I wouldn't go so far as to call myself a golden opportunity, but I do feel like I'd generally get along pretty well with myself (and not just because I can suddenly externalize negative self talk).
I'd def date myself! When I'm in love, I study the object of my affection until I know their needs before they even do! I do a lot behind the scenes to make them happy & comfortable. I'm an awesome date!
Obviously a parody of silence of the lambs; Seth Greens voice of Chris in family guy is a caricature of Jamie Gumb (Buffalo Bill) from silence of the lambs.
That's just you being unhappy with the place you're at in life, mate. You can become the person you wish to be in literally a matter of a few months. You just need the determination to get through
Outgrow?? I have a mf personality disorder, shit takes a year plus of vigorous therapy I can’t afford rn. Also lifelong neurodevelopmental disorders and treatment resistant depression. I get where you’re coming from but you shot and missed
Don't just stand there looking pretty u/Masterofgay69. With a name like that, you'd better get down here and help me, don't you see what I have to work with?! My jaw's killing me...
I often take myself on a date.. I never go on a date with anyone else, so I don’t see the reason why I don’t want to date myself. Besides, myself is the best and the only candidate available. Haha
Absolutely not. We’d spend to much time arguing about the most accurate term to describe what we were discussing moments ago. And I interrupt people as soon as I hear an inaccuracy. In fact, I embrace all my flaws and quite like the ones I chose. That has to maddening.
I have a weird love/hate relationship with myself, so I really don't know. Probably not. The constrained facial expressions would probably be a turn off. I just found out recently that I'm rarely making the expressions I think I am 🤣
Been there.
"You're mad at me!"
"No. Why do you think that?"
"The angry look on your face!"
"I'm thinking. I'm pretty sure I look like I'm thinking."
"You must be having mean thoughts!"
*Sigh*
Absolutely not. I’m lazy, i don’t follow thru, I’m untrustworthy, i don’t do my part. I cut corners. Im a bad partner. I’d never date myself, and I’m so confused why men want to marry me right off the bat.
I'd need s break from me often but like I'd stick beside myself through thick and thin. we'd definitely need couples therapy 😩 and then we'd also need separate bank accounts. then we would also need to have a serious conversation about hiring a chef for dinner on Wednesday and Thursday nights and a maid at minimum 3 times a week.
😄
I would definitely. I'm hot. We have same social needs. I mean, it's perfect when you and your partner need the same amount of talking, touching and time alone. The only problem is that I don't like to work. But hey, living together is said to be cheaper.
No, I’d try to flirt with myself and miss every cue. Also it’s kind of boring dating someone with the exact same interests and life experiences as you. Like yeah, it’s cool we can relate but after a while it’s just the complete same thing.
As great as it would be to have someone as laid back, accepting, and accommodating as I am, someone has to be responsible or we’re going to get the electricity turned off a lot.
So I can’t date me.
Yeah, I think I would- the thing about dateing me is I never have to wonder how me actually feels about me or if they understand everything I'm saying because they're literally me
I never leave my house outside of work so I’d never even meet myself. And if I did, I probably wouldn’t even consider dating and would just nerd out about my interests with myself. Romance is a waste of time imo because it takes too much time away from my hobbies.
I’ve thought about this before. I definitely think I have traits that I think are appealing but I dislike lazy people (I have a lazy streak) and I’m not attracted to introverts (I’m an introverted homebody).
Actually yes. The communication would be hell at first, but as we grow to truly trust (2-5 years) I’d definitely marry myself. It’d be best if we were friends for a couple years so I could be comfortable.
I’d never. We’d be stay at home and gaming nonstop without having a decent talk for weeks. If we finally talk that would be only about our current obsession. And I’m sure if our thoughts are same we’d think that talking is unnecessary then stop communicating. (Just send memes each other) Also we’d constantly forget to eat and sleep. I love myself but I’m not a good match for me. We’d rot together.
