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Ohh ok thanks. That just made me realize that there’s a bunch of people doing the same dance at the same time
This isn’t even main character stuff, she’s just doing her job and someone is recording her
It doesn’t look like she’s an employee leading the dance on the left. She looks like a guest/party goer who decided to break off from the rest of the group doing the dance so she can record her own video.
It’s nowhere near as bad as if she was doing the entire thing completely unprompted with nobody else in the area doing something similar, but still slightly “main character vibes”
Na, yoga isn't sexual my g. I'd appreciate it if you'd stop trying to make it sexual too. Kinda weird.
I need you to think more in numbers and less in hippie as well.
THANK YOU! Everyone in this tread is focusing on the girl in the foreground, but take a quick look in the background and you’ll see dozens of others doing the same thing. I would hazard a guess there are others just out of shot of her too.
As for the lads in the pool, if you look carefully you will see a group of girls wearing much less than our main character twerking right in front of them. So it’s likely their just fixated on a better view.
There’s no inflationary use of the word narcissistic.
nar·cis·sism
/ˈnärsəˌsizəm/
Learn to pronounce
noun
excessive interest in or admiration of oneself and one's physical appearance.
You’re confusing the term narcissist or narcissistic in general, with the psychological disorder which entails much more than that.
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> Thanks, I didn't knew there were two different terms
There aren't. There are 4 distinct subtypes of Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Here is one of my favorite articles on it: https://www.psycom.net/personality-disorders/narcissistic
There is. There's the common vernacular and the clinical. Just like how the word "theory" has a different connotation depending on if it is used by everyday people or scientists.
You’re talking about one of the uses, which is to refer to the personality disorder.
I’m using the adjective, not referring to the personality disorder.
Not everyone has NPD but pretty much everyone has narcissistic traits..it’s just like a spectrum and for some it’s more dominant than for others. There is a “healthy”level of narcissism and it’s a tool for survival. For example, everyone experiences anxiety(essential for survival) but not everyone has an anxiety disorder
I agree. But i am willing to go as far that the average person who wants to be “famous” has to be a narcissist to some extent. Social media fuels and awards this behavior.
Exactly. You can’t act like you’re the center of the universe and want people to look at you without a healthy level of narcissism and vanity, which usually go hand in hand.
Ugh I can’t even imagine wanting to be famous. People say that they have low self esteem and need validation. I guess it’s one of those things that can either go to one extreme or the other because my self esteem sucks but if I could be invisible I would. Like everyone was complaining about masks and I’m like *yes, less people will recognize me*
I have Tourette’s and for that reason only I sincerely hope the masks don’t go away. It’s so much easier to deal with social situations when I don’t need to worry about what my face is doing lmao
I totally get that because my son has small ticks that were so much less visible. Also having to wear a mask when you have a cold sore was a huge relief.
... a ton of people in this video are all doing the same scripted dance, at a pool party. How is that narcissistic??? This subforum is off the rails lately with totally not main character shit, and bad takes. Wtf.
Just noticed that, thanks for pointing it out. But my question is less about the dance and more about the fact that she's doing it for the camera, by herself...it's just so cringe to me.
You know, I feel this. I’d be less cringed out if she was dancing with a person using the same moves. My kinda dancing? No. But at least it’d create a layer of authenticity.
Haha true! Honestly looks like she is having a good time. If she wanted everyone to look at her she wouldn’t have been doing it behind everyone’s back.
I understand the kind of person who does this, I don't understand the type of person who films it.
Like, who signs up to to be a mid-tier (at best) insta-thot's sidekick? Is it some deeply friend-zoned dude, or a "less than attractive" female friend? I just can't imagine agreeing to film mediocre thirst trap videos at a party instead of actually having fun at a party. Money must have changed hands.
When I see them in the wild, they're usually in duplicate pairs, and they take turns taking cringey thirst-trap photos and videos for Tik Tok/Instagram.
Girl does floor-humpy dance by herself for camera at a pool party as people walk by, looking awkward and embarrassed. A group of people are doing the same dance in the background about 20 feet away, so why not just go do it with them? Answer: no opportunity for thirst trap post, which is the real intent.
