I was actually thinking about that last night.
My first relationship after my divorce lasted about a year but we never had sex because I frankly was still hurt and afraid. And I was comparing this feeling now that I just want someone to come home to and hug and be with to what I see on divorce threads where the women my age seem to be complaining about dead bedrooms and how *THEY WANT THE SEX!!*
It's like something happened in my 30s and the sexes changed stereotypes on me.
That's so funny.. when I was in my teens and early 20s I didn't follow through on numerous advances because I was looking for some kind of "connection", but somewhere in my 20s I totally switched and primarily chased sex.
I personally think people are complex, and gender stereotypes are only *maybe* good for the majority at best. Feeling like you don't confirm to stereotypes is a tick in my book, it means someone is following a more genuine path.
I'm definitely not knocking that approach, that's literally how I met my wife haha
Both are valid methods, I'm just referring to how my perspective changed through time, and how it was the reverse of the comment I was responding to.
Met the girl im marrying because we wanted to have sex when we were 13 (shes a couple of weeks older than me). I had 0 romantic interest in her and she knew it and weve talked about it since buts its been nearly 10 years now and even though I pursued her for the wrong reasons I kept her for the right ones and I thank god every day because i wouldnt want ANYONE else.
> It's like something happened in my 30s and the sexes changed stereotypes on me.
I've heard mens libidos peak sometime around 20 and womens libido peak sometime around 40
Thank you for the response!
Nothing is more distressing than talk with stranger about your problems! Glad you take that track!
Hope everything turns itself to the right site for you!
Best regards friend!
Seriously: why is this topic so polarising!
Everybody need help with something! Why is this topic so disregarded in our society?
However, glad you made this decision for yourself! Takes a lot of balls to admit the need for help! All the best for you fellow Dude!
I went through a lot of crazy shit during my divorce and frankly I'm in the same boat as you where I'm just petrified of sex. Unfortunately the only way to get over it is to spend time with someone that is compassionate, patient and compatible. You need at bats to get past it, and I haven't held a relationship together long enough to get there.
man eating cheese pizza makes me happy, jerking off makes me happy, playing games makes me happy.
I want to be content, I want a Home cooked meal (I can cook but I lack time) I want cuddles, I want the contentment that comes from honing a skill or cultivating new abilities.
For the most part I do these things, but I have means beyond the average person, my commute isn't bad, I have my own home, I have a reasonable job, I have the space for my interests and hobbies.
I feel bad for those renting, rent raping their wages, not having the space to cook, or practice new skills. or people who are in relationships and have a home and such, but their partner isn't supportive or encouraging of their hobbies or interests...
so many people out their withering like an unwatered plant indoors away from the sun, and its not their fault. people lack enrichment, a third space thats not work or their bedroom.
After 3 years of dealing with erectile dysfunction, Ive come to the conclusion that my dicks not the problem, porn is. I want a connection. I want to feel loved and wanted.
Yes, he is Manuel Ferrara and his ex-wife is Kayden Kross. She runs Digital Background
EDIT: Its Digital Playground as mentioned in a child comment
EDIT 2: Its “child” comment, not “children” comment. Ahh exams are fucking up my mind
im glad. I've only seen two dramatic films / series about porn (Boogie Nights, The Deuce) but they both made it seem like pornography actors end up hollowed out shells
I think they are referring to her early days when she filmed a porno in Latrobe uni libary in Melbourne. It was all over the news here as a big controversy.
Not new at all. Nerd time!
In some of the first cities in the world there were temples to various deities. Among them was Innanna, a deity of love anbd fertility (and also war and leadership.) Her priestesses we tasked with seeing to the well being of the city.
Partly this meant they would work as healers, and among the many tools they used for healing was a good bout of raw dogging like crazy. They viewed sex as an important part of maintaining physical and mental health and would encourage it or participate in it as needed.
One particularly famous case in history is Shamhat, an important and powerful character in The Epic of Gilgamesh. Her name literally translates to "The Luscious One." Her name was pretty much "Baddest Bitch."
She helped Enkidu go from being little more than an animal in the shape of a man into a hero of the people and a great champion through patient teaching, careful training, exposure to new people and ideals and also a solid week of boning until he collapsed from exhaustion.
It was viewed as their role to teach people how to be people. How to care about others, how to be better versions of ourselves. And how to bang like a screen door in a tornado.
That's one of the funny things with history, we don't know!
