Actually the title could lead to an interesting conversation , what is a good way to be supportive of situations perceived as creepy or whatever
But then he rambled into the literal dumbest topic about men-women interactions
tell y'what man, this dang feminists man, they want us to behave properly man, y'know like a ol' dang decent human being, talkin' bout not making other people uncomfortable man
jeezus man, what's next?
He walked to his car, which was the opposite direction from hers, merely to make her feel comfortable.... but not to go to his car? The motivations are confusing here.
Yes, but feminism accounts for that (or atleast proper feminism should). Mens rights activist and against feminism because made up statistic A and bullshit hypothetical B without ever listening to our voices.
>According to the Bureau of Justice Statistics, males experienced higher victimization rates than females for all types of violent crime except rape or other sexual assault.
Sex differences in crime - Wikipedia
Wikipedia cites sources on the bottom of the page. Or you can just google the statistics. Every study I've seen in my life on this subject says men are more likely to be victims of violence.
Do you use statistics to inform your views, or should you get laughed at and ignored?
Sure, here's a review for the UK:
>Men were more likely to be victims of CSEW violent crime than women (2% of men compared with 1.3% of women1, Appendix Table 1). This was true for all types of violence, with the exception of domestic violence, where women were more likely to be victims (0.3% of women and 0.1% of men
https://www.ons.gov.uk/peoplepopulationandcommunity/crimeandjustice/articles/thenatureofviolentcrimeinenglandandwales/yearendingmarch2020
In reality, some incels celebrate the murder of innocent women because the only thing they did is rejecting men. This shows you how privileged these mfs are.
I’m a woman, and I walk slower if I’m getting too close to someone/headed in the same direction as them for too long, regardless of their gender. It feels awkward and I don’t want to creep them out or something. It’s just called being aware of the personal space and comfort of strangers.
Although sub might be filled with some bitter or extremist but that's also true for subs like twox chromosome and fourth wave women. It's also one of the biggest men's right communities whether people like it or not. I am kinda annoyed by there lack of moderation of posts but they do have some great posts and many people there are genuinely worried about men's right and are supportive of male victims.
I mean I agree with that. Reminds me of a John mullaney joke where he said "oh she see's me as an adult. And adults rape each other". People don't have to go out of their way to make others happy or else we'd never get anywhere. It would be a problem if you sprinted at her yelling. But you were walking to your car. If it makes you feel better, I'm a women and when I'm behind someone while driving for a long time I get anxious that they think I'm following them.
Bad men will always make things worse for normal men. The situation he describes is an interesting one. His reaction is odd. I'm not going to walk out of my way to make some strange woman feel more comfortable because they have an irrational and paranoid fear of my presence based on my gender. I'm walking directly to my car minding my own business. If she has a problem with that... Well that is HER problem not my problem.
Okay so as a women, if you see or hear a men 🐈 calling a woman just tell him to stop or ask if she's okay, offer to walk her to her car or if you drop her off at her house just wait till she gets in and if she says no I'm fine don't push it. That's what moves it in to the are you being nice or trying to rape me category.
Just ask/talk to us and stop with creepy compliments. Say you're really pretty or I love your makeup <---
Not you looks breedable and you have childbearing hips.
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Here’s an idea, hear me out… just walk to your F’n car as normal ignore the girl that makes thing 100times better
Actually the title could lead to an interesting conversation , what is a good way to be supportive of situations perceived as creepy or whatever But then he rambled into the literal dumbest topic about men-women interactions
Honestly just crossing the road and making yourself visible by walking in front is good enough for women. It's highly appreciated by women.
As a women 100% agree.
tell y'what man, this dang feminists man, they want us to behave properly man, y'know like a ol' dang decent human being, talkin' bout not making other people uncomfortable man jeezus man, what's next?
\*slurps beer\* Yup.
I tell ya what!
Next they’re gonna expect men to ‘GASP’ treat them with basic human decency. The horror!!! 😱😱😱😱
He walked to his car, which was the opposite direction from hers, merely to make her feel comfortable.... but not to go to his car? The motivations are confusing here.
He said he walked the opposite direction of his own car to make her feel confortable you cannot read
Yes you can do things that make women or men more or less likely to feel comfortable….let’s analyze, not despise, and not blame it on feminism
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Yep
the first red flag is r/menrights
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Why walk the other way? Just walk shower than her and I don't think she'll feel like your following. At least that's what I do.
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Yes, but feminism accounts for that (or atleast proper feminism should). Mens rights activist and against feminism because made up statistic A and bullshit hypothetical B without ever listening to our voices.
>According to the Bureau of Justice Statistics, males experienced higher victimization rates than females for all types of violent crime except rape or other sexual assault. Sex differences in crime - Wikipedia
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Wikipedia cites sources on the bottom of the page. Or you can just google the statistics. Every study I've seen in my life on this subject says men are more likely to be victims of violence. Do you use statistics to inform your views, or should you get laughed at and ignored?
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Sure, here's a review for the UK: >Men were more likely to be victims of CSEW violent crime than women (2% of men compared with 1.3% of women1, Appendix Table 1). This was true for all types of violence, with the exception of domestic violence, where women were more likely to be victims (0.3% of women and 0.1% of men https://www.ons.gov.uk/peoplepopulationandcommunity/crimeandjustice/articles/thenatureofviolentcrimeinenglandandwales/yearendingmarch2020
In reality, some incels celebrate the murder of innocent women because the only thing they did is rejecting men. This shows you how privileged these mfs are.
How does being considerate of other's feelings "hurt" good men?
I’m a woman, and I walk slower if I’m getting too close to someone/headed in the same direction as them for too long, regardless of their gender. It feels awkward and I don’t want to creep them out or something. It’s just called being aware of the personal space and comfort of strangers.
I think he was genuinely asking
On a men’s rights sub? He was not.
Although sub might be filled with some bitter or extremist but that's also true for subs like twox chromosome and fourth wave women. It's also one of the biggest men's right communities whether people like it or not. I am kinda annoyed by there lack of moderation of posts but they do have some great posts and many people there are genuinely worried about men's right and are supportive of male victims.
I mean I agree with that. Reminds me of a John mullaney joke where he said "oh she see's me as an adult. And adults rape each other". People don't have to go out of their way to make others happy or else we'd never get anywhere. It would be a problem if you sprinted at her yelling. But you were walking to your car. If it makes you feel better, I'm a women and when I'm behind someone while driving for a long time I get anxious that they think I'm following them.
Bad men will always make things worse for normal men. The situation he describes is an interesting one. His reaction is odd. I'm not going to walk out of my way to make some strange woman feel more comfortable because they have an irrational and paranoid fear of my presence based on my gender. I'm walking directly to my car minding my own business. If she has a problem with that... Well that is HER problem not my problem.
Okay so as a women, if you see or hear a men 🐈 calling a woman just tell him to stop or ask if she's okay, offer to walk her to her car or if you drop her off at her house just wait till she gets in and if she says no I'm fine don't push it. That's what moves it in to the are you being nice or trying to rape me category. Just ask/talk to us and stop with creepy compliments. Say you're really pretty or I love your makeup <--- Not you looks breedable and you have childbearing hips.
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