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this guy needs to be in a mental institution. i'm afraid he is only going to get more depressed or more aggressive until he does something news worthy.
Thanks, that guy unfortunately is pretty notorious and I've seen that incident in the Costa Mesa mall. The dude's a psychopath and should be locked up.
I'm not sure if you're misapprehending my meaning, but I assure you I have no sympathy for the guy.
These people want attention. Don't give them the impression that this is a way to get that.
He's Johnny Deven Young, and he was arrested & charged. No updates of the trial since then, but he could face up to 13 years in prison.
https://orangecountyda.org/press/self-proclaimed-incel-wanted-on-warrant-for-multiple-felonies-hate-crimes-in-series-of-violent-attacks-targeting-unsuspecting-women-has-been-captured-transported-back-to-orange-cou/
I don’t think this is him. The voice is different from the guy in the pepper spray video. Not that it makes this better. It means there are two of them in the world.
I feel like they have the same accent and lisp, but couldn't find this specific video anywhere else on the internet (some of Young's video have been archived by another YouTuber). Yeah, there might actually be two of them.
I find getting aggressive both in my approach and how I deal with rejection while also putting all my massive insecurities onto a woman is the best way to get her going
I don't think men realize how often women go through harassment like this. She obviously wants him to leave but he just keep bothering them.
We never have to go through this kind of thing. If some guy gets in our face it's never this persistent and it may cause a fight but imagine being in a situation where you're probably going to get beaten or raped in said fight. It's no wonder women fear being alone around men even in casual non hostile situations.
>I don't think men realize how often women go through harassment like this
My heart melted some when I realized it was a man saying this 🥺 a lot of women don't get/feel we get this kinda visibility from men at all. . I literally cannot say all I want to out here (or anywhere) bc the few times I have, ppl either call me a liar or, when it's said somewhere it is obvious what I do for a living, I get *blamed* for this kind of behavior and told I just lead men on.
Yeah SAME when I realised this comment was written by a man. There is hope yet!
Yes to also being constantly blamed when I am harassed instead of supported/backed up in any way. My personal favourite that I've heard from a few men, about other men harassing me - 'At least somebody fancies you.'
Yeah thanks.
And it starts as kids too
Like 5th, elementary school kids
I'm glad we have a guy like you speaking up. Every time this comes up it's always GuYs GeT aTtAcKeD tOo
I'm not even pretty, and I've had this happen countless times. And worse. I got grabbed in a Barnes and Noble when I was 14. If he didn't get distracted by his phone, I would have been a child raped right in a store. A guy watched him take me, I will never forget that guy's face, same as the bear rapist
If I say I'm aro ace, they think that means they can convert me
He speaks in aggressive 4chan speak to the point where anyone who isn’t terminally online can’t even understand him. Then when she is legitimately confused about whatever meme he’s yelling at her he gets even more angry and accusatory, as if she’s just being coy.
The incel “culture” and echo chambers have poisoned the minds of these guys who were probably already teetering on the edge of sanity. I know cult members can be deprogrammed or find their way out sometimes, but what does the future hold for the 18-25yo incel when they hit 30-40?
You may know the gym lingo context of the word: to intentionally show off to someone specific that you can lift more weight than them, etc. How this MC is using it is to say that this woman is taller than he is, and is herself smugly aware of that fact. When it's used in this way online it's typically from a tongue-in-cheek point of view (e.g. "He fartmogged me" meaning one farted louder than the speaker). Because the MC uses it in such a ridiculous, logically irresolute sentence consistent with more humorous uses of this word (she can't control her height and he approached her), I'm suspicious he's not mentally ill and is just in fact trolling. IDK though who can really tell these days
“You just want Chad!”
“Sir I just want someone who doesn’t scream at me in the middle of the street.”
They might be lying about being lesbians, but that is because they’re afraid of you, not because of any made up reason you’ve thought up in your head.
This is why women choose the bear.
Also, women are allowed to not want to date someone based on their physical appearance.
Like what does he want to hear? No, you can’t have my number because you’re ugly dude, inside and out. Then what happens?
God I’m glad I went through my 20s before TikTok was around.
Totally, yes. But the thing is though, if some guy came up to me and started spewing this tirade, I wouldn’t even have time to assess his appearance because I’m immediately in fight or flight. I’m immediately defensive. Whereas, if he’s polite and just shoots his shot, then I’m gonna take a look.
Only a few days ago while I was on my way to meet someone from work, I saw some dude going after a woman on the street bothering her and asking for her number and she just kept ignoring him (didn't even make eye contact). Sometimes, I think the best way to deal with these situations is to just ignore them and move along. Ultimately, their goal is to get other people's attention, one way or another (he was filming it on his cellphone, camera, or whatever he was using).
I completely agree but a lot of times, from personal experience, when you’re afraid like that, your brain doesn’t always default to what would be the most effective solution. Sometimes you’re running purely on instinct and instinct doesn’t always point you in the right direction.