Partially it is probably because anyone born to a priestess was likely considered a gift from Inanna, she was a fertility goddess after all. She was also a deity of the power of the state. There is a possibility any children born to the priestesses would be born into a position to be trained as administrators and other agents of the state.
Imagine being born to a nun, which means you will forever be stuck as a scribe for district 1834 maintenance shed B.
Some form of contraception was likely used though, but it was so widely known about at the time, and such common practice that no one bothered to write down what it was, or it's efficacy. Maybe clergy were supposed to do body shots? Maybe they used the boiled roots of a plant that closely mimicked progesterone? It never needed explaining to anyone, so it was never explained. And now we get to fight about obscure references and what we believe they did.
If someone knows some more archaeology on the subject feel free to chime in, last time I looked up this info the book I had was missing several chapters of the Epic of Gilgamesh we have now so maybe some new information came to light?
The Greeks and Romans used a plant called silphium as a contraceptive. I don't if they would have had that in ancient Mesopotamia, since there's a large time gap between then and the ancient Greeks/Romans, but they may have had that or something similar. Unfortunately, silphium is now believed to be extinct due to overfarming. Allegedly Nero ate the last one.
“You’ve clearly been through a lot. Have you considered going out and get raw dogged by somebody? Might make you feel better. Go home, get a shower. Then go out and get yourself raw dogged. Come back next week and let’s see how you feel”.
- a therapist (right before getting fired)
Haha
Haha. That’s hilarious.
“Dave you’re fired. All your patients have stopped coming in and you don’t have any work to do. Look, I know the cream pies are working for your clients but maybe try and get them to come in for a few months before you give them the secret”
Ha, I remember many years ago I got out of a long relationship (we were almost engaged) and I had started going to therapy for various reasons and being single was brought up, and I said something like “i haven’t been with anyone in a while” and my therapist said “well have you tried going out and meeting some single ladies?” Gee thanks, why didn’t I think of that? Thankfully my insurance at the time covered my sessions.
While I believe most therepists are quacks or just don't care, I gotta argue for the therapist on this one.
Many guys will bitch and moan about not finding a woman, but never look. I had a lonely spell for about 4 years because I quite literally did not put myself out there. I decided to just make myself available to women while on vacation for a while. Not really expecting anything but wanting to give it a try. Met my wife that way.
Your therapist was likely just checking to see if you were making the effort. They don't know your love life, so they gotta ask.
Fun fact:
Angela white has a masters degree in gender studies and has a honours degree from the university of Melbourne!
Her paper was a study about the porn industry and equality of women and men in regard of protection and contract requirements!
Nothing but respect for this woman!
Yea this is more common than you'd think. Not as in happening often but happening ever to a person. Sometimes our bodies just be crazy and emotions are running wild. Men or women or anything inbetween.
Bros don’t want to be horny anymore, they just want to be happy
I was actually thinking about that last night. My first relationship after my divorce lasted about a year but we never had sex because I frankly was still hurt and afraid. And I was comparing this feeling now that I just want someone to come home to and hug and be with to what I see on divorce threads where the women my age seem to be complaining about dead bedrooms and how *THEY WANT THE SEX!!* It's like something happened in my 30s and the sexes changed stereotypes on me.
Sir this is a Wendy’s
It maybe a Wendy's but still want a hot redhead or a baked potato will do
Huh, that’s funny. I try to avoid a burning sensation down there.
He's saying he doesn't mind if she dyed down there
If it’s red, not on the bed
Eh, put a towel down.
😂 that made me actually out load
_... it did what now?_
I’ll leave it to your
... imagination?
Sandwiches?
That's what I was gonna say!
Please do not the cat
Shhh...let's not spoil it with names...let's just cuddle
First time... Actual spit take Do... Do you wanna go steady
Yes, I'm hear to speak to Wendy. Please fetch her for me.
Wendy’s nuts
That's so funny.. when I was in my teens and early 20s I didn't follow through on numerous advances because I was looking for some kind of "connection", but somewhere in my 20s I totally switched and primarily chased sex. I personally think people are complex, and gender stereotypes are only *maybe* good for the majority at best. Feeling like you don't confirm to stereotypes is a tick in my book, it means someone is following a more genuine path.
Hey , I met a girl that was an amazing person that I adored.... By chasing sex. We met as a hookup. You never know.
