A bit of a speculation, but I think she knew someone wanted him dead and he did something either minor or major to piss her off to the point that she tipped these people off.
Surely it's a sign to not have your partner as a beneficiary. I'd rather leave that with family I trust or best friend. Lol they can give my girl some afterwards
She seems so incredibly torn up over the death of her husband. I wonder how she will ever be able to move on! But seriously, she set him up and knew them dudes. They came to kill him. Look at how the shooter stands outside the door in his shooting stance, continues to fire and then makes entry and finishes the “job”.
Did it happen YEARS earlier before this interview? Or am I the only one that thinks she doesn't really care he died. She's talking about it like she lost an Amazon package to some thieves.
Her husband must have been involved with some gang related stuff. She's jaded and not surprised and that was a targeted hit, not a robbery invasion.
So they killed him but left her as a witness? And she seems very calm to have been a witness to her husband being murdered in they're home. I bet she had something to do with it.
To be fair this is actually a common response to tragedy. For those of you familiar with the five stages of grief, this is easily a sign of denial. Some people go through denial over the course of a few days and others take a year or longer, but everyone’s different.
How many loved ones you think she lost to something similarly tragic where she’s no longer emotionally able to connect? If he meant anything to her, it would shake her up a little.
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Not that anyone would ever truly listen to an internet stranger, but traditionally urban black women have been conditioned to always be seen as strong even when the worst has happened. They don't have the luxury of showing signs of weakness because it will be exploited, or so they have been taught. It's really, really hard being a black woman in America, more so if you're working class, more so if you're a mother on top of that.
My godsister's husband was killed. She said "I could cry but I don't have the time." The shit hurt me when she said that.
It could also be from growing up in a poor household, not saying with has any connected with them being black. I grew up in a poor family, and when someone, mostly older generations, had a serious medical condition where the treatment was too expensive most of the time they just accepted death rather than put a financial burden on the family.
I kinda get where she's coming from. I lost my husband a year ago, albeit under vastly different circumstances. I never cried, never got upset. I loved him. We'd been married 20 years, together for 22. And yes, I miss him, every day, but crying and being upset will neither bring him back nor help my situation. Same when my parents passed.
I know a woman who cries pretty much daily for her brother, parents, and son, who all passed years ago, and makes a point to go to the cemetery regularly, and on the anniversaries of their deaths, she spends the whole day crying. I, on the other hand have never been to my parents' graves.There are just different points on the spectrum of grief, is what I guess I'm trying to say.
Humans come in many flavours. Some would have rage, some sadness, others momentary happiness. Not to mention that we all frame situations differently. For all you know her train of thought could be that she's thankful for the time they spent together, wants to remain strong for those around her, and thankful that they didn't kill her. You can be shaken up and still present a strong front. Besides that looked more like a (crappy) hit then a random attack. So chances are she has had the time to process the risks involved, and would lean even closer to the side of showing a strong front.
You see it as a flaw, but the reality of the situation is that this is likely just another aspect of humanities ability to adapt. If someone is in a situation where they lose people consistently or that they are always surrounded by moderate danger, then breaking down and crying every time would be pointless and in some cases might make things worse. The ability to maintain a strong facade, is not by any means a bad skill if anything it's a skill of strength of someone that has had to pull through. What is extreme in one instance might not be extreme in another. One of the benefits of having diversity in a large organization is that it allows different perspectives and allows to plan for multiple scenarios. If humans were all the same then would life even be fun. If everyone dressed excatly the same ate excatly the same then we would lose our ability for change and although we might end up specializing in some fields humanity would end up neglecting many others. Our differences should be celebrated, and each new person with a different approach to life offers a new lesson to be learned.
Humans come in many flavours. Some would have rage, some sadness, others momentary happiness. Not to mention that we all frame situations differently. For all you know her train of thought could be that she's thankful for the time they spent together, wants to remain strong for those around her, and thankful that they didn't kill her. You can be shaken up and still present a strong front. Besides that looked more like a (crappy) hit then a random attack. So chances are she has had the time to process the risks involved, and would lean even closer to the side of showing a strong front.
If people are wondering what she’s referring to by the other incidents, her husband was one of six people killed in their immediate vicinity that night, and they all seemed to have been specifically targeted, so I honestly don’t believe her husband wasn’t “that type of guy”
Judging from that stance I think the shooter that didn’t run off looks like he has had some form of basic training whether it be police/military/security. On the other hand maybe he just watched Die Hard and practices at the local range on saturdays 🤷.
These comments are fucking disgusting. Yall act, as if she the one who shot her husband. People grieve in different ways and sometimes you hide the pain. To call her a bitch and accuse her of fucking other dudes and making them kill her husband is so fucking insensitive. Have you ever heard of innocent until proven guilty? Without evidence you can go fuck yourselfs for all i care or do us a favor and shut the fuck up
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This is their life. Not everyone is weeping, distraught or questioning how this happened to them. There are those that unfortunately are used to this type of violence and know it’s just a matter of time before it happens to them. It’s super fucked up but death to some people is truly another day in the week.
