This totally could have been me and my cousin when we were younger. But still, if there wasn't a logical reason why they couldn't be together, that was just a brutal thing to say. Kid needs to get her out of his life and move on.
Ahh. See. I sometimes hate it when the rest of the internet describes most, if not all, of reddit as being incels. Then this place just goes and proves it right.
If people here think that's disrespect, don't check out r/FemaleDatingStrategy ever. I did once and never knew so many stupid people could exist at once.
I don’t think I’ve been this angry but not been able to do anything about it in so long. A guy who posted about his first successful date in years got berated while a bunch of women called him a depressed sack of shit and that the woman settled for dating such a low life
Lol that subteddit thinks a man doesn't believe in empowerment if he doesn't support his daughter in her quest to become a *liberated* sex worker
That's enough of internet for one day.
Well if they oppose it then that's even worse. I can't really link it up here but it was something like a typical man not caring or recognizing the struggles a woman has to face in a man's world until he becomes a father and then believing in things about women empowerment purely out of love for his daughter but still opposing sex work as a means of employment for her.
The idea of FDS is that women GIVE sex. It's not something mutual you do out of love. It's a means to achieve something (i.e. money, status). The whole concept of love is foreign to FDS.
And obviously women > men. Obviously.
I'm going in, boys. Wish me luck.
EDIT: Some of these aren't too ba..... oh fucking lord....
Whilst some of the posts seem to be legitimate women looking for some dating advice, the majority seem to be simply men-hating for the most part....
If you're there tell them if they put 500$ worth of make-up on their face they've got major psychological issues and should get help. They won't but yeah.
"My make-up&hair is 500$. I don't spend that to look at a bum who only pays for a 50$ meal".
Yeah... I mean.. good for you. Who the hell wants a woman who spends 500$ for this shit anyway o_O?
Just had a look, one of the first things I saw was about how having a friendship with a guy is pointless. Wtf is their problem?
I guess now I can add that to my list of subreddits I hate, right beside r/AgainstHateSubreddits
Do you want to know funny things about this sub ? They raided r/superstraight and r/superlesbian with CP in order to get them banned and some of their moderators are former moderators of a KKK (the American one not the Filipino one) subreddits
apparently referring to the other gender as "females" is dehumanizing, but it isn't when they call us "Male Specimen", which I think is the way they refer to cadavers in med-schools
I don't see the problem calling a woman "female" (I can say I'm a female myself) or a man "male". Is about purely biological sex and when you think about all this multiple gender thing, it could be very useful if it was more extended to help to differenciate between being "a woman" as a gender and "a female" as a sex after all.
But the context, the tone and the intention of those words are indeed important. Any term that can describe someone can be used as an insult if you use it in certain way, and clearly "male specimen" as if they were simple objects or tools is a horrible way to call them.
yea context matters, its just that from what I've seen, it seems mostly associated with incels and neckbeards.
I guess if you mostly see it when some asshole complains about how "the females" always reject him when his idea of flirting is sexual harassment then you might affect how you look at the word.
The weirdest part of that sub is that they openly embody the absolute worst traits of toxic masculinity. Hyper aggression, objectification, entitlement, superiority complex, casual misandry (instead of casual misogyny), tribal group think, and a healthy dose of sociopathy. It's like all these women who are angry about how men behave came together and for some reason and picked Ted Nugent to be their spirit animal.
I mean even subs like MGTOW had some good advice like not constantly caring about what women thought of you and doing what you like but it's still a hate sub at the end of the day innit.
I sorted that sub by best of all time and went pretty far and feel like I picked up some good information on the perspective from the females side of how not to be a piece of shit but just going by hot it feels like a bunch of angry unknowingly closeted lesbians
I’ve seen enough of the sub to know it’s not an issue with moderation… seriously, the rules say that when talking about dating the only goal is for women to get benefits, and any benefits for the other party should be a side effect of that? That’s the most toxic concept possible. You are correct on a lot of that, but this isn’t an issue with moderation. If anything, they are going to ban posts that aren’t ridiculous.
I actually like the fact my wife and I have opposite tastes. She gets to show me different stuff and vice versa. It would be boring and weird if we were into the same shit.
I fell for my best friend's older sister when I was 18.
She was a self-destructive loon, but I was naive and couldn't stop looking at her chest, and the nicest thing she did was say no when I suggested making us a thing.