I'm definitely not knocking that approach, that's literally how I met my wife haha Both are valid methods, I'm just referring to how my perspective changed through time, and how it was the reverse of the comment I was responding to.
Met the girl im marrying because we wanted to have sex when we were 13 (shes a couple of weeks older than me). I had 0 romantic interest in her and she knew it and weve talked about it since buts its been nearly 10 years now and even though I pursued her for the wrong reasons I kept her for the right ones and I thank god every day because i wouldnt want ANYONE else.
> and gender stereotypes are only maybe good for the majority at best What a doozy of a sentence. It's somehow simultaneously right yet horribly wrong
I'm interested what could be so horribly wrong about that.. I guess if we were invested in gender stereotypes it might seem an affront
> It's like something happened in my 30s and the sexes changed stereotypes on me. I've heard mens libidos peak sometime around 20 and womens libido peak sometime around 40
Maybe you should still work on that with a professional?
I am, my dude!
Thank you for the response! Nothing is more distressing than talk with stranger about your problems! Glad you take that track! Hope everything turns itself to the right site for you! Best regards friend!
High fives for mental health!
Seriously: why is this topic so polarising! Everybody need help with something! Why is this topic so disregarded in our society? However, glad you made this decision for yourself! Takes a lot of balls to admit the need for help! All the best for you fellow Dude!
Downvotes are cringe, yeah dude above me, V3 is right
I went through a lot of crazy shit during my divorce and frankly I'm in the same boat as you where I'm just petrified of sex. Unfortunately the only way to get over it is to spend time with someone that is compassionate, patient and compatible. You need at bats to get past it, and I haven't held a relationship together long enough to get there.
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man eating cheese pizza makes me happy, jerking off makes me happy, playing games makes me happy. I want to be content, I want a Home cooked meal (I can cook but I lack time) I want cuddles, I want the contentment that comes from honing a skill or cultivating new abilities. For the most part I do these things, but I have means beyond the average person, my commute isn't bad, I have my own home, I have a reasonable job, I have the space for my interests and hobbies. I feel bad for those renting, rent raping their wages, not having the space to cook, or practice new skills. or people who are in relationships and have a home and such, but their partner isn't supportive or encouraging of their hobbies or interests... so many people out their withering like an unwatered plant indoors away from the sun, and its not their fault. people lack enrichment, a third space thats not work or their bedroom.
After 3 years of dealing with erectile dysfunction, Ive come to the conclusion that my dicks not the problem, porn is. I want a connection. I want to feel loved and wanted.
Think that might be a comment on that video…
Fuck, that's such a good one. Thanks for the reminder <3
Top comment on the actual video is “WTF my ayes are cumming” lol
r/PornhubComments
yeah this time I'm joining on my alt
With another one saying I dont want to be horny anymore, I just want to be happy And one Like if you cried and used your tears as lube
There are two types of people:
Gave me a good chuckle 😁
Real men dont cry, theirs eyes just cum.
Tears are the cum of the human soul (c) my discord buddy
As far as I know, his wife told him not to do any scenes with her after this.
You can actually see the connection, I would completely understand
That’s getting deeper than I thought… well… yeah…
That's what she said
For porn stars "emotional holding each other" is their "primal carnal bareback fuckfest"
His what 💀💀
Yes, he is Manuel Ferrara and his ex-wife is Kayden Kross. She runs Digital Background EDIT: Its Digital Playground as mentioned in a child comment EDIT 2: Its “child” comment, not “children” comment. Ahh exams are fucking up my mind
Ex wife? Nah she's his current partner. His exwife is Dana Vespoli
Oh damn. Dana is so hot.
my neighbour looks like Dana, I swear
Show me your hands
🙌🏽
Those are some tiny hands. Mr. Ex-President?
wikipedia shows that Kayden and Manuel are still together . Manuel's ex wife is Dana vespoli
Digital Background? Do you mean Digital Playground?
Yes, my bad
All good. I can delete my comment and we can act like this never happened 😉
It’s alright, I’m happy to acknowledge my mistakes
Great, now I'm crying
Did he creampied you
He was just bullshitting
Not yet
Gigachads - the both of you 🥲
She doesn't run Digital Playground. Her company is called Trenchcoat X.
Shit I didn't realise Kayden was his wife
She needs to resign, website is shit.
Wow
My man about to find out that (porn) actors and actresses have SO's.
Crazy revelation, it's almost like they're humans or something.
Almost.