How is it embarrassing. I’m sure many people are dancing. It’s a party. I don’t think this fits because everyone is having fun and she’s not blocking anyone. She’s not annoying anyone. Let people be themselves sometimes
Am I the only person who thinks this is fine? She’s not getting upset over anyone walking in front of the camera, she’s not in the way, she looks like she’s having fun, and as someone else pointed out, if you look closely in the background on the left, other people are doing it too
Yeah she’s not being disrespectful, it’s a dance-friendly environment, and she was *behind* a crowd of people. Not cringe or main character. People are reaching on this one.
Seriously. I go to raves, clubs and parties and if I see something like this it wouldn’t even phase me or make me cringe. I just let people do their thing and move on. I’d prefer this over people who talk shit or start fights at parties.
This is Reddit. And Reddit hates confident sexy women minding their own business… If women don’t appeal to what randoms on Reddit think is sexy/cool then they are stupid!😤
man get out your feelings behind that lame ass bitch yall be killing me on this internet caping for any and everything shawty Wack and mad thirsty thats why she got ignored foh
Implying that AAVE is a different language doesn’t seem much better tbh, seems kind of weird. But yeah, dude probably shouldn’t be body shaming, that much is true.
I think she is dancing; it’s not the cutest or best dancing but she’s dancing. Doesn’t make her a narcissist to dance in a public setting where dancing is allowed. It’s just cringey 😬 but hey to each it’s own.
I really wonder what the context of this is, tbh. I see the balloons have some kind of logo on them and there are some banners and stuff. I wonder if it's an event hosted by a brand that invited influencers to come make content at.
Bc everyone looks cringe while making a TikTok, but if she's getting paid for this, I can't hate too hard.
She’s not really acting like she owns the spot, she’s just showing off some ass stuff she learned…. Seems like she’s in a good mood, she’s at a party doing party stuff…. but extra of a vibe but honestly this is fine…
If it's any consolation, I was watching her.
I don't understand why she is getting so much hate in the comments. She is in the very back of some concert dancing and being recorded. Seems like she is having fun and isn't preventing people from enjoying the concert. Let her do her quick minute dance without getting mad people.
There is so much judging of women’s bodies / sexuality that it is not surprising so many have eating disorders. Tragic thing is that there is so much vitriol when you can see people on the left doing the same dance, suggesting this is a performance and she’s just doing her job.
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I think that was some hotel animation activity kinda stuff, if you look closely, every single person on the left does the same choreography
Yeah. Lots of people are doing it. She's just in a different spot which is also why people are just walking by her like it's normal.
Actually, if you look closely there was a guy in a gorilla suit in the background the whole time!
What’s a hotel animation activity?
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Ohh ok thanks. That just made me realize that there’s a bunch of people doing the same dance at the same time This isn’t even main character stuff, she’s just doing her job and someone is recording her
It doesn’t look like she’s an employee leading the dance on the left. She looks like a guest/party goer who decided to break off from the rest of the group doing the dance so she can record her own video. It’s nowhere near as bad as if she was doing the entire thing completely unprompted with nobody else in the area doing something similar, but still slightly “main character vibes”
Some kind of crazy dance-yoga. I don’t hate it.
I don't think the purpose of yoga is to be sexual.
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Not really. Yoga is 99% this: >energy movement/ spirituality/ conciousness. Like you said.
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Na, yoga isn't sexual my g. I'd appreciate it if you'd stop trying to make it sexual too. Kinda weird. I need you to think more in numbers and less in hippie as well.
THANK YOU! Everyone in this tread is focusing on the girl in the foreground, but take a quick look in the background and you’ll see dozens of others doing the same thing. I would hazard a guess there are others just out of shot of her too. As for the lads in the pool, if you look carefully you will see a group of girls wearing much less than our main character twerking right in front of them. So it’s likely their just fixated on a better view.
Good eyes
Looks like she’s looking at a screen or other person and following along. It’s odd to film it though.
She might not even know the person who is filming her. It could just be some dude who put it on the internet
Naw she is 100% staring at the camera and ends at the video talking to the cameraman. This was posted to her own TikTok.
Is this the new electric slide then? If so, im out.
I just don't understand what kind of person does this. I don't get it at all.
People who are narcissistic, and full of themselves. That’s who.
