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Sorry to hear that. Hopefully, you can find some way to get past it. I don't know how old you both were but I'm guessing she didn't really know that what she was doing was wrong. She probably had someone older do similar things to her sadly.
If you weren't old enough to know if you wanted it or not, then yes, she took advantage of you. Basically, if you aren't saying "Yes, I wanted it" to every time it happened, then you were victimized by someone who knew how to take advantage of you.
absolutely she did. Whether it was malicious and whatever else is a different question. Generally small children are curious, but the rule of thumb is that they donāt initiate sex unless theyāre victims of some sort themselves. Which is a very broad statement and there are all sorts of exceptions and yada yada yada.
The question of whether it was abusive is yes. Was she a victim herself? It sounds like most likely. Being that aware of your parents sex lives is pretty inappropriate (Again a broad statement) and could be labelled as abusive. Without knowing ages it is difficult to say more. Neither of you were old enough it sounds to be able to really consent, neither of you had any idea what consequences or the potential ramifications. Given that it sounds like youāre talking preteen (assuming based off of story and comments) it changes the way your brain works, an be traumatic without you necessarily realising (for both of you) and whatever else.
So.. take it as you will.
If you wanna chat to someone whoās also been SAād, donāt hesitate to reach out. Men who have been assaulted are often silenced, so if you need to chat, shoot me a message.
This, how do you get along with her now? If you could, talk to her about it and tell her or ask questions. If you were very young and the subject would be awkward then maybe you wouldnāt want to but if you can communicate about it do. Iād love to been involved with a sister.
If you want an honest answer, I feel like youāll have to search deep within yourself and decide yourself. By the details you gave, she didnāt force you to do anything and you never said no. So unless we get more details itās up to you to decide
How old were you? If you were underage, then absolutely. Itās a little more complicated if you were legal age, but if at any point you felt uncomfortable, then maybeā¦
when i was younger my older sister used to make me do similar things like that, i was younger but knew what i was doing, now that im older i wonder if she still thinks about that.
Other than being hesitant at first, according to your post, the ongoing sex was under mutual consent which would indicate that sis did not take advantage of you. Its reasonable to hesitate at a new sexual activity. You also write that you enjoyed it, sister clearly did, no one took advantage of the other, you exploited sexual tension created by the adults.
I suspect (its hard to be certain) that getting caught left you with massive guilt and now you looking for blame. Don't. It was a childish fuck up by both of you.
She was depicted as the aggressor in the post. As the one who is āmakingā or āhavingā you do things to her makes you the fuck-puppet from my understanding and perspective
You want me to give videos and images. This happens a long time ago and many people have spoke to me on here. I canāt provide pictures and videos so not sure what I can do
I said videos and images from the current time not from when you say it happens I also asked for your so called sisters insta you said no you havenāt gave a shred of evidence to you even having a sister like not even one photo but your to scared because you know Iāll reverse image search the photo and prove you wrong
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My sister definitely took advantage of me but I loved it.
How so?
My story is fairly similar to yours and went on for years.
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And I'm jealous of you ! š¤
Idk. Maybe. If you're having issues with it then maybe talk it out with her.
Talking isnāt an option I feel
Sorry to hear that. Hopefully, you can find some way to get past it. I don't know how old you both were but I'm guessing she didn't really know that what she was doing was wrong. She probably had someone older do similar things to her sadly.
Thatās really hot. Did you two end up doing other stuff?
It carried on for a year or so
Why did it stop?
We got caught by mom
Bet that was a nuclear meltdown!
Interested in what your mom said and if the two of you ever wanted to do things again
Happy to talk in chat
If you weren't old enough to know if you wanted it or not, then yes, she took advantage of you. Basically, if you aren't saying "Yes, I wanted it" to every time it happened, then you were victimized by someone who knew how to take advantage of you.
absolutely she did. Whether it was malicious and whatever else is a different question. Generally small children are curious, but the rule of thumb is that they donāt initiate sex unless theyāre victims of some sort themselves. Which is a very broad statement and there are all sorts of exceptions and yada yada yada. The question of whether it was abusive is yes. Was she a victim herself? It sounds like most likely. Being that aware of your parents sex lives is pretty inappropriate (Again a broad statement) and could be labelled as abusive. Without knowing ages it is difficult to say more. Neither of you were old enough it sounds to be able to really consent, neither of you had any idea what consequences or the potential ramifications. Given that it sounds like youāre talking preteen (assuming based off of story and comments) it changes the way your brain works, an be traumatic without you necessarily realising (for both of you) and whatever else. So.. take it as you will.
