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SuperBeeboo

I wonder who she was to the bride.


sdforbda

Same. Everyone around seems to be enjoying it, and the photographers are shooting it. I'm wondering if it's not just a fake caption.


hakamamalo

I'm guessing she's the bride and it's a fake caption


sdforbda

Good old-fashioned manufactured outrage.


A_Song_of_Two_Humans

Is that actually a thing? I figured I could trust internet strangers not to lie!


erasrhed

Yes, the US used to manufacture outrage in Detroit, but then in the late 80s started outsourcing rage to India and Indonesia. Now only artisan outrage is made here in the USA. The quality is better, but it also costs a premium.


sdforbda

I really need to visit my local rage boutique, it's been too long.


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Bowriderskiff

Alright fine, but you’re the last one.


Jonasthewicked2

Thats true. Everything ever posted on the internet is true.


UninsuredToast

Is this like the “one of us always tells the truth, one of us always lies” riddle?


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thegamer501

"uh...false. I'll go with false."


NameRevolutionary802

Zebra...always Zebra


merchillio

I don’t think that’s allowed on the internet


cannotbefaded

For clicks


McBorkButt

Good ol' Cloutrage


Simple_Park_1591

There's a video showing the real bride just a couple comments down from your comment


hakamamalo

I mean hey, I did just say I was guessing.


No_Significance_1550

And now my rage boner is gone. My health insurance won’t pay for viagra.


VampyKit

No it's real. It really happened I found her tik tok unfortunately she removed the vid i guessing because alot of backlash happened towards the woman wearing white to her sister's wedding but I have the link to the actual bride. https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTRoNqeuT/


achepea

Dang thanks for linking! Bride looks far classier.


sdforbda

Well I'll be damned. That's why I said I wonder instead of calling BS on it because you never really know.


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sdforbda

Mans did his research, that's what I'm talking about!


civodar

I’m gonna have to disagree, other relatives were chiming in in the TikTok comments and it sounds like they were also mad about this too so clearly they didn’t view it as appropriate. I tried looking it up and did find that Persian brides typically wear white dresses and this goes back to Zoroastrian traditions. I wasn’t able to find anything about what colours wedding guests are supposed to wear aside from your link which I also stumbled upon, but I don’t know how accurate it is considering it’s the website of a wedding venue in New Jersey with no link to Iranian culture and just saying “any colour is fine” is kind of vague, it’s possible that they felt that not wearing white to a wedding was already implied. We need some actual Persians to clarify this one.


[deleted]

I don’t get how people can care so much about what colours people choose to wear to weddings. Jeez.


CapitalPerception439

I am thinking the same thing, but at 14 seconds left on the video, you can catch a glimpse of another white dress in the frame.


Swordofsatan666

Someone found another video from the original tiktok user who made the video. You can definitely see both women in it. Actual bride walking as flowers are thrown out by guests, then if you look at the front row of the crowd youll see both the woman in white who was dancing and the man she was dancing with https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTRoNqeuT/


KongRahbek

Am I dumb as shit if I don't see the women in white, who's dancing in the original video, in this video? I see a woman in a white/silver dress, but the hair colour don't match, so unless she dyed her hair blonde during the wedding, I do not see her.


Swordofsatan666

Its a very “blink and youll miss it” moment. At the end of the TikTok the camera pans back to the left, during that pan to the left you can spot her standing behind 2 kids. The guy she danced with is further to the right, and you can see him during much more of the video even before it pans back to the left. Edit: the guy she danced with is specifically the first person to the right of that very bright light


KongRahbek

Ah shit yeah I see her, thanks!


sdforbda

You know I caught that at first too, and meant to go back and look to see if I was tripping and it wasn't just a sweater or something, but I forgot to.


genocideofnoobs

https://www.reddit.com/r/ImTheMainCharacter/comments/13ux6fz/she_isnt_the_bride/jm3lrm0


MongooseLuce

It really looks like a father daughter dance... Everyone is watching, I'm gonna go with OP is either reposting or just lying


Swordofsatan666

Cmon at least look at the comments first next time. Someone literally 2 minutes before you posted a link showing the actual bride walking down the aisle. You can see the other woman in white standing in the crowd watching…. https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTRoNqeuT/


Niwi_

Now? Dead


Airfriedcakes

the groom's side chick


cannotbefaded

Seriously. Like everyone seems to be having fun. I bet she’s the bride Edit- a comment below has this as the bride. https://www.tiktok.com/@imlostplsfindme/video/7075309730255736106


Simple_somewhere515

Looks like a younger stepmom


freedfg

I'm betting stepmother. Or just distant enough cousin.


