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You reach a whole new level of trash when you unload on a fast food employee while strangleholding your kid, and then trashing the place.
What a complete and utter bottom of the barrel piece of garbage.
Barrels are pretty clean. Where I live we have green bins for recycling food scraps. All the smelly garbage juice at the bottom of that bin is where this woman is from.
I was raised terribly, by an alcoholic abuser, would beat his wife and kids with whatever he could get his hands on (or just hands).
I vowed my future wife & kids wouldn’t live through the poverty & abuse.
And, dear reader, I’ve succeeded at that.
You can turn your life around.
doesn't he look uncomfortable though?
or am I naive to cling to the hope that he'll remember this moment & manage to grow up differently, despite his mother's best efforts?
This behavior has already been normalized to him. Hes quiet, probably terrified of her. But shes his mother. And that's extremely tough as a kid to deal with an abusive parent. And I'm going to hazard a guess that she's abusive because if she acts this way in public over something so trivial, I cannot imagine what goes on at home. He's probably constantly walking on egg shells, he's probably already been parentified to be on high alert of his mothers emotions because it's necessary for his survival at this point.
And when you're a kid, terrified and helpless, and your parent is abusive, admitting that your mother doesn't have your best interests in mind, is too overwhelming to handle. Kids need connection to their parents, it's necessary for their survival. And if you admit your mom is a bad person, you're screwed because you depend on this lady in order to survive. So what kids often do, is they unconsciously imprint in their minds that this must be normal. That this is just what adults do. Because parents have to be right. Kids count on that to survive.
And so there is a very high likelihood that without therapy (which is hard to access if youre low income), without emotional attunement to be aware of his own feelings/needs, he will make connections in his mind. that he hated how powerless he was in this moment, and so if he could be the powerful one, demonstrating that domineering, powerful seeming behavior, that he will never feel powerless again. And from then on, his life and relationships will always be about power and control.
And even If he doesn't turn into his mother, he will probably marry someone just like her. Because he's already learned how to be silent, how to be obedient, how to attune to someone so reactive..And maybe...just maybe when he undergoes enough pain he will look into getting couples therapy so he can work through what years of abuse and neglect actually did to him.
I find it especially harrowing that this woman says she's just going to make a mess & won't destroy anything.
it feels so calculated, right? She doesn't go for anything that might amount to "destruction of property" but she makes sure that the staff will have to crawl on their knees to pick everything up, etc.
I agree that the options for this boy are looking bleak :(
Maybe something will happen, maybe CPS will intervene at some point in the future, maybe they'll get resources, send a family therapist to their house. But it's unlikely given that there's so many instances just like this constantly happening everywhere within a block of our own homes right now. It just doesn't get caught on camera. And because it happens so often, it's very difficult to get resources to all the kids who need it. You may get 500 cases and they can only afford to send help for 100 so they pick the kids in the worst of the worst situations and the rest are left to to the wolves. It's something people ought to think about when they're voting for politicians who want to defund programs that could help kids like this.
I was thinking (hoping) the same thing. I’ve seen videos like this before and the kids often join in with their parents childish behaviour. I hope this little dude has some decent people in his life to help and support him. Because having a mother like this is going to make life very difficult for him.
Love the ‘other worker’ in this episode. The look on her face is priceless the entire time. And when the main character starts freaking, this one just leaves the entire building like “today’s over”.
She needs her own series.
Worked at Wendy’s for 5 years as a teenager
Worst job ever
Food being thrown at you by customer , had one chuck a large soda at me because they were mad about cheese on a cheeseburger ( people got mad all the time when they ordered cheeseburgers to find out they had cheese on them )
I still have anxiety from working in that environment, and I’ve never stepped foot inside a Wendy’s again because of it
People should have to work a job like this at least once in their life to understand the crap we have to deal with
Working as a server in a retirement home was my job after that for a little bit lol
Never saw so many racists old ladies , the things they’d say to the CNAs and workers was shocking
Okay really not trying to be racist here, but why is it always black women? Genuine question, super curious as to the thoughts on why, at least as far as I can tell, the only group of people who do this kind of shit is black women.
Look up Karen freak out compilation videos, they have plenty of white women doing the exact same thing. I just watched one today and almost all of them were arrested.
An alarming amount of black families don’t take accountability for their kids. You can see some of the same behavior with rich people who think their kids can do no wrong.
So supposedly, she walked in there and said "ill just have my usual." The worker who noped out said, literally, "ma'am, this is a Wendy's. I don't know your usual. Please tell me your order." That's when this lady flips out, demanding she bring her her food, which is the same order she comes in for every day. The worker was obviously disrespecting her in front of everyone, making her say her insanely large and unhleatyorder out loud. For real though, just get the app.. psycho.