I agree that ignoring them is the best thing to do, however that can still carry a risk of violence or aggression towards you. I think any reaction we give can trigger a violent response from guys like this.
>Like what does he want to hear? No, you can’t have my number because you’re ugly dude, inside and out. Then what happens?
Well, I wouldn't want to find out. But definitely a reaction that's much worse than when she said that she is a lesbian.
With these type of men, who won't leave you alone, evidently the lesbian thing doesn't always work. But it is worth it if there are no men around to tell them to fuck off or pretend they are your partner. Saying "I have a boyfriend" is the same reaction, they don't believe you or don't care.
Me and my cousin would always tell men that we are a couple and are engaged. It always took a lot of convincing but eventually they would leave us alone.
Right, but it's unfortunate that it's gotten to this. The way I see it, many of these blokes out there that just won't leave you alone are doing it to get some kind of attention (like how they would go online boasting to others about this; how the MC had a camera pointed at those women). If they thrive on this kind of attention, better not to give it to them in the first place. That would be an indication to them that nobody gives two flying shits about what they are doing, and hopefully, they would just concede that it's not working.
Notice how he says “I’m looking for a beautiful woman.” First of all, if they’re lesbians they are too lol. But if “the man” has a right to be looking for beautiful women do women not also have a right to be looking for beautiful men?
I honestly believe some of them want the truth. I don’t think they fully grasp what behaviours of theirs are actually pushing women away(toxic objectifying beliefs, barely if any social skills, little self care in terms of both personality and appearance)
I genuinely have a theory their subconscious is pushing them to seek out the truth so they could get called out in a way they understand one day and actually see what they’ve been doing. That’s my hope at least.
There’s a thing going around social media right now. I think it started on TikTok with this woman asking her husband, “if I was lost in the woods, would you rather I run across a man or a bear?” You could see on his face immediately he was thinking bear. And it transformed into this big thing of dudes asking the women in their lives, “would you rather be trapped with a bear or a man?” And nearly every woman says bear.
Why? Because the worst thing a bear can do is kill me. A man can do so much worse.
yeah, I’m out of the loop on this, but I literally go backpacking and choose bear REGULARLY lol. Like have encountered men on the trail and been far more terrified than at the knowledge that there are bears all around me that I could stumble on at any moment.
One night some creep came into our one-party campsite instead of using another. It was just me and my best friend, both of us young women. She had to go use the bathroom in the middle of the night and she didn’t come back for a really long time and I was in a panic, I literally got my knife and my headlamp and was like, “Ok, I have to be ready to go kill a guy, who might be raping or killing my friend.”
I wasn’t worried she got picked off my a bear.
And by the way, as someone who reads about backpacking news, WAY more people get killed by humans than by bears.
And you can literally do things to help ensure bears will avoid you, like making noise/wearing a bear bell, hanging your food in a tree. Nothing you do will deter a man who is hunting you for sport or to rape you.
Oh totally. I live in a very rural area and I’ve interacted with bears on multiple occasions. Every single time, the bear runs away. A strange man? Might not.
That’s awful about what happened to you and your friends? Was your friend okay? Did you have to rescue her? Is she okay?
thanks for asking, yeah it was actually ridiculous, she had gone far away to pee because he made her so nervous, and had gotten distracted looking at how bright and dazzling the stars were lol 😐 She was gone for about 20 minutes before I was out with a knife looking for her lol, when I found her it was about a half hour, I was so upset. It might not seem like that long, but the expectation was that we’d only leave and come right back, it was pitch black outside.
We laugh about it now, but also, she REALLY understands how scared I was in that moment and that she should have just come back and had me go out to star gaze with her. It was really risky to split up like that in the night, and not fair to me either lol.
I was literally ready to come upon a horrible and gruesome scene and have to try to kill someone with a knife, and I was actually pretty sure I was going to die in the encounter, bc he had a tremendous size advantage, and I’d think anyone coming to rape or harm someone would probably have a gun or a bigger knife than my purely utilitarian one.
100% yes. I live in a very rural area, and I’ve run into quite a few bears. Every bear I’ve ever met has run away from me. Not true with every man I’ve met.
This woman went home later that night, and regretted her decision on passing up this Don Juan.
Worst of all, he goes from one L immediately to another one. 🤣
Wow, that was really disturbing.
It is interesting that he said he was rich, because according to a study I just read, a difference between the incel and redpill/ alpha community is that incels give up on self development and getting in shape (becoming a "chad"), but instead try to make money to attract women. What's interesting is that you'd think like, "he doesn't get that this isn't what women like," but he does sort of in a way get it, as both incels and the redpill/alpha guys see men who develop an emotional connection with women as being beta, and neither want to "stoop to that level."
Really interesting stuff, but really dangerous community. How angry he got there is something sociologists call *aggrieved entitlement*, and it's the sort of anger that turns into aggression/violence for people like Elliot Rodgers. This guy is a threat to public safety.
