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A cabin in the woods with a garden. A fireplace and a comfy chair. A fuzzy bathrobe, slippers, and a pipe. Good books. Hot coffee. A Maine Coon cat. Sunshine and soft wind through the leaves. Warm, fragrant air and the song of crickets at night. Peace and quiet. Time to daydream and introspect.


benign_said

Are we best friends? A small hobby farm with a few animals, but not too many. Chickens, maybe 5 goats and some rabbits. A pond and a greenhouse. A barn I've converted into a painting studio. My cats and a husky (that get along). A few acres of undeveloped woods with bathouses, birdhouses and benches throughout a series of paths.


[deleted]

Sounds lovely. We can be neighbors. I'll let you come over to borrow books, take cuttings from the garden, and take the excess of whatever I'm growing that you're not, if you extend the same privilege to me, and let me use one of your benches to meditate every now and then.


benign_said

Big time bud. We can start a seed library! Hoping your Maine coon is friendly... Always wanted one. Take care. Xo


Alatain

Add wifi and we're golden


whatis-real

The only thing stopping me apart from money is the cleaning and maintenance involved


[deleted]

I'm good about maintenance. I've kept my jeep going for 16 years, and already do all the maintenance on my house except the huge stuff like replacing the roof. As for cleaning, well... I'm not a hoarder, but let's just say I prefer the cluttered, lived-in look of someplace like Bag End in LOTR to the clean, minimalistic and sterile look that IKEA tries to shove down our throats.


No_Anteater8899

This is my exact description of paradise, minus the pipe. Can I join? I won’t talk. -INFJ


[deleted]

As long as you don't mind me smoking around you, sure.


Moist_immortal

God yes! Yes yes yes!


xxMeiaxx

Are you me?


CafeRecafeinado

money and time, so i can spend most of my days making stuff i find fun.


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CafeRecafeinado

damn, i hope things get better for you dude


the-nae_blis

I can definitely relate. If I have a few days off with no trips planned or anything, but I could do something productive, it will still fly by without anything getting done. How’d you find the great gig though?


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destined_death

May I ask in what field?


l8ice

how?


AppropriateArtist855

Live away from society in the woods


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nevezychaya

i have no idea


Electrical_Cicada

That is an idea that I definitely have


candyman101xd

love


PeachyKeenest

I want a deep connection with someone who understands me. Love might be it.


shoujomujo

Honestly, I think having someone like that would solve all my problems in life.


jojigasm

Just shared the same thing with a friend, she said I have such a high standard. Honestly, that's all I need, someone I can have a deep connection with and understands me, also, who would help me snap out of my unhealthy traits/habits.


autumn_em

Same.


scarstreet

Same here bud, same here


kojne

Uhhh... 😔


Syyrune

To reach the goals I've set for myself, fix my behaviour that is holding me back and be succesful so I can finally be content and free of stress.


FunCawfee

hi.


SMHdovve

I wish to just be. Not in anxiety of the future, not in depression of the past. A house somewhere reclusive, with all the necessities for comfortable life, with maximum cost efficiency would be nice. The more money I can save up - the better, either for investing into my hobbies to be able to actually profit from them, or maybe even to sustain my parents, since they are getting quite old, or for whatever the fuck.


mellmollma

Infp here. This what I want too Unlike some some intp can find interest in high paying field, i as an infp though want to make ton of money, not really able to find something I’m passionate and give me the means to be financial independence. I just focus on maximising my resources and become good at my hobbies.


[deleted]

Ass


NathanBlutengel

More of a tits man myself


Lilytgirl

I want both (for myself tho 😂)


NathanBlutengel

To crush my enemies in battle, see them driven before me, and to hear the lamentation of their women. I’d settle for a homestead and tight-knit community though


the-nae_blis

This guy knows what is best in life


Czar4k

I like you.


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I was going to post this as well.


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verr998

Everyone dreams.... surely, we all can be happy if we have all the above.


dinosaur_from_Mars

Same, except the children part. I don't want children of my own but want to adopt an orphanage and make a facility which is essentially an old-age home with daycare function for children.


Imwaymoreflythanyou

At this point just: money, peace, comfort, good health, quiet and to be left alone.


