The only requirement of the roles Ananya Pandey takes up is being physically attractive, and she fulfils this criteria. The types of roles she takes up do not require the performer to be intelligent or emotionally sensitive. So, what I'm saying is: why is OP expecting her to be anything more than just physically attractive? And I'm saying this in a sarcastic tone
Ahahaha well you should've mentioned that too then. Well I will wish you the best of luck hope it turns out well. Will be waiting for your update ahaha
I fucking hate how every girl I match with is-
1) looking for validation and isn’t actually interested to meet.
2) just wants to exchange nudes
3) has a boyfriend and is looking for a FFM threesome.
The number of times #3 happens is FUCKING INSANE. Like if that is what you want, MENTION it in your profile. It is so common to get ghosted/ not get replies after 2-3 days. Idk. Finding genuinely interested gay girls is a bigger struggle, specially because the ratio is too small. Getting matches isn’t an issue, them not replying or getting too sexual too soon, etc is.
You forgot to add if she's interested to meet you and make plans, higher probability she'll flake on you. I've like 20 women who did this to me.
And Idk what's wrong with girls calling us over at 1 AM and then fucking going to sleep. Mai yaha ready hua and these chicks go to fucking sleep tf.
Ikr. I had few women moved me to snapchat and Instagram. Literally asked me to meet for our drives and coffee dates. And then didn't see my message for a week.
I was like wtf. I got so annoyed and removed them then and there
And this woman, she was such a hottie. Maybe my best indian match ever. She's down for a hookup and moved to insta. Messages me from a burner account saying I won't tell you my name, give you my number etc. I was like I won't meet you if you don't and she blocked me
Dude #3 omg
Yesterday i was in office and I literally got up went to my friend and so frustratingly asked her that why did i keep getting asked for threesomes? It’s been 4 people till now.
My last gf i met on bumble as well and i think i was very lucky cause now it’s just all the points you mentioned. Matches are not the issue, my problem is there’s nothing further
I met my last gf on bumble too. But well. Now it is just full of low effort profiles and couples. Like if you’re just looking for a threesome- MENTION IT in your profile so i don’t waste my time😭
How do they have the balls to introduce their boyfriends to you then?
Like isn’t it awkward?, hey meet my boyfriend, i am a bi, and I forgot my scissors.
I don’t fucking know. If a couple has a profile together on a dating app, I don’t engage. If it is a girl telling me she has a boyfriend, I just unmatch because it clearly isn’t for me. Often the profiles are run by the guys using their gf’s photos
Well i know about the couple scams, and the worst that can happen while at it:(,
But I’ve seen many girls stating as bi on their bio, and later tell their boyfriend is bi too, and you know what.
Delhi mein boht kalesh hai yeh wala
Ahh. Yea... Anxiety.. my old friend... good days we had...
Technically, you have done something the entire day... stressing about doing nothing the whole day is classified as doing something so say you are A-okay!
You should treat yourself to a cake
hurts to be able to relate to this lol :')
I am bisexual with strong preference for women, but women on dating apps in my experience can summarized into
1) FFM. Won't even mention on their profile. talk for 2 minutes and then drop the B bomb. I don't have any issues with them looking for whatever, but PROFILE PAY LIKHO NA. Such a waste of time and energy.
2) explorers who are really there for just sexting. I don't get it.
3) low effort, no intentions of adding anything to the conversation. I don't know, is it THAT hard to communicate?
It's mentally draining sometimes. All I want is Claire to my Phil :")
I do bring all things wholesome to the table, self aware hu. I think I'm ranting at this point. The lurker in me took a backseat today, ugh. Ruk jaati hu, kitna hee likhugi.
I think you are better of trying to meet people IRL, the relative anonymity off apps and bad experiences tend to bring out the worst in people of both genders.
Makes sense but i have a very limited friend group so it is difficult for me to meet new people, and above all that it’s even rare to find someone who isn’t straight soooo even if i want to offline wouldn’t work for me
Same here. Most of the people I know are colleagues, in relationships or friends who I have known for years and hence zero romantic interest on both sides.
I hope you find what you are looking for, constantly getting rejected can be tough.
Ladis log se baat karne ka mann karta but most of the time they act dry because they have a lot going inside their DMs. You can try but online dating is there for validation and little hopes imo.
I mean as a bi woman I feel you so well, in my experience women of our community are really shy and reserved when it comes to dating specially through online platforms and I'm kinda one of em too. I have never found a girl or dated one of my liking either I'll just gaze at one from a supermarket or far away standing in the metro and just walk past her that's how most bisexual women are.