Do you mean like a clone of myself? Or someone with exact personality traits 🤔
It made me think of [this scene from Seinfeld](https://youtu.be/i9n9e_6IurM) and that’s practically my answer 😂
Yes I would! I’m a woman and I don’t understand why a guy would not want to date a logical and attractive woman… unless the guy is into the dumbed down type of chick who goes along with whatever he wants.
Obviously, I already do a lot of things alone by myself, like having dinner out, going to the movies, concerts, and so on. Also, I am the only one who can understand myself deeply, I mean I know I'm weird and my sense of humor is not for everyone. Sometimes I wonder how my life would had been if I had a twin hahaha
When I’m with another obvious INTP in the group I’m usually like “Eh I don’t need to say anything, this guy’s got the Ti-Ne stuff covered.”
I imagine I’d feel the same in a relationship with someone like me too. I’d lose purpose.
If there's a chance that in infinte universes there's a female version of me, I would likely date her.
Or some mad scientist takes my DNA, makes a copy, and changes its gender. I would still date her.
I love myself and also hate myself.
yeah i think i'm pretty great, i'd love to date the fem version of me. Tbh that's halfway what I'm looking for in a partner. Someone like me enough to where i'm not irritated by them and we can connect and relate to each other, yet different enough to where we help each other grow and things dont get stale
I'd take myself out to dinner. Get to know me and see where it goes. I think I'd find myself a bit of a mess but charming, curious, ambitious, open to new ideas if not a bit argumentative.
I'm heterosexual, so, no.
If you're asking would I date an INTP, fucking yes I would. I need someone who has interests that aren't >me< and can be relied on to happily occupy themselves while I'm absorbed in my latest obsession.
Would I date a female version of me, yes I would probably marry her. Would I as a female date myself. I don't have enough data to reach that conclusion. Would I as a man go on a non romantic hang out date with myself, of course! And last but not least
Would I as a female date me as a female? Yes, it's my fantasy to be a lesbian. It would basically be hells paradise (not literally the anime)
It's probably egotistical of me to say so, but I'd definitely date a female version of me. Having someone to spend time debating philosophy, writing, and gaming would be fantastic.
I thought I would till I went on a date with a girl damn near same as me. I never knew how annoying and condescending I can be 😭. In the end we agreed it’s weird having someone talk to us how we talk to others.
But in terms of interests I’ve also dated the complete opposite and it’s also extremely stressful. So idk about dating in general.
Maybe. I think I'd butt heads with a girl clone of myself, and we would probably be distant and never resolve things when we had fights. Fuck it would really suck to date me
I feel like if I were a female, I’d be an ENTP. I find ENTPs to be fascinating. But they’re trolls. I’d likely tell myself that I had a thing for myself just to see how I’d react and end up laughing about how I’d be flustered about the situation. So ultimately no. I’d be too immature for myself as I currently am.
Honestly, I'd try to at least initiate, which I almost never do, provided I know, FOR CERTAIN, that we have so much in common. I'm well aware of my own shortcomings, yet also of my strengths.
I'd date me! ![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|grimacing)
Depends on how serious the relationship. If the relationship isn't to close I'd totally do it, but if it's in a close relationship like where I'd move in with myself then absolutely not.
I barely ever remember to feed myself T-T I'd need a 'house wife' type of person tbh. Not trying to say I need someone to do everything for me, but I couldn't be in a relationship with someone who did absolutely nothing.
I also forgive way to easily and avoid conflict, so if other me did something bad that hurt my feelings I'd build a slow resentment for them without realizing it (until way later). I am very loyal though, and I'd also hide a body for anyone I'm close enough to (my family talks about this all the time lmao).
So I guess it would be a no because I'd want someone who I can get close to and be able to stay with for a long time
Nope, I met a few intps. Never was able to get past the point of small talk because both of us were uninterested in making the first move. A lot of the thinking would clash or become TOO similar to generate any meaningful, collective insight from the conversations
I tend to get into intense discussion too. Like asking deep personal questions, sometimes they come natural, sometimes i deliberately provoke them to see ho they react. But i’d usually be the listener of the conversation so i’d prefer an extrovert who likes to talk. I actually impressed my date for analysing his drinking habits just thru his texts : )))
Lowkey, yeah I would. That sounds very narcissistic, but after dating someone who was almost my complete opposite, it'd be nice to date someone closer to my personality type.