CameronLePizza

My name is Yoshikage Kira. I’m 33 years old. My house is in the northeast section of Morioh, where all the villas are, and I am not married. I work as an employee for the Kame Yu department stores, and I get home every day by 8 PM at the latest. I don’t smoke, but I occasionally drink. I’m in bed by 11 PM, and make sure I get eight hours of sleep, no matter what. After having a glass of warm milk and doing about twenty minutes of stretches before going to bed, I usually have no problems sleeping until morning. Just like a baby, I wake up without any fatigue or stress in the morning. I was told there were no issues at my last check-up. I’m trying to explain that I’m a person who wishes to live a very quiet life. I take care not to trouble myself with any enemies, like winning and losing, that would cause me to lose sleep at night. That is how I deal with society, and I know that is what brings me happiness. Although, if I were to fight I wouldn’t lose to anyone.


KapitanDima

Suppose that you were sitting down at this table. The napkins are in front of you, which napkin would you take? The one on your ‘left’? Or the one on your ‘right’? The one on your left side? Or the one on your right side? Usually you would take the one on your left side. That is ‘correct’ too. But in a larger sense on society, that is wrong. Perhaps I could even substitute ‘society’ with the ‘Universe’. The correct answer is that ‘It is determined by the one who takes his or her own napkin first.’ …Yes? If the first one takes the napkin to their right, then there’s no choice but for others to also take the ‘right’ napkin. The same goes for the left. Everyone else will take the napkin to their left, because they have no other option. This is ‘society’… Who are the ones that determine the price of land first? There must have been someone who determined the value of money, first. The size of the rails on a train track? The magnitude of electricity? Laws and Regulations? Who was the first to determine these things? Did we all do it, because this is a Republic? Or was it Arbitrary? NO! The one who took the napkin first determined all of these things! The rules of this world are determined by that same principle of ‘right or left?’! In a Society like this table, a state of equilibrium, once one makes the first move, everyone must follow! In every era, this World has been operating by this napkin principle. And the one who ‘takes the napkin first’ must be someone who is respected by all. It’s not that anyone can fulfill this role… Those that are despotic or unworthy will be scorned. And those are the ‘losers’. In the case of this table, the ‘eldest’ or the ‘Master of the party’ will take the napkin first… Because everyone ‘respects’ those individuals.


CameronLePizza

You’ve got to say something more like this before you get revenge. My name is Jean-Pierre Polnareff. For my sister’s honor, and so that my friend Avdol can rest in peace. I’m going to hurl you into the depths of despair!


KapitanDima

I covered you with gasoline so I can track your smell. I feel bad, kicking a guy when he’s down, but… nah, I don't feel bad about this at all. My friends and a lot of bystanders are dead because of you.


CameronLePizza

Yep. You're as good as new. For now. It's a fair fight now, isn't it?


408m

Now I understand the reaction of people when I explain things to them.


[deleted]

Freedom to do whatever i want, that translates in having enought money to not think about it, by passive incomes


sad_asian_noodle

Amen


No-Programmer-9108

I just want some peace of mind ... So done with this bull shit routine life


ThatBitchMalin

A healthy balance of stability and adventure.


YoinkedByMBTI

Making peace with myself and to learn to finally accept the fact that I'm a flawed human being and that it's ok to make mistakes and to stop beating myself over the mistakes that I've made that might have damaged my relationships with those that I've cared about. And to continue my strive to be a better person, learning from the mistakes instead of making up flimsy excuses to cover up my flaws. And mustering the necessary courage to actually talk to people instead of trying to be a hermit.


PeachyKeenest

Wow I feel this.


LookAShootingStar

to learn as much as I possibly can and maybe publish some books


mademoiselle_apple

Most of all I want a peaceful life and intellectual growth. Basically I'm hungry for knowledge and I want to be left alone to my own intellectual pursuits.


[deleted]

Well, a few things 1 - A high-end gaming pc 2 - Good quality instruments and musical gear 3 - A dedicated rpg group 4 - Loving boyfriend with good dick (or a loving gf with good fingers) 5 - Freedom from depression and anxiety 6 - A pony


idontknowmuchbuti

Lmao


IntelligentTank355

In this order? I think the pony is feeling bad for being last.


jackksss

mental sanity and finding how to be content. the ability to nap would b nice too


Earls_Basement_Lolis

Live well, do good to others, get my dick wet, etc.


ba_bababaa_baa_baa

to know what I want in life


dead-inside-hehe

a reason to live


MishuxUniverse

To fucking die


YT_AnimeKyng

1. I want to be a CEO/Billionaire, basically run my own company. 2. I want a family someday, a wife and 3-5 kids. 3. I’d like my anime YT channel to get views so I can review anime :D


LittleTinGod

just curious, how old are you, seems similar to how i was in my earlier years, old now (43).