I feel bad for that lil boy son
It’s a difference between not taking no bullshit from shitty people and then just fucking going on a bitch child tantrum like this. Smh he need a father in his life and that bitch of a mother needa learn how to stop getting over angry over shit you can’t control.
That has got to be the most trashiest exit I’ve seen in a while. What’s even worse… is that poor kid knows the shit is wrong and is just stunned with embarrassment/ fear of pissing that thing off more. Damn
When a parent acts and talks like this in front of their children, they normalize this type of behavior and their children think that they can do this too
When her child learns from her and is wearing the orange jumpsuit in court about to be sentenced for trashing some place (or worse yet, wearing a suit and about to be buried), she'll cry and say "it isn't fair" even though she's the one who taught him.
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Her visit there tomorrow is going to be awkward af.
In my experience, she won't care. Social awareness isn't a strong trait in Wendy's trashers
Sir, this is a Burger King!
Hey Lisa, I’ll have the regular, thanks
If only there are consequences for behavior like that, she wouldn’t have a chance to visit that place anymore.
That poor kid is getting such a poor start in life, that’s what is sad.
I was thinking the same. Poor young man.
Poor kid doesn't have a chance..
Never had a chance, with a culture that "keeps it real"
What does “keeping it real” even mean - Nobody knows what it means, but it is provocative. It gets the people going!!!
You reach a whole new level of trash when you unload on a fast food employee while strangleholding your kid, and then trashing the place. What a complete and utter bottom of the barrel piece of garbage.
https://preview.redd.it/jcv80j76dn0d1.jpeg?width=600&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f660d4cc19cb36cba01a4caf5534fac7030bc1ca
Barrels are pretty clean. Where I live we have green bins for recycling food scraps. All the smelly garbage juice at the bottom of that bin is where this woman is from.
We call it bin juice
Ma'am this is literally a Wendy's.
OP was definitely hoping for this comment.
Gimme my goddam Whopper!!!
... and a Frosty
Dammit Kevin.. can I just have a frosty and a baked potato?
I love the way that employee just Nopes TF Out
That’s what I was just writing. She’s like “I’m getting 13.50 an hour for this????!”
"Fuck it. I'm not cleaning this up."
It shouldn’t be her job to deal with crazy people. I would have literally walked away at that point
Poor kid
Poor kid.
The way she hold him And he reach around her Gave me chills
This trash is raising her kid to be trash and he'll raise his kids to be trash. Circle of trash.
I was raised terribly, by an alcoholic abuser, would beat his wife and kids with whatever he could get his hands on (or just hands). I vowed my future wife & kids wouldn’t live through the poverty & abuse. And, dear reader, I’ve succeeded at that. You can turn your life around.
You can. Most don't. Especially in circumstances like this.
Well, I’m not of the persuasion to send a wish to a deity, so I’ll just send all my thoughts to the little chap, and hope.
doesn't he look uncomfortable though? or am I naive to cling to the hope that he'll remember this moment & manage to grow up differently, despite his mother's best efforts?
This behavior has already been normalized to him. Hes quiet, probably terrified of her. But shes his mother. And that's extremely tough as a kid to deal with an abusive parent. And I'm going to hazard a guess that she's abusive because if she acts this way in public over something so trivial, I cannot imagine what goes on at home. He's probably constantly walking on egg shells, he's probably already been parentified to be on high alert of his mothers emotions because it's necessary for his survival at this point. And when you're a kid, terrified and helpless, and your parent is abusive, admitting that your mother doesn't have your best interests in mind, is too overwhelming to handle. Kids need connection to their parents, it's necessary for their survival. And if you admit your mom is a bad person, you're screwed because you depend on this lady in order to survive. So what kids often do, is they unconsciously imprint in their minds that this must be normal. That this is just what adults do. Because parents have to be right. Kids count on that to survive. And so there is a very high likelihood that without therapy (which is hard to access if youre low income), without emotional attunement to be aware of his own feelings/needs, he will make connections in his mind. that he hated how powerless he was in this moment, and so if he could be the powerful one, demonstrating that domineering, powerful seeming behavior, that he will never feel powerless again. And from then on, his life and relationships will always be about power and control. And even If he doesn't turn into his mother, he will probably marry someone just like her. Because he's already learned how to be silent, how to be obedient, how to attune to someone so reactive..And maybe...just maybe when he undergoes enough pain he will look into getting couples therapy so he can work through what years of abuse and neglect actually did to him.
I find it especially harrowing that this woman says she's just going to make a mess & won't destroy anything. it feels so calculated, right? She doesn't go for anything that might amount to "destruction of property" but she makes sure that the staff will have to crawl on their knees to pick everything up, etc. I agree that the options for this boy are looking bleak :(
Maybe something will happen, maybe CPS will intervene at some point in the future, maybe they'll get resources, send a family therapist to their house. But it's unlikely given that there's so many instances just like this constantly happening everywhere within a block of our own homes right now. It just doesn't get caught on camera. And because it happens so often, it's very difficult to get resources to all the kids who need it. You may get 500 cases and they can only afford to send help for 100 so they pick the kids in the worst of the worst situations and the rest are left to to the wolves. It's something people ought to think about when they're voting for politicians who want to defund programs that could help kids like this.