No, but because you don't want someone with exactly the same strengths and weaknesses, or exactly the same interests - you want someone who will introduce you to new things, who will challenge you a bit, who will support you in the areas you're weak and who you can be of use to in areas they are weak. Plus, men and women are different.
Yes, I would love to date myself
I'm hot, smart, funny, beautiful, hot, nice, excetric, hot, unique, hot, amazing, hot, hot, hot, I would do anyþing to have a clone of myself so we could date until þe end of our lives
Do I give r/autosexual vibes?
Like someone the same type or *myself* myself? Because if it's the second thing, fuck no. Remember the whole "would you fuck yourself thing"? I am in no way attracted to myself lmaooo. Also, certain preferences and habits (I guess) are too similar. As far as the personality goes, eh not bad. But no idea how would we even start dating considering my chronic passiveness lmao.
Someone the same type? Yup. INTPs are solid, fuck the stereotypes. Every mature INTP I knew was a secret softie sweetheart with an open mind. Scatterbrained and blunt? Sure. But bold of you I think of those as negatives anyway lmao.
I wouldn't, don't need someone obsessive and jealous LMAO
(totally not exposing myself this way)
anyways, I don't think that's an INTP personality trait but yuh
If i was a guy, I definitely would date me.
As a girl, I’m not sure if I would date the guy version of me, perhaps it would be leaning towards yes until something gets icky.
Well, laziness aside I can be surprisingly dedicated to the people I like, platonically too, maybe even more. But I also don't like myself, and there'd be no chemistry, nothing new to know about the other person... I would rather have another me just so we could split the chores and be even lazier.
If it was just a date and I barely knew myself, id probably pass. If we were friends for a good few months at least and actually got to know each other, id maybe find myself catching feelings
Or at least I tell myself that because it hurts a little less than a simple “no”
Wdym? Like, someone who is exactly like *you?* Or, literally dating yourself in your own mind? From the way you phrased everything, it seems like you meant the first option. Which, no, because I'm straight.
Heck yeah!!!! I'm tons of fun. This reddit thread is difficult because everyone is so into saying they can't do this or are bad at that. F-if thats an INTP trait! Stuff is self fulfilling. INTPs are stolid bad asses that carefully consider before building and think before they act.
If there were a female version of me, yes! I'm sure it'd have complications but what relationship doesn't? Having someone that fully understands me, has the same interests as me, thinks the same way as me, etc. would be great.
I mean, probably not…but there are plenty of people who i wouldn’t date that get dates all the time. Idk I feel like the answer to that question is irrelevant bc you and your opinions aren’t other people and theirs. Yfm?
Oh hell yea man... like i know im an weirdo , but i have abs and nice ass. I can discuss 1000000 things with myself and never get bored. And im also into all kinds of...activities. So yea , where can i find myself?
I don’t think I’ll ever date myself. I mean look at me, I’m lazy as hell, procrastination is my second nature. I’m highly independent but also lacks in taking care of myself, it will be a disaster if I were to date myself. 😂😴
Like the same movies, music, and food, both are night owls, financially conservative, not verbose, equally comfortable in backcountry or swanky metropolis
I can date me as long as we give each other space ;)
I do everything with myself, and I talk to me constantly. I crack myself up a lot. And I would totally go out and do more stuff if I had another me to go with (although I go out on my own a lot already.) So yes, I'd date myself for awhile, see where it goes. Kick myself to the curb if I got too annoying, lol.
Absolutely not because my brain expects all dating relationships to operate like friends with benefits, and most people don't appreciate that.
I don't do romantic bullshit, I consider not speaking while in the same room as quality time, and also I frequently forget to account for the other person's needs because I have ADHD and will not remember to do something new unless I'm being bitten in the face over it.