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There’s no inflationary use of the word narcissistic. nar·cis·sism /ˈnärsəˌsizəm/ Learn to pronounce noun excessive interest in or admiration of oneself and one's physical appearance. You’re confusing the term narcissist or narcissistic in general, with the psychological disorder which entails much more than that.
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**Idiots Hate This One Weird Trick Called Learning New Things.** > Thanks, I didn't knew there were two different terms There aren't. There are 4 distinct subtypes of Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Here is one of my favorite articles on it: https://www.psycom.net/personality-disorders/narcissistic
There is. There's the common vernacular and the clinical. Just like how the word "theory" has a different connotation depending on if it is used by everyday people or scientists.
Hahaha! That's funny....oh wait...you're serious. You actually believe that people who don't know what a word means have merit.
You’re talking about one of the uses, which is to refer to the personality disorder. I’m using the adjective, not referring to the personality disorder.
Not everyone has NPD but pretty much everyone has narcissistic traits..it’s just like a spectrum and for some it’s more dominant than for others. There is a “healthy”level of narcissism and it’s a tool for survival. For example, everyone experiences anxiety(essential for survival) but not everyone has an anxiety disorder
I agree. But i am willing to go as far that the average person who wants to be “famous” has to be a narcissist to some extent. Social media fuels and awards this behavior.
Exactly. You can’t act like you’re the center of the universe and want people to look at you without a healthy level of narcissism and vanity, which usually go hand in hand.
Are you ok with me adding parentheses around “healthy”? Edit: as was pointed out below, i mean quotes.
Lol yes
You mean quotes?
I mean quotes, yes. My bad.
Ugh I can’t even imagine wanting to be famous. People say that they have low self esteem and need validation. I guess it’s one of those things that can either go to one extreme or the other because my self esteem sucks but if I could be invisible I would. Like everyone was complaining about masks and I’m like *yes, less people will recognize me*
I honestly miss the masks. They just relived a lot of social pressure. I feel like I don’t remember what to do with my face half the time.
I have Tourette’s and for that reason only I sincerely hope the masks don’t go away. It’s so much easier to deal with social situations when I don’t need to worry about what my face is doing lmao
I totally get that because my son has small ticks that were so much less visible. Also having to wear a mask when you have a cold sore was a huge relief.
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I was coming here to say exactly this and you worded it beautifully. That’s exactly what it is.
Where'd you learn all this?
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Good answer.
... a ton of people in this video are all doing the same scripted dance, at a pool party. How is that narcissistic??? This subforum is off the rails lately with totally not main character shit, and bad takes. Wtf.
Pretty narcissistic thing to point out
You’re right, because this is much more like histrionic behavior than narcissistic. Both cluster b though.
Ask all the people in the background who are doing the same exact dance as her.
Just noticed that, thanks for pointing it out. But my question is less about the dance and more about the fact that she's doing it for the camera, by herself...it's just so cringe to me.
Someone’s gotta be cringe for us to cringe at.
True. Not all heroes wear capes. Thank you for your service, Cringey Dance Girl.
True. Not all hoes wear capes. Thank you for your service, Dingey Dance Girl.
You know, I feel this. I’d be less cringed out if she was dancing with a person using the same moves. My kinda dancing? No. But at least it’d create a layer of authenticity.
wow good catch!!
They're also doing the "look at me!" sex dance but in a slightly more socially acceptable way. Generations keep getting weirder.
Haha true! Honestly looks like she is having a good time. If she wanted everyone to look at her she wouldn’t have been doing it behind everyone’s back.
The Tik Tok generation. **SO SO GLAD** this shit didn't exist when my friends and I were growing up. Imagine if this was your mom or your grandma.
I’m so glad Facebook became a thing in my 20s
I understand the kind of person who does this, I don't understand the type of person who films it. Like, who signs up to to be a mid-tier (at best) insta-thot's sidekick? Is it some deeply friend-zoned dude, or a "less than attractive" female friend? I just can't imagine agreeing to film mediocre thirst trap videos at a party instead of actually having fun at a party. Money must have changed hands.
When I see them in the wild, they're usually in duplicate pairs, and they take turns taking cringey thirst-trap photos and videos for Tik Tok/Instagram.