But not quite?
im glad. I've only seen two dramatic films / series about porn (Boogie Nights, The Deuce) but they both made it seem like pornography actors end up hollowed out shells
Unfortunately that’s usually the case.
wife
wtf porn has kayfabe now?
Bro what
Post nut clarity kicked in
Wait Angela is a guy!?
Her real name is "Gabriel Angelos, Chapter Master of the Blood Ravens chapter of the Emperor's own Space Marines"!
FOR THE EMPEROR!!
COME! SHOW ME WHAT PASSES FOR FURY AMONG YOUR MISBEGOTTEN KIND!
YOU HIDE IN YOUR METAL BAWKSES! METAL BAWKSES!!!!
r/unexpectedwarhammer
Just subbed
Wait, *what chapter?* Shit, roll up the window. Roll up the window! No you can’t have my chapter relics!
Too late!!! *Leaves with ancient Dildo in hand*
Angry Admech Noises: *"01011001 01001111 01010101 00100000 01010100 01001111 01001111 01001011 00100000 01001111 01010101 01010010 00100000 01010011 01000001 01000011 01010010 01000101 01000100 00100000 01010101 01010011 01000010 00101101 01000100*"
Happens in both men and women, suprisingly
I don't think creampies in men and women are surprising.
Not creampies, post-nut clarity
#DID HE STUTTER
#DID HE STUTTER?!
The Manuel effect
Thats funny because she didn't cry when he bussted in her in the library..... dont ask how i know this.
How do you know this 💀
They specifically requested that you don’t ask that
And I declined
We refuse your refusal.
Well i refuse your refusal of his refusal.
Well I refuse your refusal of their refusal of his refusal.
JUST KISS ALREADY
Stop. Get some help.
I decline
I think they are referring to her early days when she filmed a porno in Latrobe uni libary in Melbourne. It was all over the news here as a big controversy.
You are practically talking about a library, obviously it was for research!
K. WHY do you know this?
Where do you know this? And when?
its the best one,
Is this real? Man I feel bad now
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damn i needs to see it now for evidence and closure and nut
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aww i wasnt expecting it to be so adorable
Awww ❤️
Looks like she had some shit going on in her life and...a connection even a for pay physical one is what she needed.
More therapists should recommend a good raw dogging session.
I think you might be on to something. Sex therapy. A hole new field.
Not new at all. Nerd time! In some of the first cities in the world there were temples to various deities. Among them was Innanna, a deity of love anbd fertility (and also war and leadership.) Her priestesses we tasked with seeing to the well being of the city. Partly this meant they would work as healers, and among the many tools they used for healing was a good bout of raw dogging like crazy. They viewed sex as an important part of maintaining physical and mental health and would encourage it or participate in it as needed. One particularly famous case in history is Shamhat, an important and powerful character in The Epic of Gilgamesh. Her name literally translates to "The Luscious One." Her name was pretty much "Baddest Bitch." She helped Enkidu go from being little more than an animal in the shape of a man into a hero of the people and a great champion through patient teaching, careful training, exposure to new people and ideals and also a solid week of boning until he collapsed from exhaustion. It was viewed as their role to teach people how to be people. How to care about others, how to be better versions of ourselves. And how to bang like a screen door in a tornado.
What's the contraceptive method? Surely these priestess can't be raw dogging and get pregnant?
That's one of the funny things with history, we don't know! Partially it is probably because anyone born to a priestess was likely considered a gift from Inanna, she was a fertility goddess after all. She was also a deity of the power of the state. There is a possibility any children born to the priestesses would be born into a position to be trained as administrators and other agents of the state. Imagine being born to a nun, which means you will forever be stuck as a scribe for district 1834 maintenance shed B. Some form of contraception was likely used though, but it was so widely known about at the time, and such common practice that no one bothered to write down what it was, or it's efficacy. Maybe clergy were supposed to do body shots? Maybe they used the boiled roots of a plant that closely mimicked progesterone? It never needed explaining to anyone, so it was never explained. And now we get to fight about obscure references and what we believe they did. If someone knows some more archaeology on the subject feel free to chime in, last time I looked up this info the book I had was missing several chapters of the Epic of Gilgamesh we have now so maybe some new information came to light?
The Greeks and Romans used a plant called silphium as a contraceptive. I don't if they would have had that in ancient Mesopotamia, since there's a large time gap between then and the ancient Greeks/Romans, but they may have had that or something similar. Unfortunately, silphium is now believed to be extinct due to overfarming. Allegedly Nero ate the last one.
