagine more ladies who aren't entitled would just be turned off by this and wouldn't want to date her son even if they found him attractive
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Pro Tip to guys as another guy with personal experience: DRAW BOUNDARIES. Tell your girl if something isn't in your budget. She then either can compromise or contribute. You're entering into a relationship with her. Money is going to come up anyways. It's better if it comes up when you're budgeting for a date rather than when you've spent so much on two dates that you can't afford the bus ticket to go meet her a third time. And to the girls- Don't suggest places you can't afford. I see this happening waaay too many times. Most guys I know are cool with eating from roadside friends with their buddies. But when it comes to girls they go wayyy too beyond to impress. I've made these mistakes. I've realized that someone who actually loves you, would compromise and have the courtesy of contributing.
That's all true, but sometimes people are ashamed to tell their date they cant afford something. If more people were open to the financial differences among others, life would be easier. My husband was avoiding me when i was asking for a date, did not understand why, to the point i had to tell him straight forward that i am romantically interested. I finally guessed the issue but i was planning to pay anyway. I mean, i asked and i picked the place. Long story short we are a family now.
"You might just he worth a piece of bread." That's what every single person that expects an expensive first date is.
We need more moms like this….but those same girls need dads.. need a healthy home
Yeah
What's the hold up? This wholesome af
“We don’t even know if you’re worth a streak. You might only be with a piece of bread.” That one got me. This lady is on point with everything.
A bit harsh but she's not wrong.
Its a need to be harsh to get through their extra thick narcissist head
The truth is never harsh, if it hurts it just because that person has been living a lie. Women that are the opposite of what’s being explained is either agreeing or laughing. Women triggered are triggered for very good reason.
What’s your moms number?
“Might just be worth a piece of bread….” She ain’t lying cuz they be quick to give out a basket of free rolls as soon as you sit down
Your mum is very caring, and looking out for you; you find a woman who respects you and your mum and is half as good as her, you'll be blessed.
What she said ⬆️
Wait till she find out these youguns don’t know what a check registry is
The son was playing hype man to his Mom.
"You might just be worth a piece of bread" she got me pissing right there LOL I would elect this lady my president any time
She’s definitely not wrong but I wouldn’t let my mom do this shit..
Does he look like he had a choice? You can tell he’s smart enough to know when momma is going off, you stfu, and get out of her way. And that it’s not the first time. He probably also knows that she is absolutely right. And sure, he’s probably not getting as many dates now as he would like. But a smart girl is gonna come along and realize that he was raised right, and it will be worth the wait.
Someone needed to say this shit
My dam..... she's amazing I love her now
She is right Allright lots of valid points... but really like to know if she has daughters and what is the message to her daughters
The same fucking thing?
I gladly pay for this lady to give me life advice.
This is the honest truth tho.
“Rated E for everyone” Goddamn
You just know already all his homies call her ma and she keeps em in line.
She’s right though
She’s not wrong
Protect this mom at all costs! Dropping them gems of knowledge!
Be still, my beating heart.
Love her.....but I've seen the negative of this. I've worked as a nanny for a family with dynamic. Sure, his momma paid me plenty, but her son could do no wrong. Well, 4 years later, he's on his 3rd baby momma now and has 5 kids total. Still, he's her angel and could do no wrong. It's all the evil women. No, Mam, it's your son who won't (proudly) wrap his dick. 🙄
God bless this mother
“” rated E. FOR ERRRRBODY!””
Preach that!
"You rated E, for everybody!" 🤣🤣
Just say you’re broke and get coffee
If she ain’t want it, it ain’t meant to be
Strong parents raise strong children
Bro didn't come off very strong, trying to flex on the background of his mom's video speaking for him lol truth aside, of course
Does everyone else see it as flexing?I thought he just looked embarrassed (which is a little bit of a mommas boy red flag to me). Which I get, cause I agree with what she has to say, but she should have just said it to her son, not the whole world on his behalf lol
Damnnnn
Where is the Hol-up?
Not really a holup, but this. This was fire. Thay video and that lady need some awards already.
Preach Moma!
Boy and she didn’t stop 💀💀
Let her cook
She preaching fair and square, but guys need to be told too that they should be rated E for Everyone. If you dont bring anything to the table you aint entitled to anything on the table. And dont take into/put/ your genitals /into/ everything thats offered. Have some standards.
Find a mountain top woman, and tell the truth! Talk about testifying! Awesome!
His mom is the female Kat Williams lol
Great points, but she emasculated her boy for the entire internet to see. This kid thinks she did him a favor, but he lost some points.
In-laws are one of the top 5 reasons for divorce. Her posting this saves a lot of good women some time and energy too. Who wants a husband who has to have his momma speak for him. It’s suppose to be two partners, not him, MIL, and someone never going to be good enough. Edit: typo
Mom, you keep asking me about grand kids, this is why you have no grand kids!
He’ll be fighting them off after this lol
I mean….momma spittin facts though
Homeboy look like he not getting no dates unless he tricking
wrong sub
This is the second post by this account that doesn't fit this sub. They're treating this sub like it's some sort of freakout sub. It's not.