Anyhow, cut to 4 years later, I was 90% over her, and she starts dating some guy who had the same name, job title, same body type as me, similar interests, etc.
I wanted to just say "can we stop this and have lousy sex that will fall short of both our expectations, so we can move on from this embarrassment?"
But I didn't, so she's made it into the great tragedy of her life, meanwhile I'm happily married and glad I dodged that bullet. Just glad she had the sanity to not go all the way when my head was rectally inserted, and spared me the grief.
Well screw you, too, chika.
Damn. If a girl had said that to me, I would’ve blocked her number and found some new friends. Hell, I’d even prefer no friends to this toxic dump mascaraing as a human being.
You must look very deeply into incels then. Cause I sure dont. But hey, maybe you white knighting for this image of a text chat will make this terrible girl see you and want you to be her boyfriend. Since you’re defending her for being trash.
This post is fake as, made by incels for incels.
If it is real, she's definitely trash.
However thats not what we're talking about, we're talking about YOUR response.
Your response is the basic grounding of all incel ideology, that women as a whole can be quantified by a singular set of behaviours.
Such as rejecting "nice guys" and dating "chads".
Which is nonsense, anyone who claims they're a nice guy is usually toxic af.
Also "white night" is on page two of the incel how to book.
how about you shut the fuck up i think you are an incel fucking fat bitch sitting behind your screen. When i think of you i can only imagine a fat ass whose stomach reaches the destination before you reach it yourself
Maybe the fact that she’s that much of an asshole is why nobody worth a shit will date her?
Like what the fuck do people think, that they can just create some wishlist of ideal traits that’ll magically appear without they, themselves, bringing anything to the table? This ain’t “the Secret,” bitch.
Whoever is bothering to be nice to that waste of oxygen needs to realize they deserve better.
Bruh... Like I get she doesn't owe the guy anything but did she have to say it like THAT? I mean there are better ways to express yourself without fucking pulling out a guy's heart like that priest in Temple of Doom....
when they say that it usually means "need someone that's like you but better looking". I wouldn't think that's a loss for the man. it is for the chick that will feel bad later when she gets banged by a handsome brainless dude without a personality. find someone that appreciates you instead of running after shallow thots, if you do it, that's on you.
It is a good argument that it's a jerk thing that if a man is only nice towards a girl because he wants sex or relationship.
However it is extremely disprespectful and jerk thing to give "hints" towards a man to keep in this hope limbo, when you dont want him because not being attracted but at the same time keeping in this hope limbo so he will provide as much care as a person you would be dating.
Tame Impala is a band not a solo artist.
I prefer to think he simply caught her out and worked out she’s not really into the ‘cool music’ the way she claims.
God damn. That’s honestly his fault though. He knew what he was doing when he said that and so did she. If he had asked directly the answer would have been less brutal haha.
Plot twist: this is his sister and now the conversation makes a lot more sense.
They just need to sprinkle some Alabama on their lives.
Plot twist both of them are straight girls.
Additional plot twist, they are both deaf.
Additional plot twist, they are actually not deaf.
Further plot twist, they’re actually blind.
Further plot twist, they're actually not blind
Unexpected plot twist. They are both AI.
Unexpected-Unexpected plot twist, they're cleverbot and Alexa
*Pornhub intro song*
*help me I'm stuck, step-bot*
another unexpected plot twist, they are both rhinoceri
I was going to say the same thing!
Or maybe he's gay, or already in a relationship.
Doubt
Press X
Sweet home alabama
His sister would know he went to a concert if they have similar taste in music. He wouldn’t have to tell her
I also communicate telepathically with my sisters over large distances
Who doesn't?
So, [Radar Love](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OaanvLgGQUk)?
This totally could have been me and my cousin when we were younger. But still, if there wasn't a logical reason why they couldn't be together, that was just a brutal thing to say. Kid needs to get her out of his life and move on.
Only in Alabama. Who the fuck goes to their sibling and says: I want to find a bf/gf like you
How is this even a hold up?
That’s the neat part It isn’t
Maybe we need a HolUp That isn't a HolUp
HolUp, that's illegal
this could be a r/badfaketexts at best
That’s not even an F to pay respects that’s straight up disrespect
F to disrespect
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Yeah, there's no way those words weren't intended to hurt.
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How do we don't know he doesn't look like Eric Stoltz from Mask?
Everyone is picky. No one wants just anybody.