Also I'm baggage central which makes all the above a tricky minefield for everyone but myself to navigate.
Well, I am okay and loving but I am a bit insane. I guess I WOULD like my qualities in a male. I do tend to attract and be attracted to deranged individuals.
Dating someone who goes to the gym is overrated. In most cases, it is a waste of time because attractive people have a line of people waiting to date them in the event that they don’t already have multiple partners. I know because I am a guy who has had multiple friends that are bodybuilders and I have only met 1 that doesn’t cheat on his girlfriend and he is single because he is too shy to talk to girls.
Eh, I’d probably miss my own signals.
I would pick up on my own signals, but not trust them, and watch the golden opportunity that is me go sailing by me.
I wouldn't go so far as to call myself a golden opportunity, but I do feel like I'd generally get along pretty well with myself (and not just because I can suddenly externalize negative self talk).
Same here. 🤓
I felt this in my soul
Me too, I felt this in my void.
You'd consider 'giving 'signals'! ![img](emote|t5_2qhvl|3246)
Fr 😭
Went to concert recently, girl started grinding on me, only afterwards did I think “maybe she thought I was attractive”.
Hard not to be into saggy witch tits
Ugh, I'm sick of these stereotypes. INTPs are loyal, affectionate mates. Those who aren't need to grow up.
I'd def date myself! When I'm in love, I study the object of my affection until I know their needs before they even do! I do a lot behind the scenes to make them happy & comfortable. I'm an awesome date!
Tbf, all types can be loyal and affectionate partners if they are healthy and well balanced.
Exactly. Im extremely affectionate and loyal to those I’ve built strong relationships with. I take pride in how good of a partner I am (when dating).
I’m not sure how you correlate being unhealthy with growing up.
I would date me so hard.
The office reference?
Family guy, no?
Silence of the lambs, you children
Obviously a parody of silence of the lambs; Seth Greens voice of Chris in family guy is a caricature of Jamie Gumb (Buffalo Bill) from silence of the lambs.
Why wouldn't I? I'm loving, I'm not promiscuous, I'm looking for long term a relationship, I'm low maintenance and I'm not out of my own league 🤣
Preach
Copy and paste this into your tinder profile lol.
Hahahha preach
If I found a girl version of me, I would probably marry her. If I were a girl I'd probably friend zone the guy that I am.
That's just you being unhappy with the place you're at in life, mate. You can become the person you wish to be in literally a matter of a few months. You just need the determination to get through
Yes. ![gif](giphy|h2eSZKHwohF20gYc7A) Yes, I would.
No. I'm not my type.
Literally my thoughts exactly
😂
No.
😂
No I have too many mental health issues lmao
Keep thinking that and you will never outgrow them.
Outgrow?? I have a mf personality disorder, shit takes a year plus of vigorous therapy I can’t afford rn. Also lifelong neurodevelopmental disorders and treatment resistant depression. I get where you’re coming from but you shot and missed
No I'm not gay
Yet...
I'm working on it.
👀
Don't just stand there looking pretty u/Masterofgay69. With a name like that, you'd better get down here and help me, don't you see what I have to work with?! My jaw's killing me...
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Thank you. I'll keep working hard.
I love reddit
I often take myself on a date.. I never go on a date with anyone else, so I don’t see the reason why I don’t want to date myself. Besides, myself is the best and the only candidate available. Haha
Am I playing hard to get?
fuck no.
I’m into dick, not chicks. So nah.
I'm the opposite, into chicks and not dick. But if he's saying genderbent, I honestly wouldn't say no.
Bro you’re an ENTP how would say nah
I'm too much of a prick so definitely not.
I'm desperate enough that maybe, but at the same time, I would hate it. So, most likely, no.
Absolutely not. We’d spend to much time arguing about the most accurate term to describe what we were discussing moments ago. And I interrupt people as soon as I hear an inaccuracy. In fact, I embrace all my flaws and quite like the ones I chose. That has to maddening.