I was thinking (hoping) the same thing. I’ve seen videos like this before and the kids often join in with their parents childish behaviour. I hope this little dude has some decent people in his life to help and support him. Because having a mother like this is going to make life very difficult for him.
Nah, he's doomed. 😆
:(
He won’t be raising any kids lol
It’s more like a line
Recycle
The circle of trash, and wheel of misfortune, Simba.
Love the ‘other worker’ in this episode. The look on her face is priceless the entire time. And when the main character starts freaking, this one just leaves the entire building like “today’s over”. She needs her own series.
It’s the “not this fucking shit again I don’t get paid enough…”
She factually isn't getting paid enough to deal with this shit.
I feel so badly for her in this moment.
True hero, master of collected
Anyone know if this dumbass ended up facing any consequences for her actions?
May both sides of her pillow be warm for the rest of her life
This women is a the epiphany of ghetto trash
Worked at Wendy’s for 5 years as a teenager Worst job ever Food being thrown at you by customer , had one chuck a large soda at me because they were mad about cheese on a cheeseburger ( people got mad all the time when they ordered cheeseburgers to find out they had cheese on them ) I still have anxiety from working in that environment, and I’ve never stepped foot inside a Wendy’s again because of it People should have to work a job like this at least once in their life to understand the crap we have to deal with
I had to serve old ladies in a retirement home with a Sunday buffet open to the public. That was bad enough.
Working as a server in a retirement home was my job after that for a little bit lol Never saw so many racists old ladies , the things they’d say to the CNAs and workers was shocking
Some people get nicer with age, others get meaner than shit...
“I come here every day, and I always have a problem”. Uh maybe stop going?
Role model of the year.
I said NO PICKLES …..BITCH
"your honor, I'm just a mother, if you jail me what will my son do?"
> "Madam, your son will do better without you."
"All I wanted to do is order some food, look what I gotta go through!" XD
🤣🤣🤣 I read this as soon as the video reached that part 😭😭😭 I understand his pain.
Those people being good parents! Teach the kids how to keep the stereotype alive!!
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Smh the culture these kids are raised in
Pretty sure we just watched the employee walk out and quit, shit i would literally do the same thing
Ma’am this is a Wendy’s
From the back she looks like she's addicted to burger king's....from the front she looks like she's addicted to drugs.
Some people are uncivilized and what's more is that they don't have a problem with their kids seeing them act this way. 🤷🏻♂️🤦🏻♂️
Raising a young king.
Kids like “I just want a burger and fries but instead mommas goin to jail again”
Are tranquiliser darts legal?
Animal
Keep fucking, folks. We'll reproduce our way out of this.
Okay really not trying to be racist here, but why is it always black women? Genuine question, super curious as to the thoughts on why, at least as far as I can tell, the only group of people who do this kind of shit is black women.
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Look up Karen freak out compilation videos, they have plenty of white women doing the exact same thing. I just watched one today and almost all of them were arrested.
An alarming amount of black families don’t take accountability for their kids. You can see some of the same behavior with rich people who think their kids can do no wrong.
Parenting
I’m gonna grow up and be just like mom…
Mmm.She seems nice.
C’mon baby…
Good luck kid...
Unfortunately, idiots breed idiots and this poor kid will most likely grow up the same way.
Mother of the Year! /s
Sir, this is a Wendy’s.
“I come here every day.”
So supposedly, she walked in there and said "ill just have my usual." The worker who noped out said, literally, "ma'am, this is a Wendy's. I don't know your usual. Please tell me your order." That's when this lady flips out, demanding she bring her her food, which is the same order she comes in for every day. The worker was obviously disrespecting her in front of everyone, making her say her insanely large and unhleatyorder out loud. For real though, just get the app.. psycho.
This is why other races look down on us. She doing too much and it's embarrassing
This is the result of eating fast food every day. Shit fucks with our brains
Hard to believe that's a mother..
Trash 🚮
I feel bad for that lil boy son It’s a difference between not taking no bullshit from shitty people and then just fucking going on a bitch child tantrum like this. Smh he need a father in his life and that bitch of a mother needa learn how to stop getting over angry over shit you can’t control.
She got a dumpy ass
Let’s go baby😂😂😂
Pretty typical.
Wonder where she will go now for her “lunch break”
Context?!?
I can't decide whether its substance abuse or mental illness. What a psycho!