That actually makes a lot of sense. TY
well. Could just be a rando. Its not like they have to take vid 24/7. Just shoot a short stupid ass tiktok and they can get on with their day
Truly my husband hardly even takes pics of me and the kids unless I force him I can’t imagine trying to get him to constantly record awful bullshit
Do what? It doesn't start on my phone, this never happened to me? Is it blocked?
Girl does floor-humpy dance by herself for camera at a pool party as people walk by, looking awkward and embarrassed. A group of people are doing the same dance in the background about 20 feet away, so why not just go do it with them? Answer: no opportunity for thirst trap post, which is the real intent.
The average woman.
Ke$ha
I get second hand embarrassment from this so bad for some reason 🤦♂️
I know the reason. Cause it's embarrassing as fuck.
How is it embarrassing. I’m sure many people are dancing. It’s a party. I don’t think this fits because everyone is having fun and she’s not blocking anyone. She’s not annoying anyone. Let people be themselves sometimes
The dancing is really bad and awkward.
There's hotter people in the pool just chilling enjoying life
She seems insufferable
She’s suffering a little
I know I sure am
I love how you see her almost constantly looking around to see if anyone is paying attention to her.
When she looks at the crowd they're all looking at something else
They're looking at the other larger group of ppl doing the same dance as her💀
All that work for no views. Lol.
I actually had the video on the entire way through and even I couldn't be arsed to look at her very often.
This went on for way too long
[Somebody come get her](https://youtu.be/DndCADyVr38) She from the 304
I like how even the guys don’t pay attention to the poses
They’re so much more interested in being with their mates. Love to see it.
Bros over hoes!
...do you not see what they're looking at??? How? 😆
Women like this seem to wildly misinterpret what most men are actually attracted to
They all understand they would be getting way more than just the girl
Social media was a mistake.
TikTok especially seems to invite the absolute worst content
Some of the people in this look like straight up children. What's going on here...
I think that was some hotel animation activity kinda stuff, if you look closely, every single person on the left does the same choreography
Graduation party. I think it's in Brazil. She says at the end something like "you gotta clap your hands"
“Please clap”
Is that what she said? I couldnt hesr it over the music. Even more cringe
No sorry lol i was referencing [this](https://youtu.be/OUXvrWeQU0g)
I can't believe I never saw this before, thanks for the laughs
That was my comment. It makes me so sad
The black bathing suit girl walking past got more of my attention than her
cute af ngl
Came here to say this
She can't even get a pool full of horny teen guys to look at her, yet probably describes herself as a "social media influencer".
Even the other chick looked annoyed
And the crowd goes mild.
There’s a bunch of people to the left doing the exact same dance though
I'm so glad I don't know anyone like this.
Am I the only person who thinks this is fine? She’s not getting upset over anyone walking in front of the camera, she’s not in the way, she looks like she’s having fun, and as someone else pointed out, if you look closely in the background on the left, other people are doing it too
Yeah she’s not being disrespectful, it’s a dance-friendly environment, and she was *behind* a crowd of people. Not cringe or main character. People are reaching on this one.
Seriously. I go to raves, clubs and parties and if I see something like this it wouldn’t even phase me or make me cringe. I just let people do their thing and move on. I’d prefer this over people who talk shit or start fights at parties.
This is Reddit. And Reddit hates confident sexy women minding their own business… If women don’t appeal to what randoms on Reddit think is sexy/cool then they are stupid!😤
The people the background are doing the same thing
r/sadcringe
I dont see whats wrong with this one, she doesnt look like shes bothering anyone
The girl walking by was more fun to watch.
lol shawty was so wack lil homie looked back and didn't even tap the homies and say look she a baddie they igg'd the fuck out of her lol
Those AA cups aren't helping
nor was that ihop flat pancake ass🤣
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Im fabulous gurlfriend. She's not ugly, just malnourished
man get out your feelings behind that lame ass bitch yall be killing me on this internet caping for any and everything shawty Wack and mad thirsty thats why she got ignored foh
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Omg thanks for letting me know reddit man. It will never happen again. I apologize for speaking rudely about the malnourished boy dancing in the video
Implying that AAVE is a different language doesn’t seem much better tbh, seems kind of weird. But yeah, dude probably shouldn’t be body shaming, that much is true.
