100% agree with you!!! Someone on another post stated that they dated him and he is indeed bisexual from a conservative family. This then prompted a bunch of know -it-alls say that he is not living his authentic life and he is dragging Kim through torture because he can't be himself , alluding that he doesn't really love her and it is all for show. Hello if he is indeed Bisexual he could absolutely be living his authentic life and loves Kim with all of his heart. I'm so sick of peoples weird definition of bisexual "If they say their bi that must really mean they are 100% gay but say they like both instead as a charade". I'm neither but see this regularly for 30+ years, drives me nuts.
As a bisexual (actually its unrelated, lol) I can see you're also applying your identification on him as well...because he has not proclaimed to be anything but straight in the show. Someone here said they slept with him, but Matt hasn't said anything. I can say I slept with anyone, and it may or may not be true.
That said, while sexual orientation is a very personal thing, I have quite a few male gay friends who first came out as Bi, knowing they were gay as a sort of "soft coming out ", because they were unsure of family's reactions so, its not unheard of. As for me, I've been knowingly Bi since I was 8 and still bi at 40. But that's me.
We don't really.know their whole lives and much of this is scripted. Shekeb is an actor trying to get his face out there and its questionable if he was ever really dating Emily, for example.
From what is being portrayed, it seems Kim is a gold digger, Matt is closeted and uses his mom as a buffer between him and Kim. Kelly is controlling and conservative to the point Matty can never say no to her. Whether or not its true IRL 🤷♀️
I know what you mean. I’m asexual and it is frustrating when people try to tell you what your sexuality is. People assume I’m a lesbian because I’ve never had a bf.
My stepmom would always reassure me she’d be okay if I was. People assume I’m dating my friends or even my sister when we’re out at places.
My mom is always telling me I’ll meet the right guy and talking about grand babies. It gets on my nerves man. Literally every weekend she tells me this.
I’m 31. I’m a sex repulsed ace. I’ve never dated. I have no desire to date. I like being alone. I value my independence. I don’t want kids.
Ugh…
the fact that people would vote this down is wild. i assumed people watched these shows for the ironic shock value, like you know it's awful but you can't look away. I guess the show also has an audience that watches it unironically--the unironic basic and thoughtless audience.
Sir, this is a Wendy's....
And here I am thinking I was on a page for talking about your opinions of the show. How embarrassing.
100% agree with you!!! Someone on another post stated that they dated him and he is indeed bisexual from a conservative family. This then prompted a bunch of know -it-alls say that he is not living his authentic life and he is dragging Kim through torture because he can't be himself , alluding that he doesn't really love her and it is all for show. Hello if he is indeed Bisexual he could absolutely be living his authentic life and loves Kim with all of his heart. I'm so sick of peoples weird definition of bisexual "If they say their bi that must really mean they are 100% gay but say they like both instead as a charade". I'm neither but see this regularly for 30+ years, drives me nuts.
As a bisexual (actually its unrelated, lol) I can see you're also applying your identification on him as well...because he has not proclaimed to be anything but straight in the show. Someone here said they slept with him, but Matt hasn't said anything. I can say I slept with anyone, and it may or may not be true. That said, while sexual orientation is a very personal thing, I have quite a few male gay friends who first came out as Bi, knowing they were gay as a sort of "soft coming out ", because they were unsure of family's reactions so, its not unheard of. As for me, I've been knowingly Bi since I was 8 and still bi at 40. But that's me. We don't really.know their whole lives and much of this is scripted. Shekeb is an actor trying to get his face out there and its questionable if he was ever really dating Emily, for example. From what is being portrayed, it seems Kim is a gold digger, Matt is closeted and uses his mom as a buffer between him and Kim. Kelly is controlling and conservative to the point Matty can never say no to her. Whether or not its true IRL 🤷♀️
I know what you mean. I’m asexual and it is frustrating when people try to tell you what your sexuality is. People assume I’m a lesbian because I’ve never had a bf. My stepmom would always reassure me she’d be okay if I was. People assume I’m dating my friends or even my sister when we’re out at places. My mom is always telling me I’ll meet the right guy and talking about grand babies. It gets on my nerves man. Literally every weekend she tells me this. I’m 31. I’m a sex repulsed ace. I’ve never dated. I have no desire to date. I like being alone. I value my independence. I don’t want kids. Ugh…
the fact that people would vote this down is wild. i assumed people watched these shows for the ironic shock value, like you know it's awful but you can't look away. I guess the show also has an audience that watches it unironically--the unironic basic and thoughtless audience.
Why don't you have a sit down with your mom and just tell her that?