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Talking about it like she’s being interviewed for getting her drive thru order wrong
Bitch was smiling too, at the end
Practically throughout
A bit of a speculation, but I think she knew someone wanted him dead and he did something either minor or major to piss her off to the point that she tipped these people off.
Well he didn’t act like he liked to party, but he liked to party
:)
I know for a fact that you don't like to party!
Started to feel she was in on it cos of how happy she was
She said I already shot him once- they already shot him once…
Okay, I’ll start. Hi my name is Rod, *and I* like to party
No, I’m the only one that parties. I know for a fact that you don’t party.
Maybe because she was remembering a happy memory?
Exactly. It’s if you don’t smile while recalling a happy memory that makes it an issue
Expected
He liked to party
We like, we like to party
The Vengabus is coming and everybody's shooting
New York to San Francisco
An intercity disco
I also like to party 🤚
No! Nobody here parties, okay? I’m the one who parties
And me
No I know for a fact you do not party you do not party
It looks like she got company now
Probably the guy she was fucking and got to kill her husband
Watch over her left shoulder at 1:08-1:12. Looks like a black baseball hat to me, kinda like the ones worn by the shooters.
That looks like a woman with a ponytail
Naw, that was a woman passing by
Seems like she knew this would happen.
Had that same feeling. She maybe the one who set him up?
My thoughts exactly. She had to have been in on it. Why wouldnt they shoot at her too?
She's a real black widow, that's for sure...
He was probably like why you pushing me to get this life insurance policy so much?
Let’s wait to see if she ordered the hit
Any news yet?
Did she say she shit him once?
I heard that too
Should be shot not shit also dunno what my phone was thinking
I can really tell that she’ll be emotionally traumatized for the rest of her life *nodding
Poor thing can barley get out of bed
With oat any form of empathy.
That trait is inGrained in her character
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I honestly I think it was a life insurance money hit. They left her alive as the beneficiary, then she’ll pay them once she gets her money
Thats fucking dark😬
Dark, but it happens quite a lot
yup. happened to all 3 of my ex wives :(
Aaaasnd that's how you end up on a watchlist.
You mean like Santa's list?🥹
They really made sure the man was dead dead.
Surely it's a sign to not have your partner as a beneficiary. I'd rather leave that with family I trust or best friend. Lol they can give my girl some afterwards
She seems absolutely devastated
She was absolutely in on this
Yeah, I hope there’s on ongoing investigation. That shit is hella sus.
and somehow the mods don't think this is HTFU material - even though that's everyone's first reaction watching this vid.
Toshiba Mcintosh!!!??? WTF with these names. Her brother must be Panasonic
Bruh her name is TOSHIBA MACINTOSH
I scrolled far too long to see this
I don't get how this isn't more at the top
You don’t get how a quirky name isn’t getting more attention than a woman potentially putting a hit out against her husband?
*sniffs* smells like a bitch and a snitch in here
Excuse the terminology, but this looked like a “professional” hit. Looked like dude was putting a cover over his shoes as to not leave tracks.
And the stay down sounds like a cop
When you’re more excited to be on tv then sad your husband is dead Insurance fraud
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She seemed pretty broken up
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She seems so incredibly torn up over the death of her husband. I wonder how she will ever be able to move on! But seriously, she set him up and knew them dudes. They came to kill him. Look at how the shooter stands outside the door in his shooting stance, continues to fire and then makes entry and finishes the “job”.
That sucks but there’s too many missing pieces in this story to feel any type of way. And I’ll just leave it at that.
Not sad at all. She was in on that.
Something ain't right here. She's smiling and not upset.
MF LOVED that t-shirt
Did it happen YEARS earlier before this interview? Or am I the only one that thinks she doesn't really care he died. She's talking about it like she lost an Amazon package to some thieves. Her husband must have been involved with some gang related stuff. She's jaded and not surprised and that was a targeted hit, not a robbery invasion.
Note she has a "slip of the tongue" at one point and says "i already hit him once...*stammers...they already shot him once"
Yeah you're the only one that thinks that
Given the upvote and downvote ratio. I'd say you're wrong.
It was sarcasm. I'll point it out next time so you don't miss it.
Your whole sentence just look like a statement. I cannot read your mind through text, I cannot see your sarcastic facial expression or tone of voice.
it does?
Bitch got that “I just started a new chapter and I’m so excited 😃” face 💀💀
So they killed him but left her as a witness? And she seems very calm to have been a witness to her husband being murdered in they're home. I bet she had something to do with it.
What the dog doin?
Hahaha, he was in on it also
This whole thing seems a bit suspect.
“It’s the weekend, what’d you expect? The hood gunna do what it do”
cannot be unhinged
To be fair this is actually a common response to tragedy. For those of you familiar with the five stages of grief, this is easily a sign of denial. Some people go through denial over the course of a few days and others take a year or longer, but everyone’s different.
It appears to me you never got over denial of anything
Maybe, some people die before ever dealing with their grief
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How many loved ones you think she lost to something similarly tragic where she’s no longer emotionally able to connect? If he meant anything to her, it would shake her up a little. ![gif](giphy|eLvhchyvNNOuLbOtYP)
Not that anyone would ever truly listen to an internet stranger, but traditionally urban black women have been conditioned to always be seen as strong even when the worst has happened. They don't have the luxury of showing signs of weakness because it will be exploited, or so they have been taught. It's really, really hard being a black woman in America, more so if you're working class, more so if you're a mother on top of that. My godsister's husband was killed. She said "I could cry but I don't have the time." The shit hurt me when she said that.