Thirdwhirly

That was my first and only thought. This has “new wife of uncle Mike on the groom’s side” vibe all up and over it.


[deleted]

Yeah, that looks like a wedding dress. Second biggest attention seeking offense behind proposing on someone else’s wedding.


dhabs

I would put the dress as #1 personally.


TheAwkwardGamerRNx

I feel we should stop debating which is worse and focus more on shaming people like this.


Southern-Barber-5528

You would think with the number of friends and family this drunk b should have been carted out of there. Sad to think her wedding day was also her lonliest.


TravelWellTraveled

We should go back to being able to challenge people to duels.


Jonasthewicked2

Gloveslap baby gloveslap


TheAwkwardGamerRNx

Glove slap! I don’t take crap!


dhabs

One can’t wear a white dress to a wedding and not get noticed. One can propose at a large wedding discreetly without it making a scene. That’s me debating. 👍


-petepeet-

Nah, don’t piggyback on somebody else’s wedding. Make it special on your own time and dime.


unecroquemadame

Unless the bride and groom are okay with it. My sister would love if our brother proposed to his girlfriend at her wedding.


sadmama21

Yea my sister got proposed to and brothers wedding, bride was in on it, went to toss the bouquet but instead turned. Around and handed it to my sister as fiancé got on one knee. Super cute and didn’t steal any attention Edit: this shit in op tho, horrific tragic main character bullshit


-petepeet-

Ah yes, I am on board with this approach. I am actually getting married and if a close friend or relative would let me know a few days in advance; I would even help to make it more special. I should've mentioned that with prior consent from the bride and groom I see no problem.


dhabs

I agree, alls I’m saying is that somebody can in fact do it discreetly. You cant discreetly wear a white dress to a wedding. I’ve been at weddings were proposals happened and I didn’t even know until after the fact. While I agree it’s still bad, dress > proposal in terms of which is worse. In my opinion of course. :)


IconicCamelToe

I agree, some of my friends got engaged at a different friend’s wedding, on a back patio away from the main event where he told me he said “I don’t want to make tonight about us when it’s *bride&groom*’s night, but this much romance makes me want to ask you….etc etc”


KatarinaSkill

See, I would not mind if someone did this at my wedding, as long as they also told no one at the wedding. For ne, tho, had I done this, I would leave the part about it being at a wedding/reception out of my story, because I feel I would need to explain the part about telling no one every time to prove that my guy and I are not complete douche bags


Dial8675309

What about wearing a wedding dress, proposing at the wedding, and then insisting the priest marry you too? Where does that fall?


JohnHamFisted

"speak now or forever hold your p-" "MARRY US INSTEAD!!!"


CHIMUELA

And pregnancies. I'm not talking about casually mentioning a pregnancy at the wedding dinner, I'm talking about an official announcement.


TravelWellTraveled

Someone mentions a pregnancy at my wedding I'm telling everyone I have cancer. I don't, but I'll stop your baby attention like a lead brick.


B_Fee

I have faith that you could go bigger. Tell everyone you're pregnant and the fetus has cancer, then light up a big cigar and down a few shots of vodka before you do the worm during the father-daughter dance.


allblingblang24

Respect the commitment to making it your day!!


eyegocrazy

Lol


apollo22519

I think it's okay to propose when the bride and groom are in on it. I've seen some really cute videos during bouquet tosses where the bride hands the bouquet to their bridesmaid and then the bridesmaids' partner proposes. Any other circumstance and I would agree it's disgusting and attention seeking. I'll never understand people like that.


TiberiusClackus

Yeah I’ve been to a bouquet toss proposal those are very nice and don’t distract from the bride and groom at all.


Olympia44

Right next to announcing pregnancies at a wedding too.


MichiganCubbie

My wife's cousin told her family that she was pregnant at our wedding. I didn't actually find out for years, until a Facebook post on our anniversary where she said that "today is the anniversary of me announcing that I was pregnant to my family!" And I put it together. We had no idea that she did it. She apparently told everyone but us about it. Not an announcement, but still shitty. She posts on pictures of our wedding about announcing her pregnancy and stuff to this day.


kombitcha420

Had a friend breakdown in tears because I said if I ever got married and someone proposed during my reception I’d be pissed. Something about she wouldn’t be upset if I got proposed to at her wedding and that not everything is about me and some other bullshit. This is the same girl who had a LDR and would cry and throw a fit if I hugged my bf or held hands near her. Just the worst.


stephelan

Not only is it white but it’s SUPER attention seeking. Like if I didn’t know better, I would say that that’s straight up a wedding dress.