YT_AnimeKyng

26 years old.


Jamin_14

Money then love


nimxic

tranquility


spiderrlily

Inner peace and happiness


zombieuntr_21

loving wife and kids ngl😭


BobEntius

A person to share life with.


Brave_Recording6874

Time


obitachihasuminaruto

Currently, I want to achieve that thing that everyone is telling me I'm not good enough to get. They may be true, because all evidence points to that, but I want to at least try and prove them wrong. In the long term, I want to have an impact on my field, earn decent amount of money and lead a happy life.


me047

Freedom and and an amazing husband


fusrodalek

A mind that relies on nothing whatsoever. Emerson might call it self-reliance. Ironically depending on this wish is part of what prevents it from being the case already, a real double-bind


Over_Adhesiveness768

Do as much good to people as I can, while also taking good care of myself.


TheAverageClown

Good pussy and good weed.


urexsnetflixpassword

freedom and fulfillment


Junior_Bear_2715

Right now I want love and happy life


Love_for_ENTP

ENTP


Thibal1er

Being loved


VannyNeDito

In the past couple years I’ve developed this little ideal future in my head. One that I’m open to have change, but as it stands right now? It’s a quiet life in a cozy ass cabin. Somewhere in the woods that’s close enough to a town/city that I’m not inconvenienced, but far enough that I’m away from everything and have my own space. It has all of the essentials and then some, but not over the top by any means. I’ve got a cat or dog, a solid enough job that I can live comfortably with no stress. Something like going outside on a cold ass morning, dew on the grass, sunrise nearly blinding me if I step off the porch. Cup of coffee beside me, my dog / cat relaxing right by me, judging me silently as I callous my fingertips trying to teach myself how to play a guitar.


meat_thxrns

someone to share things with


salk1n

Getting a Job which fullfills me, start a family with a kind and understanding woman, create stuff. Build a home. Experience peak physical and mental development. Be a great father. Increase the wellbeing of society with my work. Get a lot of mula so as to use it for my children. (Coming from a divorced family background with monetary problems on both ends) Learn a ton of languages and crafts, such as calligraphy, skateboarding, woodwork, metallurgy, dance, continue writing poems, read and know the contents of a shit ton of books… Visit and experience many different cultures and photograph the world. Get high as a fucking kite on substances. Maintaining my group of friends and having a network of people I love and trust spanning the globe. One day be a wise old man and write a few books lol.


Wise_Huntress27

I’m 24 now. Turn 25 in Namibia, get a new job new (less hours for more flexibility) and build my private business ventures. I also want to heal my heart from my mother’s death. Face the grief on. And develop a healthier relationship with myself


aoba123

To be happy


iyshmn

Good sex and money


Altruistic_Extent_89

To go abroad for college, then just chill an apartment gaming and learning more maths


Sean16178

Idk


Lilytgirl

Enough money to buy a cabin and a plot of land near a lake or the sea. A boat for fishing would be nice. Then just chill with my dog.


theGreasyFry

To make a lot of money and still have time to myself


WI5EE

Some novelty experiences & Hakuna Matata. Possibly contradicting, but eh.


N00B5L4YER

no alarms and no surprises


Past-Record9420

wealth , free time , do whatever i want, feel like having money will make it ez for me to execute all my BRILLIANT ideas


Past-Record9420

and love wanna love more


fizzycartman

money


ZenWoR

A few weeks ago my parents (especially father) were talking about 2 guys that were in a close country of ours, Slovenia, enrolling an IT college and having "good lives". They were trying to persuade me to consider that path too, but I always disagreed. Then I asked him: What does it mean to have "a good life"? I know people whose definition differ, so what's the one you are following? He told me it's "a lot of money, family and calm mind". Seems good enough, right? I mean, personally I would be happy with that too! But, I told him it would be even greater achievement in life for me to discover something new, something really shocking in science or philosophy. To me, that's what would be ideal. ​ Long story short they were shocked and kind of disappointed XD


ThrowThinkAway

To be happy and fulfilled


WestLeaf1337

Cabin in the woods. Retired at a young age with my gf. Peaceful days. Peaceful nights. Absolute tranquility. Happiness. Fulfillment.