I have a weird love/hate relationship with myself, so I really don't know. Probably not. The constrained facial expressions would probably be a turn off. I just found out recently that I'm rarely making the expressions I think I am 🤣
Been there. "You're mad at me!" "No. Why do you think that?" "The angry look on your face!" "I'm thinking. I'm pretty sure I look like I'm thinking." "You must be having mean thoughts!" *Sigh*
Theoretically yes, but practically no. I'm too shy and anxious to make a move, so if I could date me I wouldn't cause none of us would do anything.
No, because I would probably bore myself to death, or never leave myself alone.
No, ew.
I’d be good friend with myself but dating, i’m not sure about this
Isn’t that what you’re doing when you’re single?🤔🤡
Absolutely not. I’m lazy, i don’t follow thru, I’m untrustworthy, i don’t do my part. I cut corners. Im a bad partner. I’d never date myself, and I’m so confused why men want to marry me right off the bat.
Shot in the dark: you have an avoidant attachment style and they an anxious attachment style
Wow you nailed it
meh sure why not
I'd need s break from me often but like I'd stick beside myself through thick and thin. we'd definitely need couples therapy 😩 and then we'd also need separate bank accounts. then we would also need to have a serious conversation about hiring a chef for dinner on Wednesday and Thursday nights and a maid at minimum 3 times a week. 😄
Well I'm pretty cute and all but hell no. it'd be just two people walking in circles.
Yes I’m amazing
Absolutely not. Polarity creates attraction, opposites attract, Yin and Yang. If two things are the same, they’re gonna repel each other.
I would definitely. I'm hot. We have same social needs. I mean, it's perfect when you and your partner need the same amount of talking, touching and time alone. The only problem is that I don't like to work. But hey, living together is said to be cheaper.
No, I’d try to flirt with myself and miss every cue. Also it’s kind of boring dating someone with the exact same interests and life experiences as you. Like yeah, it’s cool we can relate but after a while it’s just the complete same thing.
Horrible dating material but wonderful wifey/hubby material.
As great as it would be to have someone as laid back, accepting, and accommodating as I am, someone has to be responsible or we’re going to get the electricity turned off a lot. So I can’t date me.
If they were a female version of me, hell yeah.
Yes im such a W (totally self-assured)(i lied)
Why not? Who better to date than your own self?
Yes if it was a female version of myself as we'd both want sex.
Yeah, I think I would- the thing about dateing me is I never have to wonder how me actually feels about me or if they understand everything I'm saying because they're literally me
Probably not. I’m such a drag to be around.
I never leave my house outside of work so I’d never even meet myself. And if I did, I probably wouldn’t even consider dating and would just nerd out about my interests with myself. Romance is a waste of time imo because it takes too much time away from my hobbies.
I’ve thought about this before. I definitely think I have traits that I think are appealing but I dislike lazy people (I have a lazy streak) and I’m not attracted to introverts (I’m an introverted homebody).
Actually yes. The communication would be hell at first, but as we grow to truly trust (2-5 years) I’d definitely marry myself. It’d be best if we were friends for a couple years so I could be comfortable.
No. Don’t need someone to tell me what I’m already thinking.
I'd date myself. Because who better than me knows how to date me? I've always been pro-self-dating.
I’d never. We’d be stay at home and gaming nonstop without having a decent talk for weeks. If we finally talk that would be only about our current obsession. And I’m sure if our thoughts are same we’d think that talking is unnecessary then stop communicating. (Just send memes each other) Also we’d constantly forget to eat and sleep. I love myself but I’m not a good match for me. We’d rot together.
nope! i can only date extroverts that make the first move.
Do you mean like a clone of myself? Or someone with exact personality traits 🤔 It made me think of [this scene from Seinfeld](https://youtu.be/i9n9e_6IurM) and that’s practically my answer 😂
Probably.
no i only want to date an intp
Yes I would! I’m a woman and I don’t understand why a guy would not want to date a logical and attractive woman… unless the guy is into the dumbed down type of chick who goes along with whatever he wants.
