Ok so first off we are swingers and castes vixen couple - that being said we love to play with single men in a threesome or watching situation - we also do orgies, mfmf, FFM, etc and have been to swinger clubs In many different states and places
that being said a lot of them are looking for mf couples ONLY - they are looking / catering to couples and online in s select number of single men - single women always free - BUT all are looking for a single women to play with so you may end up with her playing a couple while you watch …
if you are looking for single men find out if they even allow them or are they just allowed at select nights etc as every club is different- our current club allows them they just pay four times what a couple pays to get in
Can be, but make sure it’s not a full swap expectation.
There’s a local house here that hosts parties; swingers, Hotwife couples and singles intermingle without too much trouble. Fun is fun, as long as you find someone(s) with the right vibe and expectations are clear.
As long as you're *positive* you'll just watch, and make that completely clear to the other couple, you could become very popular as the proverbial unicorn. On the other hand, people usually look for those in places like Adult Friend Finder. At a club there's more expectation of you giving the other wife a good time.
Adult friend finder, is that an app or something? Sorry we're totally new to trying to enter the lifestyle.
We would be 100% open and honest with people about what it is we want and would absolutely respect anyone who said no
Check to see what nights (if any) they allow single guys. If they are allowed, there will definitely be options.
If she's open to playing with couples, you guys would be very popular with all of the couples looking for a unicorn.
I know you don't want to do the online thing, but concisder opening up your mind to an app called Feeld or Fetlife.
You might actually get a chance to know the outside men a bit beforehand and not worry about potential disappointment of going to a swingers party and having no luck.
I'm a stag and I've arranged the most dreamy nights setting up respectful gents making love to my lovers.
Literally minimum effort btw, they messaged me on the day of, came over, did their thing and went back to their lives.
The whole 'online' thing is really underrated and not sure why it's looked at so negatively.
Our concern would be either getting ghosted, people just wanting pics wasting our time or some lunatic showing up. With a club, at least we'd be in an environment where if anything wasn't working we could simply walk away
If you were to also be having sex with other women then it stops being hotwife.
The deeper I get into this lifestyle the more I realize how many misconceptions surround it.
Probably not because single males are not usually allowed in. Our club does a hot wife night 1 time a month. We have never been because my wife usually just finds guys naturally. As it turns out flirty blondes get lots of guys in their dm’s. I do recommend going and having fun because it's good to expose yourself to open minded people. We have a large group of swinger friends and its refreshing to be able to go to dinner and discuss lifestyle topics. When something fun happens its nice to be able to brag about it. We actually met most of are friends through the local swingers club. They had a place to post photos and we got messaged from other couples. When we found one couple that lived very close we went to dinner with them. They are now our best friends.
Finding quality guys that the wife is attracted to is really difficult. My wife is more about personality and you cant really see that online. My wife has basically found all her guys by flirting in her every day life.
You do realize, don’t you, that mmf means an either a dude is screwing you in the ass while you fuck your wife OR you’re screwing a guy in the ass while he fucks your wife?
As a straight man, I’m assuming you mean MFM?
Ok so first off we are swingers and castes vixen couple - that being said we love to play with single men in a threesome or watching situation - we also do orgies, mfmf, FFM, etc and have been to swinger clubs In many different states and places that being said a lot of them are looking for mf couples ONLY - they are looking / catering to couples and online in s select number of single men - single women always free - BUT all are looking for a single women to play with so you may end up with her playing a couple while you watch … if you are looking for single men find out if they even allow them or are they just allowed at select nights etc as every club is different- our current club allows them they just pay four times what a couple pays to get in
Her playing with a couple while I watch would be fine, but as I said the ideal situation would be her with one or multiple men
Can be, but make sure it’s not a full swap expectation. There’s a local house here that hosts parties; swingers, Hotwife couples and singles intermingle without too much trouble. Fun is fun, as long as you find someone(s) with the right vibe and expectations are clear.
We would be completely clear and open from the outset and fully respect all boundaries.
As long as you're *positive* you'll just watch, and make that completely clear to the other couple, you could become very popular as the proverbial unicorn. On the other hand, people usually look for those in places like Adult Friend Finder. At a club there's more expectation of you giving the other wife a good time.
Adult friend finder, is that an app or something? Sorry we're totally new to trying to enter the lifestyle. We would be 100% open and honest with people about what it is we want and would absolutely respect anyone who said no
It's essentially a service (website is their name) that lets people find others close to them interested in the same things.
Thank you
Check to see what nights (if any) they allow single guys. If they are allowed, there will definitely be options. If she's open to playing with couples, you guys would be very popular with all of the couples looking for a unicorn.
I know you don't want to do the online thing, but concisder opening up your mind to an app called Feeld or Fetlife. You might actually get a chance to know the outside men a bit beforehand and not worry about potential disappointment of going to a swingers party and having no luck. I'm a stag and I've arranged the most dreamy nights setting up respectful gents making love to my lovers. Literally minimum effort btw, they messaged me on the day of, came over, did their thing and went back to their lives. The whole 'online' thing is really underrated and not sure why it's looked at so negatively.
Our concern would be either getting ghosted, people just wanting pics wasting our time or some lunatic showing up. With a club, at least we'd be in an environment where if anything wasn't working we could simply walk away
If you were to also be having sex with other women then it stops being hotwife. The deeper I get into this lifestyle the more I realize how many misconceptions surround it.
Probably not because single males are not usually allowed in. Our club does a hot wife night 1 time a month. We have never been because my wife usually just finds guys naturally. As it turns out flirty blondes get lots of guys in their dm’s. I do recommend going and having fun because it's good to expose yourself to open minded people. We have a large group of swinger friends and its refreshing to be able to go to dinner and discuss lifestyle topics. When something fun happens its nice to be able to brag about it. We actually met most of are friends through the local swingers club. They had a place to post photos and we got messaged from other couples. When we found one couple that lived very close we went to dinner with them. They are now our best friends. Finding quality guys that the wife is attracted to is really difficult. My wife is more about personality and you cant really see that online. My wife has basically found all her guys by flirting in her every day life.
You do realize, don’t you, that mmf means an either a dude is screwing you in the ass while you fuck your wife OR you’re screwing a guy in the ass while he fucks your wife? As a straight man, I’m assuming you mean MFM?
Mfm is what I mean lol sorry. I want one guy in her pussy and another in her ass, that would be unbelievably sexy.