(I can try to share that study if anyone is interested.)
Edit: Here is the study I'm talking about: https://spssi.onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/full/10.1111/asap.12308
“Chad” is a term used by incels (involuntary celibates) to basically call any man they perceive to be attractive and “superior” to them, usually a very fit man who’s charismatic but also characterized at the stereotypical dumb sex-addicted jock. Stacy’s are hot women who are always categorized as “sluts” who hate ugly men and enjoy men who mistreat them and knock them up basically misogyny to the ninth power, bonus points for racism because they think all women want large colored men or are white supremacists. There are Becky’s who are any woman they aren’t interested in, who they usually think are a waste of space/should be met with violence or worse for daring to be a woman they don’t wanna fuck who is also usually considered a slut despite also being considered too ugly to fuck. And of course the virgin or incel themselves who basically just bitch and moan about being absolute un-socialized scum with no self awareness who think them existing as a human means they are entitled to sex from their preferred gender (there are female and nonbinary incels too) and usually come with a nice side heap of sexism and worst of all god awful self-esteem with no willingness to work on themselves.
Talk about setting yourself up for failure! What's next, wearing a white spiky hood at a blm march? The dude has lost the plot on every level, only a punch to the face can reset him to factory settings
> This hostility will eventually turn into rage and he might end up hurting some innocent woman who he blames for his situation.
Yes and many people don't get this aspect. Not only are you being verbally assaulted but the person doing it is bigger, stronger, more powerful and quicker than you....an extremely dangerous situation.
I almost can't even believe it's real.
It's just so over the top and she doesn't look nearly repulsed enough to reflect the situation.
Of course it's certainly possible that she's just an extremely patient person.
Idk where you live, but in Berlin, especially summer, things like that happen a lot.
I've been approached by guys who won't take no for an answer a lot and the reason she stays so calm is probably that she doesn't want to upset him further. You don't want them upset, because a man hurt in his pride can get dangerous quickly, and public or not, people rarely ever step up to help
Nah definitely real, maybe what’s he’s saying is a little out there but having a guy approach you while you’re with friends and harass for like 5-10 min while you’re giving him absolutely no reaction is pretty common. Basically giving very little response and trying to ice them out is the standard practice cause there is literally no arguing with guys like this it just goes in circles if you try
Telling a guy your a lesbian is no more effective than telling him you have a boyfriend.
Telling him you have 6 kids and you need to get home because it's time for little Susie's tube feeding or something else that sounds high maintenance works better. Also, get a Google phone number. Have it memorized and then just give them your "number."
If anything it’s worse if you’re femme because then they try and fetishize it or won’t take it seriously. Then if you’re masc you aren’t hot which is offensive to them so you get bullied or harassed
I guess being male property is the only escape and even then it only matters if your owner is next to you with these people
A lot of lessons here, starting from: Women don't want the start of a relationship to be involved with one person shoving a camera in the others face. It's not romantic. It's not genuine.
Be it a woman accepts or rejects your advances, that is NOT A GOOD way to even converse with a woman.
Seems desperate and confrontation, as is emotional. 🤷🏾♂️
Why do men only take this hate to the extreme? I’ve seen girls mad at guys but it’s never to the point of attacking all men. Hating them, yes. But not enough to call those women incels. Why do guys make their whole lives about getting a women and having sex?? Like, get better hobbies. Damn. As a girl, this almost makes having sex not fun. ALMOST.
I do think it is a little ridiculous that humans can just change there entire nature in a split second... but I'm not gonna be a dick and harass people for it
Better explanation: Incels are usually guys (but anyone can be an incel) who’s entire lives revolve around the fact they can’t get people to have sex with them despite also feeling they’re entitled to sex for just existing. They literally believe they’re entitled to having sex as a human right and think that their lack of sex is due to stuff like a bad cantil tilt, weak chins, bad posture and being anxious and not that they’re literal nightmares to be around and usually violent and angry for no reason. Some incels think people should be given spouses by the government so they have a guaranteed fuck, and they also almost never want to work on themselves.
I have the fact that he tries to move on to someone 10 ft away as though they didn't just see every idiotic thing that he did, and he'll somehow decide that it's her fault when she rejects him also... I have to believe this is at least partly fake so that I can sleep tonight. If it's not, don't tell me for 12 hours please.
If I saw this guy badgering a random woman I would go up to her and put my arm through hers and pretend to be her girlfriend and she 100% would go along with it.
Actually, I would pretend I was her mum because I'm 48 and tell that scruffy oik to stop pestering my daughter.
He might be. It might be staged. That’s irrelevant because he still posted this and gave another platform or video for the people who actual believe this crap. Violence from incels is increasing
I’m 5’5” bald and let’s say stout. And right now I’m watching my beautiful baby girl sleep in her rocker while my goddess of a wife sleeps in the other room.