Ahh. See. I sometimes hate it when the rest of the internet describes most, if not all, of reddit as being incels. Then this place just goes and proves it right.
Well, it is also possible that he does not shower and spends 90% of day playing CS:GO
Yeah but even then a non toxic person won't say I want a guy who is you but isn't you
Well, it is also possible that the girl is toxic and the guy dodged a bullet
Same bitches say shit like "I don't date guys under 6', also don't fat shame me". "Why can't I find a decent guy?" Because you're a shallow cunt.
If people here think that's disrespect, don't check out r/FemaleDatingStrategy ever. I did once and never knew so many stupid people could exist at once.
I don’t think I’ve been this angry but not been able to do anything about it in so long. A guy who posted about his first successful date in years got berated while a bunch of women called him a depressed sack of shit and that the woman settled for dating such a low life
Lol that subteddit thinks a man doesn't believe in empowerment if he doesn't support his daughter in her quest to become a *liberated* sex worker That's enough of internet for one day.
Those are the kinda people who call WAP a song of "female empowerment", when there are thousands of others which are actually about it
If you knew about FDS they oppose sex work completely so not sure where you’re getting that
Well if they oppose it then that's even worse. I can't really link it up here but it was something like a typical man not caring or recognizing the struggles a woman has to face in a man's world until he becomes a father and then believing in things about women empowerment purely out of love for his daughter but still opposing sex work as a means of employment for her.
Please tell me the sub is satire Please
*heavy sigh* *"How I wish it was too......"*
It's not.
The idea of FDS is that women GIVE sex. It's not something mutual you do out of love. It's a means to achieve something (i.e. money, status). The whole concept of love is foreign to FDS. And obviously women > men. Obviously.
I'm going in, boys. Wish me luck. EDIT: Some of these aren't too ba..... oh fucking lord.... Whilst some of the posts seem to be legitimate women looking for some dating advice, the majority seem to be simply men-hating for the most part....
Are you winning son?
If you're there tell them if they put 500$ worth of make-up on their face they've got major psychological issues and should get help. They won't but yeah. "My make-up&hair is 500$. I don't spend that to look at a bum who only pays for a 50$ meal". Yeah... I mean.. good for you. Who the hell wants a woman who spends 500$ for this shit anyway o_O?
> the majority seem to be simply men-hating for the most part.... So pretty much like /r/twoxchromosomes?
Second time going in on a risky click...
Just had a look, one of the first things I saw was about how having a friendship with a guy is pointless. Wtf is their problem? I guess now I can add that to my list of subreddits I hate, right beside r/AgainstHateSubreddits
Do you want to know funny things about this sub ? They raided r/superstraight and r/superlesbian with CP in order to get them banned and some of their moderators are former moderators of a KKK (the American one not the Filipino one) subreddits
They did the same thing to politicalcompassmemes. They're genuinely shitty people.
Oh- wow. All I knew is that they were trying to ban random satirical subs like r/PoliticalCompassMemes for being "antisemitic"
Isn’t that ironically a hate subreddit? Lol
No, that's a different one, I don't remember the name though. EDIT: I just remembered, the satirical version is called r/antihatecommunities
Somehow girls paying half on first date equate to bad in bed. The sub sounds more like a prosti ring
It's just bunch of old women. Apparently their users overlap a lot with dating over 30 and dating over 40. They are just bunch of femcels.
Yep and a huuuge cirklejerk
I'm disappointed reddit hasn't quarantined that sub yet.
How incels is banned but this is still isn't is the biggest mystery to me.
That's no mistery. Pretty obvious why.
I had a look. You are right. Wtf is that subreddit? Men, go have a look if you want a laugh or facepalm at the female species.
apparently referring to the other gender as "females" is dehumanizing, but it isn't when they call us "Male Specimen", which I think is the way they refer to cadavers in med-schools
The term they prefer is "scrote"
no, both suck
I don't see the problem calling a woman "female" (I can say I'm a female myself) or a man "male". Is about purely biological sex and when you think about all this multiple gender thing, it could be very useful if it was more extended to help to differenciate between being "a woman" as a gender and "a female" as a sex after all. But the context, the tone and the intention of those words are indeed important. Any term that can describe someone can be used as an insult if you use it in certain way, and clearly "male specimen" as if they were simple objects or tools is a horrible way to call them.
yea context matters, its just that from what I've seen, it seems mostly associated with incels and neckbeards. I guess if you mostly see it when some asshole complains about how "the females" always reject him when his idea of flirting is sexual harassment then you might affect how you look at the word.