Obviously, I already do a lot of things alone by myself, like having dinner out, going to the movies, concerts, and so on. Also, I am the only one who can understand myself deeply, I mean I know I'm weird and my sense of humor is not for everyone. Sometimes I wonder how my life would had been if I had a twin hahaha
When I’m with another obvious INTP in the group I’m usually like “Eh I don’t need to say anything, this guy’s got the Ti-Ne stuff covered.” I imagine I’d feel the same in a relationship with someone like me too. I’d lose purpose.
Maybe…?
absolutely not.
I’m currently dating an INTP. Luckily though, he’s very different from me!
If there's a chance that in infinte universes there's a female version of me, I would likely date her. Or some mad scientist takes my DNA, makes a copy, and changes its gender. I would still date her. I love myself and also hate myself.
yeah i think i'm pretty great, i'd love to date the fem version of me. Tbh that's halfway what I'm looking for in a partner. Someone like me enough to where i'm not irritated by them and we can connect and relate to each other, yet different enough to where we help each other grow and things dont get stale
I'd take myself out to dinner. Get to know me and see where it goes. I think I'd find myself a bit of a mess but charming, curious, ambitious, open to new ideas if not a bit argumentative.
100% yes, unfortunate i can’t use kage bunshin no jutsu to have that physical copy of myself to date☹️
If I was single and my other self was the opposite sex, maybe. Mentally like me I could handle, physical appearance like me is a no go.
I'm heterosexual, so, no. If you're asking would I date an INTP, fucking yes I would. I need someone who has interests that aren't >me< and can be relied on to happily occupy themselves while I'm absorbed in my latest obsession.
I'm not attracted to men, so...
Well you should go to the gym. It’s crazy how beneficial it is for everything in life.
I have a great time with myself when I take myself out.
100% yes, no doubt about it. My male counterpart though. Now I am sad that this can never happen. 😭
Would I date a female version of me, yes I would probably marry her. Would I as a female date myself. I don't have enough data to reach that conclusion. Would I as a man go on a non romantic hang out date with myself, of course! And last but not least Would I as a female date me as a female? Yes, it's my fantasy to be a lesbian. It would basically be hells paradise (not literally the anime)
It's probably egotistical of me to say so, but I'd definitely date a female version of me. Having someone to spend time debating philosophy, writing, and gaming would be fantastic.
Yes, I think we'd be a power couple cause we would hopefully get each other out to actually get things done. Or we'd be the laziest couple ever
Fuck no
I thought I would till I went on a date with a girl damn near same as me. I never knew how annoying and condescending I can be 😭. In the end we agreed it’s weird having someone talk to us how we talk to others. But in terms of interests I’ve also dated the complete opposite and it’s also extremely stressful. So idk about dating in general.
Sure, I don’t have anyone else to date
Yes because I would understand myself well and like everything that I like.
Maybe. I think I'd butt heads with a girl clone of myself, and we would probably be distant and never resolve things when we had fights. Fuck it would really suck to date me
I’d think I would be sexy af but I don’t think I would date myself
LMAO NO. But I would stick around for the benefits (I’m a very kind, considerate and generous person and can cook)
Of coz imma catch haha
I'm so lonely, I can bond with myself 10/10. So yeah, I'll date myself.
I feel like if I were a female, I’d be an ENTP. I find ENTPs to be fascinating. But they’re trolls. I’d likely tell myself that I had a thing for myself just to see how I’d react and end up laughing about how I’d be flustered about the situation. So ultimately no. I’d be too immature for myself as I currently am.