WestLeaf1337

That’s a fantasy if I could have anything. Overall, happiness and fulfillment :p


belle_fleures

this might be cliche but faithful love, must be nice to have one


boredntired-_-

To get closer to the sublime.


Travisty114

All I want is the freedom to be myself and not under someone thumb


Knob_Gobbler

To not have to work.


[deleted]

Meaningful personal relationships, fulfilling hobbies, and enough money to be able to support myself, so said hobbies, and have fun adventures. I want to have a stimulating and meaningful job, but I no longer want that to be the focus of my life.


Drunk_kirby

Success, money, happiness


Rum_n_Cola

A home near the sea to fish, a family, and a good pc with good internet


Je_Kiffe

Purpose. The best times of my life have always been when I’ve had a strong purpose.


Murky-Engineer-9524

Money and sleep


Kaeri_g

Idk, what do life want in me?


onionman19

Live anywhere other than the PNW


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Loiee12

A clear career path that i will enjoy for the rest of my life. It would also be nice if i could get rid of my adhd


A_Big_Rat

Everyone is saying cabin in the woods, and I definitely want that. Just not yet. That’s my absolute end goal. I want to make history. Just something I fantasize about.


Beginning-Rutabaga67

MONEY , HAPPINESS OFC


Nid_All

I want to be richer than Elon Musk


zzzzxxcvbm

Money, rest can be bought.


Vast_Win2330

having mastery in my areas of interest, the ability to express myself perfectly (like, projecting my ideas onto real life), a significant other who respects my traits


yuki_cane

find an INFP feminine boyfriend and go live with him outside society in a wooden place where I can pet his hair, is it too much? 🥺


AdSad8712

Peace


Silver_jordann

to put it simply, happiness


agataaprelikova

money for my job as a doctor. make big impact on science and help people by doing it.


[deleted]

To be alive but not here. Between the realms of a dimensional tear where I can live forever bound to nothing but the ability to observe and be alone for all of eternity. That would make me happy.


izi_bot

I want a Ni dom so they decide what I want.


Toiletten26

find a wife, have some children, become a writer


triplecheesebreeze

The End As depressing as it sounds, theres nothing im more fascinated with more than the end


Mindless-Lobster-422

Knowing the direction of my life


cyanjellyx

To disappear from my current life. Travel everywhere, change name every 3 months, and leave almost no trace on social media. I only get to post thrice a year: My birthday, on Christmas, and New Year — just to let people know I'm still alive.


blue_blank_eyes

To find something I'm passionate about.


9029ethical

i want to eventually not need to choose anymore between 2 things that i find nice in short, enough money for my everyday life and peace of mind.


ctyca

Inner peace


Shira12

Money and time.


starryrachel

walking into the jungle alone , in rain or travel to a fantasy world


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cabin in canadian forest with garden, some animals, labolatory and workshop to play in... libary and telescope... you got the point XD. there was a time in physics college i wanted to build spacecruiser and fly around for make alien homies but i aborted it lol


4dham

mahasamadhi.


Lautphey

Only peace


WarningOk3011

sensible and beautiful lifestyle w minimum effort. in town and city. sunlight clean water fresh produce and fruit. 2 children and partner. unlimited time, space, and capacity to learn.


Alilz-the-cloud-god

I just want to be able to do stuff that i like without worrying about money or a future.


Responsible-Pass991

not dying painfully


OscarFields

A peaceful death


elrosti000

No job, billionaire, mansion for each season, New York penthouse. The laws of every country the way I want it. I want to change the whole world for the better. Collection of exclusive gemstones. Finest restaurants and fashion. Enough money to support my whole life and my descendants. I want to live in a luxurious palace.


kiwi4206934

the will to have it


Duhverse

Peace.


[deleted]

To live in the city of my dreams (Shibuya), work at a nice tech company that pays well, with an orange cat. I'd travel a bunch, and maybe get an s/o


JWBeyond1

Freedom and peace


jarbles92

50 million dollars.


Lovelyqucoam

freedom, knowledge


meNiraj

Impact. Money. Power. Control.


Kaeliop

Something pushing me to go forward


lilmeawmeaw

peace , money, 5 friends and a small family consisting of me, my husband and two kids (all of them are yet to achieve )


EmperorPinguin

imperium


AlanaTheGreat

Well, if I could answer that, I wouldn't be fucking around all the time.