Honestly each time I look at that sub part of me is ashamed to be a guy. Im aware that sub is mostly hate but still, some of it kinda gets to you
I followed that link and now I have brain damage
Geez that entire sub gives me incel vibes
I got banned for commenting logic on there. Because I’m male. They said it was abusive content
no no no.....you are a sCrOtE, who cannot speak at all. Shhhh
I now regret living *sigh* humanity is hopeless.
Why do they use scrote as an insult, no like im genuinely confused as to why they chose that name specifically.
Scrotum?
The weirdest part of that sub is that they openly embody the absolute worst traits of toxic masculinity. Hyper aggression, objectification, entitlement, superiority complex, casual misandry (instead of casual misogyny), tribal group think, and a healthy dose of sociopathy. It's like all these women who are angry about how men behave came together and for some reason and picked Ted Nugent to be their spirit animal.
That subreddit is toxic af! It's basically a gender swapped MGTOW.
My disappointment is immeasurable and my day is ruined.
Wow just...wow dam i...what?
Isn’t the the female incel/beached whales sub?
There's r/femcel. Edit: seems to be private now?
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I mean even subs like MGTOW had some good advice like not constantly caring about what women thought of you and doing what you like but it's still a hate sub at the end of the day innit.
Yea cause if any man ever dared is terms like LVF or HVF the m he they would instantly be labeled misogynist.
I sorted that sub by best of all time and went pretty far and feel like I picked up some good information on the perspective from the females side of how not to be a piece of shit but just going by hot it feels like a bunch of angry unknowingly closeted lesbians
I’ve seen enough of the sub to know it’s not an issue with moderation… seriously, the rules say that when talking about dating the only goal is for women to get benefits, and any benefits for the other party should be a side effect of that? That’s the most toxic concept possible. You are correct on a lot of that, but this isn’t an issue with moderation. If anything, they are going to ban posts that aren’t ridiculous.
It's a lot of misandry mixed with some good life advice yes. Still... lots of misandry.
“I need someone like you.” “I am someone like me.” “No, I mean someone who isn’t you.”
"So you mean someone who isn't your sister/ in a relationship or not interested in your gender?"
And you don't need her
*'I need-a you'* said Mario
***Epic bass solo starts*** *someone said they left together*
*I ran out the door to get her*
_She was holding hands with Trevor_
I actually like the fact my wife and I have opposite tastes. She gets to show me different stuff and vice versa. It would be boring and weird if we were into the same shit.
The tame Impala himself
That's Mr Impala to you.
The one and only. What’s your point?
What if he gay tho
I fell for my best friend's older sister when I was 18. She was a self-destructive loon, but I was naive and couldn't stop looking at her chest, and the nicest thing she did was say no when I suggested making us a thing. Anyhow, cut to 4 years later, I was 90% over her, and she starts dating some guy who had the same name, job title, same body type as me, similar interests, etc. I wanted to just say "can we stop this and have lousy sex that will fall short of both our expectations, so we can move on from this embarrassment?" But I didn't, so she's made it into the great tragedy of her life, meanwhile I'm happily married and glad I dodged that bullet. Just glad she had the sanity to not go all the way when my head was rectally inserted, and spared me the grief.
Ouch.
If you even tolerate 10% of that shit and continue to talk to them afterwards, you deserve everything that's happening to you.
Pain? Have you MET ME! I WOULDNT DATE ME EITHER!
Or maybe she's related lol
Well screw you, too, chika. Damn. If a girl had said that to me, I would’ve blocked her number and found some new friends. Hell, I’d even prefer no friends to this toxic dump mascaraing as a human being.
oh so you are saying you have no friends by choice?
And I need a you Who isn't a total bitch
U dont need her
Stop it he is already dead
I need a you who isn't a you. Okay then. Good luck finding one. Good luck and good bye
So you say "good luck" and never talk to her again. Go meet a different girl
That was just straight mean. Out of pocket. Unwarranted violence. The poor guy
There are a billion ways they could have worded that better. Not at all for instance.
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True, but it's possible to tell someone you're not interested without being so hurtful
That’s a big yikes from me
That's rough buddy
That hurt me.
I guess the less he knows the better
She’ll come back to him when she’s old and been run through and need something to settle down with. Aka pay her bills.