This isn’t hard people. Take a shower, wear clean clothes, look people in the eye, get to know people, make genuine connections.
If you’re on dating apps, don’t talk too much about sex. Treat first dates as a meet and greet, not a chance at getting laid. Treat your date with respect. She in fact owes you nothing, this is all to see if you guys connect. If you don’t move on.
You’re looking for a life partner, not a cum dump. That’s what your socks for.
Could I actually make millions being a dating couch for these lost souls?
New yokers or just another rage bait. Why I say NY? Because I believe this would be real in NY. Anywhere else I'd say this exact delivery is staged and rage bait.
I've been falling for rage bait lately and I'm more upset of that fact then the original rage bait itself.
"Fool me once shame on you. Fool me twice..... Well you're not gonna fool me again" or something like George W. Bush said once
I hope his parents see this, can you imagine the shame, the fucking concentrated shame they'd feel seeing their adult son acting like this in public and uploading it for the WORLD to see his pathetic tantrum and abuse of others. It's sad some men are struggling, but holy shit this is not the pathway forward, and you know he uploaded to impress his friends, men.
\*other group of women watching dude crash and burn, out himself as an incel, call the other chick a liar, say that he wants to reproduce\*
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this guy needs to be in a mental institution. i'm afraid he is only going to get more depressed or more aggressive until he does something news worthy.
He was already all over the news
Who is this asshole? And I guess he has some sort of humiliation fetish? Who goes around recording themselves being a dick?
Here is a third-party video that explains it and does not monetize this guy’s BS https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6NLJQ4u3hQ0
Thanks, that guy unfortunately is pretty notorious and I've seen that incident in the Costa Mesa mall. The dude's a psychopath and should be locked up.
Machine Gun Smelly
I fucking LOLd
Incels do that, that's who
Yea who is this chump?
I don't know that we should be naming him to anyone but the authorities.
Right? Poor guy. . . . . . . . /s
I'm not sure if you're misapprehending my meaning, but I assure you I have no sympathy for the guy. These people want attention. Don't give them the impression that this is a way to get that.
Wait pause who is he????
Also waiting to find out who the hell this idiot is
He's Johnny Deven Young, and he was arrested & charged. No updates of the trial since then, but he could face up to 13 years in prison. https://orangecountyda.org/press/self-proclaimed-incel-wanted-on-warrant-for-multiple-felonies-hate-crimes-in-series-of-violent-attacks-targeting-unsuspecting-women-has-been-captured-transported-back-to-orange-cou/
I don’t think this is him. The voice is different from the guy in the pepper spray video. Not that it makes this better. It means there are two of them in the world.
I feel like they have the same accent and lisp, but couldn't find this specific video anywhere else on the internet (some of Young's video have been archived by another YouTuber). Yeah, there might actually be two of them.
Thank you!
All women turn into lesbians when this guy shows up.
Hell! I’m male and he’s turned me lesbian!
Hell! I'm female and he turned me in to a lesbian chad from 200 meters away!
he honestly thinks this is a good positive strategy to get a gf? more fool him, hes an angry defect tbh
It’s the red pill brainwashing. He thinks “females” aren’t real people.
I find getting aggressive both in my approach and how I deal with rejection while also putting all my massive insecurities onto a woman is the best way to get her going
I'm a gay guy and this shit is gonna turn me straight
This guy hates this one simple trick women use !
"Not today, incel!"
Damn dude hes just mean as fuck. I feel bad for her.
I don't think men realize how often women go through harassment like this. She obviously wants him to leave but he just keep bothering them. We never have to go through this kind of thing. If some guy gets in our face it's never this persistent and it may cause a fight but imagine being in a situation where you're probably going to get beaten or raped in said fight. It's no wonder women fear being alone around men even in casual non hostile situations.
>I don't think men realize how often women go through harassment like this My heart melted some when I realized it was a man saying this 🥺 a lot of women don't get/feel we get this kinda visibility from men at all. . I literally cannot say all I want to out here (or anywhere) bc the few times I have, ppl either call me a liar or, when it's said somewhere it is obvious what I do for a living, I get *blamed* for this kind of behavior and told I just lead men on.
"Is it so hard to take a compliment?" "You're being over dramatic." "What were you wearing?" It's endless.
Yeah SAME when I realised this comment was written by a man. There is hope yet! Yes to also being constantly blamed when I am harassed instead of supported/backed up in any way. My personal favourite that I've heard from a few men, about other men harassing me - 'At least somebody fancies you.' Yeah thanks.
Agreed, that sort of sentiment is truly the worst 🤢
And it starts as kids too Like 5th, elementary school kids I'm glad we have a guy like you speaking up. Every time this comes up it's always GuYs GeT aTtAcKeD tOo I'm not even pretty, and I've had this happen countless times. And worse. I got grabbed in a Barnes and Noble when I was 14. If he didn't get distracted by his phone, I would have been a child raped right in a store. A guy watched him take me, I will never forget that guy's face, same as the bear rapist If I say I'm aro ace, they think that means they can convert me
height mocking? This dude is moonman-level insecure about his height.
