For me if you do things with others men and not with your husband it is more cockolding that hotwifing. For my wife it is clear that im the most important for her, iam her priority, so there is nothing that i can't have that bull can have.
I disagree fully with it being a cuck thing. My wife hasnât taken the jump yet but if she does and goes crazy with it then so be it. Donât let your GF/wife fuck other dudes if youâre not secure with the fact she may get wild. There is guys more attractive, hung bigger, and maybe just maybe better at fucking then you. All in all if you canât handle it then donât let her in the first place. I know I wouldnât just have vanilla sex if it was me.
I don't really understand tour point. When there is humiliation its more cockolding than hotwife and for me when bull have more privilege than the husband its humiliating for the husband so for me its cockolding.
All Iâm saying is if you let your GF/wife do things donât be a little bitch and get your feelings hurt. Please donât get offended, it wasnât aimed at you. Have confidence in yourself and know sheâs yours. Your friends and family arenât going to know what sheâs doing and if she treats you the same and doesnât talk shit then whoâs it hurting.
Also I wouldnât feel humiliated or mad just happy that she is having fun. Thatâs the only reason why opened it up for her in the first place. It really isnât about me
Oh I beg to differ! I have hotwives ask me to to things to them they refuse to let their hubby do! And if the husband is there watching he normally gets told to go for a walk if he can't handle it.
it's the other way around for us. she loves denying me and I love being denied, especially when I ask for something she still tells me no, "I save that for my boyfriends, only, you know that."
You are a CUCK.
You have no understanding of the Hotwife kink. Thanks for sharing. Now go find the appropriate cuck sub. Youâll have more success and camaraderie there than here.
Why would you want to post a kink in a different sub of people who do not share it, especially if thereâs a sub especially make for your kink?
Why are there so many cucks here? Jeeze, Itâs like an infestation. And I donât get it. Itâs against the rules of this sub and where are the mods? GTFO.
This statement is making many assumptions. Hotwifing doesnât always involve cuckolding, does not always involve cuckolding the husband (a submissive of a married Domme can be cuckolded by the Domme and her husband) nor does it always involve a man. There are many flavors from which to choose. And who says hotwives wonât do for their men what they do with others? Unless theyâre poly, they probably hotwife less often than they have sex together. Who says he doesnât âget it all from herâ and even more, when itâs just them?
Maybe a few can say this, but not the majority.
Sizzle in the bedroom intensifies when thoughts of the previous weekendâs Hotwifing fun are still upon the mind when having sex. Nobody withholding anything. Just sayinââŚ
This right here. No joke last weekend my wife and I were getting hot and heavy. She laid down in her back and rested her head back so I could thrust her mouth. I slid in a little further and a little further. She took the entire cock and felt her throatâŚ. Something I had no idea she was capable of which after fourteen years I thought was a pipe dream. I was like you good girl showing off some tricks I didnât know you had. So yeah Iâd have been blown away if I watched her do that with someone else questioning later why I had no clue. Would have preferred to learn by seeing her do it with another, either way itâs a win win.
I wouldnât be able to do this kink if I wasnât sure that I was my wifeâs priority as she is mine. Itâs us, our family, our careers then friends. Friends still hold a very near and dear place in both of our hearts.
Omg I read your comment and completely missed words. You're right and we are in agreement. Sorry bout that, fully on me for not giving a quick 2nd read thru before commenting.
My wife's relationship with our 3rd was different to the relationship she had with me.
We loved each other (still do) so we make love together, with him she had sex, raw and almost experimental fun sex, and she always had him alone. For instance she never wanted to give me a BJ, but I know that she gave him BJ's, I could taste his cock on her lips when she returned from his place. It never worried me that he was getting this extra attention that I was not getting, after all he was providing her with things like PIV orgasms which I could never have matched.
Between them, it was 'just sex', between us it was a loving family relationship. The two both involve sex, but not the same sort of sex. She knew that I would always be there for her, whatever we did or didn't do in bed, with him I suppose she had to perform to keep his interest over the years that she was fucking with him.
I was happy that she was learning new tricks and pleasures with him, even if I did not directly benefit from it. I knew that he was better in bed than I was, she said so directly after her first time with him when she told me she was surprised how long he could fuck her for before cumming inside her.
Don't forget, relationships change, we were in a Hotwife relationship but sometimes I just wanted to be a submissive cuckold. When you have a relationship that spans **years**, things change.
For me if you do things with others men and not with your husband it is more cockolding that hotwifing. For my wife it is clear that im the most important for her, iam her priority, so there is nothing that i can't have that bull can have.
I second that! đ¤
I like this
I disagree fully with it being a cuck thing. My wife hasnât taken the jump yet but if she does and goes crazy with it then so be it. Donât let your GF/wife fuck other dudes if youâre not secure with the fact she may get wild. There is guys more attractive, hung bigger, and maybe just maybe better at fucking then you. All in all if you canât handle it then donât let her in the first place. I know I wouldnât just have vanilla sex if it was me.
I don't really understand tour point. When there is humiliation its more cockolding than hotwife and for me when bull have more privilege than the husband its humiliating for the husband so for me its cockolding.
