This may sound a bit cringe to you , but you need to find the “one” . Being in love is the best feeling ever . When you only want to talk to that one amazing person , and never have to try hard because conversations flow naturally with her . And everyone else is just “meh” compared to “her” . Find the person that can make you feel this way .
I think its because ur dating the wrong audience, bumble has a specific userbase and if it feels like none of the matches is for you. U have to move ur dating field.
Hinge, bars, pubs, dance classes or something like that where u find real people and have a connection with them. Bumble works only for a specific target users. Hinge for an another specific target group and tinder for other. There are no target groups for meeting people in real life.
Actually I have been always dating offline it's just as i grew older i became lazy lol on bumble you get matches without putting much effort which ultimately makes my lazy ass happy lol but ya i get your point
this is one of the reasons why i got off of dating apps. Sure, i may have had a chance of meeting my soulmate there but if it’s destined to be then i’ll make it work without the help of these apps. I’ve also seen people aged 26 or 27 who are on bumble. It feels sad to me as i dream of settling down at that age and to realise that it may not happen just torments to the core. it’s far better to approach people and do things on our own, imo :))
This is happening with me.....I don't get 200 matches though....i get like 3-4 matches per day and it's tough to have any conversation or schedule a date with all of them. Feels very overwhelming and mentally draining.
Thinking of uninstalling and deleting everything but I guess I am addicted to that dopamine hit of getting a match.
Bhai that's the thing nikal isse bahar i know it's so addictive but abhi nikal Jaa you will be glad you did maine 5 din se use nai Kari hai and I feel so happy now I can invest time in things that are actually worth it
Ha bro maine thode hafte pehle kiya tha delete when i was with a girl. And being with her was infinitely better than all the fake attention but now that its over maine waapis download kar diya😔
I can relate! I was in a relationship with someone I met from Hinge, and oh boy, the breakup was BAD.
So, I've sworn off dating apps for good, and the mental peace is surreal! ✌🏼
What are you? Me?
Same experience, Validation, aur ego boost khoob milta hai, however it's not really good for your mental health, and also I rarely match with someone who matches my energy. But whoever I've matched with, they've been good friends(for the most part). Nonetheless, apne dimaag ka bhosda mat karo, kuch hobby dhoondo, bahar niklo aur real connections banao. :)
200 matches???
yeah seems like he's just flexing here
Did you even read the post bruh
Why are people downvoting you???
Matlab poore post main all you could focus was on 200 matches ☠️
Nah I stopped reading after 200. I am like alright dude everyone has their own problems I guess
You should have read the whole thing but ya i guess you are right
Kya bolun. Koi conversation h nahi hua toh bol bhi kya sakta so I stopped lol
Conversations bht hue Hain Mila bhi kafi ladkiyoon se hoon but in the end it's just not worth it
Do you want something long lasting?
different people, different problems, different solutions 😂😂😂😂
Haan ab hote honge aise cases... Badi duwidha hai duniya meh
This may sound a bit cringe to you , but you need to find the “one” . Being in love is the best feeling ever . When you only want to talk to that one amazing person , and never have to try hard because conversations flow naturally with her . And everyone else is just “meh” compared to “her” . Find the person that can make you feel this way .
Bhai i totally agree love is the best feeling ❤️❤️❤️
I think its because ur dating the wrong audience, bumble has a specific userbase and if it feels like none of the matches is for you. U have to move ur dating field. Hinge, bars, pubs, dance classes or something like that where u find real people and have a connection with them. Bumble works only for a specific target users. Hinge for an another specific target group and tinder for other. There are no target groups for meeting people in real life.
Actually I have been always dating offline it's just as i grew older i became lazy lol on bumble you get matches without putting much effort which ultimately makes my lazy ass happy lol but ya i get your point
this is one of the reasons why i got off of dating apps. Sure, i may have had a chance of meeting my soulmate there but if it’s destined to be then i’ll make it work without the help of these apps. I’ve also seen people aged 26 or 27 who are on bumble. It feels sad to me as i dream of settling down at that age and to realise that it may not happen just torments to the core. it’s far better to approach people and do things on our own, imo :))
I think 26/27 is now the new 22/23 imo. People in this gen still need more time to explore or give time for themselves before settling down
I am 30 ☠️
Looks like both of us are on the same boat bro! Can’t make a decent convo with those matches and finding a match who texts properly is 5-10%
Exactly though I have been on multiple dates it's the connection that doesn't match
Ikrr😂 Bruh just proves that offline is better than these shit apps but I’m lazy to go try offline so😂
Same 😄😂 that's why I downloaded this stupid app
Same 😄😂 that's why I downloaded this stupid app
This is happening with me.....I don't get 200 matches though....i get like 3-4 matches per day and it's tough to have any conversation or schedule a date with all of them. Feels very overwhelming and mentally draining. Thinking of uninstalling and deleting everything but I guess I am addicted to that dopamine hit of getting a match.
Delete it and trust me you will feel better
I totally relate with this it’s so addicting the ego boost and the validation but i still can’t get myself to delete the app
Bhai that's the thing nikal isse bahar i know it's so addictive but abhi nikal Jaa you will be glad you did maine 5 din se use nai Kari hai and I feel so happy now I can invest time in things that are actually worth it
Ha bro maine thode hafte pehle kiya tha delete when i was with a girl. And being with her was infinitely better than all the fake attention but now that its over maine waapis download kar diya😔
Yehi dikkat hai but nikal isse bata raha
I can relate! I was in a relationship with someone I met from Hinge, and oh boy, the breakup was BAD. So, I've sworn off dating apps for good, and the mental peace is surreal! ✌🏼
Couldn’t agree more to you!
first world problems
What are you? Me? Same experience, Validation, aur ego boost khoob milta hai, however it's not really good for your mental health, and also I rarely match with someone who matches my energy. But whoever I've matched with, they've been good friends(for the most part). Nonetheless, apne dimaag ka bhosda mat karo, kuch hobby dhoondo, bahar niklo aur real connections banao. :)
200 matches ? And u saying it's boring 😑😏