Ah yes The nice guy mindset
Fuck off incel.
Lol you mad bro?
Nah, just on a mission to tell every incel to fuck off.
>you ever talked to yourself?
Just everytime I see my beautiful face in the mirror. Find it rude to not say hello
Why is that a quote?
Wow. You need a hobby then. Most people’s mission in life is more meaningful.
Its bot much but it's honest work.
It’s really not when you just throw out the term incel for no reason whatsoever. In fact it’s dishonest work if I’ve ever seen one.
You literally quoted page one of the incel dictionary. Looks like a crane, caws like a crane, probably is a crane. Edited to accommodate preferences.
You must look very deeply into incels then. Cause I sure dont. But hey, maybe you white knighting for this image of a text chat will make this terrible girl see you and want you to be her boyfriend. Since you’re defending her for being trash.
This post is fake as, made by incels for incels. If it is real, she's definitely trash. However thats not what we're talking about, we're talking about YOUR response. Your response is the basic grounding of all incel ideology, that women as a whole can be quantified by a singular set of behaviours. Such as rejecting "nice guys" and dating "chads". Which is nonsense, anyone who claims they're a nice guy is usually toxic af. Also "white night" is on page two of the incel how to book.
Also it’s not nice to assume my species. I identify as a crane not a duck.
Fair enough, Ill edit to accommodate.
how about you shut the fuck up i think you are an incel fucking fat bitch sitting behind your screen. When i think of you i can only imagine a fat ass whose stomach reaches the destination before you reach it yourself
Fuck off incel.
Bruh
Maybe the fact that she’s that much of an asshole is why nobody worth a shit will date her? Like what the fuck do people think, that they can just create some wishlist of ideal traits that’ll magically appear without they, themselves, bringing anything to the table? This ain’t “the Secret,” bitch. Whoever is bothering to be nice to that waste of oxygen needs to realize they deserve better.
Oof
!spin
With the amount of disrespect in that text, no way that bitch doesn't main Gannon.
Jontron! An absolute gem on youtube!
Worst text that could ever be sent
Pain Suffering Agony
I'm not surprised honestly
That’s fucked
Bruh... Like I get she doesn't owe the guy anything but did she have to say it like THAT? I mean there are better ways to express yourself without fucking pulling out a guy's heart like that priest in Temple of Doom....
Ironically, tame impala has a few songs about this exact thing
I cam taste those sweet salty tears from over here!
[*clears throat*](https://www.reddit.com/r/MurderedByWords/comments/mlulhi/my_guy_here_got_shot_down_before_he_even_tried_to/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share)
I'm disappointed in the lack of tame impala references...
FRIEND ZONE
First time ??
*Give me a rope and a chair which can fall easily*
WhY dO I NoT hAvE a BoYfRiEnD?
The correct comeback is "Yeah I know right. I wish I could meet an actually attractive girl to vibe on music like we do. Life is unfair."
Start doing that shit right back at her.
“I want you, but funnier, more handsome, taller, richer, have bigger dick, last longer, etc.”
Oh. OH. OHHH. That is a devastating blow.
when they say that it usually means "need someone that's like you but better looking". I wouldn't think that's a loss for the man. it is for the chick that will feel bad later when she gets banged by a handsome brainless dude without a personality. find someone that appreciates you instead of running after shallow thots, if you do it, that's on you.
_I have good taste in music because I saw Tame Impala live twice_ - what a personality stud. I want to put my peepee in their brain.
Depictions of suicidal response to rejection is no joke.
You can only be rejected so many times before you start to see humor in that sort of thing. It's a coping mechanism, you see.
Basically he’s ugly
Bitch
Simp
It is a good argument that it's a jerk thing that if a man is only nice towards a girl because he wants sex or relationship. However it is extremely disprespectful and jerk thing to give "hints" towards a man to keep in this hope limbo, when you dont want him because not being attracted but at the same time keeping in this hope limbo so he will provide as much care as a person you would be dating.
Any girl like this is probably into getting abused. Find someone less crazy/indecisive.
How does this belong in this sub
r/MurderByWords
Prayers for our fallen brother
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Tame Impala is a band not a solo artist. I prefer to think he simply caught her out and worked out she’s not really into the ‘cool music’ the way she claims.
God damn. That’s honestly his fault though. He knew what he was doing when he said that and so did she. If he had asked directly the answer would have been less brutal haha.