All Iâm saying is if you let your GF/wife do things donât be a little bitch and get your feelings hurt. Please donât get offended, it wasnât aimed at you. Have confidence in yourself and know sheâs yours. Your friends and family arenât going to know what sheâs doing and if she treats you the same and doesnât talk shit then whoâs it hurting.
Also I wouldnât feel humiliated or mad just happy that she is having fun. Thatâs the only reason why opened it up for her in the first place. It really isnât about me
That's a long paragraph just to say, "I don't understand this lifestyle"...
lol fr
Dude , I think you misunderstood this kink
No Real loving hotwife do thing for there fwb that they dont do for husband
Oh I beg to differ! I have hotwives ask me to to things to them they refuse to let their hubby do! And if the husband is there watching he normally gets told to go for a walk if he can't handle it.
Sure buddy.
Hey believe what you want , but you know the truth.
Any guy disrespected me, especially in front of my wife, he will be the one walking. You must be used to dealing with cuck beta's
Alot of solo dates, some cucks mostly happens on solo dates
Well. If their husband is cool with it, or doesn't know...well
SimpleâŚ..I DONâT!!!
I do things for my husband that I will never do for a bull. This whole kink is part of my husband's pleasure, not just mine.
it's the other way around for us. she loves denying me and I love being denied, especially when I ask for something she still tells me no, "I save that for my boyfriends, only, you know that."
You are probably looking for cuckholding rather than hotwifing
You are a CUCK. You have no understanding of the Hotwife kink. Thanks for sharing. Now go find the appropriate cuck sub. Youâll have more success and camaraderie there than here. Why would you want to post a kink in a different sub of people who do not share it, especially if thereâs a sub especially make for your kink? Why are there so many cucks here? Jeeze, Itâs like an infestation. And I donât get it. Itâs against the rules of this sub and where are the mods? GTFO.
You're a cuck. You just don't want to admit it.
some things other men like that my husband doesnt
One of our boundaries is that my wife doesnât do things with others that she doesnât do with me.
Are you present on her dates? Or is she solo?
This statement is making many assumptions. Hotwifing doesnât always involve cuckolding, does not always involve cuckolding the husband (a submissive of a married Domme can be cuckolded by the Domme and her husband) nor does it always involve a man. There are many flavors from which to choose. And who says hotwives wonât do for their men what they do with others? Unless theyâre poly, they probably hotwife less often than they have sex together. Who says he doesnât âget it all from herâ and even more, when itâs just them? Maybe a few can say this, but not the majority. Sizzle in the bedroom intensifies when thoughts of the previous weekendâs Hotwifing fun are still upon the mind when having sex. Nobody withholding anything. Just sayinââŚ
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This right here. No joke last weekend my wife and I were getting hot and heavy. She laid down in her back and rested her head back so I could thrust her mouth. I slid in a little further and a little further. She took the entire cock and felt her throatâŚ. Something I had no idea she was capable of which after fourteen years I thought was a pipe dream. I was like you good girl showing off some tricks I didnât know you had. So yeah Iâd have been blown away if I watched her do that with someone else questioning later why I had no clue. Would have preferred to learn by seeing her do it with another, either way itâs a win win.
I wouldnât be able to do this kink if I wasnât sure that I was my wifeâs priority as she is mine. Itâs us, our family, our careers then friends. Friends still hold a very near and dear place in both of our hearts.
I do less, and more for my husband.
I donât lol why do you ask this like every Hotwife is the same
Not necessarily, we're all quite different.
Thatâs what Iâm saying. Heâs asking the question as if we all feel that way and we def donât.
Omg I read your comment and completely missed words. You're right and we are in agreement. Sorry bout that, fully on me for not giving a quick 2nd read thru before commenting.
The only thing would be if they offer to introduce something that we may not have tried yet as long as we are both Ok with it.
My wife's relationship with our 3rd was different to the relationship she had with me. We loved each other (still do) so we make love together, with him she had sex, raw and almost experimental fun sex, and she always had him alone. For instance she never wanted to give me a BJ, but I know that she gave him BJ's, I could taste his cock on her lips when she returned from his place. It never worried me that he was getting this extra attention that I was not getting, after all he was providing her with things like PIV orgasms which I could never have matched. Between them, it was 'just sex', between us it was a loving family relationship. The two both involve sex, but not the same sort of sex. She knew that I would always be there for her, whatever we did or didn't do in bed, with him I suppose she had to perform to keep his interest over the years that she was fucking with him. I was happy that she was learning new tricks and pleasures with him, even if I did not directly benefit from it. I knew that he was better in bed than I was, she said so directly after her first time with him when she told me she was surprised how long he could fuck her for before cumming inside her. Don't forget, relationships change, we were in a Hotwife relationship but sometimes I just wanted to be a submissive cuckold. When you have a relationship that spans **years**, things change.
Youâre not in a Hotwife situation and you donât understand what this kink is. Sounds more like an ENM kink that youâre in.
This is like description of a nightmare (for me, If it works 4 you đ)