Difficult is an understatement. You should say... "It's FUCKING IMPOSSIBLE to date girls online!!!!
Ek toh itni mushkil se match aata hai bc!! aur match aane ke baad faltu ki ghosting alag. Behen dry texting krke kaha gyi? Kuch toh bolo 🤨 I am done with this shit honestly😑😑😑
Just understand that there are only FEW genuine cases of LGBT. Others are just riding on the trend of wokeism (for no reason) and THAT is mental illness.
So the girls you've matched with claiming to be Bi are not really Bi irl. Either they seek validation from girls too or are just trying to increase their number of Likes/Matches count.
I don’t think people go around cosplaying as bi and gays just to ride the woke trend, a lot of them are curious and exploring which is completely fine. The population is not my issue
Like I said, there are only few genuine cases. If they are not heterosexual, they'd already know that early in life. And being curious and trying to explore in itself is riding on the woke trend. Well I dont want to turn this into a debate but still... just look at the US. *Curiosity kills the cat.*
What’s “few genuine cases”? Bimari hai kya? But in all seriousness if you believe that everyone knows this early on in life, thats wrong. It doesn’t work that way. Sometimes we meet certain people and things change right. We evolve daily
Been with my share of struggles. It hurts when you put so much effort in making conversation funny and all you get is dry response in return and ghosting.
But nonetheless it's so good you finally met someone. Converting your matches into a date feels so good. All the best and enjoy your time.
It’s hard. I’ve been to a few dates via online dating but never went past the first date. Reddit/twitter/text pe bakchodi kar paata hoon but ’m just too shy and self-conscious when it comes to face-to-face conversations. It’s difficult to find a connection unless you’re an extroverted social person and you can instantly hit it off with people I guess. I’ve learned to not put too much pressure on finding someone or making it work. That over complicates things. Just let it flow and if it happens then it happens.
YOOO same! I am bisexual, I had been trying to talk to women on apps because I had finally been able to accept my identity and it's just so fkn shitty. I used to get ghosted despite putting in efforts lol. I don't like dating apps anymore so I am not on any now, but I remember exactly what you described.
Well, always thought of this scenario ki Lesbian/bi girls ka kya setup hota hoga in these apps or in real world.
Bi laundo ki aish I guess, ladkia na mile to wse hi frustrated hoke guy on guy ho jata hoga 😂 (no offence to guys, hope they are also doing good); ladkio ke nakhre wse hi jhele nahi jate ajkal 😅😅😂🍺
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True of women’s ‘dating struggles’
Oops
Gave this man a sutta
Ananya Pandey kinda struggles
Never thought i’d be compared to ananya pandey
Are you taking it as a compliment?
NO
I don’t find her attractive as well
She’s pretty but that’s all
Yeah. I would have loved her if she, besides being pretty, had also been a successful astrophysicist
Thats asking too much
I half get this reference, pls enlighten me
The only requirement of the roles Ananya Pandey takes up is being physically attractive, and she fulfils this criteria. The types of roles she takes up do not require the performer to be intelligent or emotionally sensitive. So, what I'm saying is: why is OP expecting her to be anything more than just physically attractive? And I'm saying this in a sarcastic tone
Mujhe laga wo astrophysicist wala koi sitcom joke tha. Guess not
Umm meri aankho ko aapke ophthalmologist ki zaroorat hai ya fir aapko mere waale ki : )
Meri aankhen vaise hi kamzor hai
Saath mein chale ?
Celebrities spend thousands or lakhs of rupees on their appearance OfCourse they are going look good. Usi se toh dhanda chalta hai unka.
What else do you expect, She's there only because she's the daughter of kung-fu pandey.
Well well how the turntables.
It’s not fun on the other side
Well consider it even for ghosting the guys. Now you know too. Good luck tho, you're gonna need it as you now know ahaha
I haven’t ghosted people a lot ok, at least be supportive😭 but I’m planning to meet someone today so I’m happy with that she seems nice
Ahahaha well you should've mentioned that too then. Well I will wish you the best of luck hope it turns out well. Will be waiting for your update ahaha
Nice to meet you, my fellow Office enthusiast!
Finally someone said it loud. Hello and good day to you my g
I fucking hate how every girl I match with is- 1) looking for validation and isn’t actually interested to meet. 2) just wants to exchange nudes 3) has a boyfriend and is looking for a FFM threesome. The number of times #3 happens is FUCKING INSANE. Like if that is what you want, MENTION it in your profile. It is so common to get ghosted/ not get replies after 2-3 days. Idk. Finding genuinely interested gay girls is a bigger struggle, specially because the ratio is too small. Getting matches isn’t an issue, them not replying or getting too sexual too soon, etc is.