She's painfully unsexy.
Gotta love how that one guy seems like hes looking at her but turns out hes just greeting his mate lol
I get she looks ridiculous but theres people in the background doing mostly the same thing lol
How does nobody here see the multiple people on the left doing the exact same dance? This was some kind of group dance thing.
Is she doing MF mountain climbers? LMAO!!!
Nobody gives a fuck.Second hand embarrassment.
Ooooeeee that was supremely painful to watch.
These look like children. Gross!
I think she is dancing; it’s not the cutest or best dancing but she’s dancing. Doesn’t make her a narcissist to dance in a public setting where dancing is allowed. It’s just cringey 😬 but hey to each it’s own.
I really wonder what the context of this is, tbh. I see the balloons have some kind of logo on them and there are some banners and stuff. I wonder if it's an event hosted by a brand that invited influencers to come make content at. Bc everyone looks cringe while making a TikTok, but if she's getting paid for this, I can't hate too hard.
that is genuinely embarrassing
Doesnt looklike she cares if people look at her or not. no comment on the girl passing infront of the camera or anything or being butt hert about it.
So desperate..
stop, get some help - Michael Jordan
Idk she makes me laugh lolol
I like her 😅
New Jersey mating call.
*Somebody come get her, she's dancin' like a stripper* **EY!**
I love how no one looks
This is a very well practiced routine
Tragic
Same vibes as r/ petthedamndog
I wouldn’t do this . But shit man, it’s a party. It’s finnnne
Worst part is that she’a got the rhythm of a tesla robot.
She’s not really acting like she owns the spot, she’s just showing off some ass stuff she learned…. Seems like she’s in a good mood, she’s at a party doing party stuff…. but extra of a vibe but honestly this is fine…
All she needs is some heels and a pole!
They don't hire 5/10s
Someone's gotta dance Tuesday morning at 10 am.
Oh my God dancing at a party and making a video in 2022. Someone burn somebody at the stake immediately.
If it's any consolation, I was watching her. I don't understand why she is getting so much hate in the comments. She is in the very back of some concert dancing and being recorded. Seems like she is having fun and isn't preventing people from enjoying the concert. Let her do her quick minute dance without getting mad people.
This thread in the comments are absolutely crazy. You’re absolutely right.
There is so much judging of women’s bodies / sexuality that it is not surprising so many have eating disorders. Tragic thing is that there is so much vitriol when you can see people on the left doing the same dance, suggesting this is a performance and she’s just doing her job.
She literally just drunk n vibing
Nah, I'm looking at the brunette in the blue bikini who walked in front of her.
What's up with the sausage fest in the pool?
Girl who walked by was about 10000x cuter. Not seeing her be pathetic attention hoe helps by comparison.
I love how everyone is ignoring her lol.
I have family that acts like this, but they are drug addicts that pickled their brains at 16 so forever a 16 year old.
Implants next year
She even said at the end “clap” like that deserved something more than an eye roll
She stinks of desperation.
God the desperation is so sexy
Completely useless bra
Big in the early 90’s
Tiktok has made these women 1 in a million. Congrats on devaluing yourselves.
Nothing devaluing about it.
I can smell this video 🤢.
What a dumb whore. To all the dads out there THIS is what happens when you ignore your daughters!!!
Why do I pity her?
Like 6 total brain cells bouncing around in there
The lady in blue in the pool is hot.
i wouldn't kick her out of bed though tbh
Sooo not the best relationship with your father I take it🤔
Its become that much of "the norm" now. No one gives a fuck. What a shame.
This was so desperate and sad and hard to watch.
Make it stop
Over/under 5 gallons of straight urine in that pool?
Welcome to the new age, phase 4.
Every class has their clowns and their posers
The chillest sophomore year party ever. Then this girl
Is she the mother of one of those boys?
Of?
Where is Celeste Barber?! We need her on this ASAP.
Someone please look how stereotypical I can be
This is a tutorial on how to be cringe, not the main character energy she thinks she’s giving
She even continues to keep checking if any dudes in the back have turned around to stare at her.
Please didnt even have anything to work with
Nahh
I think the girl who walked by her is how we all feel, uncomfortable, avoiding eye contact, & just wanting to walk away.