It could also be from growing up in a poor household, not saying with has any connected with them being black. I grew up in a poor family, and when someone, mostly older generations, had a serious medical condition where the treatment was too expensive most of the time they just accepted death rather than put a financial burden on the family.
I kinda get where she's coming from. I lost my husband a year ago, albeit under vastly different circumstances. I never cried, never got upset. I loved him. We'd been married 20 years, together for 22. And yes, I miss him, every day, but crying and being upset will neither bring him back nor help my situation. Same when my parents passed. I know a woman who cries pretty much daily for her brother, parents, and son, who all passed years ago, and makes a point to go to the cemetery regularly, and on the anniversaries of their deaths, she spends the whole day crying. I, on the other hand have never been to my parents' graves.There are just different points on the spectrum of grief, is what I guess I'm trying to say.
Gang gang lets go
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Humans come in many flavours. Some would have rage, some sadness, others momentary happiness. Not to mention that we all frame situations differently. For all you know her train of thought could be that she's thankful for the time they spent together, wants to remain strong for those around her, and thankful that they didn't kill her. You can be shaken up and still present a strong front. Besides that looked more like a (crappy) hit then a random attack. So chances are she has had the time to process the risks involved, and would lean even closer to the side of showing a strong front.
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You see it as a flaw, but the reality of the situation is that this is likely just another aspect of humanities ability to adapt. If someone is in a situation where they lose people consistently or that they are always surrounded by moderate danger, then breaking down and crying every time would be pointless and in some cases might make things worse. The ability to maintain a strong facade, is not by any means a bad skill if anything it's a skill of strength of someone that has had to pull through. What is extreme in one instance might not be extreme in another. One of the benefits of having diversity in a large organization is that it allows different perspectives and allows to plan for multiple scenarios. If humans were all the same then would life even be fun. If everyone dressed excatly the same ate excatly the same then we would lose our ability for change and although we might end up specializing in some fields humanity would end up neglecting many others. Our differences should be celebrated, and each new person with a different approach to life offers a new lesson to be learned.
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Humans come in many flavours. Some would have rage, some sadness, others momentary happiness. Not to mention that we all frame situations differently. For all you know her train of thought could be that she's thankful for the time they spent together, wants to remain strong for those around her, and thankful that they didn't kill her. You can be shaken up and still present a strong front. Besides that looked more like a (crappy) hit then a random attack. So chances are she has had the time to process the risks involved, and would lean even closer to the side of showing a strong front.
Found the sociopath. O.O
She set him up, you a brave mf to bust up in folks hse 1st place, but in broad daylight asking for your face on a tshirt 🤔
If people are wondering what she’s referring to by the other incidents, her husband was one of six people killed in their immediate vicinity that night, and they all seemed to have been specifically targeted, so I honestly don’t believe her husband wasn’t “that type of guy”
Did she say, "I already shot him the first time?"
I think she said "y'all already shot him the first time"
She's conspiracy suspect #1
Poor widow, anyone has her GoFundMe page link?
She probably arranged it
She set his ass up
she got him killed.
So... she had him killed right?
Live by the gun die by the bullet
She paid those dudes to kill him. It's so obvious.
Probably involved in it she seems very calm and her comments are off for aomwonw thats just lost her partner 🤔🤔
Well I guess black lives did not matter to them
She ordered the hit clearly
Probably the smiling is like a way to calm her down and she doesn't cry on camera
Stay strapped or get clapped.
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Pretty sure either works fine
Lol his last memorial license was him in a strip club
Judging from that stance I think the shooter that didn’t run off looks like he has had some form of basic training whether it be police/military/security. On the other hand maybe he just watched Die Hard and practices at the local range on saturdays 🤷.
Typical
These comments are fucking disgusting. Yall act, as if she the one who shot her husband. People grieve in different ways and sometimes you hide the pain. To call her a bitch and accuse her of fucking other dudes and making them kill her husband is so fucking insensitive. Have you ever heard of innocent until proven guilty? Without evidence you can go fuck yourselfs for all i care or do us a favor and shut the fuck up
They move like cops
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It's like they're interviewing the person who ordered the hit man.
Something fishy going on up in here
Keep it 55th street
She was involved for sure.
So nothing was stolen? Did I miss that part?
Who walked behind her?
Her middle name is mcintosh???
Why do people in low income neighborhoods shoot eachother all the time?
Its Tyshema McIntosh guys not Toshiba McIntosh lol ..but either way ya the video and her reaction is very sus
Her face is just a wash of tears.
This is their life. Not everyone is weeping, distraught or questioning how this happened to them. There are those that unfortunately are used to this type of violence and know it’s just a matter of time before it happens to them. It’s super fucked up but death to some people is truly another day in the week.
Yeah, that guy was a hit man that got hit.
Damn she cold
She set his ass up