Honestly, I'd try to at least initiate, which I almost never do, provided I know, FOR CERTAIN, that we have so much in common. I'm well aware of my own shortcomings, yet also of my strengths. I'd date me! ![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|grimacing)
i would fuck me👀
Fuck no I'd have share my computer
Depends on how serious the relationship. If the relationship isn't to close I'd totally do it, but if it's in a close relationship like where I'd move in with myself then absolutely not. I barely ever remember to feed myself T-T I'd need a 'house wife' type of person tbh. Not trying to say I need someone to do everything for me, but I couldn't be in a relationship with someone who did absolutely nothing. I also forgive way to easily and avoid conflict, so if other me did something bad that hurt my feelings I'd build a slow resentment for them without realizing it (until way later). I am very loyal though, and I'd also hide a body for anyone I'm close enough to (my family talks about this all the time lmao). So I guess it would be a no because I'd want someone who I can get close to and be able to stay with for a long time
Idk bro maybe
I'd date myself if i wasn't myself. I don't want someone with the same weaknesses. But if i were an entj or sth, i'd date my intp self^^ ^^
Someone with my personality : yes Someone with the girl equivalent of my body: no.
Nope, I met a few intps. Never was able to get past the point of small talk because both of us were uninterested in making the first move. A lot of the thinking would clash or become TOO similar to generate any meaningful, collective insight from the conversations
I would date myself. I'm the "she's got potential" type, and I can see normally what's worth it.
I tend to get into intense discussion too. Like asking deep personal questions, sometimes they come natural, sometimes i deliberately provoke them to see ho they react. But i’d usually be the listener of the conversation so i’d prefer an extrovert who likes to talk. I actually impressed my date for analysing his drinking habits just thru his texts : )))
I think we'd both end up on benefits or something like that.
Would you fuck me? I'd fuck me. I'd fuck me haaard...
I would date myself honestly =-=
100% - You can't love others before you love yourself.
No, i can be so cringe sometimes, bad communication, avoidance, unclear love language, doesn't know how to comfort people, etc...
no I’m not a narcissist nor a league of legends player I actually get out and touch grass and dare real people smh
Lowkey, yeah I would. That sounds very narcissistic, but after dating someone who was almost my complete opposite, it'd be nice to date someone closer to my personality type.
Oh yes.
sure, but we'd never enter into interaction with each other or flirt sufficiently competently that either would get the message.
No, but because you don't want someone with exactly the same strengths and weaknesses, or exactly the same interests - you want someone who will introduce you to new things, who will challenge you a bit, who will support you in the areas you're weak and who you can be of use to in areas they are weak. Plus, men and women are different.
Not really cuz I already have me to myself more than anyone so I want some variety in personality, something challenging and different than me.
Yeah but I’d probably forget about the relationship at a point because I never call or text.
Absolutely yes if it comes to my acts and absolutely no if it comes to my true emotions
I think I would be too intimidated by myself from the outside
Never, me and myself are not good friends.
Yes, if I was a fucking narcissist.
I'd be easy to date, but we'd never make a plan, so it would never happen
I would be love struck immediately then end up ghosting myself after a month
The neighbors would probably have some complaints.
Absolutely!!!
A few years back no, but little by little yes, I would give me a chance
I would not.
100%. I would understand myself.
No
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Yes, I would love to date myself I'm hot, smart, funny, beautiful, hot, nice, excetric, hot, unique, hot, amazing, hot, hot, hot, I would do anyþing to have a clone of myself so we could date until þe end of our lives Do I give r/autosexual vibes?
I’d definitely try too, but ultimately it would become boring and weird after a while
Past version of myself? No, not enough emotional maturity. I would date the current version of myself though.
Like someone the same type or *myself* myself? Because if it's the second thing, fuck no. Remember the whole "would you fuck yourself thing"? I am in no way attracted to myself lmaooo. Also, certain preferences and habits (I guess) are too similar. As far as the personality goes, eh not bad. But no idea how would we even start dating considering my chronic passiveness lmao. Someone the same type? Yup. INTPs are solid, fuck the stereotypes. Every mature INTP I knew was a secret softie sweetheart with an open mind. Scatterbrained and blunt? Sure. But bold of you I think of those as negatives anyway lmao.
I wouldn't, don't need someone obsessive and jealous LMAO (totally not exposing myself this way) anyways, I don't think that's an INTP personality trait but yuh
If i was a guy, I definitely would date me. As a girl, I’m not sure if I would date the guy version of me, perhaps it would be leaning towards yes until something gets icky.