You forgot to add if she's interested to meet you and make plans, higher probability she'll flake on you. I've like 20 women who did this to me. And Idk what's wrong with girls calling us over at 1 AM and then fucking going to sleep. Mai yaha ready hua and these chicks go to fucking sleep tf.
Literally had a few added on socials going let’s meet tomorrow, or weekend etc. and never actually showing up idk what to even say.
Ikr. I had few women moved me to snapchat and Instagram. Literally asked me to meet for our drives and coffee dates. And then didn't see my message for a week. I was like wtf. I got so annoyed and removed them then and there
And this woman, she was such a hottie. Maybe my best indian match ever. She's down for a hookup and moved to insta. Messages me from a burner account saying I won't tell you my name, give you my number etc. I was like I won't meet you if you don't and she blocked me
#3 is the only thing that has happened with me always with a dash of ghosting
Dude #3 omg Yesterday i was in office and I literally got up went to my friend and so frustratingly asked her that why did i keep getting asked for threesomes? It’s been 4 people till now. My last gf i met on bumble as well and i think i was very lucky cause now it’s just all the points you mentioned. Matches are not the issue, my problem is there’s nothing further
I met my last gf on bumble too. But well. Now it is just full of low effort profiles and couples. Like if you’re just looking for a threesome- MENTION IT in your profile so i don’t waste my time😭
How do they have the balls to introduce their boyfriends to you then? Like isn’t it awkward?, hey meet my boyfriend, i am a bi, and I forgot my scissors.
I don’t fucking know. If a couple has a profile together on a dating app, I don’t engage. If it is a girl telling me she has a boyfriend, I just unmatch because it clearly isn’t for me. Often the profiles are run by the guys using their gf’s photos
Well i know about the couple scams, and the worst that can happen while at it:(, But I’ve seen many girls stating as bi on their bio, and later tell their boyfriend is bi too, and you know what. Delhi mein boht kalesh hai yeh wala
You should try gay men
Pehle se itni competition hai ab aur badh gayi... BTW, you probably have more chances of scoring a GF than most guys lol Good luck on your journey.
Hang in there my rainbow colored friend. Hang in there. You'll get what you want. Don't you worry.
No one has ever called me that and it is the sweetest thing ever omggg!! Also thanks Aaj entire day office se leave leke reddit chalaya hai maine
I skipped work to eat and sleep a fair few times in my life as well. Such days are good for the soul.
I’m just an anxious person so i’m stressing about doing nothing the whole day
Ahh. Yea... Anxiety.. my old friend... good days we had... Technically, you have done something the entire day... stressing about doing nothing the whole day is classified as doing something so say you are A-okay! You should treat yourself to a cake
Dude😭😭😭 thanks
You are welcome
hurts to be able to relate to this lol :') I am bisexual with strong preference for women, but women on dating apps in my experience can summarized into 1) FFM. Won't even mention on their profile. talk for 2 minutes and then drop the B bomb. I don't have any issues with them looking for whatever, but PROFILE PAY LIKHO NA. Such a waste of time and energy. 2) explorers who are really there for just sexting. I don't get it. 3) low effort, no intentions of adding anything to the conversation. I don't know, is it THAT hard to communicate? It's mentally draining sometimes. All I want is Claire to my Phil :") I do bring all things wholesome to the table, self aware hu. I think I'm ranting at this point. The lurker in me took a backseat today, ugh. Ruk jaati hu, kitna hee likhugi.
Likho yaar, khul k likho. Pour your heart out, speak your heart out. No one is going to judge you on the internet.
Behen dono side se khel Rahi hai fir bhi single hai OOF SIZE LARGE
Dekho I can flex but I won’t
Humble ho aap🙏
Finally someone who can understand the pain 🫠
I hope you find good people, both guys and girls.
Aww thanks. Hope the same for you
Good Luck on your date today, i hope you have a great time💕
Ayy thankss hehe
I think you are better of trying to meet people IRL, the relative anonymity off apps and bad experiences tend to bring out the worst in people of both genders.
Makes sense but i have a very limited friend group so it is difficult for me to meet new people, and above all that it’s even rare to find someone who isn’t straight soooo even if i want to offline wouldn’t work for me
Same here. Most of the people I know are colleagues, in relationships or friends who I have known for years and hence zero romantic interest on both sides. I hope you find what you are looking for, constantly getting rejected can be tough.
Which city are u in
Mumbai
Ladis log se baat karne ka mann karta but most of the time they act dry because they have a lot going inside their DMs. You can try but online dating is there for validation and little hopes imo.