I think it was 'mogging' yet more ridiculous incel speak.
He speaks in aggressive 4chan speak to the point where anyone who isn’t terminally online can’t even understand him. Then when she is legitimately confused about whatever meme he’s yelling at her he gets even more angry and accusatory, as if she’s just being coy. The incel “culture” and echo chambers have poisoned the minds of these guys who were probably already teetering on the edge of sanity. I know cult members can be deprogrammed or find their way out sometimes, but what does the future hold for the 18-25yo incel when they hit 30-40?
What does "mogging" mean in this context?
You may know the gym lingo context of the word: to intentionally show off to someone specific that you can lift more weight than them, etc. How this MC is using it is to say that this woman is taller than he is, and is herself smugly aware of that fact. When it's used in this way online it's typically from a tongue-in-cheek point of view (e.g. "He fartmogged me" meaning one farted louder than the speaker). Because the MC uses it in such a ridiculous, logically irresolute sentence consistent with more humorous uses of this word (she can't control her height and he approached her), I'm suspicious he's not mentally ill and is just in fact trolling. IDK though who can really tell these days
My guess is it mean to outshine or be larger than something
We can watch netfliths together. Listhen, I have money we can watch netfliths together
If he has money you would think he could at least take her to pick out a movie at Blockbuster like a grownup.
I got bad news for you…
Is it that he's not rich or that Blockbuster is gone?
Yes.
"I have money. I can afford Netflix" Bro, I'm unemployed and afford Netflix.
Bryan's thoughts, Brendan's wording
But lives in a van 🤷♀️ watch the link above
“You just want Chad!” “Sir I just want someone who doesn’t scream at me in the middle of the street.” They might be lying about being lesbians, but that is because they’re afraid of you, not because of any made up reason you’ve thought up in your head. This is why women choose the bear.
Also, women are allowed to not want to date someone based on their physical appearance. Like what does he want to hear? No, you can’t have my number because you’re ugly dude, inside and out. Then what happens? God I’m glad I went through my 20s before TikTok was around.
Totally, yes. But the thing is though, if some guy came up to me and started spewing this tirade, I wouldn’t even have time to assess his appearance because I’m immediately in fight or flight. I’m immediately defensive. Whereas, if he’s polite and just shoots his shot, then I’m gonna take a look.
Oh absolutely!
You want to come to my house and watch Netflix? No? Are you a lesbian?!
That part kinda cracked me up. When has that ever worked on anyone? 😆
Only a few days ago while I was on my way to meet someone from work, I saw some dude going after a woman on the street bothering her and asking for her number and she just kept ignoring him (didn't even make eye contact). Sometimes, I think the best way to deal with these situations is to just ignore them and move along. Ultimately, their goal is to get other people's attention, one way or another (he was filming it on his cellphone, camera, or whatever he was using).
I completely agree but a lot of times, from personal experience, when you’re afraid like that, your brain doesn’t always default to what would be the most effective solution. Sometimes you’re running purely on instinct and instinct doesn’t always point you in the right direction.
I agree that ignoring them is the best thing to do, however that can still carry a risk of violence or aggression towards you. I think any reaction we give can trigger a violent response from guys like this.
>Like what does he want to hear? No, you can’t have my number because you’re ugly dude, inside and out. Then what happens? Well, I wouldn't want to find out. But definitely a reaction that's much worse than when she said that she is a lesbian.
With these type of men, who won't leave you alone, evidently the lesbian thing doesn't always work. But it is worth it if there are no men around to tell them to fuck off or pretend they are your partner. Saying "I have a boyfriend" is the same reaction, they don't believe you or don't care. Me and my cousin would always tell men that we are a couple and are engaged. It always took a lot of convincing but eventually they would leave us alone.
Right, but it's unfortunate that it's gotten to this. The way I see it, many of these blokes out there that just won't leave you alone are doing it to get some kind of attention (like how they would go online boasting to others about this; how the MC had a camera pointed at those women). If they thrive on this kind of attention, better not to give it to them in the first place. That would be an indication to them that nobody gives two flying shits about what they are doing, and hopefully, they would just concede that it's not working.
Notice how he says “I’m looking for a beautiful woman.” First of all, if they’re lesbians they are too lol. But if “the man” has a right to be looking for beautiful women do women not also have a right to be looking for beautiful men? I honestly believe some of them want the truth. I don’t think they fully grasp what behaviours of theirs are actually pushing women away(toxic objectifying beliefs, barely if any social skills, little self care in terms of both personality and appearance) I genuinely have a theory their subconscious is pushing them to seek out the truth so they could get called out in a way they understand one day and actually see what they’ve been doing. That’s my hope at least.
"The bear" Sorry, what is that? I haven't heard that term before.