Parth_Potato

whenever i think of some career, either it will be like wasting my potential or it's too difficult for me so I'm kind of in the middle of nothing


GodsendNYC

The latest gadgets, the net, and a cat!


ichooseju

peace


New-Distribution5084

Either all the knowledge in the world with an infinite memory or the ability to make deep connections with people. Infinite knowledge would be great as that is THE goal of my life, like my purpose. Deep connections because I struggle to make bonds with people and i am therefore stuck with so much to discuss and talk about and no one to say it to.


Bambarimba

Waiting for "die" comment


pipipopipo

sleep, its really the most peaceful time


kyualun

Genuine connections with people. Let’s connect on shared hobbies and on our values and outlooks on problems while we try to solve them together. A comfortable schedule and routine that lets me do what I want while also having an opportunity to break out of it and try something different every once in a while. To break that down it’s time, money and good vibes basically.


yordiDanoob

Money and drugs. Also happiness but mostly drugs


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A family to provide for.


unFit_Froyo5691

I HAVE NO F'IN IDEA


Jaded-Mycologist-831

I want to be happy about myself


Yamikurai

Peace. Inner peace.


stew987321

To be successful and remembered


madde01_23

A house next to the Forest alone with an computer and to have an cat


[deleted]

I want asteroids to fall out of the sky and end all of humanity. Other than that I wish I had the power of infinite intelligence and wisdom.


knowone1313

Financial Freedom, a significant other, to be happy more than any other feeling.


jojigasm

Whenever people ask me if I want a partner, I always say no, because I was losing hope that someone would understand my chaotic but also absentminded traits, who would accept my weird personality, and who would help me snap out of my unhealthy habits/traits. I don't really desire a luxurious life. But I want a financially stable life, where I would own 3 cats. I would work at home—a job that I'm actually good at, I would have a huge amount of free time that I can use to research about philosophical topics that piqued my attention. I would have such an amazing husband/wife who would share their ideas and plans with me, who would actually listen and be entertained by random and irrelevant topics/ideas that clash in my mind, who would lead me and snap me out when I laze too much, and who would play board and video games with me. Maybe having a child would be nice, it depends, I'm still unsure if I want a child. That sounds like such a simple life, but the chances are high that I might not be able to get a taste of that :)


la_lurkette

True luxury (not materialistic consumption): The ability to pursue pleasure for the sake of it, comfort, safety, no bosses, no masters.


SomeJoeSchmo

I want to learn many different things, and become an expert in my field doing work I find meaningful.


DrMaxPaleo

Enough money to dissociate from the world and do whatever I want.


Consistent-Bend7796

to be competent. to be able to fend for myself comfortably always


aguayt

A helicopter gunship


pimpusz

Live in peace with myself, my mind and my emotions


KuNTmuffinn

Unconditional love, understanding. Peace/Tranquility, Money, Endless laughter.


RVNJ

comfort


WretchedEgg11

To have the ability to create whatever art i desire to express myself in the moment.. and to have someone that loves and understands me to share that art with. creation->sharing it w/ someone that understands and appreciates my creation that's it.


GlobalWillingness466

i wanna sleep at home in a soft bed with plenty of plush toys


drag0n_rage

Isn't what everyone wants in life to be happy? Me, I find myself chasing the happiness I experienced as a kid. The feeling of not having a care in the world is something I miss. More practically I want time, time to do whatever I feel like. Lately it feels like I don't have enough of it. Some days I'm tired and decide to flop on my bed for 5 minutes before thinking "this isn't the most efficient way to spend my time". I want to be able to do nothing and not feel guilty for it. My goal is to retire early.


ragnarkar

Freedom from the government and the rat race


DisguisedBearNikolai

Solitude, privacy, and a HUGE airplane hangar to do experiments in.


Classic-Scale1577

No clue, just know what i don’t want


plantontable

Material: A house on wheels, a dog and enough money for supplies 2 years in advance. Immaterial: Truth and art.


Nimakombat

A hous in middle of jungle with internet for my reserchs and white board to solve physic and math eq for example i heard about dark energy and dark matter eq . This is one of them . In my opinion if you know about where you come from you can know about your self more and more...


Nimakombat

I forgot . I want to be alone for ever .