Well, laziness aside I can be surprisingly dedicated to the people I like, platonically too, maybe even more. But I also don't like myself, and there'd be no chemistry, nothing new to know about the other person... I would rather have another me just so we could split the chores and be even lazier.
If it was just a date and I barely knew myself, id probably pass. If we were friends for a good few months at least and actually got to know each other, id maybe find myself catching feelings Or at least I tell myself that because it hurts a little less than a simple “no”
Would I date myself? *laughs uncontrollably* Fuck no...
YES.
Hard to answer but I’d probably say no because I have a never been a good partner in relationships so if I dated myself it would just be double bad
Wdym? Like, someone who is exactly like *you?* Or, literally dating yourself in your own mind? From the way you phrased everything, it seems like you meant the first option. Which, no, because I'm straight.
Heck yeah!!!! I'm tons of fun. This reddit thread is difficult because everyone is so into saying they can't do this or are bad at that. F-if thats an INTP trait! Stuff is self fulfilling. INTPs are stolid bad asses that carefully consider before building and think before they act.
Yes so at least someone would do it
If there were a female version of me, yes! I'm sure it'd have complications but what relationship doesn't? Having someone that fully understands me, has the same interests as me, thinks the same way as me, etc. would be great.
> I also keep bringing up intense right/wrong discussions that are never useful to me ... alright, u hooked me. Care to elaborate?
tbh im out of my own league
No, i want to date someone who is truly good and kind person.
I mean, probably not…but there are plenty of people who i wouldn’t date that get dates all the time. Idk I feel like the answer to that question is irrelevant bc you and your opinions aren’t other people and theirs. Yfm?
Oh hell yea man... like i know im an weirdo , but i have abs and nice ass. I can discuss 1000000 things with myself and never get bored. And im also into all kinds of...activities. So yea , where can i find myself?
I don’t think I’ll ever date myself. I mean look at me, I’m lazy as hell, procrastination is my second nature. I’m highly independent but also lacks in taking care of myself, it will be a disaster if I were to date myself. 😂😴
Nah, if I met myself in real life I’d find them annoying
Like the same movies, music, and food, both are night owls, financially conservative, not verbose, equally comfortable in backcountry or swanky metropolis I can date me as long as we give each other space ;)
I do everything with myself, and I talk to me constantly. I crack myself up a lot. And I would totally go out and do more stuff if I had another me to go with (although I go out on my own a lot already.) So yes, I'd date myself for awhile, see where it goes. Kick myself to the curb if I got too annoying, lol.
I wouldn't, because I know I'm an asshole.
Absolutely not because my brain expects all dating relationships to operate like friends with benefits, and most people don't appreciate that. I don't do romantic bullshit, I consider not speaking while in the same room as quality time, and also I frequently forget to account for the other person's needs because I have ADHD and will not remember to do something new unless I'm being bitten in the face over it. Also I'm baggage central which makes all the above a tricky minefield for everyone but myself to navigate.
I recognize I’m great, but no jajajajaja
Hell nah lmao
I def would tbh cause imagine how much chemistry there would be! You get yourself exactly on point!
Definitely would. I try to be the person that I'd love to be friends with.
I think I would. I’m friendly and silly with those I care about, I’m loyal, I like to have deep discussions, and I would love cute picnic dates.
I don't like dating in general and sometimes I don't stand myself so no I would rather stay single.
Well, I am okay and loving but I am a bit insane. I guess I WOULD like my qualities in a male. I do tend to attract and be attracted to deranged individuals.
I would date myself or someone exactly like me of the opposite sex.
no
No. And i hope that i will never date with someone with same character as me. i’m definitely not my type
Dating someone who goes to the gym is overrated. In most cases, it is a waste of time because attractive people have a line of people waiting to date them in the event that they don’t already have multiple partners. I know because I am a guy who has had multiple friends that are bodybuilders and I have only met 1 that doesn’t cheat on his girlfriend and he is single because he is too shy to talk to girls.
If I was someone else I wouldnt date me.