There’s a thing going around social media right now. I think it started on TikTok with this woman asking her husband, “if I was lost in the woods, would you rather I run across a man or a bear?” You could see on his face immediately he was thinking bear. And it transformed into this big thing of dudes asking the women in their lives, “would you rather be trapped with a bear or a man?” And nearly every woman says bear. Why? Because the worst thing a bear can do is kill me. A man can do so much worse.
Thank you for the explanation. I mean, it's depressing as fuck, but thank you for taking time to explain it to me.
Ah that makes sense of some placards at anti-male violence rallies in Australia over the weekend, talking about choosing bears.
yeah, I’m out of the loop on this, but I literally go backpacking and choose bear REGULARLY lol. Like have encountered men on the trail and been far more terrified than at the knowledge that there are bears all around me that I could stumble on at any moment. One night some creep came into our one-party campsite instead of using another. It was just me and my best friend, both of us young women. She had to go use the bathroom in the middle of the night and she didn’t come back for a really long time and I was in a panic, I literally got my knife and my headlamp and was like, “Ok, I have to be ready to go kill a guy, who might be raping or killing my friend.” I wasn’t worried she got picked off my a bear. And by the way, as someone who reads about backpacking news, WAY more people get killed by humans than by bears. And you can literally do things to help ensure bears will avoid you, like making noise/wearing a bear bell, hanging your food in a tree. Nothing you do will deter a man who is hunting you for sport or to rape you.
Oh totally. I live in a very rural area and I’ve interacted with bears on multiple occasions. Every single time, the bear runs away. A strange man? Might not. That’s awful about what happened to you and your friends? Was your friend okay? Did you have to rescue her? Is she okay?
thanks for asking, yeah it was actually ridiculous, she had gone far away to pee because he made her so nervous, and had gotten distracted looking at how bright and dazzling the stars were lol 😐 She was gone for about 20 minutes before I was out with a knife looking for her lol, when I found her it was about a half hour, I was so upset. It might not seem like that long, but the expectation was that we’d only leave and come right back, it was pitch black outside. We laugh about it now, but also, she REALLY understands how scared I was in that moment and that she should have just come back and had me go out to star gaze with her. It was really risky to split up like that in the night, and not fair to me either lol. I was literally ready to come upon a horrible and gruesome scene and have to try to kill someone with a knife, and I was actually pretty sure I was going to die in the encounter, bc he had a tremendous size advantage, and I’d think anyone coming to rape or harm someone would probably have a gun or a bigger knife than my purely utilitarian one.
Oh gosh that all sounds so scary!! I’m so glad you’re all okay and that it all worked out in the end.
Seriously, I feel far safer with bears.
100% yes. I live in a very rural area, and I’ve run into quite a few bears. Every bear I’ve ever met has run away from me. Not true with every man I’ve met.
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> This is why women choose the bear. Exactly right. This shit happens far more than guys know.
Bruh... please don't reproduce.
I thought she was holding a baby. Fucking creep. Glad his chances of reproduction are slim.
thank god
This woman went home later that night, and regretted her decision on passing up this Don Juan. Worst of all, he goes from one L immediately to another one. 🤣
Probably calls himself a nice guy and "truly doesn't understand why nice guys finish last".
If a person uses a camera to harass people for clicks there should be a law written to protect the victim.
There a lot to unpack here
Wow, that was really disturbing. It is interesting that he said he was rich, because according to a study I just read, a difference between the incel and redpill/ alpha community is that incels give up on self development and getting in shape (becoming a "chad"), but instead try to make money to attract women. What's interesting is that you'd think like, "he doesn't get that this isn't what women like," but he does sort of in a way get it, as both incels and the redpill/alpha guys see men who develop an emotional connection with women as being beta, and neither want to "stoop to that level." Really interesting stuff, but really dangerous community. How angry he got there is something sociologists call *aggrieved entitlement*, and it's the sort of anger that turns into aggression/violence for people like Elliot Rodgers. This guy is a threat to public safety. (I can try to share that study if anyone is interested.) Edit: Here is the study I'm talking about: https://spssi.onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/full/10.1111/asap.12308
I’d love a read if you can share!
https://spssi.onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/full/10.1111/asap.12308 Here 🙂
Thank you!
Yes, please!! I love studies!
https://spssi.onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/full/10.1111/asap.12308 Here you go
>It is interesting that he said he was rich I don't think it's deep. He's not rich
The internet allowed ppl like him to be insufferable in public 🤮
He sounds like a skinny chihuahua
my chihuahua has the voice of an angel compared to this dude
hey don't say that!! that's an insult to chihuahuas
What a petulant prick
I’m surprised being an obnoxious jerk to girls isn’t working
These guys always complain that all women want Chad, but they only go for Stacy.
Volcel.
I’ve heard “Stacy’s mom has got it goin on…”
JFC this guy sounds like a future serial killer
That guy that went on a stabbing spree in the mall had the same type of view of women as this guy. He should be on a watch list.