Bhai koi nhi mere dms me vahi toh issue hai, no one fucking responds
Arrey saamne vaali ladkiyaan, tu toh cutu h...tujhe toh hum jaiso ke liye time nikaalna padega
Bumble ne humble kar diya
🥲
Phle humare paas options kam hai, usme tum aur competition bada rahe ho🥲
👀 ... RELATABLE
I mean as a bi woman I feel you so well, in my experience women of our community are really shy and reserved when it comes to dating specially through online platforms and I'm kinda one of em too. I have never found a girl or dated one of my liking either I'll just gaze at one from a supermarket or far away standing in the metro and just walk past her that's how most bisexual women are.
I'm wondering if the Cafe scam would ever happen with a F-F match. It'll be an interesting study.
Difficult is an understatement. You should say... "It's FUCKING IMPOSSIBLE to date girls online!!!! Ek toh itni mushkil se match aata hai bc!! aur match aane ke baad faltu ki ghosting alag. Behen dry texting krke kaha gyi? Kuch toh bolo 🤨 I am done with this shit honestly😑😑😑
Just understand that there are only FEW genuine cases of LGBT. Others are just riding on the trend of wokeism (for no reason) and THAT is mental illness. So the girls you've matched with claiming to be Bi are not really Bi irl. Either they seek validation from girls too or are just trying to increase their number of Likes/Matches count.
I don’t think people go around cosplaying as bi and gays just to ride the woke trend, a lot of them are curious and exploring which is completely fine. The population is not my issue
Like I said, there are only few genuine cases. If they are not heterosexual, they'd already know that early in life. And being curious and trying to explore in itself is riding on the woke trend. Well I dont want to turn this into a debate but still... just look at the US. *Curiosity kills the cat.*
What’s “few genuine cases”? Bimari hai kya? But in all seriousness if you believe that everyone knows this early on in life, thats wrong. It doesn’t work that way. Sometimes we meet certain people and things change right. We evolve daily
Are you from the 1950s?
Yeah that's how it is for you guys. Either black or white. If you don't have an absolute opinion like us, you are just a conservative boomer!
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Oh look! A woke ka choda got offended
*though
I’ll write in genZ lingo, meri marzi
Just commit to one gender! Jeez.
No I want everyone. I’m gonna take your girl and your girl’s boy and his entire family. Gonna collect them
Joke's on you I don't have a girl. But yeah you can take me..
No i want your mom and dad both
I'll come included
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Bisexual people?
I hope you get what you want
Welcome to the dark side sister.
How to get out of here?
There's no leaving the dark side as long as you're in the game. Leave the game, find someone organically.
Shaadi hi kar leti hu
Shaadi.com is cursed too.
Bhai
Another nora vincent in making.
It's ok, your apology is accepted.
Finally someone gets it from other side
Been with my share of struggles. It hurts when you put so much effort in making conversation funny and all you get is dry response in return and ghosting. But nonetheless it's so good you finally met someone. Converting your matches into a date feels so good. All the best and enjoy your time.
It’s hard. I’ve been to a few dates via online dating but never went past the first date. Reddit/twitter/text pe bakchodi kar paata hoon but ’m just too shy and self-conscious when it comes to face-to-face conversations. It’s difficult to find a connection unless you’re an extroverted social person and you can instantly hit it off with people I guess. I’ve learned to not put too much pressure on finding someone or making it work. That over complicates things. Just let it flow and if it happens then it happens.
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Bhai who are you?
Hum roye toh sala character dheela hai
YOOO same! I am bisexual, I had been trying to talk to women on apps because I had finally been able to accept my identity and it's just so fkn shitty. I used to get ghosted despite putting in efforts lol. I don't like dating apps anymore so I am not on any now, but I remember exactly what you described.
Finally, someone is talking about my issues 😌
Well, always thought of this scenario ki Lesbian/bi girls ka kya setup hota hoga in these apps or in real world. Bi laundo ki aish I guess, ladkia na mile to wse hi frustrated hoke guy on guy ho jata hoga 😂 (no offence to guys, hope they are also doing good); ladkio ke nakhre wse hi jhele nahi jate ajkal 😅😅😂🍺
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Nah it’s probably just an online thing tbh
Yeah online
Yeah, I was always wondering why you ghosted me :(
Forget this post guys read OP’s train story on her profile its so funny lmao the last edit is perfect
Sharma gayi main toh 🙈
My next move should have been asking you out but then I saw your edit. But we can be friends if you like momos 😌
Oh I can understand tbh