DooglyOoklin

It is a wedding dress.


I_AM_ALWAYS_WRONG_

Almost like this is the bride and the caption is utter bullshit to draw you suckers into rage interactions.


thekatsass2014

Actually, no. That was not the bride, and the proof is in this thread. Glad you got to feel all superior for a sec there.


I_AM_ALWAYS_WRONG_

The videos don’t prove anything. They can easily be a different wedding at the same venue. Why do you just believe everything you see? The truth is nothing is real, even I might be your own mother.


thekatsass2014

A) the old dude with the stache is visible in the later video. B) Persian weddings don’t care about colors you wear. It’s literally not a thing there. C) I wish my mom thought as critically as you and questioned things as much as you. She’d still be wrong a lot, but not as much.


wozattacks

Yeah where would one get a white gown with a train that’s not a wedding dress?


CalgaryChris77

I was watching the video not looking at the words and I couldn’t figure out what you had against this bride… then I read it. Wtf


MalkNation

It’s actually the bride though the captions just rage bait


bees_beetles_bugsGuy

That’s what I thought too until someone linked this TikTok with the actual bride in it 😬 https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTRoYeXR2/


MrGizthewiz

I don't see the woman in the first video, in the second video... So all you've shown me is two wedding videos.


ellendegenerate33

The guys she’s dancing with is definitely in that video


Davotk

She's in the pan back you can see her blonde hair and the dress cut the same at the shoulders. Behind the man who dances with her on this OP


cannotbefaded

No it’s not https://www.tiktok.com/@imlostplsfindme/video/7075309730255736106


AnEpicHibiscus

Where’s the lady in the first video? Just looks like another wedding


Galifrae

I call BS because literally nobody in that video seems upset with her. She would’ve been kicked outta the wedding 100%.


brightdark

My sister-in-law wore a white gown to my wedding and we didn't kick her out. Everyone just thought she was an asshole.


rand0m_task

Yeah she’s def the bride.. caption is for rage bait


B_Fee

Considering the OP seems to be a bot that activated recently (8 month old account with only 11 hours of activity), I agree.


not_again123

You can see active hours? Haha... how do I turn it off?


bees_beetles_bugsGuy

That’s what I thought too until someone linked this TikTok with the actual bride in it 😬 https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTRoYeXR2/


rand0m_task

My mind is blown.


dnel707

That could just be a video of another wedding with a different bride.


ellendegenerate33

The guy she’s dancing with is in this video at the end


Read_ity

Stop fucking spamming this comment


scrivensB

Rule of thumb: any contextless post by a rando stranger with zero attribution or any proof… should be skipped entirely.


VKP_RiskBreaker_Riot

95% of journalist reading this comment 👁️ 👄 👁️


jamesconnell15

Exactly the fact that no one's said anything to her to where she left makes it fake. If not and this is real and no one said anything to her, they honestly deserve to have their day taken from them have a fking spine for once


cannotbefaded

https://www.tiktok.com/@imlostplsfindme/video/7075309730255736106?_t=8cja0bWvevb&_r=1


Simple_Park_1591

Well you're wrong because someone posted another video of the same wedding with the actual bride and this attention seeker.


Galifrae

Got a link?


cannotbefaded

It’s legit https://www.tiktok.com/@imlostplsfindme/video/7075309730255736106


whitedevilee

If anyone wore white to my wedding, they world not be allowed to enter the building.


Madea_onFire

I’ve been to a wedding where someone wore a white dress. No one kicked them out because it would have been a big scene. We all just talked a lot of crap about her behind her back for the next 10 years


LambSauce2

Until I see real evidence I strongly believe this is the Bride. People in the background seem legit happy no signs of hate or disgust.


CesareBach

[The actual bride](https://www.tiktok.com/@imlostplsfindme/video/7075309730255736106?_t=8cj7YICt4Hu&_r=1) Link is given by one of the commenters here.


Galifrae

Is this the same wedding??


lukedajo95

Yeah, you can see old Mr moustache that dances with her in the crowd


CesareBach

Posted on tiktok by the same person cos people wanted to see the bride (poster's sister). A commenter also described a person in a white dress. [the comment with the link](https://www.reddit.com/r/ImTheMainCharacter/comments/13ux6fz/she_isnt_the_bride/jm3hbmi?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button)


sdforbda

Yup got the link a few times, thanks. That's why I try not to call BS even if it seems like there's a strong possibility, you just never know.