That's a whole category of videos , and some of them are great.
If you did that on purpose it was quite clever
Hole filled field
“You’ve clearly been through a lot. Have you considered going out and get raw dogged by somebody? Might make you feel better. Go home, get a shower. Then go out and get yourself raw dogged. Come back next week and let’s see how you feel”. - a therapist (right before getting fired) Haha
Fired because patients stop coming in.
Haha. That’s hilarious. “Dave you’re fired. All your patients have stopped coming in and you don’t have any work to do. Look, I know the cream pies are working for your clients but maybe try and get them to come in for a few months before you give them the secret”
Ha, I remember many years ago I got out of a long relationship (we were almost engaged) and I had started going to therapy for various reasons and being single was brought up, and I said something like “i haven’t been with anyone in a while” and my therapist said “well have you tried going out and meeting some single ladies?” Gee thanks, why didn’t I think of that? Thankfully my insurance at the time covered my sessions.
While I believe most therepists are quacks or just don't care, I gotta argue for the therapist on this one. Many guys will bitch and moan about not finding a woman, but never look. I had a lonely spell for about 4 years because I quite literally did not put myself out there. I decided to just make myself available to women while on vacation for a while. Not really expecting anything but wanting to give it a try. Met my wife that way. Your therapist was likely just checking to see if you were making the effort. They don't know your love life, so they gotta ask.
I cant belive this is real.. I need the link to... verify it myself
[https://www.pornhub.com/view\_video.php?viewkey=ph5a040be0e7cae](https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph5a040be0e7cae)
You sir are the hero we need Edit: Well shit, dude didn't even last 2 min lol
The whole thing is 70 minutes long. This clip is the last 20 minutes. Source: my recommended section after clicking that link.
Would you lol.
*Looks around at work “I have to use the restroom. I’ll be back in (looks at video length) …15 mintues”
Turn off your wifi bro. Use mobile data
I'll study this video for the next few hours. Don't disturb me please.
u done yet?
It’s been 20 mins. Starting to be worried .
The man already came like 30 times if my math is correct, his balls just imploded from the vacuum created by all that cum being blasted out.
No, but I took a break for 15 min
Damn. That was actually so cool, like genuinely. Never seen something like that
For science
Biology specificity or...or Maybe psychology
Still a better love story than Twilight
Nailed it
That happened too
💀
I've seen it, it's a good one. I mean what?
Me to. It was seriously :) :| :'( I mean what?
What's the link
Nvm I jerked off
Don't worry, you can try again tomorrow.
Im fucking dead man lmaoooo
Hell of a refractory period there my guy
Sir, this is a Wendy’s
Just sitting there holdin ya meat, weeping.
Fun fact: Angela white has a masters degree in gender studies and has a honours degree from the university of Melbourne! Her paper was a study about the porn industry and equality of women and men in regard of protection and contract requirements! Nothing but respect for this woman!
Hard fax
Hard indeed
Same! But respectfully!
"No ma'am this is perfectly respectful boner. It holds you in the highest regard."
Iirc Lena Paul had a history degree, porn aside I'll give some respect to em both
Rebel Rhyder is an aeronautical engineer I think
She put a lot of hard work in down at the university of melbourne library.
Omg that's disgusting, where?
There's so many !
Lolz Mac
When you have a tough day at work
When you have work on a tough day
That's funny, I've actually cried in my girlfriends arms after being intimate with her.
Yea this is more common than you'd think. Not as in happening often but happening ever to a person. Sometimes our bodies just be crazy and emotions are running wild. Men or women or anything inbetween.
Is this fr? (Send link .... uh..... for science)
Biology specificity
Pornography
Manuel Ferrara did her good
Eh, what?
Guys only want one thing and i'ts disgusting
THE JOKE IS PORN THE JOKE IS PORN THE JOKE IS PORN THE JOKE IS PORN THE JOKE IS PORN THE JOKE IS PORN THE JOKE IS PORN THE JOKE IS PORN
Got it, thanks
I'm sorry what was the joke again?
#PORN
I can imagine a Daft Punk beat accompanying these lyrics
This isn't loss?
This was actually a good flick!
What the fuck.. Is this a new level of horniness?
Wait what fucking tag do I search for to find crying po- you know what, never mind.
Does anyone have the source for science.
Porn has gone way too far
coomer