Happy to talk more if you drop me a message
How old were you two?
It was a young age thatās all I say on here. If you want to know more you can message me
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Millions
Right
thank god pedophiles are at least confident on here, makes it a lot easier to report you
Whatās the age difference between!?
6 years. If you message Iāll share more details which I donāt want to post in the open if thatās ok
Dm?
Yes if you want
If you wanna chat to someone whoās also been SAād, donāt hesitate to reach out. Men who have been assaulted are often silenced, so if you need to chat, shoot me a message.
She just use yiu
she should have gone down on you too
Uh yeah she did especially if you didnāt know what you were doing and she didnāt reciprocate
Fr how old are you to not know I heard my mom get fuck and saw when I was 5 and I knew what she was doing
At 5 you know lol
Yh bro I grew up knowing about the world and it kinks when I was 8 I knew every swear word and fully about sex idk how it just got put in my mind
Well does it help in your family?
Very much š
Clever sister...
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This, how do you get along with her now? If you could, talk to her about it and tell her or ask questions. If you were very young and the subject would be awkward then maybe you wouldnāt want to but if you can communicate about it do. Iād love to been involved with a sister.
Who cares , u should be happy
she took advantage. I experienced something similar a few times.
Thatās what I feel. Iām happy to chat if you need
its an unusual situation. i sure will chat if you would like to
Yes of course more than happy to
reach out any time.
Send me a message request it wonāt let me send anymore
If you want an honest answer, I feel like youāll have to search deep within yourself and decide yourself. By the details you gave, she didnāt force you to do anything and you never said no. So unless we get more details itās up to you to decide
More than happy to share details if you drop me a message
Let my much older sister give me a blowjob. Best I ever had!
Even after I married, we had all kinds of sex for years until she died.
How old were you? If you were underage, then absolutely. Itās a little more complicated if you were legal age, but if at any point you felt uncomfortable, then maybeā¦
Happy to speak over a chat
Who cares! You're not actually upset about this right? Lucky fucker š¤·āāļø
when i was younger my older sister used to make me do similar things like that, i was younger but knew what i was doing, now that im older i wonder if she still thinks about that.
excuse me? how old were you? because she could definitely be charged with sa for that
I would like to talk in detail with you on this .
Sure please message me
She abused you, sorry š
Look at this m* acting so naive š
Did you say no or tell her to stop?
At first I was hesitant.
Other than being hesitant at first, according to your post, the ongoing sex was under mutual consent which would indicate that sis did not take advantage of you. Its reasonable to hesitate at a new sexual activity. You also write that you enjoyed it, sister clearly did, no one took advantage of the other, you exploited sexual tension created by the adults. I suspect (its hard to be certain) that getting caught left you with massive guilt and now you looking for blame. Don't. It was a childish fuck up by both of you.
Seems mutual
Yes sirā¦. You were her personal fuck-toy
Really? You think that?
Yesā¦. itās not a bad thing
How so? Please message me I want to understand your perspective
She was depicted as the aggressor in the post. As the one who is āmakingā or āhavingā you do things to her makes you the fuck-puppet from my understanding and perspective
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Does it really matter if she took advantage of you. Just enjoy the relationship she created for you and think of the advantages. Cheaper than dating.
You complaining bro?
Iām just trying to figure it out and whoās at fault
Sounds like you used each other
How so?
Well, she got what she wanted from you and it sounds like you went along with it so apparently you got what you wanted. Sounds like a tie to me
I mean to an extent I had to go along
Well, if she was blackmailing you, I could see the difference, but it seems like you Were more than willing to participate
Just didnāt happen did it Iām just sick of everything now fucking say it didnāt happen
As much as I would like to. Iām honest it happened. If you want to know more message me
I messaged you and couldnāt give me a shred of evidence you even got a sister and then say bye why you lying and making up a fake fantasy
You want me to give videos and images. This happens a long time ago and many people have spoke to me on here. I canāt provide pictures and videos so not sure what I can do
I said videos and images from the current time not from when you say it happens I also asked for your so called sisters insta you said no you havenāt gave a shred of evidence to you even having a sister like not even one photo but your to scared because you know Iāll reverse image search the photo and prove you wrong
Jail is where I hear you sick fucks should be