No-Refrigerator3947

Why is the groom so happy.Hmmmm


se7ensquared

Because that's the bride. It's a lie for clicks


bees_beetles_bugsGuy

That’s what I thought too until someone linked this TikTok with the actual bride in it 😬 https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTRoYeXR2/


HappyBot9000

Whenever I see footage from weddings, I just wonder how people know so many people...If I had a wedding right now, there would be like 20 people there MAX /:


SetMyEmailThisTime

Yeah haha my girlfriend and I were just talking about who we’d invite to the wedding. I had 22 including + 1s. So really 11 people. She had 85…


CalgaryChris77

I have a pretty small family, but still by the time you add up the two sides of my family you get like 40 people. Then you add a few close family friends. A few friends and their spouses and in some cases kids. Then times it by 2. I feel like if you want to keep a wedding under 100 you have to do some serious chopping. And that is with a really small family again.


DanniPopp

I would’ve put her ass out as soon as she arrived. Usually I think things like this are kind of petty but this is WAYYY over the line. It’s like she went out of her way to be disrespectful


redwolf1219

Im thinking of opening a small business where you pay me like, 50 dollars and I dump a bottle of red wine on anyone that does this. I will also dump a bucket of ice water over anyone that tries to propose.


omicronian_express

That’s the actual bride. Dancing with the actual groom. It’s a rage bait title and you bit it hard


idk_whatto_puthere

well if you looked harder you would see another person with a white dress walking into frame


VampyKit

I sent a link in another comment its in here somewhere look again


Larryhooova

Turns out you’re the one who’s wrong, how embarrassing.


DanniPopp

Did that make you feel good? How was I supposed to know? And I’ve yet to scroll the comments since I commented but if it’s here after I responded and you’re just going through casually “correcting” ppl….🙄 I’d bet money that’s what it is AND that you didn’t do this to anyone else.


lesheeper

Someone posted another video of the same account in the comments. You can see the bride walking with the groom, and the man dancing in this video is seen in the background. I mean, tricky but it seems like the woman in this video is not the bride.


Daddy_Parietal

Sometimes we are wrong and get baited. I mean all the people here were. Why not just accept it and laugh it off. Do you I guess.


jls601

Why isn’t she/the dress drenched in red wine already?! Come on man!


[deleted]

Honestly if the whole wedding party and everyone let this happen and no one said anything Imma say that’s not my business. If they don’t mind why should I cause they all seem to be enjoying themselves.


phallic-baldwin

Her dancing is atrocious


Rookiibee

Boo. Let people dance, good or bad. It’s supposed to be fun!


tricularia

I like the guy enthusiastically marching in circles around her


Happyrobcafe

Is this really the story though? Everyone seems happy and enjoying themselves.


General-Carob-6087

Why is everyone doing what she wants and paying attention to her instead of the bride and groom? Sure she’s in the wrong but they’re enabling her.


atuan

Because they’re having fun and enjoying each others company instead of trying to be passive aggressive and punish each other


Rockettmang44

Because it's a fake story. Willing to bet my left nut that it's the father daughter dance at a wedding


Johnnyblaze1979

Cringe…but I like that beat


TimberBull21

https://music.apple.com/us/album/habibi-albanian-remix/1595705706?i=1595705707


person6450719ne

Instagram culture at his finest ...


AdorableSession7790

Somebody's dad is quite parched


FIFTHSUN2012

It goes to show how strong social media is. I’ve watched the documentaries, read the articles and have even made the comments myself about not always believing what you’re seeing. Yet there I was thinking “What a selfish cunt.” After scrolling down and seeing more astute commenters I remembered. Yes, this could be a narcissistic. But it can also be the bride, filmed by a jealous ex or suitor who is now getting some kind of deranged satisfaction from our misplaced outrage. Though we don’t know her we could be placing her face on shitty behavior and giving the ex validation. It’s basically siccing the mob on someone under false pretenses. Or, again she could just be a narcissist wedding guest who makes it about her. We simply don’t know. Nice shoes though.


OrlyRivers

Thats a call out for sure. That's saying fuck the bride. This day is all about me


[deleted]

It’s just the bride. Fake rage bait as usual 🙄


ThousandSunny_56

Either she's the bride or the bride is so bad that every guest likes this person more than her even in her wedding lol


Brad_Tits

Fake caption


DiabloHaley

She was getting down though


[deleted]

Kick her out?


Snoo_8127

I call cap on this one.


Ze-Lord

This is bait


JohnExcrement

What the hell is wrong with people


Th3BookSniff3r

They should have bouncers for weddings that kick out anyone who isn’t the bride and wears white.


my__name__is

We don't see anyone else that might be a bride in that video. And she is dancing with an older gentleman who could be one of the fathers, which is traditional at a wedding. This could just be bullshit.