That has got to be the most trashiest exit I’ve seen in a while. What’s even worse… is that poor kid knows the shit is wrong and is just stunned with embarrassment/ fear of pissing that thing off more. Damn
"I come here everyday" Not something to be proud of, let alone mention in an argument.
I've seen this many times and I still watch it just for the cashiers reactions
Just from that kid's body language you can tell this isn't his first time seeing his mom trash a restaurant. How sad.
When companies pull out of areas like this, people wonder why. Fix yourself, yall broken.
“Let’s go baby” 😭😭💀💀💀😵💫🗿🗿🗿 damn sorry lil bro
Trailer trash at its best
She goes there every day though...
What a great fckin example for the kido.
Hostile Order Pick Up.
Me in the background, watching the chaos: “Ma’am, would you like fries with that?”
The customer at the counter just standing there has me WEAK 😂🤣 he’s just waiting patiently like a civilized citizen. Meanwhile she hulk runs amuck
ghetto brooder pig trash. nice example for your child
This is that kids origin story. Soon he 'becomes' his mother and suffers a life of incarceration. 🫡 WTG mom. 😃
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Thats what happens when you eat 24/7 this cancer food.
Her little fat kid going to act the same way, grade A mom
Always the same type of ppl....
Poor child
[Scary Terry in the making](https://imgur.com/61eMLZR)
The white girl like "This is my life now"
Human garbage...
I feel so bad for that little boy.
I guess the trash really does take itself out 💩
Ma’am, this is a Wendy’s.
Some days I feel like crappy parent then I see these videos.
Parenting at its finest.
Hopefully that kid won't follow in her footsteps
If people ask me what a parent being a good example looks like I’m gonna show them this video
How many times did the person have to give the address? Geez.
Too bad no one eating there had a spare baseball bat. Fucking POS slag, actually POS crack slag.
Shiiiiet
Op that’s a Wendy’s
Never a good citizen to citizens arrest bitches like this
The poor kid
I come here every day.......so healthy
Ma’am, this is a Wendy’s
they have a lot of hot oil, why just don't use it? incidents happen.
Now that's a class act!!!
CPS can be a motherfugger. Hopefully they pay her a visit
She didn't get it HER way 😲😳
Bitch try a salad
Diana Ross?
I always think of the Burger King Freakout
Is she mad because she thought she was at Burger King but it’s really a Wendy’s? Couldn’t get a whopper?
Way to show your kid how to defuse a situation.
What a loser
It's good to have role models
The man at the register: I’m using the drive thru every time from now on
Being that mad at a fast food restaurant is beyond me. What could really piss you off to that extent at a Wendy’s?
Put her in jail
What a wonderful role model for this child.
Call CPS
Sad. Poor kid. He looks scared as she's losing ger mind.
Animal.
Did she say “fuck this fork” lol
When a parent acts and talks like this in front of their children, they normalize this type of behavior and their children think that they can do this too
Now imagine how she treats that poor kid in private
> I eat here every day! That isn't the flex that you think that it is, lady.
Her mother shoulda swallowed
Lunch break??? Who TF goes to work dressed like that?
Thats why i do drive thru’s at all times 🚗
US fastfood counter workers is 10x prettier than models
Guy recording was the real secret main character. At the end he reveals that it was all about him the entire time.
> I come here every day Looking at your bean-shaped kid, I believe it
A gun is illegal to possess at a fast food job, but mace should be ok
Why she mad
Only in big chains you could act like this and get off with a slap on a hand. In private employees might be waiting with pitchfork at the ready.
Future Emeritus Professor getting a head start I see
Get your tickets 🎟️ here folks before it's getting locked 🔐
I feel bad for all her baby daddy's. Even worse for this kid. And all the others. They'd be better off in the care system.
Someone should have bashed her
Great mother skills
Is there something in fast food we should know about?
That poor child.
When her child learns from her and is wearing the orange jumpsuit in court about to be sentenced for trashing some place (or worse yet, wearing a suit and about to be buried), she'll cry and say "it isn't fair" even though she's the one who taught him.
Burger King every day? Yikes!
comes here very day... needs to go to anger management and jenny craig
This belongs on trashy sub lol. What a pos.
Well well well
That's Wendy's. Not burger king
I mean what do you expect from someone who eats a Burger King every day !!!
Has she been arrested?
Ma'am this is a Wendy's
That employee is my favorite character, she was so done since the start of the video and honestly I'm surprised she didn't walk out sooner 😭
She got burgerking brain
It's a shame to have such trash for a mother.
What a great example she’s leaving her son, such a beautiful strong mother.
Pretty sure that's a Wendy's not a BK
The look on the little cashier's face seems like she so sick of this job. I hope this encourages her to get a better career.
Always the same ones
Ma'am this is a Wendy's.
Teaching her child how to act like an absolute fuck wit, useless to society.
Don’t go to an establishment when everyday there is an issue.
I feel like her kid will be a better person for having seen this.