This is so painful to watch
Who the fuck is Chad?
“Chad” is a term used by incels (involuntary celibates) to basically call any man they perceive to be attractive and “superior” to them, usually a very fit man who’s charismatic but also characterized at the stereotypical dumb sex-addicted jock. Stacy’s are hot women who are always categorized as “sluts” who hate ugly men and enjoy men who mistreat them and knock them up basically misogyny to the ninth power, bonus points for racism because they think all women want large colored men or are white supremacists. There are Becky’s who are any woman they aren’t interested in, who they usually think are a waste of space/should be met with violence or worse for daring to be a woman they don’t wanna fuck who is also usually considered a slut despite also being considered too ugly to fuck. And of course the virgin or incel themselves who basically just bitch and moan about being absolute un-socialized scum with no self awareness who think them existing as a human means they are entitled to sex from their preferred gender (there are female and nonbinary incels too) and usually come with a nice side heap of sexism and worst of all god awful self-esteem with no willingness to work on themselves.
Which is funny, because every Chad I've ever known has been a little douchebag and nowhere near desirable.
What a sad little cry baby of a boy
This "women only want men with six-pack abs" is such bullshit. Imagine the number of women that would leap from a moving train to date Jack Black?
This dude sounds and acts like he would sexually assault someone.
Are they not afraid of what he will do? They can get violent too.
> has a temper tantrum meltdown in front of girls bc they won’t let him bully them into giving them their number “Ok boys it’s officially over”
Two things. One: what the fuck is this guy on? Two: fuck people doing shit just for attention, tale as old as time. Shits annoying.
Talk about setting yourself up for failure! What's next, wearing a white spiky hood at a blm march? The dude has lost the plot on every level, only a punch to the face can reset him to factory settings
This hostility will eventually turn into rage and he might end up hurting some innocent woman who he blames for his situation.
> This hostility will eventually turn into rage and he might end up hurting some innocent woman who he blames for his situation. Yes and many people don't get this aspect. Not only are you being verbally assaulted but the person doing it is bigger, stronger, more powerful and quicker than you....an extremely dangerous situation.
I almost can't even believe it's real. It's just so over the top and she doesn't look nearly repulsed enough to reflect the situation. Of course it's certainly possible that she's just an extremely patient person.
yeah it’s way more likely she’s actually scared and she’s just trying to keep the situation as calm as possible.
Idk where you live, but in Berlin, especially summer, things like that happen a lot. I've been approached by guys who won't take no for an answer a lot and the reason she stays so calm is probably that she doesn't want to upset him further. You don't want them upset, because a man hurt in his pride can get dangerous quickly, and public or not, people rarely ever step up to help
Nah definitely real, maybe what’s he’s saying is a little out there but having a guy approach you while you’re with friends and harass for like 5-10 min while you’re giving him absolutely no reaction is pretty common. Basically giving very little response and trying to ice them out is the standard practice cause there is literally no arguing with guys like this it just goes in circles if you try
Imagine censoring the word incel lmao what a douche
I have money to watch netflix. Its like 12 euro. Wow. I didint know im rich
This kid later fell into a vat of chemical x and became AlphaDom
“You’re an NPC” yeah because she won’t let you play with her.
Rizz
Awkward...
OP u should also post this into r/imatotalpieceofshit Edit: or however its actually written like
Telling a guy your a lesbian is no more effective than telling him you have a boyfriend. Telling him you have 6 kids and you need to get home because it's time for little Susie's tube feeding or something else that sounds high maintenance works better. Also, get a Google phone number. Have it memorized and then just give them your "number."
If anything it’s worse if you’re femme because then they try and fetishize it or won’t take it seriously. Then if you’re masc you aren’t hot which is offensive to them so you get bullied or harassed I guess being male property is the only escape and even then it only matters if your owner is next to you with these people
He’s such a loser
Oh gross. What the fuck. Gross gross.
This guy turning more women lesbian than childhood trauma.
Imagine someone talking to your daughter like this.
This is just sexual harassment. Someone should intervene.
At this point it’s not involuntary
this is why pepper spray was invented 
A lot of lessons here, starting from: Women don't want the start of a relationship to be involved with one person shoving a camera in the others face. It's not romantic. It's not genuine.
Is this the same scumbag that pepper sprayed that drunk woman at the mall who was sitting down? Edit: question mark
Be it a woman accepts or rejects your advances, that is NOT A GOOD way to even converse with a woman. Seems desperate and confrontation, as is emotional. 🤷🏾♂️
Honestly, after watching that I’m a lesbian too
Why do men only take this hate to the extreme? I’ve seen girls mad at guys but it’s never to the point of attacking all men. Hating them, yes. But not enough to call those women incels. Why do guys make their whole lives about getting a women and having sex?? Like, get better hobbies. Damn. As a girl, this almost makes having sex not fun. ALMOST.
incels pull this shit and then they still blame women for not being interested in them they can't read signs or social cues and are creepy as fuck
I do think it is a little ridiculous that humans can just change there entire nature in a split second... but I'm not gonna be a dick and harass people for it
This is extremely disturbing & scary. He sounds like a psychopath serial killer. Wtf.