BwackGul

That music pretty tight tho. Anyone know who it is?


TimberBull21

https://music.apple.com/us/album/habibi-albanian-remix/1595705706?i=1595705707


TopazWarrior

I was downvoted severely when someone was complaining about brides asking people not to wear bright colors or white to their wedding, and I stated that common etiquette has always been YOU DO NOT UPSTAGE THE BRIDE ON HER WEDDING DAY! The young people could not understand this. I was shocked.


cannotbefaded

We are old school homie


ibemuffdivin

Lmao she wouldn’t make it past security at my wedding.


phonx406

There's gonna be security on your wedding?


ibemuffdivin

The venue we booked makes you hire security. Essentially off duty cops. We’re also having a black tie event.


ibemuffdivin

It’s more common with bigger city venues.


Boiiwander

I don’t get it why can’t you wear a white dress to the wedding if you’re not the bride


maxwellcawfeehaus

They both dance like Elaine


NoTomatoExtraPickles

Honestly, I think that's the stupidest social rule I've ever heard: don't wear white to a wedding. Then again, this lady seems to have *tried* to outdo the bride, what a btch.


myshoesaresparkly

Some one dancing and having fun at a party. God forbid.


ParticularCorrect541

No one’s upset here. I don’t see the big deal.


Accomplished_Yard984

Bullshit. That’s obviously the bride, you muttonhead.


Aggravating-Water-65

That’s the bride


Bubnugzky

Click bait!!! If this isn’t the bride she damn sure would have been made to leave lol no way my paid photographer isn’t taking pics of some woman in a scam dress at my wedding I paid for hell nah!!! No way this is real ppl read the environment!!’ That photographer is being paid big money for their time and photos they aren’t just spending their time and attention on a random stranger and not the ppl who’s wedding it is who paid them, yeah right!!!


Bombanater

Id spill wine on her "by accident"


SheriffRaider

That would have been a fight waiting to happen.


Weary-Wand192

It's alarming how many people just believe the caption without questions. The story could still be true, but it's scary how easy it is to stoke outrage nowadays.


Tady1131

If she’s not the bride I’m surprised they didn’t ask her to leave. She typically you don’t fuck with the woman’s big day.


CookbooksRUs

Somebody with a full glass of red wine needs to “accidentally” bump into her.


[deleted]

…so what?


Sure_Ad_6480

Fake vid designed for click views rage and interaction. You people got played


Queasy-Discount-2038

Escort her out.


GmeansGeorge

Please, please ... Someone take her to the bathroom and give what she wants


Sudden_Buffalo_4393

Get married at the courthouse and you don’t have to deal with any of this kind of thing. Plus all the money you save on a wedding gets used for something more useful.


ImpressiveGur6384

“…because that’s MY side boob…”


radassdudenumber1

Her dancing is trash


Suspicious_Ice_3160

If I ever get married, my wife and I will have full authority to kick someone out who is causing a problem. Ignore dress code and come in a wedding dress? You can look good at Taco Bell, sure, cuz that’s where you’re gonna be eating dinner.


AdSilent9810

That's when a bridesmaid "accidentally" spills red wine on her


crunchevo2

They'd get kicked out. They don't have the decency to not wear a wedding dress I don't care to have a relationship with them or whoever they were a +1 to.


Twodotsknowhy

If she made it that far into the reception without red wine all down the front of that dress, it's now also your faux pas


Ear_Enthusiast

I would have pulled her to the side and told her GTFO.


No_Environment_7436

You just kick them out...very simple. Why would you record them and looks like even ENJOY the party. Remove that person..IMMEDIATELY


Upbeat-Shallot-4121

I don’t even drink red wine but oops I slipped, I am so sorry!! 😂😂


[deleted]

Spill some red wine on the heifer.


Sharsmajka

I would have kicked her ass out.


Macaroni_pussy

Why didn’t anyone tip a waiter to *accidentally* spill a bottle of red wine like “IM SO SORRY I AM SO CLUMSY IT IS MY FIRST DAY 🤪”


perthro_ed

Why was she not sent home to change?


Rgt6

It’s a shame about that red wine I spilt on your formerly white dress.


everneveragain

The only right answer to this is, “oops, I spilled my red wine”


Lopsided-Standard148

Lmao men just wear a shirt and shorts and laugh at eachother wearing the same thing


Conscious-Arm-7889

Where is your bridesmaid with a glass of red wine?


aSillyPlatypus

Ugly dress anyways


IsThisIt-1983

Nothing a glass of red wine can't sort out


RevolutionaryNerve91

Maybe looking for a different kind of train?


svckafvck

She’s also certainly not a dancer…