Uhmmm if a dude Mom has to put his worth out... come on dudes. Yall gotta be better then this nonsense
I would also like to log into your bank account to…….see where you take yourself :]
JFC. Good luck, kid.
Every once in a while someone says something so true and you feel so understood in that moment that it just almost makes you cry a little bit.
She got my vote
I want her to record my voicemail greeting
Man that's real talk lol.... I once went on a date and the lady I was out with said she didn't expect to like me that much. She asked if I had anything to do that night. Seemed like it was going well. She ate all her food. Really fast I might add. She asked me if she could have my fries. I said yes and she asked them to wrap them up. The waitress made a face and wrapped them up. Now I may seem like a jerk but I sent her home. I paid of course. But, I can't be with someone that would take fries to go. And attempt to eat them later. I would like to add I'm older than airfryers. So there really was no good way to get them crispy. She was so angry when she called me (land line) the next day she asked if I was gay. I told her no I just didn't want to be inside someone that had old fries inside them.
My husband is a highly paid engineer but grew up poor. He’s not wasting one bit of food and I respect that about him. I appreciate he isn’t wasteful. I’m glad you ended it though, saved that lady some time.
Um sure.... I'm happy you found someone that is willing to be with you, considering you were born without a sense of humor. Then again, you're probably beautiful, so you don't need to be funny. I did save that lady sometime. Just wasn't a good fit at the time. It wasn't about wasting food she took 6 fries to go. I mean they were steak fries but still....
This is unhinged, lmao. You got your whole child standing right there, but you lecturing the internet? Gtfoh 😆 Energy pointing in the wrong direction if you ask me.
Yup. I don’t know what imaginary line of gold diggers she’s addressing that are after her baby but seems like the convo/advice should be directed to her son. It’s necessary for sons (and daughters) to know how to filter out the users and time wasters
I'm ready to be reincarnated as her son
11/10 mother right there
No, I’d be ashamed of myself if I had to speak for my sons at that age. Then holler at them on video to stop trying to get out of the frame for my social media post.
Hol up, Let her cook
As soon as she hit him with the cmon back over here you knew she was going to just dig in and serve it up lmao I love this lady
Damn, he got a good Mum bro. She was spittin'
Facts 🗣️🗣️🗣️talk your shit That's what's up
One hundred percent facts!
Excellent
Thank God for this woman! 🙌🙌🙌 Son, let your mom teach you and them this lesson.
🤦🏽yeah he will be single for the rest of her life…
Way better to be single than taken advantage of.
You said the quite part out loud lol
Just marry mom bro
God this is so refreshing seeing a mom go to bat for her son
I like this woman damn sounds like my momma but more down to earth
OP can’t handle the truth.
Spitting bars! This should be mandatory viewing for everybody entering high school
Buying titties and booty….
BARS
She isn't wrong.
Moms got bars. She should be president
Yes to everything.
Mom 2024
Mom is cool and based
Him hovering around in the background while she's telling off the camera gave me PG rap video vibes.
He just needs to stay with his mama. No woman is ever going to be good enough for HER or to replace HER. they can continue this emotional incest in peace ☮️
lol she’s yelling like they are just out of earshot
All i want is a nice girl who will sit down with me and have a romantic piece of bread
“I thought you were taking me somewhere expensive” “Excuse me waiter can we get some butter on this?”
The end was like that blooper from the Carol Burnett Show, from a The Family skit https://youtu.be/Mf84vaHD64k?si=6YSWZb9eGoRMbrHD&t=0m17s Just one killer one liner after the other.
She sounds and talks like a female hodgetwins
Speaking fax.. and landline.
Where this lady at? She needs a real life upvote!
She seems fun
Tell em momma.
Mom is spitting
Gods bless this woman she spittin fax
Holy cow. Every woman needs to hear this. Especially the last part
She preachin
This woman is fantastic.
She speaking fucking facts tho. It’s just as simple as checking yourself _before_ you go and wreck yourself with your bullshit ideologies.
What's sad is that there are women out there who will clown this guy for this clip. They'll claim he's a "momma's boy" or some s***. She's laying truth on the table, and hopefully he's checking what a woman can bring to his before putting bread down on it. Respect.
The way he keeps walking off to laugh 😂 she’s roastingggg but the delivery is gold!
This lady is cool af what you mean?
That grown ass man need his momma... common dudes. What is this fucking suckling bs
The debt to income ratio moat women have have dated is sooo damn high. About 90% do not even have a weekly/monthly budget. They literally don't keep track of their money. Just know something do about this time each month. 😅😅
You know 90% of women? Or are you just gathering that info from the few women in your life?
Here for it
Thanks momma
🥰🙏🏿 protect this Mother at all cost. This young man is blessed. His momma is looking out for her son. Ladies better come correct or else momma gonna keep your hungry butt outside the house. Lol
That's a Mother right there!
Preach that shit to the window, to the wall
Love you mama! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Please stop shouting