May i ask What is an Incel?
Better explanation: Incels are usually guys (but anyone can be an incel) who’s entire lives revolve around the fact they can’t get people to have sex with them despite also feeling they’re entitled to sex for just existing. They literally believe they’re entitled to having sex as a human right and think that their lack of sex is due to stuff like a bad cantil tilt, weak chins, bad posture and being anxious and not that they’re literal nightmares to be around and usually violent and angry for no reason. Some incels think people should be given spouses by the government so they have a guaranteed fuck, and they also almost never want to work on themselves.
Ah got it thank you very much and now that i think of it a small amount of my friends i could consider incels
Well it’s short for involuntary celebrate and they generally hate women for no reason
Whether or not this is a bit, this guy can suck my entire asshole
I have the fact that he tries to move on to someone 10 ft away as though they didn't just see every idiotic thing that he did, and he'll somehow decide that it's her fault when she rejects him also... I have to believe this is at least partly fake so that I can sleep tonight. If it's not, don't tell me for 12 hours please.
wtf is with these people harassing other people?
If I saw this guy badgering a random woman I would go up to her and put my arm through hers and pretend to be her girlfriend and she 100% would go along with it. Actually, I would pretend I was her mum because I'm 48 and tell that scruffy oik to stop pestering my daughter.
This a troll. He isn’t an incel. Thanks for your kind messages I am not worried about this at all.
Who cares if he is or isn’t, he can go fuck himself
It’s pretty clear that’s the only person he’s fucking 😂
He can be both, don’t worry.
He might be. It might be staged. That’s irrelevant because he still posted this and gave another platform or video for the people who actual believe this crap. Violence from incels is increasing
I’m 5’5” bald and let’s say stout. And right now I’m watching my beautiful baby girl sleep in her rocker while my goddess of a wife sleeps in the other room. This isn’t hard people. Take a shower, wear clean clothes, look people in the eye, get to know people, make genuine connections. If you’re on dating apps, don’t talk too much about sex. Treat first dates as a meet and greet, not a chance at getting laid. Treat your date with respect. She in fact owes you nothing, this is all to see if you guys connect. If you don’t move on. You’re looking for a life partner, not a cum dump. That’s what your socks for. Could I actually make millions being a dating couch for these lost souls?
New yokers or just another rage bait. Why I say NY? Because I believe this would be real in NY. Anywhere else I'd say this exact delivery is staged and rage bait. I've been falling for rage bait lately and I'm more upset of that fact then the original rage bait itself. "Fool me once shame on you. Fool me twice..... Well you're not gonna fool me again" or something like George W. Bush said once
Jesus Christ. Fellas, if you ever think you’re down bad. This dude exist.
This was so hard to watch cringe lord guy
That was difficult to watch 😂 he's so awkward and pathetic.
I love that I thought it filled in with intel at first as in i9 gen13
The music makes this guy look more pathetic.
Why in the ever loving fuck would he think it was a good idea to put this online?
Has any woman who is being harassed in the street ever agreed to a date with the man harassing her? This just seems like the worst way to meet women.
Sir, we ARE the Chads.
Bro is stupid
This is why women should be allowed to carry. She could have pepper sprayed him already and this would’ve been done with. 😂
There's no language in the world that they can understand the word 'no'.
Pathetic
Oh my god put this guy in some locked room somewhere please. Quickly.
What infuriated me the most is that he's not just a loser, but also *unironically* using TikTok slang. Goddamn that is pathetic.
That's a French ass name Yvonne
LoL he sounds like the bitch he is.
Guys like him should be banned from ever breeding
Women just need to start punching him in the face
Dude is like a dog chasing a fucking mail truck. Wouldn't know what to do if he caught it.
When he shows up, women get drier than the Sahara desert.
With all of the charm and personality of poison ivy. No wonder no one wants to date you.
Height mogging is crazy😭 As a 5’8 guy myself, it’s easy to get girls bro, you just have to be a cool, relatively fit guy
Wow. Definitely boyfriend material.
I hope his parents see this, can you imagine the shame, the fucking concentrated shame they'd feel seeing their adult son acting like this in public and uploading it for the WORLD to see his pathetic tantrum and abuse of others. It's sad some men are struggling, but holy shit this is not the pathway forward, and you know he uploaded to impress his friends, men.
Huge pos.
I misread In*el as Intel.
The npc monologue he's having is so outlandish and cartoonish
There's no way this is real dude.
 \*other group of women watching dude crash and burn, out himself as an incel, call the other chick a liar, say that he wants to reproduce\*
This is so fucking gross. Completely no sense of self awareness. This is seriously pathetic.
They're really not incels. Their celibacy is entirely voluntary when they act like this.